Dear Gaf: Today someone I know accidentally leaked their own sex tape.

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Dunno about them. I myself am not particularly interested in that and wouldn't want to date someone and feel like I'm trying to police their sexual behavior.

It's just really odd that you even frame the conversation about her with this "serious dating" spin.

Like.. bunch of her male friends mostly people in relationships find her attractive.. why should serious dating even be on the table at all in your convo, or affect "attractiveness"?

You guys are doing it wrong. Normally you'd simply lust as a sexual fantasy, not a future dating possibility fantasy.
 
It's just really odd that you even frame the conversation about her with this "serious dating" spin.

Like.. bunch of her male friends mostly people in relationships find her attractive.. why should serious dating even be on the table at all in your convo, or affect "attractiveness"?

You guys are doing it wrong. Normally you'd simply lust as a sexual fantasy, not a future dating possibility fantasy.

Possibly.

I regret posting that part because thinking back it does come off as chauvinistic.
 
It doesn't make it no less hypocritical. It's funny how a guy can fantasize about getting it on with several girls at once but if the tables are reversed she's considered a dirty whore.

When in this case did the OP say she was a whore? Why do you guys care so much why he's not attracted to her or that situation? Who gives a flying fuck why
 
Non-consentual pornography is incredibly damaging to the victims. Horrendous thing to happen to anyone.

In response to the original question, I'd still want to date her just as much. I wouldn't assume that a specific kink we didn't share was the be-all end-all in terms of our potential for sexual compatibility. That said, I can absolutely imagine learning something fairly minor about a girl that switched me off her, so I'm not surprised some people reacted to this the way they did.
 
There's this incredibly stacked Vietnamese girl that me and my friends know. Dunno how she came to be in my circle of friends, but she's there. Most of my guy friends completely lust after this girl. Her family is hilariously rich, she drives around town in ridiculously expensive cars, travels very often.

I myself have grown to distrust her. She's always posting pictures of really extravagant food that she's "made at home", yet the plates are different for every picture, and are not the ones I've seen at her house when visiting for a party. She "has a boyfriend" that no one I know has ever met, but she talks about him on FB all the time. Now, with that said, she being of incredible richness and incredible hotness probably throws that out there to keep the creeps off of her. She posts pictures of herself as "new" things that she has been doing, say, this week, even when those pictures show her to not have a tattoo on her arm that she received over a year ago.

But that isn't what this thread is about.

When woke up this morning and checked FB I saw that she had uploaded about seven or so videos. Normally she doesn't post videos, just pics. So I watched one. And then another. And then a third, fourth, fifth, sixth, and finally the seventh.

One video was really short, one video was much longer, with all of the others being around the three minute mark.

All videos are of her getting absolutely dominated by a group of three incredibly buff black dudes. Lots of front and back with one guy tagging in the camera guy.

One single person was tagged in each of the videos. I clicked on the hotlink to his profile and he was a kind of rednecky looking white dude. Definitely not in the videos. I wonder if that is the supposed boyfriend?

So I got up to shower, told the wife about them when I got out, and she wanted to see. Not only were the videos gone, but her entire Facebook profile is gone gone. Not closed or whatever that setting does that just greys out your name and profile pic, but gone gone. I called a mutual friend who is better friends with her and asked him. He says that she said her FB must have been hacked by _somebody_ and that those videos were made public by some jealous person. He thinks the white guy linked in the pics, her apparent BF, did it after breaking up/getting broke up with or that she did it on purpose to spite him. A second friend says that she said that those videos were not of her, but they were, she had that tattoo I mentioned earlier in all seven vids, and thinks that her apparently new ex did it hoping that if word got out about her/their kink she'd either stick with him because "no one else would be okay with that", or trying to slut shame her into staying with him.

Both good and bad I guess. Good in that it was pretty damn hot. Bad in that, well, as a person she's not really attractive to me anymore. That stuff is relegated to fantasy fairly strictly for me. I won't treat her any differently, really. I have nothing against her or her choices or anything. Whatever gets her off.

