It all depends on what kind of environment you are looking for.
I will tell you that bellingham is in the freakin boonies. What kind of work are you in? You probably won't find work in that area and would have one hellish commute.
Mercer island is the best commute location. It is central to all of the major areas with potential for work. It is quite expensive to live there though.
Bellevue is an upscale yuppie kind of city it's sort of a mini seattle without any nightlife.
Kirkland is a small yuppie town with waterfront property a very low crime rate and good school district.
Redmond is a little more rural but it is home to Microsoft so lots of MS people live out there.
Issaquah is a smaller rural town that is growing rapidly and looks to expand very quickly with MS building a second campus out there.
Seattle of course is seattle. There are many suburbs in seattle like Queen anne, Capitol Hill, Magnolia, Ballard, etc... I live in magnolia which is about a 10 minute commute into downtown seattle. Very nice area housing prices are quite high in the area.
Magnolia may have some homes that fit your description but most of the homes are older in the area and may be smaller than what you want.
Housing in the areas I mentioned are quite high and are rising every day. It is definately a sellers market right now.
I don't know if you have kids nor do I know what sort of work you are in.
The areas that you will want to stay in are no more east than north bend, no more west than west seattle, no more north than lynnwood, and no more south than tukwilla. Tacoma is not a bad option for down south. Bremerton is a nice area but employment is a bit weak out there.
I prefer what is referred to as the east side which consists of Bellevue, Kirkland, Redmond, Issaquah and Mercer island. Housing can be somewhat steep on the east side. You may want to discuss your options with a real estate agent. Many people are voicing their opinion of Bellingham but it is pretty far out there with not much around it. It is about 90 miles away from Seattle.
Anyways there some stuff for you.
Here's a pretty good map of the area so you can get an idea of the cities I mention.
http://www.mapquest.com/maps/map.ad...=home&address=&city=seattle&state=wa&zipcode=
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