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[Jasup]

haha, whenever they comment i stop for a bit, then i forget and do it again

You'll learn. But please understand that the more pressure you apply doesn't mean that the kiss is then more intensive. Sometimes it's quite the reverse.

However if you want to use teeth, try nibbling her lover lip or softly bite her tongue in a playful fashion or something. Or just go straight for the neck.

 

[Thatonemoor]

Surely almost all of us have kissed, right?

Not me.

 

[barrbarr]

I really enjoy kissing, I find that I am a kissing chameleon. If the person I'm kissing goes for a slobbery kiss, I'll probably do the same. If the person I'm kissing goes for a more light approach I usually reciprocate. I don't know if anyone else is like that. Also someone said groping makes kissing better, and I totally concur

 

[Certinty]

Feels amazing, in fact thinking of it now it's probably my favourite thing to do with a sexual partner.

 

[AlexBasch]

I'm cringing and laughing at the same time.

Thanks, NeoGAF.

 

[Marda]

your mom's friend was frenching you at 6 years old?

this story isnt adding up

Yeah, but I'm just trying to stay on topic, molestation is for another thread.

 

[BigEvilTurtle]

Yeah, but I'm just trying to stay on topic, molestation is for another thread.

I don't.. think there's a thread on GAF for molestation stories.

 

[Lufiaddict]

 

[NinjaBoiX]

I really enjoy kissing, I find that I am a kissing chameleon. If the person I'm kissing goes for a slobbery kiss, I'll probably do the same. If the person I'm kissing goes for a more light approach I usually reciprocate. I don't know if anyone else is like that. Also someone said groping makes kissing better, and I totally concur

"Kissing Chameleon", lol.

Sometimes you just gotta take control man, dictate the kiss. But other times its really hot to just go with it.

It all depends on context, like so much in life.

 

[Deleted member 8095]

I like to kiss. There's nothing worse than a bad kisser. Had to dump a girl once because when we'd make out her mouth was going like a god damn goldfish. It was horrible, I tried to slow it down but that mouth was uncontrollable. I was the first person she ever kissed, probably crushed her but by the 3rd date when she kept doing it I had to call it off. That and the fact that I had to sleep over due to an ice storm and she got in bed wearing, I shit you not, matching full length pajama pant/shirt with stars and moons all over them.

 

[Funky Papa]

That GIF reminds me that making up while wearing glasses sucks ass.

The girl has glasses too? Fuck that, I'm going in blind.

 

[DigitalRicket]

I'm not one for making out. My wife really enjoys it but me, not so much. Not a fan of slobbery kisses either.

 

[AlexBasch]

I like to kiss. There's nothing worse than a bad kisser. Had to dump a girl once because when we'd make out her mouth was going like a god damn goldfish.

I know the feeling, except she was a piranha.

I thought she was gonna rip out my lips. Was fucking awful.

 

[CloudWolf]

I really enjoy kissing, I find that I am a kissing chameleon. If the person I'm kissing goes for a slobbery kiss, I'll probably do the same. If the person I'm kissing goes for a more light approach I usually reciprocate. I don't know if anyone else is like that. Also someone said groping makes kissing better, and I totally concur

Damn you, now I have Karma Chameleon stuck in my head

 

[Jasup]

Not me.

when the time comes don't force it, enjoy each other's intimacy.

 

[Jzero]

It feels like a bag of sand

What the fuck have you been kissing? haha

Shit, I've been really depressed lately and reading through threads like this has given me a massive boost of confidence. I'd like to thank gaf for being cheaper and more effective than a bottle of prescribed pills.

Gaf, the place where there is always someone more pathetic than you.

 

[-Mikey-]

Shit, I've been really depressed lately and reading through threads like this has given me a massive boost of confidence. I'd like to thank gaf for being cheaper and more effective than a bottle of prescribed pills.

 

[SquiddyCracker]

When did I say I never kissed anyone?

Well, the thread title was a tiny bit misleading

Shit, I've been really depressed lately and reading through threads like this has given me a massive boost of confidence. I'd like to thank gaf for being cheaper and more effective than a bottle of prescribed pills.

#ether

 

[ZombieSupaStar]

do you ever kiss with your eyes open, i did once, it was weird lol.

 

[NuffDREW4two]

I hadn't kissed a girl nor held a girl's hand until this year (at 41).

In hindsight, did it meet or exceed expectations, or was it no big deal?

I imagine a lot of peoples' answer would also hinge on who they're kissing (i.e. someone you're in love with vs casual encounter).

 

[Sats]

Someone never being kissed ever honestly baffles me. It's so easy

 

[Sats]

Well, the thread title was a tiny bit misleading



#ether

No. I asked if someone has never been kissed and what it was like

 

[aly]

Surely almost all of us have kissed, right?

Nope. It disgusts me. The thought and the way it looks. So yeah never been kissed on the lips.

 

[Jzero]

Someone never being kissed ever honestly baffles me. It's so easy

Yup, just go up to a random and steal a kiss from them.

 

[Sats]

Yup, just go up to a random and steal a kiss from them.

