dark_chris
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Its awesome. =)
What are your feelings about anal intercourse?
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The_Sheldon
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Just the tip?
MarkMclovin
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New GF is well into it. She's given me plenty of opportunities to FHUTA but I've not taken them yet. She also loves a finger up there when I'm going down on her. Whenever I do it, I swear, she sounds like a fucking dolphin.
Unless you've had a cock up your arse, you don't know what you're talking about! All that OMG anal sex is amazing, especially from women is just a load of bullshit. Women say it to please their guys, and guys are dumb enough to fall for it.
Shin Kojima
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My ex girlfriend wanted it more than I did though. To the point of begging and I'm not even into that kind of thing (the begging part).
Midnight Moon
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I love to receive it, only gave it once. Need to try again...
FalsettoVibe
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8/10
Jedeye Sniv
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Paging gay folks... Inanna sez you don't enjoy getting buttreamed
I'm guessing some people like it, some don't. You don't seem to. Doesn't mean that everyone is lying when they say they do though.
shanshan310
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It just feels like I need to poop.
That being said, smaller things up there don't feel too bad, so I could come round I suppose.
That being said, smaller things up there don't feel too bad, so I could come round I suppose.
Ok so every woman who's ever said as such to me was lying to please me, and you're here to tell me the truth. OK. Ok.
I tried getting with a girl who could orgasm from anal sex, but I didn't pass her standards. But she was also lying? I'm sorry Inanna, I understand that you might have had some experiences that have allowed you to form a personal opinion, but I'm not going to discount the others who feel otherwise. Maybe you just haven't had the right experience?
I know what I'm talking about, people can enjoy anal. What's your problem?
There's more than that though. There's the strain of the opening as something is being inserted, as opposed to the more natural fit in the other hole.
Omg that thread lol
shanshan310
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It feels quite a bit like that yes.
Vigilant Walrus
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It's not been possible. It hurts her too much. Even with one finger. Am I supposed to use something else to lubricate her?
Sand paper is not doing it!!
Sand paper is not doing it!!
It's like a smaller vagina that pushes back.
I did it in my early 20's some, then had a girl (in one of those late-night drunken conversations) say to me that men like anal only because it feeds into their fantasies of their penis actually causing a woman discomfort. I had no real argument back for that one.
I did it in my early 20's some, then had a girl (in one of those late-night drunken conversations) say to me that men like anal only because it feeds into their fantasies of their penis actually causing a woman discomfort. I had no real argument back for that one.
I'm sure not all women are like that, but my wife loves it. The key obviously was lots of lube and to go real slow at first. And my wife is definitely not faking it, she suggests it most of the time.
frankie_baby
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my fiancé loves it (possibly more than up her pussy) and prefers it without lube
it also helps when all her friends tell her how awesome it is....
:\ just sayin, Inanna. But just like my other friend, she will not be convinced. And I'm convinced she got experimental and it didn't work out well. I've heard it happen, and had it happen to me. But...it can work.
vv: what if they were into it, but were embarrassed about it? what if they weren't being honest with you?
:\ just sayin, Inanna. But just like my other friend, she will not be convinced. And I'm convinced she got experimental and it didn't work out well. I've heard it happen, and had it happen to me. But...it can work.
vv: what if they were into it, but were embarrassed about it? what if they weren't being honest with you?
Well, most women I know tell me they say they love it to their guys because it seems to really turn them on, and they do it because it makes them feel dirty which also turns them on the act itself isn't all that special and they themselves were indifferent to it.
Just saying, men who say women crave it or love it more than normal sex are just full of shit and don't know what they are talking about, imo.
Henchmen21
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Or maybe they lied to you about enjoying it because there's a stigma attached to it and they don't want to feel ashamed of themselves in front of their friends
Heard some comments about how satisfying it was to see a woman accepting to be "subdue" this way, I mean it's like your dick was VIP.
Women don't work like men do. We go into too much detail when it comes to talking about sex. At least my friends do, sometimes more so than I want to!
I'm no prude and I've done, it doesn't hurt just feels weird and I always wonder why would ANYONE want to do it. I am a bit selfish when it comes to sex, if I don't get anything out of it, I won't do it. Maybe you haven't read my post above but that is the reason they give for doing it, because it makes them feel naughty and dirty for doing something that is forbidden or considered wrong, a lot of people get off on that. The act itself isn't as amazing.
TOP SHOTTA
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I would love to date a woman who was really into it. I fetishize it, I have had anal sex, to completion, three times. But I have had a lot more attempts that end up in mission aborts, crying, no no no's or all of the above.
I so badly want it. So to answer the thread, my feelings about it are amorous.
Edit: let me get this out of the way:
I so badly want it. So to answer the thread, my feelings about it are amorous.
Edit: let me get this out of the way:
AngmarsKing701
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Two things;
A - You yourself said that they are turned on by other elements of it than the physical. Why are you discounting that? That's like saying that every guy/girl who says they like giving oral sex is lying. If it turns you on, who cares why?
