Gay and Bisexual thread |OT2|Bears and Twinks and Otters. Oh My!

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s overrated (though I'm not really a snack cake guy to begin with). Come to think of it, I don't think I've known anyone to hold it in especially high regard, or at least as much as its pop culture status likes to imply.
 
You know as much as I like twinks I don't try to trick myself into thinking I will ever get one. I mean I know I need to be somewhat fit to even get one of those. Im working on that atm SO for the time being Im pretty sure being alone is my first option haha.

I also noticed even though Im pretty forward about my intentions that isnt what people like. Do you guys think it's better to be forward or play around? Or does forward only work when your pretty good looking?
 
You know as much as I like twinks I don't try to trick myself into thinking I will ever get one. I mean I know I need to be somewhat fit to even get one of those. Im working on that atm SO for the time being Im pretty sure being alone is my first option haha.

It's great that you're working yourself, but you never know what could happen. Life can throw some curve balls.

I also noticed even though Im pretty forward about my intentions that isnt what people like. Do you guys think it's better to be forward or play around? Or does forward only work when your pretty good looking?

Communication is always important, so I think it's better to forward.

But I don't have a ring on my finger, so what do I know? /bitterness
 
You know as much as I like twinks I don't try to trick myself into thinking I will ever get one. I mean I know I need to be somewhat fit to even get one of those. Im working on that atm SO for the time being Im pretty sure being alone is my first option haha.

I also noticed even though Im pretty forward about my intentions that isnt what people like. Do you guys think it's better to be forward or play around? Or does forward only work when your pretty good looking?

So are you only into twinks? Does that mean I'm a twink?
 
It's great that you're working yourself, but you never know what could happen. Life can throw some curve balls.



Communication is always important, so I think it's better to forward.

But I don't have a ring on my finger, so what do I know? /bitterness

Life can keep it's curveballs tbh.

So are you only into twinks? Does that mean I'm a twink?

I don't only like twinks. But you haven't showed me a full body pic. I count you as a person who simply likes me but sadly your to far away for me to take advantage of it.
 
I've yet to meet a non stereotypical twink. The ones I've met have this awful bitchy personality that's just an instant turn off.
 
You know as much as I like twinks I don't try to trick myself into thinking I will ever get one. I mean I know I need to be somewhat fit to even get one of those. Im working on that atm SO for the time being Im pretty sure being alone is my first option haha.

I also noticed even though Im pretty forward about my intentions that isnt what people like. Do you guys think it's better to be forward or play around? Or does forward only work when your pretty good looking?

Have you tried looking for chubby chasers? Like on biggercity.com?

Being forward seem to work for good looking fit guys and girls. They have their looks to get what they want. For the rest of us we have to rely on charm, personality, etc.
 
Maybe as you grow older it will change, maybe you could like guys closer to your age.

I don't know if young guys into older are that common tbh (I mean for when we're in our thirties and up).

Im 26 now.

I've yet to meet a non stereotypical twink. The ones I've met have this awful bitchy personality that's just an instant turn off.

I know right? But it's so nice to pin them down and dominant that.

A las. Once again cruel distance gets in the way of a possible gay gaf romance.

As always. It's okay though I can deal.
 
Im 26 now.

I know, and you're only getting older. I meant in the future, like in your mid 30s or something. I think that as you get older it will be more difficult to find twinks interested in older men. If they're the main type of guy you like. I don't know about them though, so I'm just speaking my mind. It may be even harder if plan on finding something stable one day.

wot is a twink

is it a skinny self obsessed hipster

That's how I perceive them, I think they're young too, I don't know if older are considered twinks.
 
I did a search for bears vs twinks and this guy came up. Its a GAFer though I dunno which one. Inception.

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Really? I don't believe it. There's no way a GAFer could be this cute.

Yes, I know who it is

Who is it?

WTF.

I'm getting shade aren't I?

How in the world would my pic be a google result for Bears vs Twinks.

Ham just saves my pics is all.
 
I know right? But it's so nice to pin them down and dominant that.

That's been my experience. I know not everyone is like that, I mean, I'm the twinkiest boy you'll ever meet and I'm pretty sure my personality is extremely different. But the ones I've met... I don't know...
 
do you guys crush on any of your straight friends?

i have about 4 male friends that i consider really close and i'd date 3 of them if it was an option, lmao
 
WTF.

I'm getting shade aren't I?

How in the world would my pic be a google result for Bears vs Twinks.

Ham just saves my pics is all.

You actually look very similar to your avatar lol.

do you guys crush on any of your straight friends?

i have about 4 male friends that i consider really close and i'd date 3 of them if it was an option, lmao

That's one of the worst things that can happen to us lol.

It has happened to me. I had a big crush on a very close friend who I used to live with.
 
Being forward seem to work for good looking fit guys and girls. They have their looks to get what they want. For the rest of us we have to rely on charm, personality, etc.

