Haha I'm sorry I brought up the crazy notion of having a male friends. I don't have a problem like you guys are insinuating. Shh now and go back to your normal thread.
Haha I'm sorry I brought up the crazy notion of having a male friends. I don't have a problem like you guys are insinuating. Shh now and go back to your normal thread.
So what do you guys think is the best way to go up to a random girl that is cute and start a conversion with her?
Haha I'm sorry I brought up the crazy notion of having a male friends. I don't have a problem like you guys are insinuating. Shh now and go back to your normal thread.
Forcing yourself onto a woman isn't sexual harassment if you're not a pussy? What the hell does that mean?
Everyone just wants to help. It's just that your situation is really confusing, Lee.Haha I'm sorry I brought up the crazy notion of having a male friends. I don't have a problem like you guys are insinuating. Shh now and go back to your normal thread.
Pretty much.I also want to swim without getting wet
Pretty much.
I think the way Leeness lashes out like she's some sort of victim when people talk to her about this says something, but I can't judge. The way she's interacted with us for years has this cycle to it. We're now at the sarcastic "fine guys, you think I'm fucked up, let's move on" part.
Neither of us are looking for a relationship or to date each other but I'm kinda new to everything so just curious where I'm going wrong if so or if there's something more to my situation.Sober,
She sounds like a narcissist.
I say that because I know a girl like that regarding guys. Easy for sex, but a relationship? Oh boy.
Neither of us are looking for a relationship or to date each other but I'm kinda new to everything so just curious where I'm going wrong if so or if there's something more to my situation.
Haha I'm sorry I brought up the crazy notion of having a male friends. I don't have a problem like you guys are insinuating. Shh now and go back to your normal thread.
Wouldn't it be nice to have a pocket friend you can pull out any time you want a cuddle, chat, and nothing more? However, you can potentially hurt this individual if you treat him this way.
Well I really don't care much if she sees/spends time with other men, it's frankly none of my business (I know I keep repeating it but it's the honest truth and I'm not just trying to type it again and again to convince myself otherwise).Wrong about what? And yes, there is more to it. She is doing the physical with other guys for fun, but she comes to you for the emotional support. Along with other things, but they depend on what you want out of her.
You aren't getting a FWB thing with her. You either are on the possible serious thing level or full friendzoned.
I've made it pretty clear to her what I want from her, so on paper the arrangement sounds good, in practice it works out well until I (specifically) try to stumble into 'benefits' territory in which case I wouldn't care if I struck out a few times but the first time we were kinda drunk and I guess she was a bit curious but I have the feeling she's kinda decided I'm a known quantity and where she goes with that I haven't the faintest clue.Along with other things, but they depend on what you want out of her.
It was great, because I didn't have to worry about being different or acting weird or caring about a relationship with her.
No need to fake it, or got hot/cold like that. DO have things to do in your life, and DO have a hard time texting back because you have responsibilities and things you have to do. If you like a girl, show interest and keep it measured until the next date. Do the date thing and go from there. There's no hard and fast rules, except one, never forget about yourself.
What it all boils down to relating to finding good people to spend your time with, be it a girlfriend or just friends, has to do with how you respect and care about yourself. Be the best you you can be and all doors will open more easily.
Just take a chance and strike up a conversation. You never know what might happen. This is exactly how my current girl and I got started. We didn't know each other at all and were in an airport halfway round the world, when we met. She says she struck up the conversation first, I remember it differently.![]()
See, I like this. Only thing I don't like is how I seem to constantly get cold feet despite me knowing this is exactly what I'm supposed to do, realizing that approaching people in this way is actually really easy, and having approached people in this way before and it usually turning out well.
I still can't seem to get the balls to go through with approaching some random girl, despite all of my experience having done so already in the past.
How do I get past this, GAF?
Ok I see it's just hard since I'm in a different city now and I don't have a car. Should I text her anything along the lines of you still down for Saturday?
I've made it pretty clear to her what I want from her, so on paper the arrangement sounds good, in practice it works out well until I (specifically) try to stumble into 'benefits' territory in which case I wouldn't care if I struck out a few times but the first time we were kinda drunk and I guess she was a bit curious but I have the feeling she's kinda decided I'm a known quantity and where she goes with that I haven't the faintest clue.
What kind of rapport do you guys have? How far away are you? How exactly did you set up the date and how long ago?
It was basically like this.
-Met her threw a friend at the bus stop
-Got her number
-she asked to follow me on Social Networks Twitter/Instagram
-We text for a few days.
-She writes in Twitter she wants to go out to dinner
-I ask her out to dinner Saturday
-she says sounds like a plan.
-She. Sends me Goodmorning texts and all that.
All this happened in the span of a week.
