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The dudes from Simplepickup motorboat girls for breast cancer awareness.

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I haven't said anything opinionated about the fact that they fondled breasts, just that they fondled breasts.

I'm talking about why incentivized donation is bullshit and isn't "raising money."

Incentivized donations are still donations. BCRF get money that they wouldn't have gotten otherwise. It's a win-win situation. The women consented and didn't seem to be pressured. They clearly signed the release forms for the video.

There is literally no loser here, except for me, because I'm wasting time arguing against a brick wall with absolute definitions for everything.
 
There can be more then one incentive for doing something.
Of course there can. The problem is that incentivized donation is intended to provide the illusion of fundraising. "For every ___ breast cancer awareness will receive ___" is the model of a walk or run that actually raises money that doesn't currently exist in the company. The walk or run is necessary to the donation.

In this case, the money already exists and is in fact earmarked for donation before the incentivization even happens. There is no necessity for these guys to fondle breasts, it's the payment they get in return for donation. If they didn't make the video, they would actually have had more money to donate because there would have been no overhead.
 
Don't really see how they're sexist if the women agreed to do it, assuming that was the case from what I saw in the video.

Guessing they get paid by YT based on views, so that's where the extra money for getting views/likes would come into play?
 
I feel like you're fighting the right battle, but on the wrong battlefield.

I didn't think this video was sexualizing or objectifying anything. Sure, motorboating is a sexual act, but this was more goofy and awkward than sexy. The silly boat sound, girls cracking up, the high fives, their boyfriends being there, it just seemed like everyone was having fun.

I'm no expert on motorboating, but it almost seemed like some of the ladies were enjoying it?

Like Dicer said, this could have very well been 'Motorboating girls. Get her number' and it would be another day at the office and no one would bat an eye. But add motorboating girls with raising money and suddenly its an offence.

I don't think I can continue this conversation with you because:
a. Your points are straying away from relevancy; and
b. My responses to you would make less sense the more you stray the discussion

I'll just stop here. I just think not all women are oppressed and not all men are lusty hounds. Sometimes its just dumb fun without any deep rooted societal issue involved
 
Script? lol

Not every man treats women like "fuck objects" and here is a shocker...some women actually enjoy being treated as such. The problem is things are painted a very broad stroke, and that people all don't feel the same way.
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I'm not acusing either you or even every man. The broad stroke being painted is in the statistics where 1 in 4 women will get sexually harassed, and 1 in 6 will be subject to rape or attempted rape. This is the broad stroke that covers our society today. Sexual objectification is at the root of this issue.

gumby_trucker said:
Here's where we have a slight difference of opinion. I agree there is definitely a sleazy side to this campaign, but I also think the deal with "cancer awareness" isn't about awareness at all, it's about changing people's attitudes. Everybody knows what cancer is, and breast cancer is one of the more familiar types. That's not the problem. The problem is there are still individuals living in the 21st century who feel uncomfortable approaching the topic and making it part of their day to day lives.

My issue here is that this campaign does not accomplish anything in regards to changing people's attitudes, and I don't see how dudes watching this will now make the topic of breast cancer a part of their day to day lives. It relies on the good ol' "sex sells" to get youtube hits, capitalizing on the now commercialized breast cancer awareness month. Watch Pink Ribbons, Inc. to see how actual victims view this trend.

gumby_trucker said:
I imagine the main reason for this is fear. Getting told by a doctor you should start doing annual checkups for cancer means you have cancer on your mind a lot more often than if you don't do those checkups. But it also means the chance of early detection and a successful recovery are enormously higher. Same goes for getting the right treatment, even it when seems like the scarier option at the time. The Angelina Jolie thread mentioned here is a perfect example of that.

This is a great message, that is lost in anything the video in the OP tries to do. There should be lightness and humor to get people confortable enough to talk about these issues, but not at the expense of more objectification of women.

Like Dicer said, this could have very well been 'Motorboating girls. Get her number' and it would be another day at the office and no one would bat an eye. But add motorboating girls with raising money and suddenly its an offence.

