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speaking of sex dying, my libido has been really high for about a year and i'm wondering whether i can do anything about it. over the counter remedies? nothing prescribed

if it keeps up it worries me re: future partners. srsly i am a horndog all the time and i don't want it to cause problems
 
PowderedToast said:
speaking of sex dying, my libido has been really high for about a year and i'm wondering whether i can do anything about it. over the counter remedies? nothing prescribed

if it keeps up it worries me re: future partners. srsly i am a horndog all the time and i don't want it to cause problems
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I know one way to fix that

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Teh Hamburglar said:
I used a stan war gif on you and you ignored me. Whats Gay-GAF coming to if we can't gif flame properly?
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Sorry, I don't respond to pop-gaf.

:P
 
Totally forgot how awesome it is to wake up in the morning, with someone next you that you don't regret sleeping with.

Also, morning sex is sloppy and rushed...:)
 
PowderedToast said:
speaking of sex dying, my libido has been really high for about a year and i'm wondering whether i can do anything about it. over the counter remedies? nothing prescribed

if it keeps up it worries me re: future partners. srsly i am a horndog all the time and i don't want it to cause problems
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I honestly don't think that's gunna be a big problem with most guys.

I know someone else brought up libido suppressants many pages back but....

I don't think the opposite of being horny all the time would be a good alternative, you don't wanna be a vegetable. I've had that happen before for a while from medical side effects.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Morning sex is straight to the point. But prebrushing it can be sloppy.
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Prebrushing?

MyAbsolution said:
I honestly don't think that's gunna be a big problem with most guys.

I know someone else brought up libido suppressants many pages back but....

I don't think the opposite of being horny all the time would be a good alternative, you don't wanna be a vegetable. I've had that happen before for a while from medical side effects.
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This year I lost my libido twice. Two weeks each time. It was great, I was more productive and less anxious.
 
Prez said:
Morning sex is the best kind of sex.

Drunk sex is a close second.
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Indeed it is :)

My drunk sex experiences haven't been that great though :(

PowderedToast said:
speaking of sex dying, my libido has been really high for about a year and i'm wondering whether i can do anything about it. over the counter remedies? nothing prescribed

if it keeps up it worries me re: future partners. srsly i am a horndog all the time and i don't want it to cause problems
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Well depends what you mean by a really high libido, but it's nothing to worry about and having a high libido isn't unhealthy, I wouldn't seek medication for it if I were you, unless it gets to the point where it makes your life harder. Also, if you end up having sex regularly your libido might decrease a bit anyway.
 
Natetan said:
I don't know, I don't like to talk about it. Granted I live in Japan sonits different here. I've tried being out at a job before and it kind of scarred me. My boss groped me and I had a stalker too. I just came out at my current job which was a huge thing for me, and honestly I don't know if it was worth it. I was just getting so sick of dodging questions and speaking in half truths that I wanted everyone to just know. But I don't really know what I've gained by my office mates knowing. Every girl flocks to me telling me how accepting they are when I don't give a shit. Meanwhile it's caused stress with some of the male friends that I have which has really made me sad because we were really good friends before and now it's awkward sometimes: I lost another friend early on British guy when he found out at my current job so I'm very very self conscious about telling people. My family and close friends all know which is the most important thing but I waited a good two years at my current job before I told anyone. I kind of regret doing it. I feel turns inside out sort of, like an important part of me is exposed. Everyone makes it sound like hiding behind a mask is somehing bad and we all need to be out and tell everyone. Whenever income out, there is always someone who feels they need to be honest with me about some tkray unrelated issue, oh I'm a cutter, oh I've lived in an insane asylum. People misinterpret it as some kind if honesty issue, when its more like I'm tired of avoiding the awkward day in day out situations mincing my pronouns etc.
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I must confess I'm not out at work either (apart from a few people in far off areas of the organisation). People are nice and there wouldn't be any fall out. However, I have noticed that there's a bit of soft discrimination where gay people are passed over for promotion beyond a certain point.
 
Prez said:
This year I lost my libido twice. Two weeks each time. It was great, I was more productive and less anxious.
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Try having it lost for over a year. Yeah that isn't a side effect i ever want to experience again!

DR2K said:
Well it's faded for me. I like this guy, but I just can't have sexual relations with him. We hung out last night, he tried I denied.

I wonder if I get really drunk. . . but the calories. . . ugh.
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I think its best to just end it at this point.

Getting drunk in order to feign sexual interest?

This does not sound like it will end well, you are just dragging out the inevitable at this point.
 
Top five for me:
1. After-shower sex with just the bare essentials off to get everything in
2. Standing up, the more hidden in plain sight the better
3. Bed sex and cuddles!
4. Backseat, tinted-window sex. Probably happens the most.
5. Shower sex
 
i_am_ben said:
I must confess I'm not out at work either (apart from a few people in far off areas of the organisation). People are nice and there wouldn't be any fall out. However, I have noticed that there's a bit of soft discrimination where gay people are passed over for promotion beyond a certain point.
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"the organisation"

straight to the top, right?
 
DR2K said:
Well it's faded for me. I like this guy, but I just can't have sexual relations with him. We hung out last night, he tried I denied.

