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Stuff it in as well.

Sis, it's going to be like Thanksgiving all over again. I'm the one that's going to be stuffed.

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As for SSRIs, they never affected my sex drive, but they did improve my sex life. Zoloft greatly increased my stamina and gave me amazing orgasms.

Zoloft had the opposite effect on me. It made me have no desire for sex at all, so I had to balance it out with folic acid supplements so now its only slightly less than normal.
 
After one last all-nighter my holidays have finally started. Any wintertime plans for my fellow gayffers?

Aside from christmas with my family, getting smashed on new year and maybe going to the local christmas market (so I can spend a ridiculous amount of money on mediocre food) once or twice, I'm going to spend 80% of time studying, my exams are in January :|
 
After one last all-nighter my holidays have finally started. Any wintertime plans for my fellow gayffers?
I accept delivery on my brand new Triumph Scrambler tonight. We're now gonna be a two-bike household.. so damn excited!

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Other than that, it'll be a typical winter of no overtime, Mardi Gras partying/parades, and a few short road trips around the South to visit family. Maybe a winter beach camping trip sometime in late February?
 
Congratulations! How'd the exams go?

Thanks! Workload was all projects that took forever to execute, glad to have them done and out of the way. I have one exam and its a take home, but the deadline is January 1st so I'm going to take it easy for a bit.
 
You're clearly too old to be playing this game then, go ly dow.

LOL. Slain.

I have nothing to contribute to this thread except that there were a lot of attractive people at the concert I went to last night, and I also missed NYC, and I wanna travel more.
 
Thanks! Workload was all projects that took forever to execute, glad to have them done and out of the way. I have one exam and its a take home, but the deadline is January 1st so I'm going to take it easy for a bit.

Ugh, take homes are the worst. I would always put them off thinking "Oh, I have plenty of time to do that." I prefer having a deadline so at least I can get my ass in gear, study, write and be free.

Good to hear the projects are done though! Time to party?
 
this is easily the worst friday night in the last 6 or so months...

after doing plans for it the whole week, the one guy I was going to hang out with tomorrow wrote " hey, sorry but I can't tomorrow, let us find a a day in January (he's gotta be fucking kidding me with that line, right?) where we can meet... and no explanation at all, just " tomorrow is not possible"...I erased him from my saved users, never again.

and before that, I ran into that guy I had a crush on last spring and he asks for my new username in gayromeo becuase he was looking for me there... WHAT FOR!?!? he already dumped me and never had intentions to go to bed with me or have any kind of friendship.

I try finding guys around and whoever I look for on the internet ignores me.

I can laugh or drink that full bottle of wine I have there and tell all men in the world "Fuck off, this time for good"
 
this is easily the worst friday night in the last 6 or so months...

after doing plans for it the whole week, the one guy I was going to hang out with tomorrow wrote " hey, sorry but I can't tomorrow, let us find a a day in January (he's gotta be fucking kidding me with that line, right?) where we can meet... and no explanation at all, just " tomorrow is not possible"...I erased him from my saved users, never again.

and before that, I ran into that guy I had a crush on last spring and he asks for my new username in gayromeo becuase he was looking for me there... WHAT FOR!?!? he already dumped me and never had intentions to go to bed with me or have any kind of friendship.

I try finding guys around and whoever I look for on the internet ignores me.

I can laugh or drink that full bottle of wine I have there and tell all men in the world "Fuck off, this time for good"

edit: nm, I shouldn't be sharing this on a forum.

Either way, having my worst night in a long time too, but I'm having some drinks and making plans for the future so I can manage it I guess.
 
Ugh, take homes are the worst. I would always put them off thinking "Oh, I have plenty of time to do that." I prefer having a deadline so at least I can get my ass in gear, study, write and be free.

Good to hear the projects are done though! Time to party?

Yeah I sometimes do that too, but I figure if it was a traditional exam I would have bombed it; probably wouldn't have had time to study much between projects and work. But I'm optimistic, hoping to get it done on the plane next week (for lack of anything better to do).

Parties can wait, sleep first. :D
 
Pretty similar to my night. Met a guy on a dating site, earlier this week we agreed to have a drink tonight and right when I was ready to leave he tells me he made other plans. No apologies or anything and still wants to meet me some other day. I've got the feeling he's meeting someone else on Gayromeo, but I can't know that for sure of course. Was the first interesting guy I've talked to a very long time, so it's a shame.

men in gayromeo on weekend nights are the fucking worst.

Guys that were once friendly stop answering cause they are all "busy" talking to someone else... what the fuck kind of behaviour is that?? if I have stablished contact with someone and told him I like him, I answer back, even if with some delay.

and your guy for tonight was also an asshole, good riddance.

the hell are these people up to?? I know I take my time to say yes to a date, but when I say yes, I stand by it and honor my word. People changing plans on such short notice are not worth your time.

the guy I made plans with also said " but we soooooo are a match, we'll have lots of fun when we finally meet"... just who the hell does he think he's talking to? a teenager? I am too old for that kind of games, fuck him, honestly.

and yeah, I am very pissed.
 
Bums me out to hear about your ruined Friday nights gents. Been there so many times over the years. Don't let it go to waste; evening's barely started. Call up some friends. Go out! Grab some life at the bar, club, go play pool, do whatever. Never know who you're going to meet. Managed to meet so many people this way, even if the vast majority have wound up just being acquaintances or nothing at all.