I just want to highlight this point, which Fiction has pointed out. The creators of the video know full well they can't just come up to women and motorboat their breasts. Add breast cancer "awareness" to the equation (because hey... it's breast cancer awareness month), and the women will more willingly be coerced into having their breasts fundled in public... for a good cause of course.
 
There were some tits that had no business being moterboated in that video. At least they didn't discriminates.


These men are heroes.
 
Of course there can. The problem is that incentivized donation is intended to provide the illusion of fundraising. "For every ___ breast cancer awareness will receive ___" is the model of a walk or run that actually raises money that doesn't currently exist in the company. The walk or run is necessary to the donation.

In this case, the money already exists and is in fact earmarked for donation before the incentivization even happens. There is no necessity for these guys to fondle breasts, it's the payment they get in return for donation. If they didn't make the video, they would actually have had more money to donate because there would have been no overhead.
I'm not saying that part of their reasoning for making the video was to get their face in some boobs, it obviously was, along with more attention to their channel. But you're acting as if the charity is somehow bad because they were getting something out of it too. Which makes zero sense. Just because they wanted to have fun and get Youtube views doesn't mean that they don't also want to raise awareness to cancer.

And considering they're donating even more money dependent on how many views the video gets, I doubt they are hurting on money they could have been donating. Especially considering that the overhead was essentially driving to a beach with a camera and mic they already had.
 
I'm not saying that part of their reasoning for making the video was to get their face in some boobs, it obviously was, along with more attention to their channel. But you're acting as if the charity is somehow bad because they were getting something out of it too. Which makes zero sense.

And considering they're donating even more money dependent on how many views the video gets, I doubt they are hurting on money they could have been donating. Especially considering that the overhead was essentially driving to a beach with a camera and mic they already had.

I haven't said or implied anything about the BCRF. Strangely enough, as is common with incentivized donation, the charity isn't ever really the focus.
 
"But you're acting as if the charity is somehow bad because they're getting something out of it too." ??
Yeah, I'm talking about the Youtubers. You're acting as if they can't want to motorboat some boobs, get Youtube views for their channel AND care about breast cancer and giving money to cancer awareness. I literally haven't said a thing about BCRF.
 
Yeah, I'm talking about the Youtubers. You're acting as if they can't want to motorboat some boobs, get Youtube views for their channel AND care about breast cancer and giving money to cancer awareness. I literally haven't said a thing about BCRF.
What you meant was the act of charity, which is fine, because the act of charity isn't bad and I never implied it was. The method of charity is, however, and here is the most important point: incentivized donation is by its very nature coercive. This is the first thing I'll say and the last thing I'll say on the matter, but when you mix a coercive charitable strategy with something sexual you cannot be surprised or angered when people are offended.
 
What you meant was the act of charity, which is fine, because the act of charity isn't bad and I never implied it was. The method of charity is, however, and here is the most important point: incentivized donation is by its very nature coercive. This is the first thing I'll say and the last thing I'll say on the matter, but when you mix a coercive charitable strategy with something sexual you cannot be surprised or angered when people are offended.
When the people involved in the strategy are all consenting adults I certainly can be surprised. At that point it's just a bunch of people being offended that people approach sexual actions in a different manner then they do.
 
When the people involved in the strategy are all consenting adults I certainly can be surprised. At that point it's just a bunch of people being offended that people approach sexual actions in a different manner then they do.

I don't think that is how I would describe the reactions in this thread at all...

Don't really see how they're sexist if the women agreed to do it, assuming that was the case from what I saw in the video.

Just because the women in the video consented to it doesn't make the video not about sexual objectification.
 
When the people involved in the strategy are all consenting adults I certainly can be surprised. At that point it's just a bunch of people being offended that people approach sexual actions in a different manner then they do.

I'm not sure if the word coercive is tripping you up, but coercion usually ends in consent.
 
I just want to highlight this point, which Fiction has pointed out. The creators of the video know full well they can't just come up to women and motorboat their breasts. Add breast cancer "awareness" to the equation (because hey... it's breast cancer awareness month), and the women will more willingly be coerced into having their breasts fundled in public... for a good cause of course.
Except they can? Is this your first exposure to Simple Pickup? Has to be otherwise you would know how wrong you are.

