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Once upon a time, there was a Skype chatter who was SO intensely awesome, everybody else felt intimidated by his presence, and he was permanently exiled from the chat.

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GothPunk said:
Oh gosh... :3 We're about to go to a whole other level now! I promise that we'll be on TC/Skype chat to say hello together, hehe.
No actually, we only started talking in early August. This is why you guys should join the GayGaf Skype, you meet awesome people!

He's a lurker here but as he's in the Skype chat that makes him an honorary GayGaffer in my eyes. He said he wants to post a picture here like CiD_Vain's 'morning after' picture, which was crazy cute CiD! I'll see what I can do, hehe.

Curse you lovable Brits...
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Omg i cant wait :)
 
Sofo said:
Do you live very far from each other? I can tell you, you won't be prepared the first time you get to hug him. It's almost magical! (:
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Not very far really (about 300km), I live in Ireland and he lives in the U.K., but it's like less than an hours flight away and it's very cheap to fly between where we both live, which makes the distance less of a big deal for me. He wrote me a beautiful letter too which certainly helped a lot. This guy... seriously. :$

I know what you mean, right now just thinking about him looking me in the eyes feels magical, let alone holding me and kissing me. Oh gosh :3.

i_am_ben said:
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You're mysteriously awesome, Bennifer. (Oh how I like stealing runlikehell's nicknames for people :P).

Delio said:
Omg i cant wait :)
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You can't wait? YOU can't wait? How do you think I feel?! XD Just over a week to wait now, and he'll be here for just over 9 days. I'm sighing a lot lately, hehe. *sigh*

:$
 
GothPunk said:
You can't wait? YOU can't wait? How do you think I feel?! XD Just over a week to wait now, and he'll be here for just over 9 days. I'm sighing a lot lately, hehe. *sigh*

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Aw i cant wait till i'm counting to days to meet my bf. I've known him for years now and he still makes me feel the way i did when i met him. AH so excited for you (and jealous) :O
 
Delio said:
Aw i cant wait till i'm counting to days to meet my bf. I've known him for years now and he still makes me feel the way i did when i met him. AH so excited for you (and jealous) :O
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Ha! If I'd thought about what I was typing I would have realised that you out of all of GayGaf understand this waiting game the best. Well, I'm wishing you luck too Mr. Delio. It was nice to see 'Sebastian' in the Skype chat yesterday :P.

Speaking every day helps, and I find gaming together is a really great way to spend time together, really makes the time fly. Even if I did have to buy XBL Gold just to play with him. :P
 
GothPunk said:
Ha! If I'd thought about what I was typing I would have realised that you out of all of GayGaf understand this waiting game the best. Well, I'm wishing you luck too Mr. Delio. It was nice to see 'Sebastian' in the Skype chat yesterday :P.

Speaking every day helps, and I find gaming together is a really great way to spend time together, really makes the time fly. Even if I did have to buy XBL Gold just to play with him. :P
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Haha "Sebastian" will be there a lot more I promise. And yeah I play games with jase and talk to him. Even sitting together and having him there on screen is enough for me. It always makes my heart beat a little extra faster when he says he missed me today. Or randomly says he loves me. Oh I understand you I do :).
 
GothPunk said:
Ha! If I'd thought about what I was typing I would have realised that you out of all of GayGaf understand this waiting game the best. Well, I'm wishing you luck too Mr. Delio. It was nice to see 'Sebastian' in the Skype chat yesterday :P.

Speaking every day helps, and I find gaming together is a really great way to spend time together, really makes the time fly. Even if I did have to buy XBL Gold just to play with him. :P
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Having a gamer boyfriend sounds too good to be true. You could have romantic dates over Live or PSN where you beat the shit out of each other or something!

In reality though, I would go bankrupt buying my boyfriend XBLA games and DLC to show him I care when we would be apart. In the end, I predict my boyfriend would leave me for a furry and much yiffing would occur. Somehow, this seems like the future I'm headed towards. =(

But congrats GothPunk on a happy relationship with your guy! Hope you guys have a nice 9 days together! Any plans for that time?
 
Delio said:
Haha "Sebastian" will be there a lot more I promise. And yeah I play games with jase and talk to him. Even sitting together and having him there on screen is enough for me. It always makes my heart beat a little extra faster when he says he missed me today. Or randomly says he loves me. Oh I understand you I do :).
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Aww. :3 We are entering dangerous territory here, the thread is going to take an extra mushy turn, hehe. It's strange how close I feel to him when we're not even in the same place, and then how much sometimes I feel like I miss him even though I'm talking to him. Such a strange dynamic these long distance relationships, it makes one very aware of one's feelings.

Good to hear Jase will return! ^^.

