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Becoming homeless

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Rogan

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It's my biggest fear and it's actually starting to come out: I will be homeless next tuesday.

I got layed off in November and can't pay regular bills (or food) anymore. I saw this coming but there was nothing I can do.

My family is pretty much completely gone and I don't have friends that could help. So here we are.

I made this short thread to say goodbye and thank everyone for the cool discussions etc. Hopefully I can return soon but I don't know how I'm going to survive outside.
 
GHG

GHG

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I find it hard to believe you don't have any friends or distant family that would let you sleep on their sofa/floor for a couple of weeks to give you the opportunity to try and get things in order.

Swallow your pride, ask absolutely everyone you know and accept any help offered.
 
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Airbus Jr

Airbus Jr

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Hey man dont you have a family or something? What do you mean by completely gone? No relatives around?

My deepest sympathy for you its very heartbreaking for me to hear this story
 
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Amory

Amory

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Do your research on what support services are available in your area.

Talk to your landlord and ask if you can come up with a deferred rent payment plan.

Do you have a car? Start driving for delivery apps while looking for a new job in your field
 
Airbus Jr

Airbus Jr

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Rogan said:
Nope. My dad died when I was younger and I never knew my mother. I grew up without family or relatives.
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What...how about your fathers family? Your coworkers or neighborhood ? Nobody willing to help?
 
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Rogan

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Airbus Jr said:
What...how about your fathers family? Your coworkers or neighborhood ? Nobody willing to help?
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Everyone is gone / dead. I don't have family I can ask for help.

Most of my previous coworkers also got layed off plus I don't know them apart from being coworkers.

I'm sure there are people willing to help but nobody is going to pay my rent. I've had some help here and there no place to stay.
 
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LisaMariaMartin

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Where are you from? Aren't there any protections for tenants in times of pandemic?

Look at this

www.consumerfinance.gov

Help for renters | Consumer Financial Protection Bureau

If you’re having trouble making rent payments, you’re not alone. Find out what you can do to get help with housing expenses and avoid eviction.
www.consumerfinance.gov www.consumerfinance.gov

COVID-19 RESOURCES | NHLP

The National Housing Law Project has put together the following resources for attorneys, advocates, policymakers, and others for assistance during the COVID-19 national public health crisis. We will continue to update this with NHLP resources and other resources as they become available. Please...
www.nhlp.org www.nhlp.org

Don't let some them kick you out without a fight
 
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Airbus Jr

Airbus Jr

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Rogan said:
Everyone is gone / dead. I don't have family I can ask for help.

Most of my previous coworkers also got layed off plus I don't know them apart from being coworkers.

I'm sure there are people willing to help but nobody is going to pay my rent. I've had some help here and there no place to stay.
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Im very sorry to hear that i wish i can hug you right now

You can always try to find some easy jobs

Try being a truck driver, delivery jobs or something like that

Stay safe out there
 
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nush

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You should head right on back over to ResetEra and ask for some PayPals.

Those suckers fall for this shit all the time. I'm sure you would have seen it there.
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You were right, look at the post history dates.
 
Airbus Jr

Airbus Jr

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nush said:
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You were right, look at the post history dates.
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Nevertheless his backstory really makes me sad

What kind of mother abandon her own son..very cruel man...this guy comes from a broken family...its time we show some support and love he needed...
 
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GeekyDad

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Wow. Very sorry. Hopefully, you can research a shelter or situation where you can stay temporarily before you're completely out on the street so to speak. Don't give up. Take any job you can get right now, and live as modestly as possible for now. Something will work out.
 
Ionian

Ionian

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If that post was made here on Wednesday, then what's the issue? He said his father died when he was younger?

Hardly internet detective work.
 
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TheContact

TheContact

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Rogan said:
Everyone is gone / dead. I don't have family I can ask for help.

Most of my previous coworkers also got layed off plus I don't know them apart from being coworkers.

I'm sure there are people willing to help but nobody is going to pay my rent. I've had some help here and there no place to stay.
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apply for unemployment. Your landlord can’t evict you until September (if you live in the US)
 
888

888

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I guess Gaf will see more and more of these posts now. This is a old gaf/reset common post.

Sorry for the loss of your Dad since Wednesday.

I would suggest a job at Dicks. Maybe they offer store discounts, they have some nice tents.
 
EverydayBeast

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Op is using this thread for charity but you gotta respect his situation, 1st I’d slow down on the negative self talk 2nd get a job and if weather isn’t a factor for you you could live outside obviously in a car.
 
rykomatsu

rykomatsu

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Rogan said:
I got layed off in November and can't pay regular bills (or food) anymore. I saw this coming but there was nothing I can do.
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"Nothing I can do" != "Nothing I was willing to do"

Instead of asking for handouts in a roundabout manner with vagaries with a sob story, why don't you tell us where you're from and what you did actually try to do since November?

If you've been to the bottom of the barrel, then maybe help might be in order, but I'm willing to bet you haven't done the hard work with drive and tenacity to try to get out of your rut.

Prove me wrong.
 
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