I don't mean go up to random women and just start motorboating them. They have chatted up women and done ridiculous shit with them in public. All consensual. Some women are comfortable getting freaky in public. They've made out with girls, been flashed by girls, interviewed completely naked guys, and yes, motorboated girls (skip to 0:26 in the linked video. The girl holds out her breasts. A girl actually entertaining the idea of getting motorboated without any social service involved? RIDICULOUS RIGHT?) NSFW of course.

In the same video, they go out of their way to point out how large an old guy's penis is. Guess they are objectifying men too.

Young attractive guys going up to girls, sweet talking them and making out with them in public isn't something new. The reverse is also true (girls chatting up guys) but is less common. Some girls are into casual dating. Motorboating isn't too out of the ordinary in such scenarios.
 
So, what would happen if these same people were asked the same request without the charity aspect involved? I'm pretty sure that regardless of their answer, there will still be those that say that the people who refused should've lightened up anyway.
 
I'm not sure if the word coercive is tripping you up, but coercion usually ends in consent.
Any coercive tactics are completely assumed by people in this thread. Just because you have a camera and ask someone if you can do something doesn't mean anyone is forcing you to do anything. There's no reason that any of those women couldn't have just said no, in fact I'd bet money that there were plenty of women they asked that did just that.
 
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That fucking avatar got me excited. Then disappointed.

Cringe video.
 
Except they can? Is this your first exposure to Simple Pickup? Has to be otherwise you would know how wrong you are.

They would certainly get a lot less women agreeing to it.

I don't mean go up to random women and just start motorboating them. They have chatted up women and done ridiculous shit with them in public. All consensual. Some women are comfortable getting freaky in public. They've made out with girls, been flashed by girls, interviewed completely naked guys, and yes, motorboated girls (skip to 0:26 in the linked video. The girl holds out her breasts. A girl actually entertaining the idea of getting motorboated without any social service involved? RIDICULOUS RIGHT?) NSFW of course.

Young attractive guys going up to girls, sweet talking them and making out with them in public isn't something new. The reverse is also true (girls chatting up guys) but is less common. Some girls are into casual dating. Motorboating isn't too out of the ordinary in such scenarios.

I don't think anyone is suggesting that women are innocent flowers that don't understand or like sex. Go back and read fiction's posts on that.
 
Any coercive tactics are completely assumed by people in this thread. Just because you have a camera and ask someone if you can do something doesn't mean anyone is forcing you to do anything. There's no reason that any of those women couldn't have just said no, in fact I'd bet money that there were plenty of women they asked that did just that.
Incentivized donation is implicitly coercive, as I've explained. That's why it works. That's why large corporations do it instead of donating sums of money just for the good will.
 
Any coercive tactics are completely assumed by people in this thread. Just because you have a camera and ask someone if you can do something doesn't mean anyone is forcing you to do anything. There's no reason that any of those women couldn't have just said no, in fact I'd bet money that there were plenty of women they asked that did just that.
The implication is that they can't because they're women. It's pretty much the basis of all threads like these.
 
Of course there can. The problem is that incentivized donation is intended to provide the illusion of fundraising. "For every ___ breast cancer awareness will receive ___" is the model of a walk or run that actually raises money that doesn't currently exist in the company. The walk or run is necessary to the donation.

In this case, the money already exists and is in fact earmarked for donation before the incentivization even happens. There is no necessity for these guys to fondle breasts, it's the payment they get in return for donation. If they didn't make the video, they would actually have had more money to donate because there would have been no overhead.

They get their money from doing videos like this. How exactly do you think they just have donation money to give without doing videos?
 
The implication is that they can't because they're women. It's pretty much the basis of all threads like these.

The implication is not that at all. I'm sick of people in these kind of threads turning this shit around and saying "oh, you must be disagreeing because YOU'RE sexist DUN DUN DUN". We can talk about sexual objectification without offending either sex, I'm certain.
 
They get their money from doing videos like this. How exactly do you think they just have donation money to give without doing videos?
That's circular logic. They've made videos already and thus have the money already. This particular video is not necessary for the funding strategy.
 
