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C'mon, you're aware of the things he posts. He's pretty much asking to be treated like an idiot child.
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DR2K
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Was chatting with a guy online, he offered me a job from his Dads company and a date in the same sentence, I said yes to the job, but accidentally said yes to the date. Need the job, pays really well, plus I'm actually qualified for it, but would be iffy since I don't want my job security to potentially be tied to my horrible love life. I'm a horrible person, I'm attractive thankfully, but even I wouldn't date me.
That's alright, I deal with people like that all the time. I have a way with ornery people.
Just say "Hey, sorry for misleading you, I am not interested in going out with you."
it's really really really really that simple
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it's really really really really that simple
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kitchenmotors
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lordfroakie
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Um If you are so attractive then wouldn't it be nothing to tell him "Sorry I don't want the date but I will keep the job"
If you are THAT confident why do you seem to always have a problem just telling someone straight up you dont want them? You were doing this before with the bf or whatever and now with this guy. I mean really.
lordfroakie
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DR2K
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That and I'd rather not support myself by dating losers as lucrative as it is.
That's my plan, actually. Maybe not to get married, lol, but to find a nice job once my current one evaporates.
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How do you people find a GIF for every situation? I mean, Sai-kun probably has a GIF of that girl for every single conceivable emotion.
lordfroakie
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minus, popgaf thread and tumblr
Yup. My Marina gif folder is of unknowable proportions.
You shall learn with time.
Fantastical
Death Prophet
Honestly, I just search "*insert emotion here* GIF" on Google Images. Works pretty well. If that doesn't work, the google search usually pulls up a tumblr search as the first result and those are a goldmine.
I have folders upon folders of situational .gifs, but I either never find the chance to use any, or if I do stumble upon an appropriate time I don't remember to use any.
Mine lack the all-encompassing nature of Marina.
I have a folder with several "emotion" gifs but I've never used any of them. :/ Instead I always simply google new ones when I feel like using one.
That's what I'm planning to do.
I'm sure my 1D gif folder is bigger than yours.
Necromanti
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I have seen GIFs change people.
which begs the question what kind of job could be offered online in a way where they would also offer a date
GasProblem
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Well guys, I'm going to sleep (yeah sure) so in case I don't get online until next year, hope everyone has a nice time tomorrow and a great 2013
You too!
I feel like shit, bad case of the cold.
Not even this:
makes me feel any better
indeed, went to sleep and all of a sudden three pages appeared out of nowhere.
damn, with all those real pics, this feels like a very nice gay bar
is it me or were a couple of you not participating in this thread some months back? There are guys I think know from the "post your pic 2012" thread from months back that I had never seen here before. Cool, the more gays the merrier
I probably don't know the whole story, as I've only started reading this thread again for the last two pages, but I can say from personal experience that it can sometimes be difficult to say no to a date, for various reasons...the person asking being in a position of power and/or in a position to offer you something you need or want being examples.
I wouldn't rush to pile up on DR2K.
I wouldn't rush to pile up on DR2K.
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But then how will the weekly "DR2K posts masturbatory rant -> thread collective gets douche chills" ritual be completed? There is an order to this world, Royalan.
Oh, hi there.
Dead Prince
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Almost the new year if you don't count the lesser countries
Black and White filter, does it every time ;-)
Back in high school 2 or 3 years ago, there was a teacher who really cared about me and got me referred to a psychologist because I was really depressed. I still see that psychologist to this day, and I'm doing much better, but I'll tell you right now, none of that is thanks to the psychologist. He's nice to talk to and a very nice guy, but hes one of the most useless people I've ever had to talk to >.< not knocking him or anything, I think hes a wonderful guy, but hes never given me advice that has helped me.
I'm telling you this because while other people may be able to talk to you, only you yourself can take the action to actually make yourself feel better, and yes, it's hard, it can be really hard... but you gotta do it, you have no other choice.
I suggest taking small steps, taking big steps only stresses yourself out. Take small as steps as you need. I'm always looking in depression GAF cause I get depressed a lot, and I look here in this thread occasionally cause it seems like a fun thread
so I see your posts a lot.Anyways, Neojubei, it seems you have similar desires to me from what I've read in the past, wanting to be cute and what not. You can do it, anything is possible with hard work. I'm not anywhere near the level I want to be yet, but I look younger then I did a few years ago and this is all because I took those first steps and kept going. Occasionally depression knocks you back, it did this last half of the year to me, but I started getting back in the groove of things a few weeks ago and I'm feeling better then ever. I got high ambitions for this upcoming year. Not just for my body but for other skills, too.
So back to the small steps thing, try drinking less soda, and try going for a 10-20min walk everyday. Try walking fast as you can. This may not seem like much, but it's first steps, you are building up momentum to bigger and better things, and you will feel better about yourself, because exercise does that. After you feel comfortable with that, you gotta figure out what you want to do next to keep building your momentum. One goal i definitely recommend working towards is dropping soda entirely in the long run. It's what I've done and it's helped me a ton.
I know people have told you this, but I'm going to repeat it. Your attitude matters a lot. Exercise will help your attitude a little bit, but you can't be so negative and constantly downing yourself, it's how I used to be, it does nothing to help you. It just makes you feel worse.
I'm telling you, being depressed IS easier, but it's horrible, horrible feeling. You don't want it. Work hard towards making yourself feeling better, work towards being who you want to be. You will feel much better about yourself.
First step is always the hardest, so just force yourself to take action, and you will realize it's not bad as it seems, and stay positive!
Sorry for the long post. I've always wanted to reply to you in either depression gaf or here, but I wasn't sure how. I've spent a good half hour or so thinking and typing up this post, so I hope this post is of help to you. Remember, only you can change yourself. Whining about it to other people doesn't help you feel better, or change anything.
Escape Goat
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Why hasn't the thread put DR2K on ignore yet? Start the new year right. Say no to stupid posters.
Dead Prince
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everyone gets a fresh new start.
trudderham
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Thought I'd get in early and wish everyone a happy New Year
Edit: My first post in the topic too. Hello!
Edit: My first post in the topic too. Hello!
Hello!Thought I'd get in early and wish everyone a happy New Year
Edit: My first post in the topic too. Hello!
Your confidence and humility scare me. I wish I was more like you.
It's kind of like Aguirre. The posts are annoying and make you lose faith in humanity, but there's something about watching that trainwreck...
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