But a bunch of guys I know saw the vids and all but one of them have said that they no longer had the want to date her. The lone single guy still up for it jokingly asked how he could get in on it.

This ever happen to anyone else?

What in the actual fuck? That is your take away from this?
 
I've come to know so much about you specifically in such little time. :D

Is that connotation why she got the tattoo?

Connotation? You mean me being black?

Well, I mean, she had it for like 2 years before I met her. She lost like, all her best friends because of it. She was friends with this super bitchy girl who was dating this lacrosss star popular black guy in school. Like, tons of girls liked him. They were the power couple, but everyone knew what a bitch he was. Eventually they broke up and it became a "warzone" basically, rumors of who he might be dating every week. The girl heard a lot of rumors that my girlfriend and her ex-boyfriend were hanging out a lot. When she turned 18, she got the tattoo, and as things of course get out, the girl found out and got a bunch of girls to bully and hate on her for the rest of the year.

Oh, I thought you actually went all the way in with it.

"Running" a webcam implies things like contests, huge amount of profile customization, marketing and and ad space...
 
The same reason you give a flying fuck.

I don't give a fuck why someone doesn't want to date someone anymore after they've been gangbanged. It just seems like you're trying to bait him into saying something that proves your assumptions about him, that shit is low.
 
I know EXACTLY what the OP is talking about. A few years back in college, we used to hang out with this absolutely beautiful thing; just a total bombshell of a girl. She also always had loads of money despite having never seen her work a day in her life.

Turns out she was a webcam girl the entire time...and holy shit was she good at her job. Still have an archive of her stuff to this day, but you can find it online pretty readily.

It's really odd how your opinion of someone will change the moment you find out they do porn.
 
I don't give a fuck why someone doesn't want to date someone anymore after they've been gangbanged. It just seems like you're trying to bait him into saying something that proves your assumptions about him, that shit is low.

Curious but if its a dude with multiple girls, is the term still gangbanged?
 
I don't give a fuck why someone doesn't want to date someone anymore after they've been gangbanged. It just seems like you're trying to bait him into saying something that proves your assumptions about him, that shit is low.

You're doing the same but in the opposite direction. Stop being a hypocrite.
 
If her boyfriend supposedly uploaded the videos, I'm not sure the title is entirely accurate...
 
I don't give a fuck why someone doesn't want to date someone anymore after they've been gangbanged. It just seems like you're trying to bait him into saying something that proves your assumptions about him, that shit is low.

What kind of language is that for a foursome? They all had their way with her now she is damaged goods?

I swear some of you guys are so puritanical it's not even funny.
 
What kind of language is that for a foursome? They all had their way with her now she is damaged goods?

I swear some of you guys are so puritanical it's not even funny.

Agreed. I like to use "gangbang" as dirty talk, but here it just sounds insulting.
 
I'd use the same term

Okie.

Never heard it's used that way, but .... okies.

Usually if its one guy and multiple girls, he's not gangbanged (as if it is something done TO him),... instead he's #winning .... but it's not the same if its a girl and multiple guys :<

That depends if the girls are in control, or if the guy is doing most of the work. If it's the former, then yes, the guy is getting gangbanged by at least 3 girls.

aaaaaaaah yaya. i guess i agree. it's about control *nodsnods

@ BreezyLimbo, XD ok that made me laugh :>
 
That's horrible! I would be humiliated if it happened to me. Has this leaked on any other sites? Which ones? Let me know so I can avoid them. I don't want to watch any porn vids that were accidentally leaked.
 
So did you like the original trilogy or the prequels more? Did you enjoy the trailer for the seventh?
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How? That I'm not assuming anything about him? It could be either way, but I'm not sitting here trying to push him a certain direction

Let me simplify this for you, why do you give a shit about us giving a shit if you say we shouldn't give a shit. The OP can fend for himself. He doesn't need your protection.
 
So was this just some fun she was having, or meant for something else? Such a weird thing to just tape that for shits and giggles.
 
Okie.

Never heard it's used that way, but .... okies.