Being forward can be very charming, but I think that it might depend on the execution. Audacity is practically synonymous with the appearance of confidence, and social interaction is rarely so straight forward that having a situation where "what you see is what you get" is so refreshing it practically feel like a novelty.
 
Nope. You're a Google celeb, Space.

Do a Google image search for Bears vs. Twinks. The one Ham posted and another--hotter--one will show up in the first two pages.

Holy fuck. Omg.

I'm not even a bear really. Lol too much. Somewhere out there someone is fapping to me.

I was hoping Ham was saving my pics though.
 
I guarantee my personality is just the worst. So many GAFfers can vouch for it. I'm the bitchiest.

YUP totes.

I know, and you're only getting older. I meant in the future, like in your mid 30s or something. I think that as you get older it will be more difficult to find twinks interested in older men. If they're the main type of guy you like. I don't know about them though, so I'm just speaking my mind. It may be even harder if plan on finding something stable one day.



That's how I perceive them, I think they're young too, I don't know if older are considered twinks.

Maybe. I wouldnt turn down someone that liked me and they were my age. I simpoly dont want someone that is bigger than me though.

do you guys crush on any of your straight friends?

i have about 4 male friends that i consider really close and i'd date 3 of them if it was an option, lmao

Yup. It sucks when you want them and you know nothing would happen. You know what's even worst? When they flirt right back at you but still nothing will ever happen there.
 
You know as much as I like twinks I don't try to trick myself into thinking I will ever get one. I mean I know I need to be somewhat fit to even get one of those. Im working on that atm SO for the time being Im pretty sure being alone is my first option haha.

I also noticed even though Im pretty forward about my intentions that isnt what people like. Do you guys think it's better to be forward or play around? Or does forward only work when your pretty good looking?

Being forward will always garner the best results.
 
Holy fuck. Omg.

I'm not even a bear really. Lol too much. Somewhere out there someone is fapping to me.

I was hoping Ham was saving my pics though.

haha it was a bit disturbing because I had safe search off, so you can imagine the kind of pics surrounding yours.

And with safe search off you appear in the first page O_o
 
That's one of the worst things that can happen to us lol.

It has happened to me. I had a big crush on a very close friend who I used to live with.

did you tell him, or just keep it to yourself?

for me it doesn't feel like a typical crush. they've very attractive, but because i've known them for so long i have a pretty thorough understanding of their character and complexities - and because my same-sex feelings are relatively recent it feels like i'm now crushing on pseudo siblings somewhat. very odd *_*
 
Really? I don't believe it. There's no way a GAFer could be this cute.

Yes, I know who it is

Thank you for the compliment though. :)

haha it was a bit disturbing because I had safe search off, so you can imagine the kind of pics surrounding yours.

And with safe search off you appear in the first page O_o

Wonder why my pic shows up though, it's from this thread but other gay gaffers have posted pics.
 
did you tell him, or just keep it to yourself?

for me it doesn't feel like a typical crush. they've very attractive, but because i've known them for so long i have a pretty thorough understanding of their character and complexities - and because my same-sex feelings are relatively recent it feels like i'm now crushing on pseudo siblings somewhat. very odd *_*

Yeah, it's not a typical crush, it's not just the attraction. We were like brothers and were very close for years (we lived in a one bedroom apartment for a couple of years). I didn't tell him, I would have gained nothing from doing that; he's the straightest kind of guy there is. I'm still in touch with him, I moved a few years ago. It was a tough change lol. If I'm honest I kind of loved him. That wasn't a very smart thing lol.
 
dunno Rob. It just makes the gays run. It might be because of the gut but.

I dunno. My gut is pretty big. When I tell a dude we're gonna fuck, we usually end up fucking. It may be more of a confidence thing. It's not a "boom" right out of the gate thing either. Give em some time to get to know you and then lay the "You know we're gonna be fucking, right?" on em. lol. Hasn't failed me yet. And I've gotta good decade on you. YOU CAN DO IT! :)
 
I dunno. My gut is pretty big. When I tell a dude we're gonna fuck, we usually end up fucking. It may be more of a confidence thing. It's not a "boom" right out of the gate thing either. Give em some time to get to know you and then lay the "You know we're gonna be fucking, right?" on em. lol. Hasn't failed me yet. And I've gotta good decade on you. YOU CAN DO IT! :)

Yup. Sometimes you don't even tell them you're gonna fuck. You just make the first moves and take the lead.

No time to be a quivering and fragile lotus flower.
 
Yeah, it's not a typical crush, it's not just the attraction. We were like brothers and were very close for years (we lived in a one bedroom apartment for a couple of years). I didn't tell him, I would have gained nothing from doing that; he's the straightest kind of guy there is. I'm still in touch with him, I moved a few years ago. It was a tough change lol. If I'm honest I kind of loved him. That wasn't a very smart thing lol.

:(

i don't even know you and that breaks my heart
 
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