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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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Botolf said:
Is this directed at me sir?
If so.
He told us today that he has done bad stuff before while he threaten me since he used to be more aggressive before but lol if saying he is going to stab someone on the face with a plastic knife isn't aggressive enough I don't know what that is.
SpaceBridge
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ciD_Vain said:don't be in a bad mood, i'm glad my story made you happy.
He is really sweet, and i will be taking it slow
So, were canceling our wedding then?
chronos4590
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Just saw the lisp thread. I thought you guys were talking about an old thread. I thought we already talked about that one long ago. I just put my response in. Such stupidity. smh
Edit:Wow I completely missed cid's story. I was at school all day today. That's beyond adorable.
Edit:Wow I completely missed cid's story. I was at school all day today. That's beyond adorable.
Phonomezer
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Margaret Cho at the opera house tonight; so excited!!
The Broken Ska Record
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D'awww at ciD's story.
Hmmm... the whole "lisp" issue confuses me a little cause there is no such thing as a "gay lisp" on my language [Spanish], I mean... that kind of mispronunciation is not associated with gay people at all (and it makes no sense to me why it would).
I guess it's an English-only thing.
I guess it's an English-only thing.
SpaceBridge
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Im just ignoring the gay lisp thread and waiting it to be closed.
Have you not seen a novela with a gay character in it? They're cartoons, and they have a very....queeny way of talking. Maybe it's not a lisp, but they definitely have their own stereotypical form of speaking. I've seen real life people talk like that as well in Mexico. I wouldn't know if they were actually gay, but plenty of people in my family referred to them as maricones, so I think there's an equivalent in Mexican culture.Sagitario said:
SpaceBridge
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Kyon said:
Go play some Deus Ex, girl *said with a lisp*
_Isaac said:
There is a stereotype, there is a tone of voice and/or mannerism, sure, like in ANY other language or country (and some of them are kind of universal, I admit it), but those do not have anything to do at all with the speech impediment known as "lisp" [in Spanish speaking countries, certainly not in MX].
CornBurrito
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By the gay lisp do they mean an actual lisp or that effeminate way of speaking?
chronos4590
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unbeknownst to them we're just speaking in ParseltongueMarius_ said:
The Broken Ska Record
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(tumbsup)
SpaceBridge
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Jezan said:FUCK FUCKING YEAH!!!!
Date with nurse guy!!!Cant believe! /still drooling
I don't know where i got the guts to .... go to the hospital instead of work!
I will post details later when I calm down
Wow...so awesome. After all that fretting and it worked out in your favor.
RatskyWatsky
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Pupi18 said:
That isn't true. I read all of your posts!
Why aren't you on MSN giving me every detail? >:|Jezan said:FUCK FUCKING YEAH!!!!
Date with nurse guy!!!Cant believe! /still drooling
I don't know where i got the guts to .... go to the hospital instead of work!
I will post details later when I calm down
First ciD, now you.! :O!
The Broken Ska Record
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I'm not one of GaGa's little Monsters. :/Marius_ said:
Sseklebeast
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RoaR~!
chronos4590
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Jezan said:FUCK FUCKING YEAH!!!!
Date with nurse guy!!!Cant believe! /still drooling
I don't know where i got the guts to .... go to the hospital instead of work!
I will post details later when I calm down
That's freaking awesome. I'm liking this success you guys are having on this thread. Lets keep this going
royalan said:
I.. don't know. It's complicated. (Cliché, I know.)
He said he's completely serious but I'm kinda irritated by the fact that he said it over a text message.. especially since we haven't seen each other in over a year. Again, long story.
I don't know. I care about him. but I don't know if I could ever love him considering how he flakes out about everything. And I told him that I don't want to discuss it over the phone or text or whatever and want to do it face to face.
I'm still waiting on that moment to materialize.
Ha, thanks for being happy for me guys.
And Jezan, i'm happy for you
Space, i'm sorry I became your runaway bride
So i have another story...lol this may be the last one i tell you until disneyland because i don't want to tell you guys every detail of my relationship with this guy. i might not even update after disneyland, maybe a quick sentence to say how it went, but no more long story haha. i figured though that i owe it to you guys to know a little of what has happened since the first date.
I just got back from another date with Disney guy tonight. I can't get over how adorable he is. I asked him how long he's been out and he said ever since he was born. He never tried to hide it, nor even thought about hiding it. everyone knew- all his friends, all of his family. I was shocked, considering the fact that he isn't even a little bit feminine at all (not that there's anything wrong with that, i'm a bit feminine). I told him i wish i had thought like that when i was younger. I told him last time that i don't kiss on the first date, so when i picked him up, one his first words were, "i brought some gum, it's not our first date anymore
" I just laughed. We ended up going to dinner at some asian joint, i told him i wasn't very hungry because i had eaten earlier. what i didn't tell him was that i also had no appetite because when i see him i feel all nervous inside...lol.
after eating, we drove around and he told me of various landmarks around his neighborhood. even though i drive an automatic, i tend to have my right hand on the transmission stick (i don't know the correct term). When i was driving, he put his hand over mine and started to hold my hand. he told me how warm and soft my hands were compared to what he called his sandpaper hands. LOL. i caressed his hand and told him it feels like his hands have been through a lot, and i like them. he put his hands around my face and went in for a kiss on my cheeks. AHH i nearly swerved off the road as i couldn't help but close my eyes for a little bit because it felt so soft. i eventually took him home and i walked him up to his door. we sat down on a ledge for a little bit, with him hugging me from behind. he rested his head on my shoulders and i laid my head on his. we were quiet for a bit, and he eventually whispered, "i can't go inside until i see you drive away" and i replied, "oh? why is that?" and he said, "because it's not gentleman like." we looked at each other and he went in for another kiss, this time being behind my ear. afterwards, i got up and gave him a hug, then said goodbye. He waited outside as i drove away until i could no longer see him.
