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Meh, with all those muscles; Wufei is over-compensating for some really small ....attributes.

But I'd love to be proven wrong. So..pics are welcome; videos too. ;)
 
Yum. Another pic of Wufei is like another Christmas present. :)

I saw some good progress from Dad this year at Christmas. He has long known about me and HylianGreg, but he seems to have reached a new level of comfort this year. Greg & I got him a gift card to Cabela's, and we told him that we want to go with him when he makes the trip (it's about a 45-minute drive away), as it's one of our favorite stores ever.

Greg and Dad ended-up hanging-out in the dining room for a few hours today, just shootin' the shit. Greg grew up hunting a lot and spent five years in the Air Force, so he and Dad talked about hunting, guns, ammo reloading, etc for a while (turns out that they both have similar weapn preferences for hunting).

Then, later on in the day, he kept on referring to Greg and me as "my two sons," telling my niece repeatedly, "go see your uncles!" and asking "aww.. does Uncle Greg have you?!" while he was holding her. It's a small thing, and I feel silly reflecting on it, but it really did give me some happy tears later on when we got home. It feels like we've come long way since the "let's not talk about it ever again" days.
 
HylianTom said:
Yum. Another pic of Wufei is like another Christmas present. :)

I saw some good progress from Dad this year at Christmas. He has long known about me and HylianGreg, but he seems to have reached a new level of comfort this year. Greg & I got him a gift card to Cabela's, and we told him that we want to go with him when he makes the trip (it's about a 45-minute drive away), as it's one of our favorite stores ever.

Greg and Dad ended-up hanging-out in the dining room for a few hours today, just shootin' the shit. Greg grew up hunting a lot and spent five years in the Air Force, so he and Dad talked about hunting, guns, ammo reloading, etc for a while (turns out that they both have similar weapn preferences for hunting).

Then, later on in the day, he kept on referring to Greg and me as "my two sons," telling my niece repeatedly, "go see your uncles!" and asking "aww.. does Uncle Greg have you?!" while he was holding her. It's a small thing, and I feel silly reflecting on it, but it really did give me some happy tears later on when we got home. It feels like we've come long way since the "let's not talk about it ever again" days.
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That is awesome, sounds like a great day.
 
Wufei is so scary. He will crush you to death, fools.

Glad to hear your Christmas went great Tom! Given the current debate in France about gay marriage/adoption, I got to advocate for it with my family. Bitches were starting to say that they didn't understand why marriage was so important a word, that maybe we should just call it something else so I got my "oh hell no" cap on and patiently explained to the them the concept of separate but equal. I think they understood.
I was glad to see my mom advocate with me though!
 
DarthWufei said:
I've been offered to have professional photos done by some popular photographers. I've thought about it, but oddly enough it makes me feel uncomfortable.
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My muscle friend has received similar offers and he says they always want to take pics with a hard-on and will provide assistance if you are having a problem getting one, lol. He also feels too uncomfortable with the idea and won't do it. He says the feeling of not being taken seriously annoys him quite a bit. Then again, you don't say whether your offers come from gay photographers, so maybe yours is another story.

Nice pic :) you somehow look younger than some months back, I can't exactly say what's the difference and I've mentioned it once or twice but you look so much better.. like with a stronger aura. Pretty cool.

I am sooo looking forward to summer, I've been able to hit the gym over holidays and once January kicks in, there's good 4 or 5 months until summer weather arrives and many guys work out almost naked and walk shirtless by the river, good days ahead ^_^, I know it's a bit superficial, but I am pretty motivated myself to go and work out, I'd like to look good too.

I am worried, cause I have pics from August 2012 waiting to be paired with pics from August 2013 for a before/after monitoring, but I think I'll be pretty disappointed :P I hope I am wrong.

HylianTom said:
Then, later on in the day, he kept on referring to Greg and me as "my two sons," telling my niece repeatedly, "go see your uncles!" and asking "aww.. does Uncle Greg have you?!" while he was holding her. It's a small thing, and I feel silly reflecting on it, but it really did give me some happy tears later on when we got home. It feels like we've come long way since the "let's not talk about it ever again" days.
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this here is phantastic, congrats. I hope I get to experience that too.

are you guys married? I am curious about whether something like this would have made your dad understand your relationship is a serious as it can be.
 
