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"Looks fade" is usually just a comment aimed at men who are vain. I don't think most people who use it suggest that we're all bound to get ugly when we're older. :p
 
"Looks fade" is usually just a comment aimed at men who are vain. I don't think most people who use it suggest that we're all bound to get ugly when we're older. :p
You'd be surprised. It almost seems like that's their position at times. I too think there are traits more important than physical attributes, but place some sort of importance on physical beauty/health is one of those traits for me. So I don't mind a little vanity.
 
"Looks fade" is usually just a comment aimed at men who are vain. I don't think most people who use it suggest that we're all bound to get ugly when we're older. :p

I think it's true inasmuch as you can't stay with someone long germ based on looks alone. There needs to be some other connection or spark there.
 
You'd be surprised. It almost seems like that's their position at times. I too think there are traits more important than physical attributes, but place some sort of importance on physical beauty/health is one of those traits for me. So I don't mind a little vanity.

Right there with you honey. There is a balance between being so vain than physical attributes are all you're looking for in a man and not caring about them at all.
Hot guys with a great personality exist, we are the living and breathing proof.

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Right there with you honey. There is a balance between being so vain than physical attributes are all you're looking for in a man and not caring about them at all.
Hot guys with a great personality exist, we are the living and breathing proof.

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Being Physically attracted is important but I tend to throw the personality over that. No dice if I cant talk to you about shit .
 
having a shitty life for 30 years and then all of a sudden wanting to get a nice body can pose quite a challenge.

Tell me about it. I'm hovering pretty close to just giving up and eating myself into a relatively early grave. There's too much flab, sag, and grey to overcome at this point.
 
Tell me about it. I'm hovering pretty close to just giving up and eating myself into a relatively early grave. There's too much flab, sag, and grey to overcome at this point.

From the pictures I've seen of you, this couldn't be further from the truth (except for the gray but that's a non-issue).
 
Tell me about it. I'm hovering pretty close to just giving up and eating myself into a relatively early grave. There's too much flab, sag, and grey to overcome at this point.

what? stop that. beauty is not defined by society. most guys worth a damn know that. hell, I've more often been attracted to guys with a little extra flab than none at all. just saying. And if you want to make a change, it's never too late. It might be hard, but if it means enough to you, won't it be worth it?

Howdy, GayGAF! Figured I'd stop lurkin' and start werqin'.

well, hai there little lady. :D
 
what? stop that. beauty is not defined by society. most guys worth a damn know that. hell, I've more often been attracted to guys with a little extra flab than none at all. just saying. And if you want to make a change, it's never too late. It might be hard, but if it means enough to you, won't it be worth it?



well, hai there little lady. :D

Actually, yes it is. It's why chest hair is no longer a thing that went out with the 70's. Yes there are bears and the like today but those are mostly considered a fetish and not the norm anymore.

Same thing is true in the straight community. Bottle blonds used to be a thing. Now they're not.
 
Tell me about it. I'm hovering pretty close to just giving up and eating myself into a relatively early grave. There's too much flab, sag, and grey to overcome at this point.
Give. Me. A. Break.
 
Actually, yes it is. It's why chest hair is no longer a thing that went out with the 70's. Yes there are bears and the like today but those are mostly considered a fetish and not the norm anymore.

Same thing is true in the straight community. Bottle blonds used to be a thing. Now they're not.

well, no one told me lol. I got chest hair. Not much, but it's there. I don't think it looks bad. Either way, who cares. Society will tell us what is beautiful, but most of us have our own opinions. Just the way it is.

I'm 30 and I still get asked for ID. Happened last night when buying Far Cry 3 (I've only just gotten around to it). The older you get the nicer it is to be asked :)

That's weird. I haven't been asked for my ID in a long LONG time. Kind of makes me sad now that I think about it. Everyone overrides it without asking. :(

Speaking of which, a couple weeks ago, a co-worker of mine was guessing everyone's ages. He said 18, but I'm 24. Apparently I look young to some and older to others. : \

I know how you feel.

Nope, not you too. Don't do it. I swear to God I will cut you.
 
That's weird. I haven't been asked for my ID in a long LONG time. Kind of makes me sad now that I think about it. Everyone overrides it without asking. :(

Speaking of which, a couple weeks ago, a co-worker of mine was guessing everyone's ages. He said 18, but I'm 24. Apparently I look young to some and older to others. : \

Nope, not you too. Don't do it. I swear to God I will cut you.

Got carded today at The Stonewall Inn in NYC. So very happy about that. I'm 34.
 
Tell me about it. I'm hovering pretty close to just giving up and eating myself into a relatively early grave. There's too much flab, sag, and grey to overcome at this point.

I know that feel. My attempts at bulking up have lead to bigger upper body(slightly) but I've gained weight too in the not so good places.
 
Gay articles you mean? Not really, though a lot of people are talking about Jodie Foster's "coming out" at the Golden Globes. I saw a bunch of articles over on the Huffington Post about it, though I haven't read them.

Why I'm So Angry About Jodie Foster's Coming-Out Speech
Why Jodie Foster's Golden Globes Speech Matters
Why Jodie Foster's Golden Globes Speech Was So Infuriating

I also saw this article on movieline - Jodie Foster's Privacy Plea Ignores Hollywood Homophobia

Thanks chums!
 
I missed Jodi Foster's speech because no1currs about award shows.

Did she sloppily out herself? This is important.
 
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