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Your confidence and humility scare me. I wish I was more like you.

There's a place for humility, but western culture in general looks down on confidence so much that if you're not saying something about yourself with the utmost humilty then you risk offending others.
 
I think the DR2K's only mistake is "bad use of the internet", he's basically the only one talking about his dates and private life and gets hammered for saying things the way they unfold for him, I don't agree with everything he does or how he behaves but I am sure am not perfect either and I have had my share of bad decisions in my personal life so I just read and not judge. One thing is clear, sharing too much info on a forum never works.

Before him, Midnightscott would be the only other guy I remember that would share and also would get slammed.

so yeah, sharing too much just doesn't work on the internet, we don't get the full picture, but we give our opinions with the little, often misleading info we get and often times is just unfair.

my 2 cents
 
Woo. New Years Eve. Time to spend it at home alone playing Skyrim.
This sounds sad perhaps in theory, but honestly that sounds totally awesome. I haven't even opened Skyrim yet. Maybe when I get a new computer. The mods available by then should be excellent.

Then again.. I'm one of those kooks who takes a week off to play Oblivion.
 
Happy new year Trigger. Is that you in your avatar? If so you look amazing. Not to be forward but do you have a man?

That's one of the boys from Terrible Direction. Not Trigger.

This sounds sad perhaps in theory, but honestly that sounds totally awesome. I haven't even opened Skyrim yet. Maybe when I get a new computer. The mods available by then should be excellent.

Then again.. I'm one of those kooks who takes a week off to play Oblivion.

Sad, perhaps, but that's how I spend my days when I am not in the lab... I should be there right now. <.< >.>

Can't get any mods on it because I play it on the Xbox. My computer would blow up if I tried to play it.

I've only ever taken off one day to play a game, and even then it wasn't intentional.
 
Happy new year Trigger. Is that you in your avatar? If so you look amazing. Not to be forward but do you have a man?

Oh my.

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lol, the photo isn't me tho.
 
I think the DR2K's only mistake is "bad use of the internet", he's basically the only one talking about his dates and private life and gets hammered for saying things the way they unfold for him, I don't agree with everything he does or how he behaves but I am sure am not perfect either and I have had my share of bad decisions in my personal life so I just read and not judge. One thing is clear, sharing too much info on a forum never works.

Before him, Midnightscott would be the only other guy I remember that would share and also would get slammed.

so yeah, sharing too much just doesn't work on the internet, we don't get the full picture, but we give our opinions with the little, often misleading info we get and often times is just unfair.

my 2 cents

It's also my fault for being a lazy typer. Which is why I never let it bother me.

Although I don't know where the size queen thing came from.
 
Sad, perhaps, but that's how I spend my days when I am not in the lab... I should be there right now. <.< >.>

Can't get any mods on it because I play it on the Xbox. My computer would blow up if I tried to play it.

I've only ever taken off one day to play a game, and even then it wasn't intentional.

I have a sadder case, I am about to turn on my Wii to play Resident Evil: Umbrella Chronicles until it's 11:20 p.m. here in Europe (right now is 8:25), Then I'll go near the local theather cause I heard there will be fireworks, and I might possibly meet a friend there but I am otherwise alone.

I am glad this is almost over already. I didn't have a bad christmas but being away from my family and friends isn't fun so I am fine with it being over.


It's also my fault for being a lazy typer. Which is why I never let it bother me.

Although I don't know where the size queen thing came from.

even if you took your time to type more infos, people would either not read because of too many details or take one phrase out of context and assume you mean this or that and they will interpret anything you say. It's not their fault either, as people will reach conclusions with whatever info they are given, I do too sometimes.

I've been misunterstood thousands times on the internet, I realised that's just how communication takes place, no one is right or wrong, it just doesn't work.
 
I have a sadder case, I am about to turn on my Wii to play Resident Evil: Umbrella Chronicles until it's 11:20 p.m. here in Europe (right now is 8:25), Then I'll go near the local theather cause I heard there will be fireworks, and I might possibly meet a friend there but I am otherwise alone.

I am glad this is almost over already. I didn't have a bad christmas but being away from my family and friends isn't fun so I am fine with it being over.

Cute people shouldn't be alone on NYE. It's criminal.

Ugly people should only be alone, like myself.
 
haha, because I have never seen pics with B&W filter PLUS they magically turn ugly guys into handsome men.

yeah, no ;-)

EDIT: Hey, HAPPY new year everyone, hugs.

Well excuuuse me princess for being modest and or silly :-P

I tried to post my escapades but nobody really paid any mind to my feats of logic or lack of drama. Or my sexy times.
 
Atleast I have a few friends to talk to to ring in the new year. It's a shame I dont have a bf or anything close to that to spend new years with. Ah well.
 
I'm working two jobs and have my final school quarter starting in the morning, so obviously there are no NYE plans on my schedule. 34 years running without a new year's kiss. :\

In a moment of loneliness, I contacted a guy who drifted away from me.

Now he's probably not going to reply, and that's going to hurt. Fuck.

Mhmm. Done this before, and yes, it's the worst.
 
I'm working two jobs and have my final school quarter starting in the morning, so obviously there are no NYE plans on my schedule. 34 years running without a new year's kiss. :\

2 years ago my EX was crying on NYE because he was so happy that I was in his life....everything is over now and if and when I ever start again another relationship and I again receive a new year with a kiss and a guy tells me how happy he is, a part of me will probably still think " fuck off, been there, done that"....

so I am not sure what's worse, not having experienced that and believing in it, in hopes of living through it at least once, or having gone through that and not believing in love anymore. I honestly don't know.
 
so I am not sure what's worse, not having experienced that and believing in it, in hopes of living through it at least once, or having gone through that and not believing in love anymore. I honestly don't know.

