Circumstance certainly plays a part but maybe she is just all about the thrill of the chase. Hurts to think about but maybe I was just always a side thing?
I typed out a long post but it got a bit personal. All I can say is I know she is a total game player... and loves an ego boost. Not exactly someone I want to date... which is probably why I inadvertently played hard to get. I liked her a lot and enjoyed her company but would deflect relationship/ love talk. Thing is we would literally hang out constantly was at her house a LOT... to the point where I needed space and would decline her invites some days (for good reasons which she was cool with... I never left her hanging with texts and stuff - but she was really into me and I think because I seemed to be outside her grasp at times).
I cant quite explain why but I went from nonchalant to kind of falling for her (probably all the time we spent and getting close). I guess I made my feelings known expecting her to reciprocate... and then suddenly she was in the driving seat and seemed to enjoy fucking with me.
I honestly have to say I don't get why but... now that she has what she wanted I feel like she has no interest.
Circumstance certainly plays a part but maybe she is just all about the thrill of the chase (not that im even that amazing of a catch lol). Hurts to think about but maybe I was just always a side thing?
I don't mean to be too personal, and if I am feel free to not respond, but did things get physical with her? As a girl myself, I can say that from what I know of most women, that they can change their minds at any spontaneous instant.
When you say she was really into you, how do you know this? What did she say? What was her body language like?
She may be afraid of commitment of any kind, and the fact that you let her know you liked her may have made her back up a bit.
I suggest letting things cool down a bit and see if she texts you or communicates with you again. Put the cards in her hands and let them fall as they may for now.
You can't change how you feel, and unfortunately you're gonna have to ride this one out until the feelings are gone, or you are just too angry to go on with her. From what I've read concerning your situation, my thoughts from a female perspective is that she wants something she isn't getting. Now I don't know what that is because I don't know the two of you, but if I were to push you physically and say I wanted things and then back away, I would either be wanting something from you I'm not getting and wondering if I ever will, or I am afraid I am ruining what we have of our friendship by putting the moves on you.
In the same situation, I also could have been burned before by someone and am very anxious and cautious about putting my heart into someone again. (From her perspective, generalizing).
Yeah I relate with you. I'm a home body too, and that's what makes meeting people tough. Anime, movie, video game nights at home are my favorite kind of nights.
Hi guys. I'm fairly new to posting on GAF but have been visiting for quite a while.
I am a currently single female and am having the worst luck finding the right guy for me. I just want someone who plays a lot of video games, someone who is just as passionate about them as I am. I'd like a drinking buddy, so we can chill at night. I want to have fun with this person, and most importantly, I want to be myself around this person. I want to be able to talk endlessly about Hyrule's history (for instance) and have him join in and add spice to the conversation.
I'm really low maintenance, and I'm not stressing over whether or not this guy exists, but in your opinion, how do I find serious gamer guys who can bring something to a relationship? I've tried online dating stuff and they'll open with video game conversation and then it'll taper off.. Almost like they've run out of things to say.
Have any of you here had any luck finding your other half, and if so, how and where did it happen? I've been single now for two years and I'm lonely and sexually frustrated!
Yeah I relate with you. I'm a home body too, and that's what makes meeting people tough. Anime, movie, video game nights at home are my favorite kind of nights.
I might shoot you a pm tomorrow morning if that's ok with the information. Really appreciate the help but I want to be careful what I put out there and desperately need sleep. This is getting a bit deep
OK, yes, if your hobbies involve staying at home and not meeting new people, then you're not going to meet new people.
How about meet ups that aren't exactly geared towards dating but just meeting new people like going to play board games? That crowd tends to be older and the people a bit more outgoing since it's something that requires interaction.Hi guys. I'm fairly new to posting on GAF but have been visiting for quite a while.
I am a currently single female and am having the worst luck finding the right guy for me. I just want someone who plays a lot of video games, someone who is just as passionate about them as I am. I'd like a drinking buddy, so we can chill at night. I want to have fun with this person, and most importantly, I want to be myself around this person. I want to be able to talk endlessly about Hyrule's history (for instance) and have him join in and add spice to the conversation.
I'm really low maintenance, and I'm not stressing over whether or not this guy exists, but in your opinion, how do I find serious gamer guys who can bring something to a relationship? I've tried online dating stuff and they'll open with video game conversation and then it'll taper off.. Almost like they've run out of things to say.
Have any of you here had any luck finding your other half, and if so, how and where did it happen? I've been single now for two years and I'm lonely and sexually frustrated!
Can't say for sure, but my gut reaction is nope.
Plenty of nerdy girls in NYC. I don't know why you'd think otherwise. There's meet ups for board games, video games, and all sorts of nerdy interests.
What constitutes sex? I'd probably be fine without intercourse but I'd definitely want want to go down on her or finger her, as well as receive oral.
.... And have come to the realization that I give no fucks haha. I'm happy on my own. I don't plan on ever changing that.
I tried 3 separate meet ups before and always ended with others in the group not being open or just not doing much at the meet up at all. I know there's plenty of people with my interest but im busy with work at the moment to make time to try again but I might check it out again soon.
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Or move down to the desert.I hope creep-GAF isn't being overly annoying tonight xD Keep it civil. Nice to see someone around my own age in here though
Leeness: Not to beat a dead horse or anything but come oooon, come out of your bloody shell and live in the same world as the rest of us!
This. I would think guys would be totally into talking about our inner nerds? I can relate with what you posted very well.
Are you into girls...?
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just kidding.
I hope creep-GAF isn't being overly annoying tonight xD Keep it civil. Nice to see someone around my own age in here though
Leeness: Not to beat a dead horse or anything but come oooon, come out of your bloody shell and live in the same world as the rest of us!
I got a good job, putting down money on a condo soon, gonna go travelling (on my own ) next year. We could be awesome nerd-buddies
I'm around your age, man.
I'm quite happy in my world, thanks
Don't need some stinky man dragging me down