B - There are people put there that CRAVE having their balls stomped on with stiletto heels. Are they lying? Thinking that you know the truth and everybody else is lying doesn't show awareness on your part, it shows a serious lack of understanding how individual sexuality works.
Women don't work like men do. We go into too much detail when it comes to talking about sex. At least my friends do, sometimes more so than I want to!
if sex is dancing, then anal is the tango, I'd say. And it isn't just the sensation of what's going on back there, it's what's going on up front as well. Toys, vibrators, clit stimulation, that's also a part of things. Attention, coordination, watching what the other is doing. He's being gentle but firm, she's being careful and managing her pleasure, because she knows how to get off on this. She's tugging and tapping and he's keeping it smooth and steady, and once he's noticing her getting there, that gives him permission to start going there. Once her body starts responding, that lets him give over to pleasure instead of self-control and they can both have a wonderful experience together. -- But both she and he know what they're doing.
That is definitely not the case for everyone. But if you can make it work...it's no lie.
edit: oral had a really bad rap when I was young, I couldn't imagine doing that to a girl at one point. So I guess I can understand where you're coming from. It really has to affect your arousal or it's hard to get.
Furious Styles
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If the girl is down for it, then I'm willing to give it to her.
boredofcanada
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Tried it once. Girl needed an enema. Never again
I did met a few girls who admittedly enjoy it, and they had no reason to lie about that since they had no interest in pleasing me.
As for guys, understandable that some men enjoy it, primarily for the physical/anatomical aspects of their body, nerve terminals and all that jazz. And it does not have anything to do with sexual orientation. Perfectly fine for a straight man feel pleasure from the practice as it is perfectly fine for a gay man not to enjoy it at all. It all boils down to individual preferences.
No big deal really.
...I don't believe this for a second.
Well it's time to get touchy.
Recieving anal is hard ,HARD, it takes time, your partner shouldn't be in a bull-like state, I've done it scarcely, like really, say 5 times, and only 2 of those times were good.
But they were the most OMFG I'M IN HEAVEN WHAT'S HAPPENING TO ME times in my sexual life.
However, I mostly prefer giving, sex is sex after all, it's great, and I don't think I'll want anal anytime soon, because if it goes wrong, it goes REALLY wrong. But I can advocate for those who say that a man has never had a real orgasm until something is up there.
Anal in women is weird to me BUT I think it's mostly a psychological pleasure.
That's true. I have, once, it only takes time.
Recieving anal is hard ,HARD, it takes time, your partner shouldn't be in a bull-like state, I've done it scarcely, like really, say 5 times, and only 2 of those times were good.
But they were the most OMFG I'M IN HEAVEN WHAT'S HAPPENING TO ME times in my sexual life.
However, I mostly prefer giving, sex is sex after all, it's great, and I don't think I'll want anal anytime soon, because if it goes wrong, it goes REALLY wrong. But I can advocate for those who say that a man has never had a real orgasm until something is up there.
Anal in women is weird to me BUT I think it's mostly a psychological pleasure.
That seems to be a part of it. Or at least that you get an even more direct response to your movements.
NintendoRev
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As a gay man, I'm A-OKAY with it! =D
The Abominable Snowman
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I feel bad for bottoms.
they go through the day not eating for the possibility of landing a date whom they can have sex with.
They go through the day dizzy, weak, and disoriented for the hopes of getting it in somewhere after dark. Thats no way to live.
they go through the day not eating for the possibility of landing a date whom they can have sex with.
They go through the day dizzy, weak, and disoriented for the hopes of getting it in somewhere after dark. Thats no way to live.
TOP SHOTTA
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I realize this is probably a joke, or maybe a sheltered way to look at it, but it's pretty insensitive and I have seen people get punted from this site over less. But I can't imagine this is how someone who receives anal sex goes about their daily lives.
I have been warming my girlfriend up to the idea, occasionally insering a finger in he ass during sex or the shower. I also like to perform "that kind" of oral on her, which she really likes
It's only a matter of time for us & anal sex but I do tell her not to worry and that I know exactly where I am going and what the consequences are. That's not to say I want to have my face shat on or get poop on my dick - but at the same time - if I did get it on my dick, I kind of don't give a fuck. To be honest I don't know how anyone who has anal sex a lot avoids this. Seriously who fucking cares? Wipe it off. She has cum in her ass now. Even steven as far as I see it.
ComputerMKII
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It seems funny.
Sometimes i feel bad for my boyfriend because i don't like it (receiving it that is) he says it doesn't bother him but i still let him go at it on special occasions.
It's not that i find it painful, i just don't particularly enjoy it.
But if there were no bottoms, how would you pass the time?
Besides, that's not how it works. Although, when I first started having sex I often didn't eat for hours before a date for this reason. lol
But then you start to realize that your body's a lot more resilient than that.
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