HylianTom said:
Yum. Another pic of Wufei is like another Christmas present. :)

I saw some good progress from Dad this year at Christmas. He has long known about me and HylianGreg, but he seems to have reached a new level of comfort this year. Greg & I got him a gift card to Cabela's, and we told him that we want to go with him when he makes the trip (it's about a 45-minute drive away), as it's one of our favorite stores ever.

Greg and Dad ended-up hanging-out in the dining room for a few hours today, just shootin' the shit. Greg grew up hunting a lot and spent five years in the Air Force, so he and Dad talked about hunting, guns, ammo reloading, etc for a while (turns out that they both have similar weapn preferences for hunting).

Then, later on in the day, he kept on referring to Greg and me as "my two sons," telling my niece repeatedly, "go see your uncles!" and asking "aww.. does Uncle Greg have you?!" while he was holding her. It's a small thing, and I feel silly reflecting on it, but it really did give me some happy tears later on when we got home. It feels like we've come long way since the "let's not talk about it ever again" days.
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That's great. Glad to hear you're dad is getting more comfortable with it. I'm going through something similar with a friend of mine. He was over when my SO came home and he just went to other side of the room and enveloped himself in his iPhone. So lame. I mean how hard is it to just say hi and make small chat?

I have the opposite problem where my dad (who is also a hunter/cabelas shopper btw) is asking me if my SO are going to adopt kids etc, when I'm not even sure how much beyond next year this 4 year relationship is going to last. It's great that my family loves him and all, but our future is less than secure at the moment (SO has to move out of country for work, never to return).

I think it's funny that the liberal part of my dad so wants to accept having a gay son and his SO that he turns blinders on to the fact that hes a died in the wool republican that voted for Romeny (dad is a hippy bleeding heart liberal) and is military (my dad burned his draft card and is/was very anti military)
 
DarthWufei said:
I've been offered to have professional photos done by some popular photographers. I've thought about it, but oddly enough it makes me feel uncomfortable.
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If it isn't anything like what sphinx described (i.e. erotic photo sessions with boners) but a real professional photo sessions, you should really do it. You have amazing body that looks much better than what you can see on covers of magazine's like Men's Health.

HylianTom said:
Then, later on in the day, he kept on referring to Greg and me as "my two sons," telling my niece repeatedly, "go see your uncles!" and asking "aww.. does Uncle Greg have you?!" while he was holding her. It's a small thing, and I feel silly reflecting on it, but it really did give me some happy tears later on when we got home. It feels like we've come long way since the "let's not talk about it ever again" days.
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That's great. It's good to hear your father and your boyfriend have such a good relationship. :)
 
sphinx said:
this here is phantastic, congrats. I hope I get to experience that too.

are you guys married? I am curious about whether something like this would have made your dad understand your relationship is a serious as it can be.
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Not married.. yet. We kinda want to get married here at home in Louisiana, but we're also holding off to see what the Supremes decide next summer. If the court rules against Equal Protection, it'll be a long time before anything can happen here in this state. Knowing this, we'd likely elope and then come home and throw a house party for the relatives. Either way, we're not really wanting a big, dramatic ceremony. I'd prefer a quick session with a judge, followed by the big bash at home, surrounded by friends and family.

I noticed the change in Dad after we moved home in 2011. We were suddenly much more of a presence in Mom & Dad's lives, going out to dinner/movies/events, babysitting our niece, helping with home improvement projects, going on weekend hunting trips, etc. Growing up, Dad had always held the impression that gays were freaks and perverts. When I was caught messing around with another guy in high school, I still remember him refusing to talk to me about it. Instead, Mom came into my bedroom and told me, "your dad never wants to hear anything like this about you ever again."

He grew accepting and was very nice to Greg over the years, but these past few months have been a new level for him. He's seen that we take care of each other, and that I'm very happy with him. But I think over the past year he's also realized that we're not all that freakish, and pretty damn boring, hehe..
 
Things are starting to move faster with this guy and I'm kind of freaking out.
We've been chatting on and off for about a couple of months. As a I said a few days ago, we met and also went to see The Hobbit on sunday. I think for the past week we've been talking A LOT, everyday.

Yesterday I went to his place, he invited me to watch a Spice Girls concert I gave him as Xmas present (because he found out I had it and kept asking me to make him a copy). We had a very good time and even cooked some pizza and watched a movie. I won't deny sometimes I wanted to just cuddle with him but I still think it would be too fast.