I wonder if I get really drunk. . . but the calories. . . ugh.
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Just leave him. Don't hurt him by dragging it out and getting drunk just to try having sex with him.

Prez said:
Do you guys know of any other popular dating sites beside Gayromeo and Badoo?
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You dont need that baby.
 
Wow, it's been a while since I posted here. Ever since a Dutch-GAF-topic popped up I stopped posting here. Shame on me :(

Prez said:
Do you guys know of any other popular dating sites beside Gayromeo and Badoo?
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It depends. Are you into some specific stuff? Because there are a lot of gaydating-sites catering to specific fetishes :)
 
Prez said:
I have no friends to go out with and I'm too scared to go somewhere alone so sure I do.



No fetish ;)
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Well, from what counry are you? Most countries have local websites that are far more popular then international sites like Gayromeo. If you have a tablet or smartphone you might want to check out Grindr :)
 
7threst said:
Well, from what counry are you? Most countries have local websites that are far more popular then international sites like Gayromeo. If you have a tablet or smartphone you might want to check out Grindr :)
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Grindr scares me. If I'm home people could see where I live right? What if someone I'm not interested in and who's standing a few dozen feet from me sends me a message? I want to be able to ignore people I'm not interested in.

I'm from Belgium. Gayromeo and Badoo seem to be popular here.
 
Prez said:
Grindr scares me. If I'm home people could see where I live right? What if someone I'm not interested in and who's standing a few dozen feet from me sends me a message? I want to be able to ignore people I'm not interested in.

I'm from Belgium. Gayromeo and Badoo seem to be popular here.
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I've never used Grindr, but if somebody sends you a message and you're uninterested, can't you just ignore them the same way you would on a dating site?

I believe Grindr widens the radius if you can't find people in your area, so you're not just going to get people in your immediate proximity. I was eating at a restaurant with a person who received a Grindr message. I immediately tried looking around the restaurant for the person, but I was told that it wasn't always that close, so that's my speculation at least.
 
Grindr only tells people your distance from them, not an exactly location. You could be half a mile away in literally any direction.

Edit: Although it does give you the option of sending your location to a specific user when you're chatting with them.
 
Prez said:
Grindr scares me. If I'm home people could see where I live right? What if someone I'm not interested in and who's standing a few dozen feet from me sends me a message? I want to be able to ignore people I'm not interested in.

I'm from Belgium. Gayromeo and Badoo seem to be popular here.
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Belgium! I'm from Holland. If I were you, I would check out some Dutch sites, they always cater to people from Belgium too! We have gay.nl, homo.nl, then there is gaygate.nl, , gaykrant.nl, gayroyal.nl and gaydar.nl, that's about all the big ones. Maybe fix the .nl with .be, even though you are essentially on the same site....

Also, there are great chat-rooms, although most have a focus on sex. Recommendation: Bullchat.nl
 
lunch said:
I've never used Grindr, but if somebody sends you a message and you're uninterested, can't you just ignore them the same way you would on a dating site?

I believe Grindr widens the radius if you can't find people in your area, so you're not just going to get people in your immediate proximity. I was eating at a restaurant with a person who received a Grindr message. I immediately tried looking around the restaurant for the person, but I was told that it wasn't always that close, so that's my speculation at least.
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Sai-kun said:
Grindr only tells people your distance from them, not an exactly location. You could be half a mile away in literally any direction.

Edit: Although it does give you the option of sending your location to a specific user when you're chatting with them.
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I know it's a wide radius, but it could happen that someone is very close and watching you. If you're real lucky the guy is a creep and follows you home. It's unlikely but the thought that it could happen scares me.

7threst said:
Belgium! I'm from Holland. If I were you, I would check out some Dutch sites, they always cater to people from Belgium too! We have gay.nl, homo.nl, then there is gaygate.nl, , gaykrant.nl, gayroyal.nl and gaydar.nl, that's about all the big ones. Maybe fix the .nl with .be, even though you are essentially on the same site....

Also, there are great chat-rooms, although most have a focus on sex. Recommendation: Bullchat.nl
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Thanks! I'll check those out.
 
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Anyone else watch Hollyoaks (British soap) and follow Stendan? (gay story between Ste Hay and Brendan Brady (pictured above))

It's so amazing lol, has me stanning and fanning myself.

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And the above picture, found out we Swedes have this great gay painter from the turn of the century - Eugène Jansson - who painted awesome homoerotic stuff. (his other stuff is also great but)

Anyone know of any other painters who made homoerotic paintings (with actual painterly qualities)?
 
ilikeme said:
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Anyone else watch Hollyoaks (British soap) and follow Stendan? (gay story between Ste Hay and Brendan Brady (pictured above))

It's so amazing lol, has me stanning and fanning myself.

WIpfB.jpg


And the above picture, found out we Swedes have this great gay painter from the turn of the century - Eugène Jansson - who painted awesome homoerotic stuff. (his other stuff is also great but)

Anyone know of any other painters who made homoerotic paintings (with actual painterly qualities)?
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Is he sporting that terrible mustache on the show? #girlno
 
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