There can be more then one incentive for doing something.

This.

Who cares if its mutually beneficial when the end result is they promote themselves AND give to a good cause. In all previous videos they were promoting themselves WITHOUT giving to a good cause.

Its crazy some people here believe the latter is better.
 
They would certainly get a lot less women agreeing to it.
Okay?
I choose to believe that every woman in this video was cool with them doing it, without any pressure involved, unless I see evidence to the contrary. I choose to believe that they approached 500 women, and only about 100 or so let them do it.

That's circular logic. They've made videos already and thus have the money already. This particular video is not necessary for the funding strategy.
I don't know the context of the discussion but you are right.
This particular video is only for the additional $100/100,000 views that they are going to donate in the future.
The money they donated ($2080) is money they already had. Either through video views or through project GO (A paid training thing on the side where they go 'into the wild' with insecure guys are train them on how to pick up women. I know this will open another can of worms but I needed to mention this as a source of their income)

EDIT: Apparently the real life experience was a one time thing. Project GO is now a series of special podcasts and videos with a $30 a month subscription fee
 
Incentivized donation is implicitly coercive, as I've explained. That's why it works. That's why large corporations do it instead of donating sums of money just for the good will.
Large companies do it because they see an opportunity to promote their product along with donating the money and making their company look good. Donating money without telling anyone doesn't give them any credit. No one is forced to do anything. No one is forced to like Starbucks on Facebook. They might feel some small sense of pride for doing it because they feel like they did something noble, but no one is forced to do anything.
 
Of course there can. The problem is that incentivized donation is intended to provide the illusion of fundraising. "For every ___ breast cancer awareness will receive ___" is the model of a walk or run that actually raises money that doesn't currently exist in the company. The walk or run is necessary to the donation.

In this case, the money already exists and is in fact earmarked for donation before the incentivization even happens. There is no necessity for these guys to fondle breasts, it's the payment they get in return for donation. If they didn't make the video, they would actually have had more money to donate because there would have been no overhead.

I don't think that is how I would describe the reactions in this thread at all...


Just because the women in the video consented to it doesn't make the video not about sexual objectification.


It's only sexually objectifying because people keep harbinging on how sexually objectified the women must feel, and how degraded they are. I wonder what the consenting women in the video would feel about this thread of people constantly telling them how objectified and degraded they were, you don't think some of them might take offense to that? I personally find this kind of condescending attitude to be more gross than people raising awareness by making a silly light heated video.
 
Large companies do it because they see an opportunity to promote their product along with donating the money and making their company look good. Donating money without telling anyone doesn't give them any credit. No one is forced to do anything. No one is forced to like Starbucks on Facebook. They might feel some small sense of pride for doing it because they feel like they did something noble, but no one is forced to do anything.
Coercion isn't force. This isn't going to go anywhere with two separate definitions of coercion.
 
How the fuck do people have a problem with this.


Jesus smh GAF.

Not one of those women looked uncomfortable. It's a solid, fun campaign. This is a lot more entertaining than going up to people with a pamphlet and educating them on breast cancer and asking for money.
 
It's only sexually objectifying because people keep harbinging on how sexually objectified the women must feel, and how degraded they are. I wonder what the consenting women in the video would feel about this thread of people constantly telling them how objectified and degraded they were, you don't think some of them might take offense to that? I personally find this kind of condescending attitude to be more gross than people raising awareness by making a silly light heated video.

You've said it better than I ever could.
 
That's circular logic. They've made videos already and thus have the money already. This particular video is not necessary for the funding strategy.

Not necessary?

So if the choice was down to

A) Give all your money away to charity and forfeit your career in the process

or

B) Donate your money to charity, while also continue being able to support yourself and make videos that could also potentially raise more awareness for the future

You'd go with option A? Sorry but donating money, while simultaneously raising awareness seems like the better option versus just donating money and people being none the wiser.
 
Not necessary?

So if the choice was down to

A) Give all your money away to charity and forfeit your career in the process

or

B) Donate your money to charity, while also continue being able to support yourself and make videos that could also potentially raise more awareness for the future

You'd go with option A? Sorry but donating money, while simultaneously raising awareness seems like the better option versus just donating money and people being none the wiser.
Those aren't the only options in the slightest.
 
