now its starting to make more sense
now what about special attacks, how come those girls that you face have insane special attacks but if i get to 80-100 per attack its amazing. granted my highest lvl is at 14
You buy Special Attacks with Mana from the Evility Vendor (the Ninja in the base). You'll also get a few Unique specials (e.g., unique to that character, this applies to generics too!) just by raising your levels.
I'm going to have to read some faqs about how to max items. I need to read one anyway to learn about all the post game stuff. I didn't bother with post game in Disgaea 2. I just wanted that game over with. They've really added a lot of content to the game since Disgaea 1.
Well, the Item Maxing guides for Disgaea 3 aren't actually relevant for Disgaea 3 Vita. D3V introduced +Item Levels on Item Boss kills which does two things:
1) Makes reaching Level 200 for items really, really easy.
2) Allows Item Boss kills to count without clearing/skipping a floor.
What this basically means is that all you really need to do to max an item is reach Floor 100, kill the Item God, Gency out, kill the Item God, Gency out, kill the Item God, Gency out, and repeat until your each the Item stat cap (1,433,519 for this game assuming no +Stat Item Bills; 1,576,850, 1,720,182, or 1,863,514 assuming 1, 2, or 3 +Stat Bills passed, though you probably won't actually need them to reach the character stat cap).
Of course, this does take a lot of Gency's (~67 to get a Trapezohedron to that stat cap) but we're also talking about getting around five times the stats of a normal "maxed out" Trapezohedron so eh ... kind of worth it in the end.
Edit: Just to expand, this only works on items that actually have a base stat (e.g., something non-zero). If the base stat is zero, you need to fill the item with Innocents (say the item has ATK 0, you'll fill it with 8 Gladiators) and then kill the Item God. A lot. And by a lot, I mean a whole fucking lot. It takes ~1389 Item God kills to take a base stat of 0 to the stat cap ... which, really, isn't worth the effort at all.