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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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umop_3pisdn
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Zalasta said:Before I go back to lurking, I just wanted to say that I appreciate all of the comments. Don't worry, I don't feel attacked at all. I didn't post my situation to garner sympathy, just to offer a different perspective, especially for those that worry constantly about not finding Mr. right, and I fully expected people to disagree with me. Hard to discard the notion that group harmony should be considered before individual needs. Like I said before, until I decide my happiness is more important, this is the life I've chosen and I'll just have to live vicariously through you guys
With that said, do you believe there is some kind of an unspoken hierarchy in terms of desirability when it comes to physical traits? I notice that hairy seemed to be more popular than twink; muscled, beefy and even chubby are more well received than skinny; daddies more in demand than sons. True or false?
That's good, my post came out more forceful than I intended it to be, I was kind of just thinking in text, which made it more embarassing if it was.
I kind of agree with you, I think single life is often "underrated" (that's kind of a pointless term to use), but I mean to say it's potentially the most ambitious or productive lifestyle. Any big accomplishment or master work is probably enough to consume a whole life, and leave little for family. I'm trying to think of notable historical figures who were also notable 'family people', at a glance it seems like there's a lot you can only explore to the fullest extent when you are single and have few other obligations. I think people just need to be truly committed to whatever is their Raison d'être, or to whatever pulls one most strongly in a certain direction.
I do notice a hierarchy, but I observe more of the inverse, personally. Clubs seem to favor youth, twinks, and hunks. I find it's pretty similar to the more expected/Hollywood standard of male beauty, and at times just as ridiculous.
ZephyrFate
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AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you nabbed yourself a hottie there, xelios
just kidding
you nabbed yourself a hottie there, xelios
runlikehell
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Wouldn't call those amateur... hahaxelios said:
Xelios, you and your bf are super hot.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
Yeah, on my hard driveidwl said:
ZephyrFate
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Homophobic men more aroused by gay porn
well... at least now it's scientifically proven truth rather than just common sense truth
well... at least now it's scientifically proven truth rather than just common sense truth
Alcibiades
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ZephyrFate
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I would not mind getting hate-fucked by a homophobe, honestly. Sounds like a rockin' good time.xelios said:
Alcibiades: There NYC GayGAFers here, like Fonebone and Mother_Brain who would probably love to show you a better time around the bars.
ZephyrFate
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Again, you fell for something totally not-serious.xelios said:
umop_3pisdn
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xelios said:
:lol this is actually a pretty big fear of mine, for some reason. I've even had nightmares about it.
Phonomezer
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xelios said:
Sounds good to me!
ZephyrFate
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Hate is a strong word.xelios said:
More like enjoy drawing your ire. <3
but seriously, a hate-fuck sounds pretty awesome
umop_3pisdn
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xelios said:
I know, it's just such a creepy thought, there's some sort of grotesque interest that has it planted in my brain. It's impossible to really know people since everyone has multiple faces that they reveal to the world. It's just possible enough, and my imagination has fertile enough material thanks to a morbid interest in serial killers, that I've gotten pretty good at freaking myself out with it.
umop_3pisdn said:
Do you ever jack off to the thought of it? You know, playing the scenario out in your head. Because I have. I know it's fucked up. But I think some people won't admit to the ideas they've jacked off to. I don't think it means you actually want it to happen.
If this post doesn't go well, I am totally kidding.
Granger Danger
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You should watch this movieumop_3pisdn said:
ZephyrFate
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yeah well I don't want to get hate fucked after having my head twisted around, thank you very much_Isaac said:Does this get you hot?
That's what the term hate fuck reminds me of now.
just a regular hate-fuck please
umop_3pisdn
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xelios said:
No, if I were to fall anywhere on the S/M spectrum I would probably be more of a sadist, to be honest. Losing control doesn't really excite me much sexually, and losing that much control only excites me in a "panic attack" sort of way.
Though I did find Rutger Hauer in Bladerunner sexy, in part due to the whole being kind of psychotic thing.
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Emonga said:
Oh god, the description. I'm never subbing.
umop_3pisdn said:
I'm really not into any far out shit, just tend to have a vivid imagination when masturbating. I wouldn't want to be raped or anything.
Qwomo said:
At my bf? Probably of course. Because I'm a GAFfer and nerdy looking. I won't ever show him these posts because then he'll think he's too good for me. Thanks people!
_Isaac said:
Maybe for a one time thing, I couldn't handle it every day though.
That guy looks like he has glyphs on his body. Will they start glowing when he gets hard? Video game aspects + sex would be cool.
Plumbob said:
Well, you're gay so at least kiss of some sort to keep their interest. And whatever you're comfortable with. Have fun and try to talk more about him than yourself. Keep in mind I've only ever been on like three dates in my life when you take my advice.
umop_3pisdn
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xelios said:
Yeah, I get that. I have a lot of pretty twisted fantasies to be honest, rape fantasies don't even seem that bad to me. Serial killers are just some of the spookiest real life motherfuckers there are, and that scenario just seems to evoke images of being slowly strangled during sex as my murderer gets off watching my death face, serious boner-kill.
umop_3pisdn
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xelios said:
Exactly. Him and that Candy man guy are probably where my unconscious pulls most of its fear from.
_Isaac said:So you like it when guys have that scary psychotic serial killer look?
Not crazy about the tats, but I guess a psychotic edge can be one of my turn ons. It depends, though, people like that usually lose points because they're not the most sympathetic people. I just think there's something very darkly charismatic about it, it appeals to me on a visceral level, but my brain tends to disagree.
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