What are your spending habits like?
I don’t spend much, and when I got a credit card, I didn’t have any problems apart from forgetting to pay occasionally. It is useful to have around, but I can understand your fear. I know people that just itch to spend money, and it would be much better not to have one.
Just set your credit card on automatic payment. I missed paying 3 times in my life since i forgot to pay myself. So infrequent, I actually remember its 3 times. I messed up because two times It was back in the 90s when I still manually paid my CC bills at the bank ATM. I forgot. And another time (about 10 years ago I forgot paying online). I got messed up since I'd try to time paying it as close to the due date but didnt realize the due date that month was as close to the end as I thought as it adjusts. So instead of the usual 27-30th, it was like the 25th or 26th that month. I paid the next day or two. Then I said fuck it and set to auto-pay. Not sure why I never did before.
For all of you, if you miss a payment, as long as you either pay the minimum (or more) right away it wont hit your credit rating. When I missed that payment 10 years ago the guy even said their system gives a 5 day grace period (you'd never know unless you asked). So since I paid with 5 days, I was good.
I've never had a balance. Always paid it off. Even when I moved out for the first time and was living pay cheque to pay cheque and had to buy furniture, why credit card? When I bought $3000 worth of furniture (I couldnt pay it all off in one shot back then), I bought it from the furniture store on I think an 18 month pay back program that had a $99 admin fee. So that's the same as about 3% interest over 18 months (or 2% annually). Sounds like a deal to me. But then some people would had bought that on their credit card at 22% interest. So for me it cost $3100. By the time someone else paid it off on CC it'll probably cost them $3500. Just wasted $400.
Another way to pay off stuff if someone is desperate with a balance is LOC (line of credit) which for most people will be anywhere from prime rate at around 3% (if you're established) to prime + 5% if you're young and borrowing for the first time. When I got an LOC for the first time 20 years ago, I think it was set at prime + 5% and I had almost zero assets at the time.
Doesnt even make sense. Someone needs cash and would rather pull out a credit card then apply for a LOC. Sometime those spam letters you get from the bank are good.
If someone is that fearful maxing out a CC, just apply or ask for a low level limit (like $1000) and only use it for low priced things you pay off every month already (utility bills worth $200-300) and set it on automatic payment. Never have to think about it again and your credit rating builds just on utility bills.