Icicle said:
Having a gamer boyfriend sounds too good to be true. You could have romantic dates over Live or PSN where you beat the shit out of each other or something!
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We do actually have 'dates' on XBL. :$ We get pretty competitive about kills, and get very particular about reviving each other in Gears 3 or providing him with medic packs in the BF3 beta. I'm such a dweeb. XD

We also have plans to wrestle a lot when I beat him at a game, so we will be beating the shit out of each other for real when he's here. You know that's only going to end well ;).

Icicle said:
In reality though, I would go bankrupt buying my boyfriend XBLA games and DLC to show him I care when we would be apart. In the end, I predict my boyfriend would leave me for a furry and much yiffing would occur. Somehow, this seems like the future I'm headed towards. =(

But congrats GothPunk on a happy relationship with your guy! Hope you guys have a nice 9 days together! Any plans for that time?
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I guess I'm lucky that he just wants to play the BF3 beta at the moment then, no money required! I usually buy all my games on PS3/PC, but he's making me want to go 360...

(I had to look up what yiffing was... I don't know what to say. My apologies :P).

Thanks Icicle, it's actually his first time visiting Dublin so I'd like to show him around, take him to the cinema or one of the parks in town, just show him around all the interesting places here. I want to bring him to my favourite restaurant as well. There will be a lot of gaming time too. Honestly I don't really mind what we do, being able to finally spend time with him here will be enough. I haven't had this much time off from work since last Christmas so it will be great to just chill out with him. :)
 
That's cute that you guys do that stuff together, in particular what you said about reviving. If my boyfriend neglected to respond to an important text that day, his dead ass can wait to be revived from somebody else! Haha.

So you wrestle when you beat him in a game, does that mean he's usually the winner? And who usually wins the wrestling matches? How do you guys size up with each other?

And finally, in one of my classes yesterday I learned that in Ireland, there's a 22 cent tax on plastic bags, so when you're out and about in the city, either have that money on hand if you want to buy something or plan accordingly with reusable bags! (Of course you already know about this tax, but I just wanted to pretend that I am a worldly person for a moment)
 
Icicle said:
So you wrestle when you beat him in a game, does that mean he's usually the winner? And who usually wins the wrestling matches? How do you guys size up with each other?
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Well I'm a total n00b to Gears of War, but I score higher than him quite a lot ;). We make fun of each other in jest plenty so I think we're just the kind of couple that will end up rough-housing no matter what really :P. I'm smaller in build and height compared to him but don't you worry, I can hold my own ;). He's probably got about 20-30lbs of muscle on me, but I've got skills! :$

Icicle said:
And finally, in one of my classes yesterday I learned that in Ireland, there's a 22 cent tax on plastic bags, so when you're out and about in the city, either have that money on hand if you want to buy something or plan accordingly with reusable bags! (Of course you already know about this tax, but I just wanted to pretend that I am a worldly person for a moment)
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What class were they teaching you that in? I always have a reusable bag on me in my backpack just in case. Anyways, if we're buying each other stuff it'll be from fancy places with pretty paper bags, and there are no charges on those. :P
 
I had an unusual but fun experience last night. :)
A straight (bi-curious) guy sucked me off in his car. It was his first time.
 
GothPunk said:
*the wonders of having a gamer boyfriend* :)
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Haha, yeah that's pretty awesome! I remember when we would play TF2 together. We always tried being on the same team, but since we usually joined together, we would each go to BLU or RED. I used to rage a lot, because I played Spy and he played with Pyro. Of course, he loved killing me from behind with the backburner~

Don't worry about the day he'll have to leave. I try not to focus on it because it usually comes FAST, and it sucks. Just enjoy the days and try to enjoy even the last one to the fullest! I remember the first two times we visited each other were really heartbreaking, and even if we still cry these days, it's less tough. I'm jealous though, you guys are pretty close, geographically speaking! I wish I had him that close, could just come on weekends or something O:
 
Oh man, I remember playing Gears 2 story mode with my boyfriend. He made me play insane mode to get most of the achievements. All that reviving...
 
GothPunk said:
Aww. :3 We are entering dangerous territory here, the thread is going to take an extra mushy turn, hehe. It's strange how close I feel to him when we're not even in the same place, and then how much sometimes I feel like I miss him even though I'm talking to him. Such a strange dynamic these long distance relationships, it makes one very aware of one's feelings.

Good to hear Jase will return! ^^.

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Sometimes you can get too emotional with long distance stuff. (And i'm supposed to be the big strong bear that protects him). But yes Gamer Boyfriends are so good to have I always get jase little games and books here and there.
 
