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[Plies]

Let's say that last weekend, your lady was out with her girlfriends and got a little too drunk and made out with like 3 of them.

Personally, I don't see it as that big of a deal, but I can understand if someone would consider it cheating. Am I in the wrong?

Have you ever felt slighted in this situation as if it was another man or did it end up opening up other avenues in your relationship?

 

[BennyBlanco]

If i can't join then it's cheating. If I can join it's liberating and empowering.

 

[Mattdaddy]

Id think it was fuckin hot.

But im kinda trashy.

 

[Angry_Megalodon]

It's up to you to define the limits within your relationship.

I wouldnt like it, because it starts that way and it might lead to something else. Said this, one particular night my wife had a girlfriend at home and I heard something weird while I was half asleep. Didnt bother to ask the next morning, so that's that.

 

[Plies]

If i can't join then it's cheating. If I can join it's liberating and empowering.

 

[MastAndo]

It hasn't happened to me personally but yes, I would still see it as cheating. In general though, I would be FAR less pissed off with her cheating with a woman than if it was another dude. Hooking up with another woman probably wouldn't be an instant, no conversation needed relationship ender that hooking up with a guy would be.

Your particular situation with her making out with 3 chicks is a bit too trashy for me though, particularly at my age - I'd be moving on from that. It sounds like something chicks would do to get the attention of some guys anyway.

 

[HeisenbergFX4]

I am old school and an ex professional athlete so have lived out most of my fantasies

That said coming from an old man married 25+ years yes its cheating

 

[StueyDuck]

if you have to ask then the answer is yes.

 

[Fbh]

Even worse since it's almost like she robbed you of a threesome

 

[Mr1999]

It really depends on you and where you are in life. If you are asking me personally, yes, if something like that happened early on I would probably not have gotten serious with this person, but that's just me. Not saying people can't change later on in life, but the whole drunk thing isn't an excuse, it could have easily been a male, would that have made any difference? It would not have for me. Goodluck.

 

[TintoConCasera]

Yes. But it's also hot, so it kind of balances.

 

[IntentionalPun]

Having sexual experiences with others when you aren't around is cheating for most people.

in that scenario a lot of times the girls are doing it to show off for guys that are around as well.

 

[El Muerto]

If it's strictly physical with another girl then not cheating. They're just girls having fun. If it's emotional too or banging another guy then it's cheating. But either bring her home to share or let me go get a gummer from an old lady.

 

[ChorizoPicozo]

Start transitioning. thats my advice.

 

[Plies]

thats my advice.

Stay on the Gaming side.

 

[Go_Ly_Dow]

Yes it is, but it's also in "Nice" territory.

 

[Rentahamster]

Only if they used a Game Genie.

 

[Plies]

Only if they used a Game Genie.

Wait ..

Genies fly on carpets

 

[newtypepilot]

Why do you care? You have given up on dating.

 

[Plies]

Why do you care? You have given up on dating.

Dating is not the same thing as established relationships.
If you're dating, you're free to see anyone else you'd like.

 

[Dr.Morris79]

Can she stay round there for two weeks, at least?

As long as I get something out of it, two weeks sounds good. I would say a month but I'm not a monster.

 

[The Cockatrice]

Why does gender matter? Its cheating no matter who she kissed. Also getting drunk? Huge red flag. Maybe one or two, but drunk enough not to realize is retarded especially when you have a boyfriend/husband. That being said, if she stops for good, then you can forgive.

 

[Plies]

Why does gender matter?

Well, men are typically competitive with each other. It's no different when it comes to the pursuit of women/sex.

So, if a man finds out that his woman cheats with another man, what's his first thought?

 

[Hideous Snake]

It is cheating. I wouldn't be surprised if people find it not cheating in this cuck soy world

 

[ReBurn]

Only if I don't get to watch

 

[Bry0]

How would she feel if you were tonguing the homies?

 

[HAYA8U5A]

 

[Plies]

How would she feel if you were tonguing the homies?

That you were a cigarette?

 

[adamsapple]

Can't determine without some pictures or videos, preferably in HD, for reference.

 

[Plies]

Can't determine without some video, preferably in HD, for reference.

 

[EverydayBeast]

There are worse things in life

 

[DeafTourette]

Yes. It's cheating. No ifs, ands or buts about it! Someone you LOVE is choosing to give their body to someone else. Man or woman, it's cheating.

 

[Plies]

Yes. It's cheating. No ifs, ands or buts about it! Someone you LOVE is choosing to give their body to someone else. Man or woman, it's cheating.

Would you attend Freaknik if it returned?

 

[ResurrectedContrarian]

lol, if it's a typical straight woman in her 20s--or particularly if it's in college--and she makes out with another girl while drunk at some party, it's not some revealed genuine bisexuality or whatever... it's just a typical kind of performant thing women do at that age.

Why does gender matter?

Because it does... categorically a woman having a sexual encounter with a man is a qualitatively different kind of event in its stakes, consequences, and psychological positioning. These are realities, and it's only by voluntarily ablating half the perceptive capacities of their brain that some younger generations pretend not to see this.

 

[badblue]

If you do not have a mutually agreed arrangement with your partner to have sex/intimate relations with other people, it's cheating.

 

[DeafTourette]

Would you attend Freaknik if it returned?

Nope. I don't live in Atlanta anymore anyway...

But seeing some fine women again would be nice.

 

[Reizo Ryuu]

Am I in the wrong?

 

[HRK69]

Drunk girl-on-girl kisses are all fun and games until one of them goes by 'they/them'

 

[Heimdall_Xtreme]

Let's say that last weekend, your lady was out with her girlfriends and got a little too drunk and made out with like 3 of them.

Personally, I don't see it as that big of a deal, but I can understand if someone would consider it cheating. Am I in the wrong?

Have you ever felt slighted in this situation as if it was another man or did it end up opening up other avenues in your relationship?

You shouldn't leave them because then they go crazy and don't go away.

 

[Z O N E]

Personally, yes.

It could one day lead to her kissing another guy and then saying "Well, I thought you'd be fine with just kissing".

 

[SJRB]

Have you installed the cuck chair yet?

 

[sono]

You go out with hot guys get a bit drunk and end up making out. Would your wife be upset?

 

[Plies]

You go out with hot guys get a bit drunk and end up making out. Would your wife be upset?

"hot" guys?

You got some bisexual tendencies, innit.

 

[Trilobit]

Just ask this guy:

 

[Kataploom]

I don't count it, but I see many people counting it, so better to ask or something

 

[Codes 208]

Only if kissing the guys goodnight makes you gay

Jokes aside, yes it counts. Why should same sex matter? Cheating is cheating, there's no gray area.

 

[Icymanipulator]

The rule I have is my girl can do whatever she wants with another girl, but i have to be involved. Then it's OK.

But on her own? Yes that's cheating.

 

[Plies]

But on her own? Yes that's cheating.

Understood.
But would that scenario carry the same weight compared to her cheating with a dude?

To me, one is more "forgiveable"