I bet no one would claim the girl had to be a lesbian!
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I bet no one would claim the girl had to be a lesbian!
Tornado Condor
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Not true. There are some douchebags who have less personality than a rock yet they get laid because they have nice bodies.
No desperation. You don't explicitly have to do anything. I'm saying it's not a strong move to hinge your game to a beautiful lady on a compliment for the simple reason that she can and will get that from other people.
Sgt.Pepper
Banned
You mean not very attractive people dating knock-outs? Happens all the time.
That's not true man, you just aren't attracted to their amazing personalities. Personality and charm are the only thing that matter. You can be ugly and overweight as fuck and get any girl you want easy.
freenudemacusers
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they may be 'douchebags', but they still have charisma. But I'm sure you fully assessed their personality while they called the cab for the girls they're fucking.
Vermillion
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You know the thread would be brutal.
Devolution
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brianjones
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just go out there and be yourself!
Sgt.Pepper
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They probably have social skills too.
I'm an honest and shallow enough girl to say I wouldn't sleep with a guy who was ugly and overweight.
Just find a good middle ground
freenudemacusers
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oh man this really is the bb thread ... just with less gifs and bannable words.
gafbros staph
gafbros staph
Devolution
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If yourself is negative and a bore to be around then don't.
Even with that you need to have the guts to express interest in someone. I know that's my problem, and I'm betting it's the same for many of the guys on that forum.
Big surprise
Props to the dude if this is all true.
Sadly I have no difficulty believing this.
Complimenting on looks isn't sayng "you damn fine gurl" or "I wouldn't mind sticking it in ya" all the time, let alone the first time you meet her. I'm no expert (tell me if I'm mistaken), but I imagine it's more along the lines of commenting on something she did with her hair, a cute original accessory she's wearing that day, whatever.
Like, I went out with this girl who would mostly dress in black, and had had the same haircut since the day I met her (we were classmates). The day she dressed in colors and cut her hair I told her it suited her. I said it kinda awkwardly and bluntly out of the blue because I was/am shy, but lo and behold, it worked all the same. I mean we went out and the whole thing crashed and burned 2 months later, but still.
With that said, I always sigh when people say "be interesting, have a personality". Not because they're wrong. But because they're right, and I don't know how to go about it. I don't know where to start, I don't know how to be less apathic than I am, I don't know how to be more passionate, more sensitive. I wish I were, and I'm sure I can improve to some degree, but how? What should I do? How should I think and look at things/people?
Sadly I have no difficulty believing this.
Complimenting on looks isn't sayng "you damn fine gurl" or "I wouldn't mind sticking it in ya" all the time, let alone the first time you meet her. I'm no expert (tell me if I'm mistaken), but I imagine it's more along the lines of commenting on something she did with her hair, a cute original accessory she's wearing that day, whatever.
Like, I went out with this girl who would mostly dress in black, and had had the same haircut since the day I met her (we were classmates). The day she dressed in colors and cut her hair I told her it suited her. I said it kinda awkwardly and bluntly out of the blue because I was/am shy, but lo and behold, it worked all the same. I mean we went out and the whole thing crashed and burned 2 months later, but still.
With that said, I always sigh when people say "be interesting, have a personality". Not because they're wrong. But because they're right, and I don't know how to go about it. I don't know where to start, I don't know how to be less apathic than I am, I don't know how to be more passionate, more sensitive. I wish I were, and I'm sure I can improve to some degree, but how? What should I do? How should I think and look at things/people?
Oh man that thread is hilarious, so much salt. Not surprised that so many guys over there are that ignorant when it comes to women.
lmao
lmao
brianjones
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what makes you so interesting ?
You guys remind me of poor rednecks voting republican who think they will strike gold and get to the republican tax bracket one day & continue to vote for something that will not help them.
If you believe that very attractive women are not shallow than what fucking planet are you on. Not all are but a good portion are & know how to work their looks to their benefit.
Maybe you live in some magical land. I never had bad luck with woman but they can be very shallow creatures. Actually men are also very shallow so it is a two way street do not delude yourselves & crucify me for my opinion. I am entitled to it as you are to yours.
Fact is I had friends that in the past they were with certain men for their money which I find disgusting. Or with someone because of their vehicle they owned. I would say you can't bring a vehicle to the bedroom and they had no response. People like this are disgusting don't act like they do not exist.
My gf used to be friends with a girl who dated a nightclub owner for his money & he was 20 years older than her. I know a woman right now that's with a guy just because he pays for everything. How are you people oblivious to these types when it is all around.
Usually they cheat on their significant other with someone they are attracted to.
From what I see a little bit of money goes a long way.
I love my woman because she loves me & stays with me despite me having nothing, that means more to me than falling into money than every chick that knows it likes you all of a sudden. It's not about looks to me but who truly has my back which when you hit rock bottom you see its not many people at all....
If you believe that very attractive women are not shallow than what fucking planet are you on. Not all are but a good portion are & know how to work their looks to their benefit.
Maybe you live in some magical land. I never had bad luck with woman but they can be very shallow creatures. Actually men are also very shallow so it is a two way street do not delude yourselves & crucify me for my opinion. I am entitled to it as you are to yours.
Fact is I had friends that in the past they were with certain men for their money which I find disgusting. Or with someone because of their vehicle they owned. I would say you can't bring a vehicle to the bedroom and they had no response. People like this are disgusting don't act like they do not exist.
