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Chronic victims and complainers are actually the abusers

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Unk Adams

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Chronic complainers, chronic victims, etc. is a type of mental abuse that is becoming more common with newer generations. It is a passive aggressive way of trying to make other people feel like shit and basically tormenting others around them. In the past abusive people would do this by just flat out verbally abusing and cursing out other people to make them feel like shit. A less aggressive way of doing this now is constantly destroying the mood, ruining enjoyment for others, complaining nonstop about every tiny problem in their lives, and hiding behind victimhood as an excuse to mentally abuse and torment other people.
 

nush

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They just want attention by throwing a pity party.

But there are instances where it is abuse, "I'm going to Kill myself if you don't...." for example.
 

Unk Adams

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They just want attention by throwing a pity party.
Many of them go way farther than that. They use every interaction as an opportunity to tell others how much of a victim they are and why you should feel like shit about it. They go out of their way to ruin anything enjoyable and complain nonstop. They don't care that they're making other people feel shitty and seem to actively want to make everyone around them feel bad. The Karen personality and victim personalities would both fit into this. Somehow they have a problem every minute and everyone around them needs to suffer because of it.
 
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