Or just ask. Seriously it is easy as shit

 

[Mechanized]

I have to say, making out is wonderful, tongue kissing, biting lips, kissing necks, nibbling on ear lobes. It's all fantastic.

If you haven't done it, you're missing out. I wish I could say you weren't. I'm no don juan or nothing, I had my first real kiss past the age of 25.. So I'll just say, if you guys get the opportunity, do not pass it up because you're nervous that you won't do it right. The first girl I made out with thought it was cute that I didn't know what I was doing and she taught me how to kiss right. Just say you're nervous and it's been a while and she'll do the rest. If you've never been on a date or put yourself out there, just do it. Tell friends or family you want to go on a date and they'll find you someone. It may not be someone perfect, but we all have to start somewhere.

When you get older and realize all the wasted years and time spent worrying was for nothing, it's eye opening. And sad.

There's no worse feeling than the realization that you are the one who denied yourself true happiness, when all you had to do was try.

 

[CloudWolf]

when the time comes don't force it, enjoy each other's intimacy.

Also, don't try to force it. It has to come natural, those are the best.

 

[FluxWaveZ]

Or just ask. Seriously it is easy as shit

Going up to a random person and asking for a kiss, huh. That doesn't sound creepy at all.

 

[Sats]

Going up to a random person and asking for a kiss, huh. That doesn't sound creepy at all.

Why are you worried about sounding creepy to a stranger who you'll never see again

 

[Jasup]

Nope. It disgusts me. The thought and the way it looks. So yeah never been kissed on the lips.

Oh, well then it's understanable

 

[FluxWaveZ]

Why are you worried about sounding creepy to a stranger who you'll never see again

Well, I would have my reasons, but good point.

 

[CloudWolf]

Why are you worried about sounding creepy to a stranger who you'll never see again

It's probably slightly more difficult for a guy to just straight up ask for a kiss and succeed than a girl.

 

[eLGee]

 

[freenudemacusers]

Nope. It disgusts me. The thought and the way it looks. So yeah never been kissed on the lips.

what about fucking

 

[princemarth23]

Why are you worried about sounding creepy to a stranger who you'll never see again

I feel like they'd call the cops for sexual harassment or something, heh. Shows how much faith I have in myself.

 

[Jasup]

Going up to a random person and asking for a kiss, huh. That doesn't sound creepy at all.

I've done it plenty of times, it's easy and fun. The act itself isn't creepy, but it can be depending of how you do it.

 

[Pau]

Someone never being kissed ever honestly baffles me. It's so easy

Not for everyone.

 

[aly]

what about fucking

Still a virgin too. For the same reason.

 

[SquiddyCracker]

Why are you worried about sounding creepy to a stranger who you'll never see again

Protip: This only applies if you are doing it in a place where no one knows you. Don't follow Sats advice in your small 10k hometown.

 

[akira28]

Kissing is awesome. It's like...forming Voltron, except with your mouth.

 

[BigEvilTurtle]

Still a virgin too. For the same reason.

Do you ever become sexually aroused or are you actually claiming asexuality? Genuinely curious.

 

[Rentahamster]

Someone never being kissed ever honestly baffles me. It's so easy

Social anxiety is a problem for some people. Even harder for those who aren't particularly good-looking.

 

[FluxWaveZ]

Still a virgin too. For the same reason.

You sure that's exclusively the reason?

I feel that the disgust I tell myself that I feel for the concept of the act is but a byproduct of my virginity and not the cause of it.

 

[Stabby McSter]

My first kiss was great. My second kiss with the same girl was uh, sloppaaayyy.

 

[freenudemacusers]

Still a virgin too. For the same reason.

well if you don't masturbate to girls/dudes you see around you I guess that's consistent perspective.

You sure that's exclusively the reason?

I feel that the disgust I tell myself that I feel for the concept of the act is but a byproduct of my virginity and not the cause of it.

even when I was a gross and untouchable virgin the physical concept of boning was very appealing; it was the openness with another person that was scary/offputting etc

 

[SummitAve]

If you ever do kiss, don't use too much tongue.

 

[aly]

Do you ever become sexually aroused or are you actually claiming asexuality? Genuinely curious.

I'm not claiming asexuality. There have been people I've found attractive, but never wanted to have sex with.

You sure that's exclusively the reason?

I feel that the disgust I tell myself that I feel for the concept of the act is but a byproduct of my virginity and not the cause of it.

I don't know the reason. Just that sex and kissing disgust me. But I've never been a fan of physical contact so who knows.

 

[Sats]

I keep forgetting to look at normal people's point of views.

My group of friends are all sexually open and we kiss all the time.

 

[storafötter]

Not crazy about kisses as I prefer other types of physical contact. I remember when I first had it I was so blown away about how weird and pointless it felt. I kiss more as a gesture of love and lust than enjoying it. The less kisses the better.

 

[FluxWaveZ]

even when I was a gross and untouchable virgin the physical concept of boning was very appealing; it was the openness with another person that was scary/offputting etc

I suppose I'm a gross, untouchable virgin, but envisioning the act itself has always been repulsive.

I don't know the reason. Just that sex and kissing disgust me. But I've never been a fan of physical contact so who knows.

I can relate. I dislike being touched, for example.