It's not that I actually have a problem with things moving too fast, it's just that I still have a crush on that other guy who rejected me a while ago, as stupid as that may be. And also there's the whole ex-boyfriend debacle. Right now my ex is out of town, spending the holidays with his mom. It's been nearly 6 months since we broke up but I'm just worried about what his reaction might be when he founds out I'm "dating" someone. I guess I still have some guilt issues because I was the one who dumped him because I had feelings for someone else.

Of course I wouldn't give a shit if we didn't still live together, but we do. So probably some things are going to change from now on. He's been having some huge personal issues in the last couple of months and I just hate to think this might be another blow to him.

Either way, I'm just friends with this other guy but I went from "I like him but I don't have any feelings for him" to "I really, really like this guy" in a couple of days and also an endless amount of texting. I guess maybe I just enjoy the attention and the novelty. In a perfect world I wish he and my ex could become good friends as well. I'm aware that this is a very crazy situation.

I'm also worried about my mental/emotional health. Adding yet another guy to this situation may complicate things even more.

Oh well, we'll see in a few days how this goes. Sometimes I do over think things :$
 
victormartin said:
Yesterday I went to his place, he invited me to watch a Spice Girls concert I gave him as Xmas present (because he found out I had it and kept asking me to make him a copy). We had a very good time and even cooked some pizza and watched a movie. I won't deny sometimes I wanted to just cuddle with him but I still think it would be too fast. te to think this might be another blow to him.
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Oh wow. I had no idea the Spice Girls were still together. And they're touring?
 
Bel Marduk said:
Oh wow. I had no idea the Spice Girls were still together. And they're touring?
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they're not (together or touring). It was the Istambul concert from 1997. The last time they toured was back in 2007/2008 for the reunion tour.

They did reunite earlier this year for the olympics and more recently for the premiere of their musical "Viva Forever". There's a huge chance all of them except for Victoria will do something together in the near future (new album/tour).
 
Mr_Zombie said:
If it isn't anything like what sphinx described (i.e. erotic photo sessions with boners) but a real professional photo sessions, you should really do it. You have amazing body that looks much better than what you can see on covers of magazine's like Men's Health.
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They're from both, it's pretty obvious which ones just want to do some porno crap. The others are gay, but they're work is just fitness modeling or at the most slightly softcore.

red_13th said:
<3 <3 <3
You're far better than most Colt stars.



Merry Christmas to you too!
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Thanks, lol. But I dunno about that! All I know is, I plan to still be in shape 30 years from now.

krypt0nian said:
Muscle polar bears are dreamy.

Twenty-somethings in great shape are a dime a dozen. When a fifty year old does it, it's far hotter.
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Man, I have met far more 40+ bodybuilders than any youngsters. Have you been to BigMuscle?
 
Gays, we often talk about friend codes and gamertag and whatnot, but are any of you still playing on PC? If so do you gays use Steam?

My steamID is AlcoOri is anyone wants to add me. I mainly play TF2 and have just acquired Borderlands 2.
 
rezh on Steam here. I'm not in front of my PC right now to add.
 
My Steam name is also my username here. I'm Rokal_LT on Wii U as well, feel free to add me if you want to observe poor gamepad doodles (or maybe even play video games).
 
Fantastical said:
Maybe it wasn't his ass that was the problem.
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Well I got 3 fingers in there no issue at all, most guys I've been with usually struggle with 1.

RatskyWatsky said:
Ass was too loose? What does that mean?

Oh, and, ya think?
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Well I said in a way that wasn't as rude. At first.

I just said it felt like a sevral other guys have been there before me, we were talking about his ass and he was all like no one is going to get it. We were trading light jabs throughout the convo.

I was surprised that was the thing that pissed him off. We've said worse, lol.
 
I know GAF has a collective hate-on for Jeremy Renner, but I just watched the Bourne Legacy and WOOF. With and without the beard.

Though the cliffhanger ending of them going for the second lab in the Philippines(?) and ending the movie there is a bit of a dick move
, I mean the Bourne Identity ended on a higher note, you know?
 
My Steam username is Mr_Zombie, but I rarely play games nowadays. Let's just say that my laptop overheated (to the point of completely shutting down the system) when I was playing Shank the other day. >_>
I really have to buy a new PC which I'm planning to do after I pass my final exams.
 
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