Well, if your interested in Asian's only the best in NYC is without a doubt the man I spoke about before, David Bond Chan. He's fucking awesome. However, to limit yourself and say you only want to learn from Asians may be getting you into the mcdojo mentality you wish to stay away from. Ask Chan himself what he thinks about most Kung Fu masters. Hell, this guy is a lineage holder in Ba Gua, Hsing I, and Tai Chi, and he's told me he'd rather send his kids to Judo or Karate then the Kung Fu teachers around now.
I agree with him. I spent 5 years in Kung Fu practicing my ass off as a teen, and it didn't do shit for me when I fought in competative, contact sports. Well, it did give me better balance. However, it wasn't Kung Fu's fault. It was the teachers I had in silk pajama's masquerading as great fighters and hiding behind my false assumption that their being Chinese menat they were great fighters. Believe me, they cash in on that shit. Chan is the only Kung Fu man I've met in NYC who's a certified badass. I've heard good things about others, but when I went to them they sucked the proverbial wang. I'm not going to name names, but I've been to a ton of Asian schools in NYC and they did not have practical fighting skill. There are some I have not been to that have good reps though, so I won't say Chan's the only one. Just the only one I can recommend.
I honestly recommend you open your mind, because it really isn't about styles but the way you train and the training enviroment itself. Find one that is positive, one that suits you. Make sure it has decent training partners who genuinely want to improve. A good coach is nice too. If you get all that it doesn't matter wtf you study, you'll be a good fighter.
NLB, I honestly don't know how many times Renzo won the pan ams, a bunch though. I've only met him once, a long time ago. I mostly go to morning/afternoon classes and he teaches in the evening. The thing is, the quality of player there is so fucking high it doesn't matter. I've said it before to guys there, "even if your the worst here, your probably the best in most other places". Very nice people there too. Beautiful facilities.
Gantz, if you don't feel like the heavily competative setting is for you, I could recommend two more schools. Dan Gonzalez is a black belt in Jiu Jitsu under Carlos Machado, and I studied privately with him for a few months. He's a former goverment agent, and is also good at striking, knives, ecd. Great, great guy and an amazing teacher. His sweeps and positonal theory saved my ass more then once when sparring guys who wanted to hurt. I'm not sure if he still teaches privately though.
If Aikido is your bag, check out New York Aikikai. I studied Aikido briefly there. Aikido isn't my bag, baby. But, its one of the better Aikido schools I went to.
Finally, you might want to check out Sambo at the NYKK gym and under Steve. He has a relatively small class, but he holds nothing back and I enjoyed the class I took there.
All these men I recommend are people I've actually trained with and not just heard about. There ar eother good ones I know of, but I won't recommend without setting foot and training there.
Thanks Boogie.