Damn laughable. Downsize and always live within your means.
Grow up humble and don't expect the best of the best at all times.
Me and the wife are living this as we've both recently in the last year had major promotions and aren't changing our lifestyle. Paying off debt aggressively and having more disposable income for fixes, vacations, and general rainy day type things.
Everyone isn't going to be the same but even if living in CA or NYC means 100k is more like 80k, that's still a modest living so long as you don't need the highrise condo in Manhattan or need the BMW LT XXX package.
Yup.
Who knows, everyone says SF is ultra expensive so maybe $100k gets you nowhere there. But for the vast majority of places, $100k cdn or US or euro etc.... should be enough to lead to a decent living.
Now if someone is forcing themselves to blow their budget on dumb shit, or life or death have to live in SF then ok that's different.
The issue with the entire income/cost of living analysis is nobody ever looks at someone's spending habits or if they live in a more modest place or farther out outskirts of town. There's this weird mentality where people go extreme and bee-line cost of living to SF or Manhattan.
Hey perk up people, with covid everyone is working from home more. I know people at work who moved to a other city an hour+ away from the office. Bigger place or cheaper or both. You can always following them. Nobody says you have to live in the core where's it's expensive.
Like your mention of BMW, which seems every young fucknut wants, these kinds of cars and brands were historically for middle aged career people who already made bank and want to blow it. Exec types wearing a suit to work driving Mercedes, Jags etc....
But if you 26 year olds want to blow you money and have crazy monthly payments killing your mortgage qualifications go ahead. First car I bought was a Civic. And that was 20 years ago when real estate was way cheaper. And I still dumbed down to a Civic so I would have enounh money for other shit.
Everyone knows real estate has been going up for 10 years. It's not an overnight thing. So for those of you (and you know who you are) who blew your money so you could never buy even a shitty condo, and now it's worse because prices have zoomed, you got yourself to blame. You had time to budget and save 8 years ago.
I dont expect anyone making bad money to ever afford buying a house. Even in the cheapest part of town I don't think someone making $12/hr can ever buy a place, but for anyone making $100,000+ (the equivalent of making $50/hr), if you are living broke, you got budget issues or simply, you are living in a part of town that is over your head.