MrCookiepants
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I wasn't aware people are still offended by that word. Sorry.
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RadioHeadAche
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You don't call retarded people "retards". It's bad taste. You call your friends "retards" when they're acting retarded.
i_am_ben
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Even then what self-respecting gay would use it in a derogatory sense?
Faggotry is like the best thing ever.
New York gifs. Ew.
Appropriate given the subject he was talking about. AC3 doesn't deserve much better.
MrCookiepants
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No really, I'm sorry. I've just grown so used to calling and being called that word by all my gay friends (online and off). I wasn't thinking. Would you edit that quote out?
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Deleted member 30609
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I'm not a fan of the term, but I wouldn't stress. You're obviously not a bad guy and not about to be banned over it given your subsequent posts.
Bel Marduk
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Does it matter? At all? Just use their names!
Ha! Alternatively, if we don't want to accidentally offend we can bust out our calculators and do halvsies for each other. Spread the love!
Whelp, pitchfork time again? I'd just put them away, too...
Sounds good!
I'm slipping away from the table to use the restroom and making a run for it.
Henchmen21
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Morning everyone. How we doing today?
someone put this pic in their status in facebook and fell in love with it and want to share, one of the best manlove pics I have seen in months.
I see it and miss being in love....
not sure if allowed so click here to see
Sweet Love while in the train
*sigh
I see it and miss being in love....
not sure if allowed so click here to see
Sweet Love while in the train
*sigh
PowderedToast
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i hate the word but my ex is being a truly apathetic bitch
idc
btw what are you supposed to do when you get the stare constantly when you're out, it's the most pointless thing
ughughguuighugh
idc
btw what are you supposed to do when you get the stare constantly when you're out, it's the most pointless thing
ughughguuighugh
PowderedToast
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i think i'm just upset with myself because i've realised that i'm not happy being alone, and that's not healthy
It's probably not healthy, but it's normal. Humans are social creatures.
PowderedToast
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umop_3pisdn
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Everyone has a different point of 'equilibrium' in regards to this sort of thing. I'm more on the other end of the scale in that I probably spend way too much time alone. I think it's wise to cater to our individual needs or preferences, while at the same time gradually extending our comfort level in the other direction (for me spending more time with other people, for you maybe spending more time alone). I think it would be ideal to learn to be cool with it either way, as sometimes this can be something a little out of our control. I say this now partially with thoughts of Christmas looming and having to spend lots and lots of time with my family soon
Dead Prince
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taco bell just unveiled 3 new wraps btw.
he said feeling sorry for himself, not constipated!
PowderedToast
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kitchenmotors
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Good day so far! Got a new vinyl in the mail, and I'm at my aunt's preparing tamales
Same here, I got new vinyls today!
Henchmen21
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Your colon thanks you.
freenudemacusers
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Drop the un-
PowderedToast
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haha. idk i can eat mcdonalds like theres no tomorrow, despite the feeling of utter regret every time
freenudemacusers
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McDonald's is Metamucil compared to most of taco bell. 99c bean and cheese cups booyah
PowderedToast
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Same here, I got new vinyls today!
nice!
i ordered the solange single on 12" for my ex and ended up receiving two because i was afraid it wouldn't arrive in time for xmas, so i think i will secretly keep one >_>
the sleeve has gloss type on it real cool. dno if you can see through internet jpeg
kitchenmotors
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Yeah, I can see it. That's cool. I'm a sucker for cool packaging and colored vinyl. ;_;
PowderedToast
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Everyone has a different point of 'equilibrium' in regards to this sort of thing. I'm more on the other end of the scale in that I probably spend way too much time alone. I think it's wise to cater to our individual needs or preferences, while at the same time gradually extending our comfort level in the other direction (for me spending more time with other people, for you maybe spending more time alone). I think it would be ideal to learn to be cool with it either way, as sometimes this can be something a little out of our control. I say this now partially with thoughts of Christmas looming and having to spend lots and lots of time with my family soon
you're right
i've been drinking tonight and i'm currently swinging from utter despair to excited optimism. she was my first partner (started dating at 17 and just broke up at 21), so the dating scene is sort of an untamed beast to me. i know i get attention sometimes but tbh its scares me
thank you for the advice
yes! coloured vinyl is one of lifes greatest pleasures
Mystic Theurge
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Blood Diamonds
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Hey, it's almost Christmas right? What do you guys do during the Holidays? I'm curious.