Edit: she lives like a 10 min walk away lol.
If she's in regular contact, don't bother asking about whether things are still on. They are. Don't act indecisive about it. If you desperately need some kind of confirmation, hit her up to hammer out some details or something the day before.It was basically like this.
-Met her threw a friend at the bus stop
-Got her number
-she asked to follow me on Social Networks Twitter/Instagram
-We text for a few days.
-She writes in Twitter she wants to go out to dinner
-I ask her out to dinner Saturday
-she says sounds like a plan.
-She. Sends me Goodmorning texts and all that.
All this happened in the span of a week.
Edit: she lives like a 10 min walk away lol.
Dude, 10 minutes? Whatever, that's nothing. I don't know, reply kindly to her texts? Go out and have fun. Have no crazy expectations except a nice dinner, that's the best way to stay relaxed about it. Talk, of course, and see how you guys click, or not click.
If she's in regular contact, don't bother asking about whether things are still on. They are. Don't act indecisive about it. If you desperately need some kind of confirmation, hit her up to hammer out some details or something the day before.
It's all good, skipper. Don't overthink it.
It was basically like this.
-Met her threw a friend at the bus stop
-Got her number
-she asked to follow me on Social Networks Twitter/Instagram
-We text for a few days.
-She writes in Twitter she wants to go out to dinner
-I ask her out to dinner Saturday
-she says sounds like a plan.
-She. Sends me Goodmorning texts and all that.
All this happened in the span of a week.
Edit: she lives like a 10 min walk away lol.
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I've got several friends who are happily married to people that they share almost no interests with. I suspect other folks here could relate similar examples. So that's not necessarily something that's going to ruin it.hi GAF. I would like some advice on my current SO situation.
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i'm sorry that was so long. I don't have a TL;DR version. Maybe I just needed to get my feelings out somewhere. If you did get to the end any advice is appreciated. <3
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Slightly creepy, if you ask me. But low risk, so why not?Left my business card on a girl's car I saw park near me in our parking lot at work this morning. Our company is pretty big (5000 people). Tell me what you think of the note I wrote on the back:
Dear White Chevy,
My owner caught a glimpse of your owner this morning and wanted to come say hello but she was too fast. Do you think if I left this note she'd text/email him sometime? He'd love to hear from her. If not, no big deal.
Sincerely,
Blue Audi
Slightly creepy, if you ask me. But low risk, so why not?
What I thought before I left it. I'll provide an update if I get a response. My card had my email & cell number.
Just wanna get this out there, there is no worse feeling than thinking it's the right time to talk to a girl and then not doing it. It just ruins your entire day. That alone should be a good motivator for a lot of guys.
fuck
Did she see/notice you too? Will she know who it was that left it for her?
Sound like one of those Hollywood movie meets that almost never happens. But, I laughed pretty good at it, it was cute. Impossible to say what she'd think.Left my business card on a girl's car I saw park near me in our parking lot at work this morning. Our company is pretty big (5000 people). Tell me what you think of the note I wrote on the back:
Dear White Chevy,
My owner caught a glimpse of your owner this morning and wanted to come say hello but she was too fast. Do you think if I left this note she'd text/email him sometime? He'd love to hear from her. If not, no big deal.
Sincerely,
Blue Audi
Alright Gaf what ye think about this, A girl ive gone on a date with that went really well IMO were talking two days ago and i told her i owed her a drink. She told me that she knew that and wanted me to get her a drink some night. so yesterday i asked when she wanted me to buy her that drink and never heard back. Now i am not taking this too serious so i don't feel like im overreacting yet i feel like i have no idea what to do. Should i hit her up again today or wait for her to get my message and hit me back? A little background we went out a week ago tomorrow.
Alright Gaf what ye think about this, A girl ive gone on a date with that went really well IMO were talking two days ago and i told her i owed her a drink. She told me that she knew that and wanted me to get her a drink some night. so yesterday i asked when she wanted me to buy her that drink and never heard back. Now i am not taking this too serious so i don't feel like im overreacting yet i feel like i have no idea what to do. Should i hit her up again today or wait for her to get my message and hit me back? A little background we went out a week ago tomorrow.
You might not know her, but what are the odds you and she know someone in common in the company? I'm not criticizing you here, I'm just idly wondering.Left my business card on a girl's car I saw park near me in our parking lot at work this morning. Our company is pretty big (5000 people).
You might not know her, but what are the odds you and she know someone in common in the company? I'm not criticizing you here, I'm just idly wondering.
I dumped a friend forever last week for this shit. Fuck it.Have you ever met a girl who thought that being a mean to you would get you to like her?
You mean outside of elementary school?Have you ever met a girl who thought that being a mean to you would get you to like her?