My gf used to be friends with a girl who dated a nightclub owner for his money & he was 20 years older than her. I know a woman right now that's with a guy just because he pays for everything. How are you people oblivious to these types when it is all around.
Usually they cheat on their significant other with someone they are attracted to.
From what I see a little bit of money goes a long way.
I love my woman because she loves me & stays with me despite me having nothing, that means more to me than falling into money than every chick that knows it likes you all of a sudden. It's not about looks to me but who truly has my back which when you hit rock bottom you see its not many people at all....
NobleGundam
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Be yourself. And maybe other cool kids like you will meet up along the way in life. Heck. Maybe the right man or woman could potentially be your best friend and/or partner? Don't see anything wrong about it.
The young dude is happy. Why wouldn't anyone want to hang and get to know a kid like that who is confident, social, and happy?
The young dude is happy. Why wouldn't anyone want to hang and get to know a kid like that who is confident, social, and happy?
Devolution
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Fuck if I know but i'm not the one crying about how being myself isn't working.
Sgt.Pepper
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Shouldn't be much of a problem unless you fear rejection. Rejection only hurts when it is someone you really like, not someone you only want to bang.
triplestation
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I wouldn't date the female equivalent of that if she had the greatest personality in the world
Why would a female allow that to touch them? I know Real nice fat dudes with great personalities but they don't get any
Why would a female allow that to touch them? I know Real nice fat dudes with great personalities but they don't get any
Props to the dude if this is all true.
Sadly I have no difficulty believing this.
Complimenting on looks isn't sayng "you damn fine gurl" or "I wouldn't mind sticking it in ya" all the time, let alone the first time you meet her. I'm no expert (tell me if I'm mistaken), but I imagine it's more along the lines of commenting on something she did with her hair, a cute original accessory she's wearing that day, whatever.
Like, I went out with this girl who would mostly dress in black, and had had the same haircut since the day I met her (we were classmates). The day she dressed in colors and cut her hair I told her it suited her. I said it kinda awkwardly and bluntly because I was/am shy, but lo and behold, it worked all the same. I mean we went out and the whole thing crashed and burned 2 months later, but still.
With that said, I always sigh when people say "be interesting, have a personality". Not because they're wrong. But because they're right, and I don't know how to go about it. I don't know where to start, I don't know how to be less apathic than I am, I don't know how to be more passionate, more sensitive. I wish I were, and I'm sure I can improve to some degree, but how? What should I do? How should I think and look at things/people?
Think about things people would say to you that would make you feel good and wanted.
Or, walk up to random girls and ask them what they want to hear.
freenudemacusers
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I imagine the girls they are sleeping with have similar personalities, but I'm probably kidding myself to think THAT would matter to anyone.
Discotheque
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those girls get boring after a while. but really if you're just looking for sex then it's fine.
but i think once you get a lot of that out of your system it would be nice to settle with a girl you can kick it with AND who is attractive (to you)
Vermillion
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That makes three in a week. Huh.
triplestation
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Man that big old eggplant of his is hypnotizing those poor girls
Sgt.Pepper
Banned
Some po the nicest people I ever met are/were very good looking. The good looking people are shallow doesn't really fly.
Coincidentally, some of the worst people I've ever met were below average in looks.
Coincidentally, some of the worst people I've ever met were below average in looks.
Don't think anybody said it was his entire 'game'.
And you'd be surprised what a nice compliment can mean coming from the right person.
Truth is, the vast majority of the time, whether you're the right person will largely depend on their initial first-glance impression of you. After that, if you can just hold their attention and be at least a minimum amount of charming, you'll tend to do alright. You can put your best face forward, but specifically trying to 'act' interesting and spontaneous will probably come off worse than somebody who is just being themselves, whatever that may be.
freenudemacusers
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well you can have a shit personality and loads of charisma, which will take you a certain distance. 'douchebags at clubs', for instance.
Lamenting your faults is the worst personality trait to have.
Stop sitting around, using your tears as lube for your tiny ween and go have fun!
Could be a regional thing the east coast in the us is really a place that people in general are out for themselves. In 2003 I went to E3 and the people were so nice in LA I felt like I was a god or something. It was so bizarre.
But about the shallow thing
In 04 I had a brand new sports car at red lights almost daily women would ask for my number. Driving a plain old regular car that never once happened.
But about the shallow thing
In 04 I had a brand new sports car at red lights almost daily women would ask for my number. Driving a plain old regular car that never once happened.
Are you watching me or something? Wtf
I'm glad their sisters didn't follow in their footsteps.
Salvor.Hardin
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This has to be some elaborate 4chan joke. I mean I'm all for rooting for the little guy, but the pictures just don't look very realistic at all. I imagine it's some guy using his younger brother to troll the internet.
freenudemacusers
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'over here too?' Exactly how many salt mines has this guy produced on the internet thus far?!?
While it appears legit, it doesn't really matter. It's the thought exercise that counts.
Sgt.Pepper
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im havin a giggle over here
Smiles and Cries
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pfff simple Mind Control powers
That's a really ignorant generalization.
But everyone is telling me here that personality matters more than anything!
People everywhere can be shallow
ChubbyHuggs
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Guys, it's all about personality. I'm fat and I get woman all the time.
That salt is delicious.
It might have been a condensed version but the person I responded did indeed say that he had to go up and tell the girl she's beautiful as if that was all there was to it, and I responded in kind.
Sure it can work. Works a lot better with supporting material and a train of conversation beyond her looks.
No acting. I specifically said be yourself. You can distill my advice to "be your natural self and let what's unique and positive about yourself come through."
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