PowderedToast
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have awkward incidents with extended family, eat a lovely meal that my mum slaves over, hastily try and throw together a plan for nye that inevitably disappoints
Just got back from a five day trip to see a friend. I... uh... now have some... "business" that needs taking care of...
Charles Foster Kane
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Yes, it can be scary, luckily you're still very young and it can change. A break up after a long relationship is not easy, hope it gets better soon.
Just curious, are you bi?(since you mentioned before about being attracted to guys)
PowderedToast
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thank you
yes, but when i initially started dating my ex i considered myself straight
i do like girls. femininity is fascinating and alluring. but there is something about seeing men in a sexual way that i can't put my finger on. a quality that i haven't experienced with my ex or other girls i have been close with. i find myself pining for romance and happiness, it goes above my typical sexual desire
this sounds terrible, but sometimes after i'd have sex with my ex, i wasn't really sure how i felt about everything. it was hard to make sense or know what was normal
idk, it's an ongoing process, and i appreciate your question cos it helps me too
Bel Marduk
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What could be wrong with just the realization? I think most everyone is unhappy if they're alone.
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For what it's worth, ultimately it's probably best that you're working through this sort of thing without "leading on" your ex. From this point on, you get to be in control. You can explore this sort of thing without a guilty conscience.thank you
yes, but when i initially started dating my ex i considered myself straight
i do like girls. femininity is fascinating and alluring. but there is something about seeing men in a sexual way that i can't put my finger on. a quality that i haven't experienced with my ex or other girls i have been close with. i find myself pining for romance and happiness, it goes above my typical sexual desire
this sounds terrible, but sometimes after i'd have sex with my ex, i wasn't really sure how i felt about everything. it was hard to make sense or know what was normal
idk, it's an ongoing process, and i appreciate your question cos it helps me too
SpaceBridge
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Sorry if you addressed this yet, but have you need with dudes yet? And have you had any relationship with a man that went beyond sexual.
I'm curious if those feelings of being alone are due to unfulfilled connection with a man on a romantic level.
Also, boyfriend is coming over to my moms for Xmas. It's not a meet the parents situation, just that his mom is out of town in Chicago, and the rest if his family live in the states and I don't want him to be alone.
You know, as patronizing as it may sound, you are only 21. It is good to learn how to be happy and fulfilled alone because in my opinion it makes you a better lover/boyfriend.
In any case, hang in there. Don't focus on the fact that you're alone. Like Rez said, focus on the fact that it gives you the opportunity to explore yourself and find out what you want and who you are.
Does your mom already know you are gay?
The last time you talked about the subject, you said something along the lines of she not knowing or the subject never been brought up.
krypt0nian
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Haha coincidence time!
I just popped back into the thread to say nay exhault the fact that I have finally made some inroads into the Orlando bear community. They are a but scattered since the local bear bar closed a couple years back, so it's been a tough road to get in.
I relate more to that crowd both from a general attraction standpoint, and a very generalized interest level. I love having friends on all levels of the gay spectrum, hell I sing Bass/Baritone for the Orlando Gay Chorus and thankfully we have every type, from the cutest twinkiest twink, to the humpiest furriest polar bear! <3
It's wonderful to feel welcomed in the middle of an extended den of bears!
And the definition of bears is far wider than chubby, older and furry. While that does cover a decent amount of the bear community, we also have the young-in chasers, the nearly hairless, the incredibly fit muscle bears, the wise and yummy polar bears, etc etc. We even have a trans-identifying F2M that self selects as a bear. it's a very inclusive group.
It's good to be home among the furr!
FUCK!! dreams shattered, love does not exit,
Thanks you Mystic Theurge, now I'll forever remain a grumpy old lonely man. That pic was everything I had to cling to.
Mystic Theurge
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Haha.
Well, if it's any consultation, I believe they are a couple. They appear in a lot of videos together.
Phonomezer
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I see bear talk. Here for bears.
My boyfriend and I are celebrating it being a year since he moved in with me with a nice romantic day together tomorrow, we're buying each other way too many games and then we're going to my Mam's for Xmas dinner. He has to work a lot over Xmas but I have 2 weeks off, so I will be lounging around half naked all day playing games.
I didn't know Apple made an LP player?
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