I can see why some people would get upset over this.. that being said I can't exactly blame anyone in the video. Should I blame the women for their free choice of what to with their bodies? I don't think so. Should I blame the guys for presenting this choice that ends up helping sick people? I don't think so, even though they clearly enjoy the process.

And people who are upset, consider this: Would you be upset if the news was: "Dudes motorboat girls." If not, why does doing some good in the side make the matter worse?
 
It's only sexually objectifying because people keep harbinging on how sexually objectified the women must feel, and how degraded they are. I wonder what the consenting women in the video would feel about this thread of people constantly telling them how objectified and degraded they were, you don't think some of them might take offense to that? I personally find this kind of condescending attitude to be more gross than people raising awareness by making a silly light heated video.

It's funny how people who are supposedly arguing for the rights of these women are downplaying their consent, as if women are incapable of thinking about stuff and consenting. "No, they were coerced! Their consent is meaningless!"

Thanks for thinking for women, white knights, what would they do without you?!?! /s
 
It's funny how people who are supposedly arguing for the rights of these women are downplaying their consent, as if women are incapable of thinking about stuff and consenting. "No, they were coerced! Their consent is meaningless!"

Thanks for thinking for women, white knights, what would they do without you?!?! /s
I'm the one talking about coercion and I'm not white knighting, I'm explaining charitable funding strategies and why people would find this offensive, but please continue.
 
It's funny how people who are supposedly arguing for the rights of these women are downplaying their consent, as if women are incapable of thinking about stuff and consenting. "No, they were coerced! Their consent is meaningless!"

Thanks for thinking for women, white knights, what would they do without you?!?! /s

The person who brought up consent (Fiction) is a woman (oh, and there's also Stet). And that's not even what she was saying.
 
How the fuck do people have a problem with this.


Jesus smh GAF.

Not one of those women looked uncomfortable. It's a solid, fun campaign. This is a lot more entertaining than going up to people with a pamphlet and educating them on breast cancer and asking for money.

+1
 
Coercion isn't force. This isn't going to go anywhere with two separate definitions of coercion.
From Webster
co·erced;co·erc·ing

1 : to restrain or dominate by force
2 : to compel to an act or choice
3 : to achieve by force or threat 

synonyms See Synonym Discussion at force
From Wiki
Coercion /koʊˈɜrʃən/ is the practice of forcing another party to act in an involuntary manner (whether through action or inaction) by use of intimidation or threats or some other form of pressure or force, and describes a set of various different similar types of forceful actions that violate the free will of an individual to induce a desired response.
From Google
co·er·civekōˈərsiv/adjective1.relating to or using force or threats."coercive measures"
 
I have no idea how they were forced.

If some random person came to you on the street and asked to cup your crotch to raise awareness for testicular cancer, would you be scared of saying no?

You either don't give a fuck and do it or you just say nah and go about your day. I can't fathom someone would be scared to say no, especially in a public place.
 
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From Google

It's obvious I'm talking about definition two though. Why do people do this? You're insisting on your own interpretation when there's absolutely nothing to suggest that I'm even remotely talking about that. Coercion can be force but in this case it's obviously not.
 
It's obvious I'm talking about definition two though. Why do people do this? You're insisting on your own interpretation when there's absolutely nothing to suggest that I'm even remotely talking about that.
What about definition two is any different?
 
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Really man? Guilting someone into charity is basic knowledge. You don't need to get dictionary specifics to tell you that.

I have no idea how they were forced.

If some random person came to you on the street and asked to cup your crotch to raise awareness for testicular cancer, would you be scared of saying no?

You either don't give a fuck and do it or you just say nah and go about your day. I can't fathom someone would be scared to say no, especially in a public place.

I doubt people would call you a prude or harass you if you didn't let them, or threaten to put your prudish reaction on the internet (or imply it by holding up the camera). Even though the guys in this video probably wouldn't do that (I hope) there are many people that would and the fear of public shaming and harassment is very real for a lot of people. Basically, learn to empathise yo.
 
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