I think my favorite thing about him is that he respects me a lot. he never tried to kiss me even after hinting at it earlier in the night. he knows that i don't kiss guys so easily so he never even attempted to force it upon me. i like that he's so open about being gay. i like that he values his family above everything and that his biggest fear is losing his family bond. if i mess this up guys, i'd feel like an idiot. LOL
And Jezan, i'm happy for you
Space, i'm sorry I became your runaway bride
So i have another story...lol this may be the last one i tell you until disneyland because i don't want to tell you guys every detail of my relationship with this guy. i might not even update after disneyland, maybe a quick sentence to say how it went, but no more long story haha. i figured though that i owe it to you guys to know a little of what has happened since the first date.
I just got back from another date with Disney guy tonight. I can't get over how adorable he is. I asked him how long he's been out and he said ever since he was born. He never tried to hide it, nor even thought about hiding it. everyone knew- all his friends, all of his family. I was shocked, considering the fact that he isn't even a little bit feminine at all (not that there's anything wrong with that, i'm a bit feminine). I told him i wish i had thought like that when i was younger. I told him last time that i don't kiss on the first date, so when i picked him up, one his first words were, "i brought some gum, it's not our first date anymore
" I just laughed. We ended up going to dinner at some asian joint, i told him i wasn't very hungry because i had eaten earlier. what i didn't tell him was that i also had no appetite because when i see him i feel all nervous inside...lol. after eating, we drove around and he told me of various landmarks around his neighborhood. even though i drive an automatic, i tend to have my right hand on the transmission stick (i don't know the correct term). When i was driving, he put his hand over mine and started to hold my hand. he told me how warm and soft my hands were compared to what he called his sandpaper hands. LOL. i caressed his hand and told him it feels like his hands have been through a lot, and i like them. he put his hands around my face and went in for a kiss on my cheeks. AHH i nearly swerved off the road as i couldn't help but close my eyes for a little bit because it felt so soft. i eventually took him home and i walked him up to his door. we sat down on a ledge for a little bit, with him hugging me from behind. he rested his head on my shoulders and i laid my head on his. we were quiet for a bit, and he eventually whispered, "i can't go inside until i see you drive away" and i replied, "oh? why is that?" and he said, "because it's not gentleman like." we looked at each other and he went in for another kiss, this time being behind my ear. afterwards, i got up and gave him a hug, then said goodbye. He waited outside as i drove away until i could no longer see him.
I think my favorite thing about him is that he respects me a lot. he never tried to kiss me even after hinting at it earlier in the night. he knows that i don't kiss guys so easily so he never even attempted to force it upon me. i like that he's so open about being gay. i like that he values his family above everything and that his biggest fear is losing his family bond. if i mess this up guys, i'd feel like an idiot. LOL
moniker
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Thanks for the response royalan, it's helping me get som perspective.
Agreed, I do feel it's time for him to take some responsibility and decide how he wants to live his life.
Yeah there's a huge disconnect between us here. When we met, and I knew I wanted to be with him, I immediately came out to my parents. I was so proud of him - of us - and I wanted my parents to meet him, so not coming out wasn't even an option. When you're like that, and your partner keeps you half hidden instead, it sucks. A lot. Things are getting better though, and he is getting more comfortable with himself and us, so I just might have to be a bit more patient.
royalan said:
Agreed, I do feel it's time for him to take some responsibility and decide how he wants to live his life.
royalan said:
Yeah there's a huge disconnect between us here. When we met, and I knew I wanted to be with him, I immediately came out to my parents. I was so proud of him - of us - and I wanted my parents to meet him, so not coming out wasn't even an option. When you're like that, and your partner keeps you half hidden instead, it sucks. A lot. Things are getting better though, and he is getting more comfortable with himself and us, so I just might have to be a bit more patient.
SecretMoblin
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That's so incredibly cute that I think I'm going go explode now.ciD_Vain said:
Granger Danger
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There's nothing left of me but a puddle of goo now. That was so cute it literally made me melt.ciD_Vain said:
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
ciD_Vain said:
Aww :3
ok, i just have to say this guy is really attentive. One morning he texts me "good morning", but i didn't wake up until 2 hours later when i woke up which was at 10:00am. the next morning, my alarm goes off at 10:00am, i get up, and i get a text from him saying "good morning " at 10:01am. Today, he texts me at 9:59am saying "good morning " ok that's the end of my cutesy observation lol.
" at 10:01am. Today, he texts me at 9:59am saying "good morning " ok that's the end of my cutesy observation lol.- Status