How do you date a beautiful woman?

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Well I've been single for a month or so and met someone. We went on our first date last night and we have a lot in common but ..... she is amazingly beautiful. I mean I find her so beautiful my eyes can't find an imperfection anywhere. It's really tough to snap out of it and be myself. I'm fighting myself not to text/call too much. It's like I'm in fucking highschool.

Has anyone seriously successfully dated someone they found the most physically attractive person they have ever seen? It's tripping me out.
 
it will get old when you see other guys hit on her/stare all the time. polish your brass knuckles
 
I just count my lucky stars and go about business as usual. It can be intimidating, but I dunno, if she likes you, don't worry about it.
 
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Treat her like normal and don't be over possessive. I dated a pretty hot girl once but our personalities/interests just didn't mesh in the end.
 
You're already putting her on a pedestal. Stop it right now, and enjoy it, letting her know your feelings with words and some action, just not too much. Worship her and she'll come to expect it all the time, even when you find an imperfection, or she farts in her sleep.
 
First post nails it, but I'd add what someone else above brought up, and that is you'll have to get used to other guys staring like crazy. I dated a girl once that was a fitness model and you just have to roll with other dudes' stares. Occasionally I'd have to give a hard look at someone who got a little too chatty, but otherwise over time I just got used to it.

The need to text continually doesn't really have to do with her looks, just your being ga-ga over her in this early stage. Don't over do it, man! Give her space.
 
If you want to nail her:
Do lots of impressive stuff.

If you want to stay with her:
Be who you are, but keep your standards for yourself up. If you're a good match, it will stick. If you're not a good match, it will go away. That might not sound like great advice, but you only have two choices here: be yourself and see how it goes right away, or fake something to get what you want. The latter of these will eventually lead to heartbreak, guaranteed.
 
If you're self-aware and still unable to snap out of it you're probably guaranteed to fuck it up and/or become her slave. Good luck!
 
Omegasquash said:
You're already putting her on a pedestal. Stop it right now, and enjoy it, letting her know your feelings with words and some action, just not too much. Worship her and she'll come to expect it all the time, even when you find an imperfection, or she farts in her sleep.
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Yeah this is what I'm trying to do. I date attractive women just this girl is beyond that. I'm a really off the cuff sort of guy so I already told her shes amazingly beautiful which was a huge mistake. But I didn't gush or fawn. She kissed me at the end. This is like trying to drive a car with too much power on wet roads.





I will post pics once failure or success has been achieved. I'm not going to post pics while we are still formative.



EviLore said:
If you're self-aware and still unable to snap out of it you're probably guaranteed to fuck it up and/or become her slave. Good luck!
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I won't let myself be her slave but yeah that's how I'm looking at it.
 
She kissed you on the cheek goodbye, not good night and then text another guy to come over after you dropped her off. I'm sure if you keep reaching out to her she'll eventually respond back, because hey.. you're easy attention for her. In the time it took you to read that, she was thinking about that other guy who didn't go on the internet asking for advice on how to date her.
 
gatti-man said:
Yeah this is what I'm trying to do. I date attractive women just this girl is beyond that. I'm a really off the cuff sort of guy so I already told her shes amazingly beautiful which was a huge mistake. But I didn't gush or fawn. She kissed me at the end. This is like trying to drive a car with too much power on wet roads.





I will post pics once failure or success has been achieved. I'm not going to post pics while we are still formative.
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TUSR said:
Self confidence.

And no pedestal.
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This... plus be prepared to have guys hitting on her constantly. My gf is pretty attractive, and she constantly has other guys hitting on her or making comments about her looks. Luckily, I'm really confident that she has no interest in seeing anyone else, so I don't worry about it too much.
 
gatti-man said:
Yeah this is what I'm trying to do. I date attractive women just this girl is beyond that. I'm a really off the cuff sort of guy so I already told her shes amazingly beautiful which was a huge mistake. But I didn't gush or fawn. She kissed me at the end. This is like trying to drive a car with too much power on wet roads.





I will post pics once failure or success has been achieved. I'm not going to post pics while we are still formative.
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Nah man, nah. You were forthright, and that might have "swept her off her feet." Just remember that SHE KNOWS you think she's beautiful. Enjoy the early times, but don't get too wrapped up in her beauty. In time, you'll get to know her as a person and be able to see things clearer.

And lol at the pics. Success or failure in this case is somewhat...objective. Because GAF.
 
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