what kind of needy wedding photographers do you know? yikes
As I've been saying, a wedding photographer isn't just there to take pictures. You're getting a shitty photographer if that's all they do.
We meet with the bride and groom hours before the wedding and if issues arise, we're there to help solve the problem or at the very least help calm down the room and reassure them that everything will be fine(even though it might not be). More often than not, neither the bride nor groom will want to approach a family member or the wedding party if something shitty happens because they think it'll be a burden so they come to us and ask for help instead.
It's basic customer service if you ask me. They're paying us to do a job so the least we can do is to make sure we're doing the best and everything we can.
Funny enough, as much as I'm preaching this... I got out of the game for these reasons(as well as getting a proper full time gig but that's another story). As a dude, it was kinda hard for me to relate with their issues and the only thing I can really do was offer a shoulder or be a wall for them to release the stress they've got coz let's face it, weddings are fucking stressful.