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NLB2

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So what's the consensus of having a casual relationship with a girl who has a boyfriend? Does it change anything if she's the one who wants it the most and that if the casual relationship isn't with me, it'll be with someone else?
 

WedgeX

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NLB2 said:
So what's the consensus of having a casual relationship with a girl who has a boyfriend? Does it change anything if she's the one who wants it the most and that if the casual relationship isn't with me, it'll be with someone else?

Well, I suppose you have to ask yourself would you mind if your girlfriend was doing the same to you. If yes, then don't, but if no then hey, you've got no qualms about it already, go for it.

My personal feelings? Don't do it.
 

Agent Icebeezy

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NLB2 said:
So what's the consensus of having a casual relationship with a girl who has a boyfriend? Does it change anything if she's the one who wants it the most and that if the casual relationship isn't with me, it'll be with someone else?


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And a lot of people don't understand how powerful pussy is
Pussy make n*****, blow they brains out, they bitch brains out
Uh, uh, pussy make people do thangs they never would think they'd do
 

karasu

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You should offer their relationship the same respect you'd want someone to give to your own. Otherwise the universe will fuck you sideways, and lubicrant is not an option.
 

aoi tsuki

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Add me to the "don't do it" list. It's even more dangerous when you don't know the girl has a boyfriend. i've justified it in my mind if i know the girl is miserable in her relationship, or if he's cheating on her, but it doesn't make it any more wrong. It also doesn't make it any less fun, but that's not what we need to focus on here.
 
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I hope that you're being facetious and don't seriously have to question what role you should take in this situation. Obviously, you’re hardly a mitigating factor by condoning and actively contributing to this girl having an affair; regardless of whether she has the intention to and may find someone other than yourself. If cheating on her boyfriend is her prerogative, then I don’t see why yours should be to contribute to it. I'm sure that if you ever became seriously involved with a girl in the future, that you wouldn’t be so liberal in excusing the other man entirely from his involvement. After all, “it takes two to tango.”
 

NLB2

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Waychel said:
I hope that you're being facetious and don't seriously have to question what role you should take in this situation. Obviously, you’re hardly a mitigating factor by condoning and actively contributing to this girl having an affair; regardless of whether she has the intention to and may find someone other than yourself. If cheating on her boyfriend is her prerogative, then I don’t see why yours should be to contribute to it. I'm sure that if you ever became seriously involved with a girl in the future, that you wouldn’t be so liberal in excusing the other man entirely from his involvement. After all, “it takes two to tango.”
Would it be cocky/funny if I replied to this with "Sounds like your jealous"?

But anyway, thanks for your advice. I don't think I would really give a shit one way or the other if I were the guy. Then again, I would never be the guy.
 

Wellington

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How is this even a question? There are plenty of single women out there, why risk the beatdown? Well, what goes around comes around. I personally never even think about it.
 
I'm of two views on this.

Higher minded view -

Don't do it. You wouldn't want it to happen to you. I think the respect you put in equals the respect get out.


Realistic view -
Do it. Her being "attracted" to you has nothing to do with you. She is doing it because she can. Quite frankly, if you weren't giving her attention it would be some other guy. She is going to fuck something so you might as well take advantage.

Either way I wouldn't get in a relationship with her. If she fucked around on the last guy what do you think she is going to do to you when you stop dotting the 'i's and crossing the 't's.
 

Diablos

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Don't do it. I'm sure you wouldn't want someone to cheat on you. I don't understand why people cheat. That's one of the worst things you could ever do to a person. If you aren't satisfied, break up first. Or if she wants you to cheat, tell her to decide between you or the guy she is supposed to care about so much.
 

Alucard

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The moral high ground says: DON'T DO IT. Your penis may say YES! but it will eventually mean nothing when karma kicks you in the balls.
 

dskillzhtown

keep your strippers out of my American football
Don't do it. It is more dangerous than sticking your pen in company ink.

A jealous beat down is can be worse than a pizzeria style beat down. That kind of crap can end up with a bullet. I met a chick that had a b/f and she wanted to get busy with me. I definitely didn't want to get a beatdown from the b/f. I don't need to be hitting someone else's pussy. Might sound pussy or scary, but no pussy is worth catching a beatdown for.
 

AlphaSnake

...and that, kids, was the first time I sucked a dick for crack
NLB2 said:
So what's the consensus of having a casual relationship with a girl who has a boyfriend? Does it change anything if she's the one who wants it the most and that if the casual relationship isn't with me, it'll be with someone else?

Hah...I've been struggling with the same dilema for a number of months now. But the problem is: I like her too, and her boyfriend is somewhat a friend of mine. I've been good with keeping my hands off of her, but I know the second they break up...yeah.
 
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