I would think it's better to have at least been able to go through things like this, even if only once. I'm not deluded enough to believe someone will come along at this point, but it'd be nice not to be left feeling cheated out of a multitude of experiences at the end of the day/year/life.
 
You don't believe in love anymore, Sphinx?

I am not sure.

I just know I don't feel anything for anyone and I wouldn't mind Mr. Right passing by and missing him, I just don't care, I know it's awful but that's the truth.

I think I am tired of the love game.

hopefully I'll think and feel differently in a couple of years.

Sphinx, get on this cracker! YUM!

lol XD, I am about to go near those damn firecrackers people use here in Germany, I hate them.
 
I'm not doing much for New Years, gonna hang out with some GAF people on Tinychat, Skype with the boyfriend, and listen to all the new vinyls I got over the holiday. I won't be drinking, so watch out... I'm not to be trusted!

2012 has a helluva year for me and a huge emotional roller coaster. Broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years, diagnosed with testicular cancer and had to have my left testicle removed, received chemotherapy treatment and went through some employment/financial issues. Chemo was the most intense and hardest thing I've ever had to do. I'm glad to have finally put it behind me.

There were some high points to 2012 though, I met an amazing man named Phillip, who became my boyfriend before I was diagnosed. We've been together for 8 months now. He stood by me and took care of me throughout the entire process, both mentally and physically. I had a lot of support from friends as well, many of them Gay GAF. Delio, Sai-kun, and Dany M to name a few. Thanks guys, I love ya. I was lucky enough to spend an entire weekend doing the Chicago GAF meet up right before my chemo, hanging out and going to Lollapalooza. I was also reunited with my Father after 25 years, found out I had 2 brothers and spent Christmas with his family.

Even though I'm 31 now, I still feel young. Gay death... fuck that bullshit and anyone who believes in it. I have plenty of time for new beginnings, I've really been given a second chance in a lot of ways. I almost feel as if my 20s were wasted, because I took a lot of things for granted and I became too comfortable with what I felt was safe.

I'm ready for 2013.

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Even though I'm 31 now, I still feel young. Gay death... fuck that bullshit and anyone who believes in it. I have plenty of time for new beginnings, I've really been given a second chance in a lot of ways. I almost feel as if my 20s were wasted, because I took a lot of things for granted and I became too comfortable with what I felt was safe.

That's why the 30s are awesome! You're just getting started!

Wishing you an awesome 2013!
 
I'm not doing much for New Years, gonna hang out with some GAF people on Tinychat, Skype with the boyfriend, and listen to all the new vinyls I got over the holiday. I won't be drinking, so watch out... I'm not to be trusted!

2012 has a helluva year for me and a huge emotional roller coaster. Broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years, diagnosed with testicular cancer and had to have my left testicle removed, received chemotherapy treatment and went through some employment/financial issues. Chemo was the most intense and hardest thing I've ever had to do. I'm glad to have finally put it behind me.

There were some high points to 2012 though, I met an amazing man named Phillip, who became my boyfriend before I was diagnosed. We've been together for 8 months now. He stood by me and took care of me throughout the entire process, both mentally and physically. I had a lot of support from friends as well, many of them Gay GAF. Delio, Sai-kun, and Dany M to name a few. Thanks guys, I love ya. I was lucky enough to spend an entire weekend doing the Chicago GAF meet up right before my chemo, hanging out and going to Lollapalooza. I was also reunited with my Father after 25 years, found out I had 2 brothers and spent Christmas with his family.

Even though I'm 31 now, I still feel young. Gay death... fuck that bullshit and anyone who believes in it. I have plenty of time for new beginnings, I've really been given a second chance in a lot of ways. I almost feel as if my 20s were wasted, because I took a lot of things for granted and I became too comfortable with what I felt was safe.

I'm ready for 2013.

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Love yah Gurl! 2013 will be great!
 
The 20s were great (MUCH better than the teens), but the 30s are seeming even better.

This evening will be a bit bittersweet. We wanted to go out last year, but decided at the last minute to stay in and spend the night with the dog. At midnight, we both pecked Jake on the cheeks, and he kissed us back. He passed 28 days later. It seems sad and pathetic, as "he was just a damn dog," but we'll be thinking of him tonight.

2012, you had some really great bright spots. But good riddance. I need this year to be gone.
 
The 20s were great (MUCH better than the teens), but the 30s are seeming even better.

This evening will be a bit bittersweet. We wanted to go out last year, but decided at the last minute to stay in and spend the night with the dog. At midnight, we both pecked Jake on the cheeks, and he kissed us back. He passed 28 days later. It seems sad and pathetic, as "he was just a damn dog," but we'll be thinking of him tonight.

2012, you had some really great bright spots. But good riddance. I need this year to be gone.

It's not sad or pathetic. I was writing up my end of year post on FB and all that struck me was our losing our girl husky Kiera back in September. Furr kids are still kids.
 
Everyone should learn to be happy and thankful regardless of their relationship status. Come on, guys, I won't be alone today but I have in the past and it's really not so tragic and awful :P I remember a December 31 spent playing videogames alone too, I probably had fun.
 
I'm happy and thankful sure. Still I started this year with someone and ended it without them. Just kinda meh about it all. BUT im looking to next year with a hopeful outlook.
 
Ah, if we're talking strictly about relationships then I'll spend NYE alone too, just with family :P And I'm really not bothered personally.
 
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