Gay and Bisexual thread |OT2|Bears and Twinks and Otters. Oh My!

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This does not compute. You can be badass/sexy and fat. Your body isn't holding you back, it's your self esteem.

I've been in those shoes, and ru is right. If you can't love yourself you sure won't be able to love others.

Assertive stocky guys are the hottest guys there is.
 
I have nothing constructive or useful to add to anything from the last page, but

Dark beer is like mothers milk.
this is pretty true. I am not a beer man AT ALL, but I do love a really really dark heavy beer now and then. Optimally, it should be thick like syrup or motor oil. This mindset probably stems from my first ever drink of alcohol being a Guinness.
 
With my cellphone stolen I can't take any pics, not that I would have the guts to show my face on the internet heh, but seeing so many real pics is making me consider it.

So youtube for some reason has introduced me to this drag queen event in the Canary Islands in Spain, and is absolutely weird, if not mind blowing. It consists on complex choreographies of Drag Queens in the highest platforms I've seen, with the most outrageous and complicated costumes that are slowly removed until they are left basically naked. This might be considered NSFW, no real nudity but almost there.

Demon angel theme

Little red riding hood theme

Hell, they even do Mazinger

This one is insane.

The weirdest part? I thought this was some big gay event, but no, if you notice in the crowd there are old ladies and even children, is just completely bizarre, and I kind of want to go to one now.

Good lord.
 
I actually agreed with you when I read this. Being black sometimes makes people uncomfortable lol. But of course not everyone feels that way.

I can be rather forward too, I think it's more that people in general can be a little scary. But speaking equally for myself I wouldn't worry about it too much, people don't have to be comfortable all the time, social interaction or at least meeting new people is generally an uncomfortable experience. It's good to try to accommodate people as it shows thoughtfulness, but as long as a person isn't obnoxious I don't think one has to really worry about making people momentarily uncomfortable, you're not necessarily responsible for their reactions and oftentimes it can be just as easily interpreted as a form of surprise on their part. I scare people all the time and I'm also really emotionally perceptive so the idea of that makes me uncomfortable and then I doubt myself or start feeling apologetic, but I think this is self-defeating. From their perspective a person that has the contradictory traits of emotional sensitivity/self-doubt and brashness or boldness would be pretty jarring, but that's not necessarily bad.
 
But you look so huggable!

haha people do love hugging people. If you can handle a bear hug I give a mean one.

I can be rather forward too, I think it's more that people in general can be a little scary. But speaking equally for myself I wouldn't worry about it too much, people don't have to be comfortable all the time, social interaction or at least meeting new people is generally an uncomfortable experience. It's good to try to accommodate people as it shows thoughtfulness, but as long as a person isn't obnoxious I don't think one has to really worry about making people momentarily uncomfortable.

Hmm yeah. I mean Im pretty shy when I first meet someone then open up. Im PRETTY quick to accommodate for others before myself. I suppose I wont worry about it.
 
Hmm yeah. I mean Im pretty shy when I first meet someone then open up. Im PRETTY quick to accommodate for others before myself. I suppose I wont worry about it.

I'm actually the same way. I edited my post a little bit but I think this trait contributes to it. A person that is both shy/sensitive and bold is a bit of a walking contradiction, which people generally don't expect, shifting from one to the other is bound to be seen by other people as a bit jarring.
 
Wait?! Dick pics? :O!!!

:p

But nah, I won't show mine. Aside the fact that I never photograph well; I'm uglier than the sales of the PS Vita*.


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YES, SPACE: I DO MISS YOU YOU LOUT.

And I know you're checking this thread with furious attention.
 
You hate club music. You don't drink, smoke and you don't like ketchup. What the fuck?

Marry me.
We can't get married, neither of us lives in Mexico City :/

Rm88, what brand is that beanie you're wearing?
I have no idea :P It was a present from ages ago and I still wear it sometimes.

My horrible attempts to get a good picture of myself made me lose the will to participate in Real Pic January; Rm88 has already out-cute'd me, anyway. =(
Thanks! But that's not going to work - I demand pics now.

Ah, that makes sense. Glad I've never been through that, really. Let's play Brawl later next week!

And while I absolutely loathe clubs, I'll take a quieter bar almost any day. Drink a beer or two, watch football or soccer, have a sandwich.. that's fantastic stuff.
Yeah, bars are a bit better I guess. But oh man, the freaking smoke attacking my hair and clothes, I can't stand it.
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Also, I'm in disbelief about the whole non-drinking people thing. Can't believe people in real life think like that... oh well.
 
Thanks for all the replies, guys! You are honestly the best. I think that part of the reason why I think I'm getting more comfortable with being gay is because of the Internet, really. No, I don't mean porn, I mean all the information and advice you can find on the web is just extremely helpful, this thread is an excellent example. In all honesty... I think my parents will be okay with it, they're not very homophobic, and religion is pretty much a non-issue, but my Mom says that people who are Homosexual, Lesbian, etc. Have a very hard life (Because of acceptance and all) And I feel that if I tell her she might be a little depressed and I don't want that for her right now, I don't even know how my Dad would react... probably a "You shouldn't be thinking about this stuff" I guess.
Also, all of you look very good in your avatars : 0
 
Yeah, bars are a bit better I guess. But oh man, the freaking smoke attacking my hair and clothes, I can't stand it.

Smoke does wonders for exacerbating my usually-dormant asthma.

There are two major gay clubs on Bourbon Street (The Bourbon Pub and Oz) that have outdoor balconies, useful for fresh air. Every single time I went to them over the past decade, I ended-up spending more than 90% of my time there hanging-out on the balcony and enjoying the view down below. Lots of, umm.., "naughtiness" happens in the crowds on the street on Mardi Gras Day, Pride weekend, or Southern Decadence weekend, so there can be quite an entertaining show of humanity to watch down there. The things I've seen
(and - in my younger days - done)
.. haha..

But we've long given-up the club scene. Mixed-crowds neighborhood bars (within walking distance) that serve food are the bee's knees.
 
Let's play Brawl later next week!
Yeah, hopefully I'll have my internet back up by then. I want to see how much lag there will be, haha. I may as well ask, but how do you like to play? Items on or off? I'm fine with either, but some people are picky.

I'm going to add you on Steam for when the time comes, since that's the easiest way to chat for me while playing games.

What's the nicest way to get out of a date with someone forever?
It begins once again.
 
Yeah, hopefully I'll have my internet back up by then. I want to see how much lag there will be, haha. I may as well ask, but how do you like to play? Items on or off? I'm fine with either, but some people are picky.

I'm going to add you on Steam for when the time comes, since that's the easiest way to chat for me while playing games.
I've played against plenty of people from US and even France and Germany, most of the time lag is okay. And I personally play without items (since I enjoy attending tourney and stuff) but I don't mind playing just for the lulz :P
 
I've played against plenty of people from US and even France and Germany, most of the time lag is okay. And I personally play without items (since I enjoy attending tourney and stuff) but I don't mind playing just for the lulz :P
Cool. I also enjoy playing for laughs, so expect some rule changes at certain points, just to spice things up. I can do no items for a good while, though. I may even have a third person (or fourth) joining us, if that's fine.

Speaking of games, everyone with a Steam account should try the Magical Drop V demo <3
 
Because surely if you decline to go on a date with this person, presumably your boss, you'll get fired and that would totally be on the up-and-up.

Good Lord, are you really this dumb
 
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