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Being drunk is not enjoyable anymore

mortal

Banned
I find it's a fine line between riding a good buzz and feeling sloshed, especially when you're enjoying yourself.

Tbh I mostly hate the after-effects of drinking alcohol. Dehydration, headaches, shitty sleep, bad for protein synthesis if you're trying to make gains, lower testosterone levels and weight gain from chronic drinking, etc. Too many downsides imo.

I still enjoy a drink on occasion, but my drinking is considerably more moderated than it was in my early 20s.
 
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GymWolf

Member
Maybe i'm a shit drinker or i have an high tolerance or i just lack experience but i can count on my 2 hands the times that being drunk was actually fun...(ok maybe 2 pair of hands) and it usually involve dancing and being around other drunk people...
 
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GymWolf

Member
I don’t like the feel of being drunk. It’s not fun.

From personal experience being drunk and being in a semi buzzed state is a false/fake kind of good as you think you are more relaxed etc. But when you sober up your anxiety hits you harder.
so you feel worse. I can see how it is addictive as you feel good at the time. But you will also get worse sobering up and you will always need more alcohol to put you in that state. It’s better to treat the cause then to use getting drunk etc as the temporary cure.

Drinking to feel good takes more from you than it gives.

The other side of that is being really drunk where you are just stumbling can’t think correctly. What the hell. You wouldn’t want to suddenly wake up like that in normal life but you kind of willingly put yourself in that state.

To me it not longer feels good or makes sense to do so.

Also it boils down to drinking culture a lot of countries have let’s get shit faced drinking mentality which Is bad. Others have a I will drink to have a good time but the drinking is a by product not the be all and end all.

Yeah I witnessed the way they drink in the U.K. and the way they drink in France and I wish I was taught the french way.
Do they just sniff the wine and eat an absurd amount of gorgonzola to get food poisoning?
 

Schattenjäger

Gabriel Knight
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brian0057

Banned
I got stupidly drunk once in college and just said "fuck this" and now only drink when in social events and even then it's when I can't order literally anything else (even water), and a maximum of 2.
 
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Have you not been in one of these threads before? There are people on this forum who think alcohol is as dangerous as heroin. It's fucking weird.
Probably but the booze has muddled my braincells, yeah it's amusing to me people think a few beers is akin to shooting up some brown
 

Lunarorbit

Member
I "stopped" drinking over 10 years ago. I used to party frequently but my wife is an alcoholic so I stopped, hoping it would make it less likely that she would drink.

It did not. But she is in rehab as we speak and wants to be there. My friends on the other hand... I'm 40 and so are they and I don't know how they do it. Actually I do cause they are a mess. One friends stomach is so distended from his liver failing that it looks like he's pregnant. It's disgusting and so heartbreaking at the same time.
 
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John Marston

GAF's very own treasure goblin
OP you sound like you just had too much too quickly.
Either quit or drink in moderation, I don't know you but it doesn't seem like you have a problem.

You have a problem when drinking is all you think about to numb your face & you can't just have 2 or 3 beers, you want a thousand.

And throwing out your dishes on your neighbor's roof at 4 AM because why wash them you're just gonna buy new ones.
 

Ionian

Member
I worked for a major Wine Shop here (back in the day).

You were expected to drink. Used to have to work at massive wine-tasting events in major posh hotels. Serving rich people that spat into a bucket or cup after.

I brought a bin-bag of not finished bottles home as I worked the booths for the main company. Vendors tended to ply the product and leave.

Had great fun with friends after but Christ the hangovers as you're mixing all drinks.

It's all a load of wank but getting pissed on the job was fun.

Until the morning. Absolute hell as I'd have to help restock and there were truck loads coming from Calais daily to restock.

I've many stories from that place, many celebrities but you were encouraged to drink with them and still have to work.

Best was prob some judge (very affluent area) asked me what some wine was like (very normal question, you note tones etc.). Had a tough day so smiled and said it was very "whiney". He hit the roof, nearly got fired over that.

It's all a load of wank tbh, saying that as someone who had to sell them. This goes well with ... this goes well with ...

The beers were amazing though but not cheap at all.

Still have my qualified wine-taster cert (hahaha) somewhere in a box. Learned then just drink what you want, the rest is pure wank.
 
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Woggleman

Member
The funny thing is I didn't have a hangover the next day. In the moment though I felt terrible. Everything just felt off and that I couldn't walk without losing my balance. I tried to eat something and could barely even put the fork in my mouth. It just felt awful.
 
I'd rather get full-blown drunk these days than drink one or two drinks because even drinking one drink (no lie) makes me wake up in the middle of the night, wired. Which means I'm half-worthless the next day. If I'm getting a hangover regardless, might as well go balls-to-the-wall.

Anybody else get the wake-up-in-the-middle-of-the-night-with-a-racing-heart thing from drinking?
 
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Chronicle

Member
Last night I had some people over and we had some drinks. I had a few too many without even realizing it and I couldn't stand it. I felt dazed and disoriented and I couldn't wait to sober up. I just kept guzzling water trying to bring me back to sobriety. I don't understand how there are people who want to be like this all the time.
You've probably had a good life with a silver spoon up your ass! Your sure sound like it 'sober guy'. No one wants sober guy around at a party drinking their water. Some people have had their lives destroyed. It's a disease. A disease of the soul. Empathy.
 

Woggleman

Member
You've probably had a good life with a silver spoon up your ass! Your sure sound like it 'sober guy'. No one wants sober guy around at a party drinking their water. Some people have had their lives destroyed. It's a disease. A disease of the soul. Empathy.
You assume a lot about me.
 