Usually if its one guy and multiple girls, he's not gangbanged (as if it is something done TO him),... instead he's #winning .... but it's not the same if its a girl and multiple guys :<




aaaaaaaah yaya. i guess i agree. it's about control *nodsnods

@ BreezyLimbo, XD ok that made me laugh :>

Well all I can say is how i personally use the term, maybe I'm wrong. When talking to a friend that's a girl and if I asked if she had sex with him, I would ask if she banged him. So in my case 3 girls and 1 guy I would use the same term.
 
Well all I can say is how i personally use the term, maybe I'm wrong. When talking to a friend that's a girl and if I asked if she had sex with him, I would ask if she banged him. So in my case 3 girls and 1 guy I would use the same term.

I think its the 'gang' bit that gives that connotation of a loss of control... you know what i mean? As if a group of people overpowers the person sexually.

the 'bang' bit is more commonly used. like 'he/she is bangin' hot' etc

but, thanks for entertaining my curiosity. much appreciated!
 
I think its the 'gang' bit that gives that connotation of a loss of control... you know what i mean? As if a group of people overpowers the person sexually.

the 'bang' bit is more commonly used. like 'he/she is bangin' hot' etc

but, thanks for entertaining my curiosity. much appreciated!

I can understand that, I didn't mean the term as offensive
 
There's this incredibly stacked Vietnamese girl that me and my friends know. Dunno how she came to be in my circle of friends, but she's there. Most of my guy friends completely lust after this girl. Her family is hilariously rich, she drives around town in ridiculously expensive cars, travels very often.

I myself have grown to distrust her. She's always posting pictures of really extravagant food that she's "made at home", yet the plates are different for every picture, and are not the ones I've seen at her house when visiting for a party. She "has a boyfriend" that no one I know has ever met, but she talks about him on FB all the time. Now, with that said, she being of incredible richness and incredible hotness probably throws that out there to keep the creeps off of her. She posts pictures of herself as "new" things that she has been doing, say, this week, even when those pictures show her to not have a tattoo on her arm that she received over a year ago.

But that isn't what this thread is about.

When woke up this morning and checked FB I saw that she had uploaded about seven or so videos. Normally she doesn't post videos, just pics. So I watched one. And then another. And then a third, fourth, fifth, sixth, and finally the seventh.

One video was really short, one video was much longer, with all of the others being around the three minute mark.

All videos are of her getting absolutely dominated by a group of three incredibly buff black dudes. Lots of front and back with one guy tagging in the camera guy.

One single person was tagged in each of the videos. I clicked on the hotlink to his profile and he was a kind of rednecky looking white dude. Definitely not in the videos. I wonder if that is the supposed boyfriend?

So I got up to shower, told the wife about them when I got out, and she wanted to see. Not only were the videos gone, but her entire Facebook profile is gone gone. Not closed or whatever that setting does that just greys out your name and profile pic, but gone gone. I called a mutual friend who is better friends with her and asked him. He says that she said her FB must have been hacked by _somebody_ and that those videos were made public by some jealous person. He thinks the white guy linked in the pics, her apparent BF, did it after breaking up/getting broke up with or that she did it on purpose to spite him. A second friend says that she said that those videos were not of her, but they were, she had that tattoo I mentioned earlier in all seven vids, and thinks that her apparently new ex did it hoping that if word got out about her/their kink she'd either stick with him because "no one else would be okay with that", or trying to slut shame her into staying with him.

Both good and bad I guess. Good in that it was pretty damn hot. Bad in that, well, as a person she's not really attractive to me anymore. That stuff is relegated to fantasy fairly strictly for me. I won't treat her any differently, really. I have nothing against her or her choices or anything. Whatever gets her off.

But a bunch of guys I know saw the vids and all but one of them have said that they no longer had the want to date her. The lone single guy still up for it jokingly asked how he could get in on it.

This ever happen to anyone else?

Loool I'm pretty sure that dude could go to jail for posting videos online of his ex getting gangbanged and without her permission.
 
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