Third date (technically) comin up tonight. I hate only seeing this guy once a week, but can't complain. Wish me luck.
 
men in gayromeo on weekend nights are the fucking worst.

Guys that were once friendly stop answering cause they are all "busy" talking to someone else... what the fuck kind of behaviour is that?? if I have stablished contact with someone and told him I like him, I answer back, even if with some delay.

and I your guy for tonight was also an asshole, good riddance.

the hell are this people up to?? I now I take my time to say yes to a date, but when I say yes, I stand by it and honor my word. People changing plans on such short notice are not worth your time.

the guy I made plans with also said " but we soooooo are a match, we'll have lots of fun when we finally meet"... just who the hell does he think he's talking to? a teenager? I am too old for that kind of games, fuck him, honestly.

and yeah, I am very pissed.

I'm with you on everything there. I'm sure these people will never find happiness, so that's a bit of a comfort.

I've been thinking for a long time that I shouldn't be wasting my time looking for a relationship and put all my energy in my personal goals. I believe I can really make a change in this world, but I can't understand why I'm wasting all that potential just to find someone who will love me.
 
I'm with you on everything there. I'm sure these people will never find happiness, so that's a bit of a comfort.

you now what I hate the most, I went to my old cellphone's address book to try and find this guy's number (the crush from spring) and I send him an SMS saying it was nice to have met him again...

FUCK MEEE... agh, I am such a moron.
 
you now what I hate the most, I went to my old cellphone's address book to try and find this guy's number (the crush from spring) and I send him an SMS saying it was nice to have met him again...

FUCK MEEE... agh, I am such a moron.

You did that just moments ago? If I were you I would now send something along the lines of "haha, yeah right. Idiot".
 
I'm with you on everything there. I'm sure these people will never find happiness, so that's a bit of a comfort.

I've been thinking for a long time that I shouldn't be wasting my time looking for a relationship and put all my energy in my personal goals. I believe I can really make a change in this world, but I can't understand why I'm wasting all that potential just to find someone who will love me.

Just?
 
You did that just moments ago? If I were you I would now send something along the lines of "haha, yeah right. Idiot".

:D I laughed.

problem is, we have never had an argument or anything, it would be weird to call him idiot all of a sudden, the only right thing to do would be to ignore him as much as possible...

he grew a full beard the mother fucker and looks better than ever...

and he is right now in the bar that is 10 steps away from my house serving cocktails, he is the barman. It would be easy as fuck for him to come by to my place after being done with the thge bar and sleep with me, but oh no, life is complicated, he TOTALLY has to look for my fucking profile on internet once more and watch my goddammned pics again.

why have fun with someone else and do something exciting for a change when you can have a miserable night at home and sleep alone like most nights in your life?? jeez.
 
:D I laughed.

problem is, we have never had an argument or anything, it would be weird to call him idiot all of a sudden, the only right thing to do would be to ignore him as much as possible...

he grew a full beard the mother fucker and looks better than ever...

and he is right now in the bar that is 10 steps away from my house serving cocktails, he is the barman. It would be easy as fuck for him to come by to my place after being done with the thge bar and sleep with me, but oh no, life is complicated, he TOTALLY has to look for my fucking profile on internet once more and watch my goddammned pics again.

why have fun with someone else and do something exciting for a change when you can have a miserable night at home and sleep alone like most nights in your life?? jeez.

Keep drinking until you have the guts to ask him to come over after work? It doesn't seem like you have anything to lose.

Where are you in Germany? We should totally hang out some day.
 
Keep drinking until you have the guts to ask him to come over after work? It doesn't seem like you have anything to lose.

Where are you in Germany? We should totally hang out some day.


yeah, thought about that but then if he comes, I'll be drunk and smell like wine and say stupid things..

and aren't you in Belgium?
 
I'd like to go there to berlin too, but it's a bit far from here.

and it's to late to write to him again and invite him, he was online an hour ago and read the message, very likely, and decided to ignore it of course.... cause you now, saying "thank you" complicate things...

hahaha, I am needy as ever, I guess we all have our days like this.
 
I'd like to go there to berlin too, but it's a bit far from here.

and it's to late to write to him again and invite him, he was online an hour ago and read the message, very likely, and decided to ignore it of course.... cause you now, saying "thank you" complicate things...

hahaha, I am needy as ever, I guess we all have our days like this.

We sure do, man.

You might be better off ignoring him after all. I know it's tough.

Could you recommend anything closer than Berlin? Germany is right next door, yet I've never been there... I haven't been on vacation for years so I could sure use one. I have the opportunity to go on vacation in the last week of January.
 
It's honestly not worth the drama. Live a happy life, don't hide from love, but don't put your happiness and well being on anyone's hands but yours. In my opinion, of course, but I've never been too relationship-driven.

Yeah, something like this. Sorry I didn't answer Mystic, I just can't find the right way to explain it.
 
Well, Friday night date night ended at 9:30. He looked and seemed really tapped from a long week, and said he was just tired. The drama queen in me is reading it as thinly-veiled disinterest. I can't tell. It's driving me nuts. Hahaha. Oh well
 
So... I can't tell if it is a good or bad thing that my jacket and jeans smells like the house and the person I was with last night.
 
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