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2012 been very bad for me so i am going to try my luck working in Japan this year hopefully. I just need to off load a lot of gaming junk. Thinking of giving my friend my still working Dreamcast with all 50 games except for soul calibur and jet set radio.
 
2012 been very bad for me so i am going to try my luck working in Japan this year hopefully.

I'd love to do that, but I don't know if I could handle the stress, and there's also the fact that my japanese is not very good. I feel like i wasted two years of my life when I quitted japanese, but it was so stressful, my sensei was a bitch.
 
I'd love to do that, but I don't know if I could handle the stress, and there's also the fact that my japanese is not very good. I feel like i wasted two years of my life when I quitted japanese, but it was so stressful, my sensei was a bitch.
So was my teacher but I won't give up
 
I guess we're doing hats in Real Pic.
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I'm matching shirt and hat with someone so I'm stepping it up :P
 
I wasn't expecting curly hair from you, cool! :P Not that I was expecting anything particularly, actually. But I still get that feel of "I wasn't expecting that!" when I see January avatars.

And no, really, I pretty much can't flirt. And when my obliviousness wears off a little and I realize I'm in the receiving end, I get nervous and pretend nothing is happening, avoiding all eye contact. Lol, it's pathetic.
 
I wasn't expecting curly hair from you, cool! :P Not that I was expecting anything particularly, actually. But I still get that feel of "I wasn't expecting that!" when I see January avatars.

And no, really, I pretty much can't flirt. And when my obliviousness wears off a little and I realize I'm in the receiving end, I get nervous and pretend nothing is happening, avoiding all eye contact. Lol, it's pathetic.

Flip it up and in your head think "yup I fucking deserve this attention" until you believe it.

It's a mental exercise that works.

It helps that you're as cute as fuck.
 
I wasn't expecting curly hair from you, cool! :P Not that I was expecting anything particularly, actually. But I still get that feel of "I wasn't expecting that!" when I see January avatars.

And no, really, I pretty much can't flirt. And when my obliviousness wears off a little and I realize I'm in the receiving end, I get nervous and pretend nothing is happening, avoiding all eye contact. Lol, it's pathetic.

I am the worst. THE worst, 99% I'm totally oblivious to it.

A few weeks ago this really cute older guy started talking to me about Bjork, we talked about our favourite songs of hers, etc. Then he was like "I'd like to go home now, smoke some weed and listen to Bjork"... then there was this uncomfortable pause while he just stood there grinning at me and I was like "oh, you should go meet someone to take home then", it wasn't until his face dropped that I realised what was going on, I just said "have a nice evening" and walked away.

I get annoyed because I like chatting, but there doesn't have to be a pot of gold under every rainbow.
 
I am the worst. THE worst, 99% I'm totally oblivious to it.

A few weeks ago this really cute older guy started talking to me about Bjork, we talked about our favourite songs of hers, etc. Then he was like "I'd like to go home now, smoke some weed and listen to Bjork"... then there was this uncomfortable pause while he just stood there grinning at me and I was like "oh, you should go meet someone to take home then", it wasn't until his face dropped that I realised what was going on, I just said "have a nice evening" and walked away.

I get annoyed because I like chatting, but there doesn't have to be a pot of gold under every rainbow.

All you have to realise is that was an opportunity for you both to laugh, and then you could still have gone home with him. It was the walking off that cost you, not the being oblivious. Unless you were upset that he was flirting with you?

2012 was great :) Really solid family, friend and job-wise, also music/game-release-wise. Can't complain at all. Since I'm about to turn 25 in 2 days, I feel like I must be more active this year. I want to improve my English and Japanese, I want to learn ukulele, find a good job (if/when I'm fired), finish my thesis, being more fit in general and getting decent abs (skinny guys having automatically visible abs is a myth, sadly), fix my sleeping habits, spend tons of time with my almost 15 years old dog, etc.

Missed this, what's your thesis on?

Edit: And missed that it was your birthday soon, happy birthday!
 
All you have to realise is that was an opportunity for you both to laugh, and then you could still have gone home with him. It was the walking off that cost you, not the being oblivious. Unless you were upset that he was flirting with you?

Nah I just realised how dumb I was and bailed, haha.

I did engage with some flirting more recently but yeah, I only tend to enjoy it when I initiate it.
 
I get annoyed because I like chatting, but there doesn't have to be a pot of gold under every rainbow.

I think I share that sentiment. I kind of live off conversation socially speaking and find I generally like to keep things pretty light. It kind of applies to how I flirt too in that my flirting can often be interpreted as friendliness and vice versa.

edit: that is a nice tattoo.
 
I love it. Got it.....4 years back and the colors are as vibrant as ever. Make SURE you get your tatts done by the best artists, and use sunscreen.

I gave him a pic of krypton exploding from the comics, and a pic of a Superman statue I have with the rocket from the 40s et voila. He came up with it on the spot.

Guys is crazy talented. Miles Maniaci from Deluxe Tattoo in Chicago.
 
I love it. Got it.....4 years back and the colors are as vibrant as ever. Make SURE you get your tatts done by the best artists, and use sunscreen.

