I understand that, but they should have had some way to prioritize the Official servers, even if they are empty they would fill up fast with those that are quick matching, which majority of the players Quick Match.
It all raises the question of was this the plan all along? To get people to cover the of the servers? It certainly seems like it. I mean Bad Company 2 had private rooms and now BF3 doesn't? For What, to sell it to us later? It all seems shady, and Activision has to be looking at this and saying "Now that's not a bad idea!".
On a personal level it sucks because in the past we have heard rumors of Pay 2 Play for shooters like COD and BF and others and it is quickly becoming a reality. Tack on to that great shooters of the past like Ghost Recon, Socom, and others are trying to emulate said games and failing miserably, therefore, appealing to barely anyone.
Sad time to be a fan of online shooters, we are witnessing the downfall happen right front of us.