Dear Gaf: Today someone I know accidentally leaked their own sex tape.

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Certain people from gaf have seen stills of my sex tape. If I ever want to commit account suicide I'm going to post one of the 20 videos I've made with my girlfriend. She's totally cool with it as well.
 
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So, if I may ask, what about the videos made her no longer attractive to you?
 
But a bunch of guys I know saw the vids and all but one of them have said that they no longer had the want to date her. The lone single guy still up for it jokingly asked how he could get in on it.

Because of the amount of guys or because they were black?
 
Am I missing something? I don't get it. I mean, I know spade is jargon for black but...

Queen of Spades
The playing cards symbol usually with a 'Q' above or inside. It connotes white women with a sexual preference for black men. It can be seen on tee shirts or even as a tatoo. Also a way for a white woman to let potential black lovers know she is available.

from urban dictionary
 
Soooo

uh.... let me try to figure this out: Guys would like to see hawt porno of their desired chicks but once seen, then those chicks are no longer attractive to them?

Is it like a grazing a pasture thing? Always moving on to the next patch? Or is it just the OP?
 
Holy shit, I was curious about the spade tattoo thing and looked it up. Black history month indeed.

lol every time someone mentions the queen of spades tattoo on GAF a bunch of people always learn something new about our lovely little world.
 
So, if I may ask, what about the videos made her no longer attractive to you?

Because that's something that I don't care for, but she seemed to really enjoy on at least a handful of occasions. While if we ever dated and she said that she was no longer interested in that scene, fine, I wouldn't "hold it against her" or anything like that, but I wouldn't want to be in the position asking her to change herself/her fetish/etc etc.
 
Because that's something that I don't care for, but she seemed to really enjoy on at least a handful of occasions. While if we ever dated and she said that she was no longer interested in that scene, fine, I wouldn't "hold it against her" or anything like that, but I wouldn't want to be in the position asking her to change herself/her fetish/etc etc.

But you watched all of the videos, so it seems like you do care about it? It didn't sound like you just skipped through, or looked away in disgust.
 
You don't care about gang bangs or you don't care about gang bangs when it's the girl getting gang banged?

But you watched all of the videos, so it seems like you do care about it? It didn't sound like you just skipped through, or looked away in disgust.



It is strictly a fantasy thing for me, I guess? I mean, there are things that people enjoy watching in porno that they don't/wouldn't want to do themselves.

I guess that's the best way to explain it I guess.

Like I said, I don't hold it against her, but I wouldn't want to seriously date someone in that scene because it isn't something that gets me off outside of watching porno.
 
It is strictly a fantasy thing for me, I guess? I mean, there are things that people enjoy watching in porno that they don't/wouldn't want to do themselves.

I guess that's the best way to explain it I guess.

Like I said, I don't hold it against her, but I wouldn't want to seriously date someone in that scene because it isn't something that gets me off outside of watching porno.

You said you have a wife, why does it matter.
 
Why are people surprised by the "wouldn't want to date her" comments?

Seems like the majority of guys have that attitude; even if it isn't an honest one it's what they'll express around their male friends.

Being insecure about how many guys your woman has slept with is "the norm."
 
You said you have a wife, why does it matter.



He's not explaining very well

what he seems to mean is its good for jerking off to since you are removed from that situation but he doesn't want anything to do with a person who actually does it because there are other things involved (such as mindset regarding sex etc) that he has preconceived notions about that make him not attracted to when it is really someone that is like that.

It's like saying "I like crime drama movies about drugs" but not actually wanting to be a cop or do drugs.
 
Why are people surprised by the "wouldn't want to date her" comments?

Seems like the majority of guys have that attitude; even if it isn't an honest one it's what they'll express around their male friends.

Being insecure about how many guys your woman has slept with is "the norm."
It's like Chasing Amy except with a third guy and Ben Affleck being in the same room when it happened.
 
Goddamn, I didn't know about the Queen of Spades symbol. I don't even know how to feel about that. lol

I never seen sex tapes of people I know, but I have seen pics here and there of girls from my school who sent them to a guy who would show friends. That was middle school shenanigans, though.

In high school, there was a time when some dude slut shamed his girl (who was mostly popular for being attractive) after they broke up and pictures were leaked everywhere. It was addressed by the school, but no one was punished. Just slapped wrists. The girl obviously suffered from a bad image and was pretty quiet and left alone for the rest of her time in high school.
 
He's not explaining very well

what he seems to mean is its good for jerking off to since you are removed from that situation but he doesn't want anything to do with a person who actually does it because there are other things involved (such as mindset regarding sex etc) that he has preconceived notions about that make him not attracted to when it is really someone that is like that.

It's like saying "I like crime drama movies about drugs" but not actually wanting to be a cop or do drugs.

I'm not gonna cut her out of my life or anything. I don't feel any different about her from a platonic standpoint. I mean, hypothetically if me and someone into that scene were hook up, I would be down. But I wouldn't really be interested in dating that person because their sex life is not exactly compatible with my own. Operating on the assumption that that person would continue to want to do that.
 
Are you black?

I do remember you saying something along the lines of running a webcam show, so is it for those purposes?

Just curious.

nvm, you answered

I wouldn't say "run", just that we did it a bunch of times. "Running" a webcam show is a whole different world.

But it did make tips.
 
Why do you care so much about your loss of attraction to her? You're married.

You need to be an actual friend and call her to see how she's doing.
 
I've never understood who watches DP or in this case TP videos? Is it women? Do dudes really like seeing multiple dicks in their porn? I'm not even sure I would be comfortable in a devil's threesome, but a devil's foursome?
 
Why are people surprised by the "wouldn't want to date her" comments?

Seems like the majority of guys have that attitude; even if it isn't an honest one it's what they'll express around their male friends.

Being insecure about how many guys your woman has slept with is "the norm."

It doesn't make it no less hypocritical. It's funny how a guy can fantasize about getting it on with several girls at once but if the tables are reversed she's considered a dirty whore.
 
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