Holmes said:
Oh man, I remember playing Gears 2 story mode with my boyfriend. He made me play insane mode to get most of the achievements. All that reviving...
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Oh boy, that hits close to home. My boyfriend is all about Platinum'ing his games. We did that with RE5, this summer, and it was so much fun! He would tease me because I'm into Chris Redfield (shameful, I know) and nowadays we just keep quotting Wesker with his "CHHHHRIS!" or the death quotes "SHEVAAAAAAAAAA!".

Gaming is an enjoyable experience, but with your partner, it can be awesome! Not to mention, the "rewards"!
 
DarkUSS said:
I meant scared as in hesitant to try it, even though he said he had fantasized about giving a blow job for a while.
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Was it hot cause you were into the guy or cause it was his first time? Or both?

I'm asking cus this situation is somewhat similar to mine
 
betweenthewheels said:
Was it hot cause you were into the guy or cause it was his first time? Or both?

I'm asking cus this situation is somewhat similar to mine
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I believe it was more the latter. That's not to say that I didn't find the guy attractive (I wouldn't have done it otherwise). Think "jock" kind of body build, though I didn't see him naked. :P

We talked again today and he said he enjoyed it but still insists that he doesn't want to try anything more than that.
 
DarkUSS said:
I believe it was more the latter. That's not to say that I didn't find the guy attractive (I wouldn't have done it otherwise). Think "jock" kind of body build, though I didn't see him naked. :P

We talked again today and he said he enjoyed it but still insists that he doesn't want to try anything more than that.
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Dont set yourself up DarkUSS. Im always wary of bicurios straight guys because of this. Dont even waste your time with him, unless its the occasional blowjob you want. And then even then, in the long term, its not even worht it. This is speaking from my personal experience. Gay men should not waste their time on "bicurious" or "straight" guys. It's just not worth it.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Dont set yourself up DarkUSS. Im always wary of bicurios straight guys because of this. Dont even waste your time with him, unless its the occasional blowjob you want. And then even then, in the long term, its not even worht it. This is speaking from my personal experience. Gay men should not waste their time on "bicurious" or "straight" guys. It's just not worth it.
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You're right but I wasn't planning on doing so anyway. I don't even like the guy all that much.

Just wanted to help him out, that's all. :P
 
DarkUSS said:
You're right but I wasn't planning on doing so anyway. I don't even like the guy all that much.

Just wanted to help him out, that's all. :P
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You're so selfless and giving DarkUSS. You know, I could use some help too.
 
DarkUSS said:
Too bad I'm stuck in this nearly bankrupt country called Greece.
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Lets not ruin this flirtation with talk of international economies. I think we were talking about Greek dick, and giving head in your car.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Gay men should not waste their time on "bicurious" or "straight" guys. It's just not worth it.
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I understand why you'd be weary of some of these guys, but on the other hand everybody's gotta start somewhere.

Though, in Dark's case the guy seems a little flaky.
 
There's usually some sort of catch with my promotions, I was just surprised with how sudden it came about. I've only been with the company for 4 months. I plan on getting laid come Friday!
 
DR2K said:
There's usually some sort of catch with my promotions, I was just surprised with how sudden it came about. I've only been with the company for 4 months. I plan on getting laid come Friday!
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Is the catch having to sleep with someone? If so, can that even be considered a "catch"?
 
red_13th said:
Greek guys are hot! I'll smuggle you some Brazilians if you give me hot Greek guys.
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I'll give you this guy:
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What do you offer in exchange? :P

betweenthewheels said:
I understand why you'd be weary of some of these guys, but on the other hand everybody's gotta start somewhere.

Though, in Dark's case the guy seems a little flaky.
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Maybe he needs more time. And yes he told me that he wants to do it again. Yet he denies that he feels any attraction towards men whatsoever. :P
 
RatskyWatsky said:
Is the catch having to sleep with someone? If so, can that even be considered a "catch"?
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Not always, I'm just assuming mostly. It's not something i want to do, unless they're hot.
 
DR2K said:
Not always, I'm just assuming mostly. It's not something i want to do, unless they're hot.
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Wait, you werent joking though? You've actually slept with someone for a promotion?

And DarkUSS, since weve all been posting pics of ourselves in the last few pages, can you post a new pic?
 
DarkUSS said:
What do you offer in exchange? :P
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Sexy!
Since there's no such thing as a Brazilian look anyone I pick will be arbitrarily chosen... the the most typical is probably "roided beach boy from Rio with horrible tattoos" so here's Bruno Spinelli.

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red_13th said:
Sexy!
Since there's no such thing as a Brazilian look anyone I pick will be arbitrarily chosen... the the most typical is probably "roided beach boy from Rio with horrible tattoos" so here's Bruno Spinelli.

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He needs a sandwich.
 
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