TheInfamousKira

Reseterror Resettler
It stopped being fun for me about five years ago, and that's provided I can get drunk at all. It got to the point where I was downing entire 100 proof bottles in a night and just being annoyed. But I was also cosplaying as an alcoholic, so
 
It depends. Being drunk with friends who are just doing it for fun can be great. It depends on your mood as well.

If I was alone at home and drank a bottle of wine by myself as a way to escape something I'd feel bad, guilty and embarrassed as hell the next day and I don't get people who do it.

It depends tbh.
 

NinjaBoiX

Member
If you’re feeling dizzy and disoriented you’ve had far too much, simple as that.

Yes, that’s an unpleasant feeling, but you can just drink sensibly and get a nice steady buzz going.

Make sure you drink a couple of glasses of water throughout the night and you’ll be right as rain.
 

Ionian

Member
Teens: take less, small hangover,
20's: Still hangover but can drink harder.
30's: Your 40s is texting you, better be surely hooked up with a knock-out
40's: ah shit, I woke up with her?
 

V1LÆM

Gold Member
i haven't enjoyed being drunk for a long time now but i do enjoy getting drunk. i just opened a can of beer and it feels so damn good but later tonight when i'm rat arsed drunk then it's going to suck. it starts off good but gets worse.

i never really get a bad hangover but of course there are times, the day after, that i'm thinking i am never drinking again i can't handle this. it's a filthy disgusting lie i tell myself each time. i might go 2-3 days of suffering but by the time the weekend comes around again i'm downing drink all over again. i guess that's addiction though 🤷‍♂️
 

NinjaBoiX

Member
In response to some of the posts referring to drinking alone at home as a way of escapism or “a way to deal with things”, I totally get that point of view.

But it doesn’t need to be that deep. I’ll often have a couple of small tins of beer when I get home, in the same way some folk have a joint or two. It’s not some deep-seated cry for help, I just like having a couple of beers when I get home.

I do always regret it when I have a couple too many and end up hungover the next morning though, 😅

Having said all this, I am going to make a concerted effort to drink less. It’s bad for your health, and yeah, I couldn’t really argue with anyone that said they think it’s a bit sad. As long as they don’t go to the extent of trying to give me counselling or something! 😅
 
Gonna go against the grain here: I don't really like to smoke weed anymore, it just doeesn't do anything for me and most of people (who I know) who smoke too much act like retards (being stoned like a sasquatch where noone can tell what you are talking about isn't cool brah). And honestly first thought that I had while reading this thread was that most of you maybe don't know when to call it quits when it comes to drinking? I like to go every once in a while to a city square and go from pub/club to pub drinking and I can't really recall when I had that much of a hangover. If some of you drink too much too fast without any food in-between then it's no wonder you guys have hangovers or "become mean" lmao. And I don't really buy excuse about being drunk for being asshole to someone.

I only smoke weed when I'm in the mood to get really confused by a movie, fall into thought holes, and eat 5 bowls of cereal. I.E. almost never
 
1. Get wasted
2. "I'm never drinking again man"
3. Drink again

I do feel less inclined as time goes on though. Better to practice your normal state
 

GeorgioCostanzaX

Gold Member
Have you not been in one of these threads before? There are people on this forum who think alcohol is as dangerous as heroin. It's fucking weird.
My problem is I can’t stop at 2 so I find myself having to quit altogether. I’m on Naltrexone though which helped cut down significantly but the only thing I’m finding 100% effective is no alcohol at all and low thc cannabis products. Weed I have absolutely no problem with not taking it and can just enjoy it when I’m in the mood. Alcohol my body feels in the mood all the time.
 
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teezzy

Banned
Last night I had some people over and we had some drinks. I had a few too many without even realizing it and I couldn't stand it. I felt dazed and disoriented and I couldn't wait to sober up. I just kept guzzling water trying to bring me back to sobriety. I don't understand how there are people who want to be like this all the time.

Sounds like the last time I smoked weed

Never again tbh
 

TheMan

Member
Yeah, the allure of getting plastered is long gone because the pain the next day is simply not worth it.

Having a drink or two at a time is fine. For me that’s enough for a light buzz, enjoy yourself, still fine to drive home and the next day you’re fine.
 

Zeypher

Member
For me after getting drunk once and in general not enjoying alcohol kinda pushed off it completely. I really did not like the feeling of recovering from being drunk and having a hangover and since I do not enjoy alcohol or its taste, dropping it was easy.
 

p_xavier

Authorized Fister
I had one major hungover in my life. Rest I don't get, dehydration, headaches etc. Never got those. I drink about 12 drinks a night until I pass out. Best feeling.
 

Tams

Member
The older I get the more I think of how the Teetotalers were right.
Eh, I get where you coming from, but if you have self control there's no need to be so extreme.

I barely drink. I like alcohol, but I literally have some decent bottles of wine just sitting at home that have been there for years now. I just don't feel any urge to drink them.

But eh, everyone has their vices. Keeping a tidy house and regularly exercising are mine (as in I struggle a lot with them), and gaming was one of them. But drugs, including alcohol and tabacco never have been. I don't know why some are vices to me and some aren't.
 
I hear you. I’m a binge drinker that can’t stop once I get started. I recently went to my friends’s 40th birthday and can recollect very little from the 3 days. If I could moderate it would be a different story but I’m tired of not remembering things.
 

chixdiggit

Member
I felt dazed and disoriented and I couldn't wait to sober up. I just kept guzzling water trying to bring me back to sobriety. I don't understand how there are people who want to be like this all the time.
That's 100% pot for me. I will only do it if I'm alone and ready for bed.

Drinking is an instant good time for me however.
 
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