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DarkUSS said:
Has anyone seen that movie?

NSFW
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=2O874lNpw0Q

Looks pretty hot.
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Yeah, saw it on Netflix around a month ago... wasn't a big fan of it. I mean, I liked that it covered multiple topics (immigration -been the main one-, one of the characters was attracted to an older female, the 2 "gay friends"; etc.); yet the characters are sometimes portrayed as assholes/douches; which one's supposed to like feel sorry/identify because of their "situations".

Though I know some that really liked the movie; so like every movie..guess it depends. Maybe I just wasn't in the mood that day; maybe I'll watch it again sometime and enjoy it more.

I did liked that is one of those movies were basically it's a "regular movie" that happens to have "gay content" on it; rather than been a "gay movie".

Plus, Victor Razuk was nice to look at...

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(he plays one of the friends that has a crush with an "older" woman that owns a bakery)
 
Tomorrow is National Coming Out Day. I wish they would rebrand that instead of telling people WHEN to come out because its really up to each person to know when the time is right. Instead refocus on telling/showing people that its okay to come out.
 
Teh Hamburglar said:
Tomorrow is National Coming Out Day. I wish they would rebrand that instead of telling people WHEN to come out because its really up to each person to know when the time is right. Instead refocus on telling/showing people that its okay to come out.
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Was thinking the exact same thing. :)
 
DarkUSS said:
Has anyone seen that movie?

NSFW
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=2O874lNpw0Q

Looks pretty hot.
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Can't believe someone else knows about it. I actually saw it on Showtime first. And yes, hot movie. Including the straight scene.

Showtime seems to like putting up random indies (especially gay-focused ones) on demand. I saw some weird movie a few weeks ago that started off hot with a gay guy and classic crush on a hot straight dude, but then it just went into weirdo territory with a secret society and crap. Forget the name.
 
Teh Hamburglar said:
Tomorrow is National Coming Out Day. I wish they would rebrand that instead of telling people WHEN to come out because its really up to each person to know when the time is right. Instead refocus on telling/showing people that its okay to come out.
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Well, that's exactly what it is. When I was on the steering committee of my college's Rainbow Alliance group that's exactly how we framed it. We passed out literature, and held events on campus where we told our personal coming out stories and had group discussions with students who wanted advice on how to handle their personal coming out moments.

Sure, some people choose to celebrate the day by actually coming out of the closet, but National Coming Out Day is just the day that's been popularly branded to celebrate the act of coming out, and I think it deserves one. I didn't think this until I did it myself, but "Coming Out" really does carry the same amount of legitimacy and emotional weight as any other cultural coming-of-age ritual.

It's like celebrating Christmas on December 25th even though all evidence indicates that it wasn't the day (or even season) that Jesus was born.
 
Teh Hamburglar said:
Tomorrow is National Coming Out Day. I wish they would rebrand that instead of telling people WHEN to come out because its really up to each person to know when the time is right. Instead refocus on telling/showing people that its okay to come out.
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Its today... according to wikipedia

Anyways Happy National Coming Out Day
that I barely learned about today
GayGaf!!!

You can suck a diii.. You can suck on a ballsa...
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Cosmic Bus said:
Sai-kun's facebook status reminded me that today is National Coming Out Day. Here's your chance, sruckus! ;)
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Hey guys, I hope we can still be friends after this, but I have something I want to tell you. Ive been keeping this secret for far to long, but now I feel is the right time to tell you. Im gay.
Phew, that was a relief.

Happy National Coming Out Day.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Hey guys, I hope we can still be friends after this, but I have something I want to tell you. Ive been keeping this secret for far to long, but now I feel is the right time to tell you. Im gay.
Phew, that was a relief.

Happy National Coming Out Day.
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LOL WTF GTFO, we don't like your kind around here.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Hey guys, I hope we can still be friends after this, but I have something I want to tell you. Ive been keeping this secret for far to long, but now I feel is the right time to tell you. Im gay.
Phew, that was a relief.

Happy National Coming Out Day.
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Wow, I didn't expect that.
 
Marius_ said:
Its today... according to wikipedia

Anyways Happy National Coming Out Day
that I barely learned about today
GayGaf!!!

You can suck a diii.. You can suck on a ballsa...
alist-rod-tongue.gif
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Now my Coming Out Parade is going to look a bit silly :(
 
SpaceBridge said:
Hey guys, I hope we can still be friends after this, but I have something I want to tell you. Ive been keeping this secret for far to long, but now I feel is the right time to tell you. Im gay.
Phew, that was a relief.

Happy National Coming Out Day.
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disappoint that you thought we wouldn't be friends anymore
:p
Marius_ said:
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I've been watching this gif for too long now.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Hey guys, I hope we can still be friends after this, but I have something I want to tell you. Ive been keeping this secret for far to long, but now I feel is the right time to tell you. Im gay.
Phew, that was a relief.

