I'm feeling a bit lost and overwhelmed, I can't figure out how to progress the Murder Mystery, I have the speak to animals talent, stole the smelly panties, which cleared the wife, got the letter out of the room, I've been trying to do things as upfront as possible, no breaking into houses or stealing, so I've been doing other quests in the hope of things connecting together, but no luck so far. I went out the north gate and struggled for a bit, considering everything was level 6 and I was level 4, but somehow managed to clear the lighthouse and Sparkmaster. Found the church and the Conduit (The guy in the tavern annoyed me, going on about the Conduit when I know she's bad since she tried to kill me right at the start, but I couldn't press him further.), I need to find a way to remove the barrier now.
After getting frustrated with trying to do things the "right" way, I've had Bairdotr level up her lockpicking/pickpocketing and trying to make her a bit of a Klepto that doesn't understand personal belongings/privacy and picked up a bunch of items that have +lockpicking, so I was able to break into Evelyn's house, found a note from the conduit..but still can't confront her about it.
It's just a bit frustrating, I'm wanting to progress a quest, but not knowing how, so wandering around the map trying to trigger any sort of advancement. I can't find anything with the smell of the others on them either as they all seem too high level for me to pickpocket at the moment and I've found nothing out in the open.