I gave him a pic of krypton exploding from the comics, and a pic of a Superman statue I have with the rocket from the 40s et voila. He came up with it on the spot.

Guys is crazy talented. Miles Maniaci from Deluxe Tattoo in Chicago.

How much did you spent on it? If you dont mind me asking that is.
 
I love it. Got it.....4 years back and the colors are as vibrant as ever. Make SURE you get your tatts done by the best artists, and use sunscreen.

I gave him a pic of krypton exploding from the comics, and a pic of a Superman statue I have with the rocket from the 40s et voila. He came up with it on the spot.

Guys is crazy talented. Miles Maniaci from Deluxe Tattoo in Chicago.

Awesome!
 
Pfft, as if you need to flirt.
I'm single so I'm positive I need to :P

Flip it up and in your head think "yup I fucking deserve this attention" until you believe it.

It's a mental exercise that works.

It helps that you're as cute as fuck.
I really don't know what goes through my mind that I get so nervous and uncomfortable. I'm not very comfortable with the idea of a complete stranger wanting to bypass a friendly conversation and going directly into flirting zone, I think. And lol, thanks for the compliment, guys :)

I am the worst. THE worst, 99% I'm totally oblivious to it.
On my bus ride from work to home I once noticed a (rather handsome) guy looking at me. It started very tame, so I thought he was maybe looking at something/someone else. Soon it was pretty evident this guy was really trying to get noticed and even changed his position so he could stare into my soul for the entire over-1-hour ride. I did nothing, it was one hour of me pretending that wasn't happening and avoiding eye contact. Rofl.

Missed this, what's your thesis on?

Edit: And missed that it was your birthday soon, happy birthday!
Generic brands and people's perception of them. It's boring, but I have a lot of information by now so I'll keep it. And thanks! :P
 
On my bus ride from work to home I once noticed a (rather handsome) guy looking at me. It started very tame, so I thought he was maybe looking at something/someone else. Soon it was pretty evident this guy was really trying to get noticed and even changed his position so he could stare into my soul for the entire over-1-hour ride. I did nothing, it was one hour of me pretending that wasn't happening and avoiding eye contact. Rofl.

haha yeah, now situations like these are mystifying to me. i have no idea what you're meant to do when this happens, if anything at all. do those people jus wanna stare for fun? i know i do it because it's enjoyable to make eye contact sometimes but i never take it further

flirting during conversations i'm pretty good at. if it's with someone where i don't reciprocate i can usually still ride it out and wind it down naturally, too. idk i think i'm just lucky that the words come to my head easily. but experience helps also
 
:)

Nothing to write home about anyways.

I have a big self-image issue. lol

Everyone who thinks they are ugly here is definitely NOT ugly.

Welcome to the partay!


haha yeah, now situations like these are mystifying to me. i have no idea what you're meant to do when this happens, if anything at all. do those people jus wanna stare for fun? i know i do it because it's enjoyable to make eye contact sometimes but i never take it further

flirting during conversations i'm pretty good at. if it's with someone where i don't reciprocate i can usually still ride it out and wind it down naturally, too. idk i think i'm just lucky that the words come to my head easily. but experience helps also


When this happened to me and if I'm interested (ie the guy is a hottie), I eventually just sidle up to them wherever we're at (bus, Barnes & Nobel, etc) and just say "wanna grab some coffee?". If it goes well there, and they're interesting, or just hot enough to ignore that they are not all that interesting, I exchange numbers and take it from there.

One of my best long term relationships started with playing eye games in a bookstore during a signing for Clive Barker.

Learn to sieze the opportunities, and gay dating is not hard at all. Hell, guys who are flirting have already opened the door for you. :)

I cannot express this advice strongly enough. Just think in your head "of course he's into me" until you start believing it. It fucking works.
 
Happy New Year guys, sorry I'm late e.e *eats pumpkin pie*

I finally started Paper Mario Sticker Star and it's okay for now, albeit a little bland on the graphics.
 
Thanks.

It's driven me nuts though. lol

Read my last post and take it to heart. :)

Fuck it. It's too important, I'm moving it to this page.


haha yeah, now situations like these are mystifying to me. i have no idea what you're meant to do when this happens, if anything at all. do those people jus wanna stare for fun? i know i do it because it's enjoyable to make eye contact sometimes but i never take it further

flirting during conversations i'm pretty good at. if it's with someone where i don't reciprocate i can usually still ride it out and wind it down naturally, too. idk i think i'm just lucky that the words come to my head easily. but experience helps also


When this happened to me and if I'm interested (ie the guy is a hottie), I eventually just sidle up to them wherever we're at (bus, Barnes & Nobel, etc) and just say "wanna grab some coffee?". If it goes well there, and they're interesting, or just hot enough to ignore that they are not all that interesting, I exchange numbers and take it from there.

One of my best long term relationships started with playing eye games in a bookstore during a signing for Clive Barker.

Learn to sieze the opportunities, and gay dating is not hard at all. Hell, guys who are flirting have already opened the door for you. :)

I cannot express this advice strongly enough. Just think in your head "of course he's into me" until you start believing it. It fucking works.
 
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