Happy National Coming Out Day.
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I knew it!

Now:

 
fernoca said:
Oh that too.
He's nice to look at, but..he opens his mouth and he ruins all your fantasies.
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But I don't hold it against him too much - the same can be said about all the guys on that show....ugh...

What I do hold against him is the fact that he's probably a strict bottom when he's with men, going by who he's been romantically linked to. Does nothing for me...-_- Now Reichen, on the other hand...
 
royalan said:
But I don't hold it against him too much - the same can be said about all the guys on that show....ugh...

What I do hold against him is the fact that he's probably a strict bottom when he's with men, going by who he's been romantically linked to. Does nothing for me...-_- Now Reichen, on the other hand...
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Yeah... XD
Or how he said he's bi which is not a problem; but to then said that he feels bad for others that won't be able to love everyone...like him.

But yep, I just see it as "part of the show". They have to exaggerate some aspects of their personalities for the camera...well, at least I hope. :p
 
fernoca said:
Yes!!
Rodiney Santiago!!! :D

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That moment actually made me laugh out loud.
I initially wondered if he sounded dumb because of his English or if he was just an idiot. I came to the conclusion that he probably sounds as dumb in Portuguese as he does in English.
 
Alcoori said:
That moment actually made me laugh out loud.
I initially wondered if he sounded dumb because of his English or if he was just an idiot. I came to the conclusion that he probably sounds as dumb in Portuguese as he does in English.
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Hahahahaha...Yeah.
He also posted a video on his YouTube making fun of the subtitles too and repeating a few like "I'm win".

And him singing in portuguese. :p


EDIT:
Damn, two of my favorite "things" together in the same pic! XD

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(Alexandre Amancio; Creative Director of Assassin's Creed Revelations)
 
Well anyway I helped my friend move in furniture today. I am so weak :/, but I still managed to help.

Anyway, he told me his ex-boyfriend is probably going to move back in with him in a couple of months because he needs a roommate. He also told me he thinks the waiter at the restaurant he goes to has a crush on him...this made me jealous...

Why is it that when we are in bed I am never able to get off. -_-;
I like spending my free time with him.
 
MidnightScott said:
Well anyway I helped my friend move in furniture today. I am so weak :/, but I still managed to help.

Anyway, he told me his ex-boyfriend is probably going to move back in with him in a couple of months because he needs a roommate. He also told me he thinks the waiter at the restaurant he goes to has a crush on him...this made me jealous...

Why is it that when we are in bed I am never able to get off. -_-;
I like spending my free time with him.
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So weird. I mean, do you find it hot? Are you attracted to him on a physical level. Do you fantasize about him. When you think about him naked, do you get hard? If yes to all these, then maybe you might need to see a doctor or health professional. There might be a physical/medical reason.
 
Aww, Midnight's growing up! :) *sniff* Stoutland avatar incoming!!

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:p

But, in any case...just relax. Try not to think about "why am I not!!!" and focus more on just having a good time.
 
MidnightScott said:
Why is it that when we are in bed I am never able to get off. -_-;
I like spending my free time with him.
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You probably have some anxiety. You should just relax.
 
For me it depends a lot on my mood. Sometimes I can just go deep, and others it's a bit harder (no pun intended). It also depends on the stage of the bj!
Like, before cumming, my partner will get even harder than usual, and really big, which makes it a bit more difficult.
 
Man next year is going to be interesting money wise. I had someone suggest my bf just come see me which just cant work right now with his schooling.
 
The Abominable Snowman said:
Lets talk gag reflex.

I notice my once high and AMAZING control and tolerance has taken a steep nosedive. Is this normal?
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That happened to me before...conveniently around the time that I started to become aware that I gave good head. As a result, I became more conscious of what I was doing...which doesn't really help you "relax and go with the flow" (my Martha Stewart approved method for giving simply the best head).

Have you found yourself thinking about it more? Try to clear your head (ha!) a bit before you go at it...
 
MidnightScott said:
well I like to jack him off kinda and I do fantasize about him when I'm laying in bed. But who knows what my problem is.
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why is this in spoiler tags

you probably do have some sort of anxiety or just have problems ejaculating, might just want to consult a physician
 
MidnightScott said:
well I like to jack him off kinda and I do fantasize about him when I'm laying in bed. But who knows what my problem is.
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Can you get close to...you know...but just not finish? If so, try going into the bathroom or something and get close, and then come out and let him finish the job? Maybe that could help, just to get you used to...it with him?
 
MidnightScott said:
well I like to jack him off kinda and I do fantasize about him when I'm laying in bed. But who knows what my problem is.
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What roles are you guys in bed? I mean, perhaps if he's being the submissive, but your also being submissive, then the sexual tension might be fizzling. Or maybe the other way around too, if your both being the dominant or aggressive roles during sex.
 
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