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A masculine looking man with a more effeminate personality is basically representative of one of my 'types'. I think the two traits can accent each other really well, or the sum makes each even more charming somehow. My one friend was kind of like that, one minute he will be all bubbly and charming and talking about how he decided what he was going to wear that night, or something. And the next minute he's just as enthusiastically jumping into a fist fight. It's funny, and I find the extremes a little captivating, but this is just preferential since generally I like men more emotionally expressive and personable than I am.
 
umop_3pisdn said:
A masculine looking man with a more effeminate personality is basically representative of one of my 'types'. I think the two traits can accent each other really well, or the sum makes each even more charming somehow. My one friend was kind of like that, one minute he will be all bubbly and charming and talking about how he decided what he was going to wear that night, or something. And the next minute he's just as enthusiastically jumping into a fist fight. It's funny, and I find the extremes a little captivating, but this is just preferential since generally I like men more emotionally expressive and personable than I am.
I have a bisexual friend like this. There are times when I can just TELL he likes dudes and he adopts a bit of the 'flagrancy' of it. He also just recently came out so he's still exploring how to express it. But he has gotten into so many fights and nearly gotten himself killed more times than I can count. So I guess he's a dumbass who at times can explode a person's gaydar.
 
Botolf said:
Still around, but yeah, nothing really to report on a relationship front. Still "in hiding", but I made a potential OKCupid friend-at-a-distance that likes to show me around League of Legends every now and then. That's about all I'm comfortable doing at the moment.
Oh okay. But you're comfortable doing men?

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ZephyrFate said:
oh, yeah, well, it's perfectly fine to objectify men. In fact, this should be instated as a cultural rule.

I was making a joke, in refernce to the hetero pride parade thread from yesterday
 
ZephyrFate said:
I have a bisexual friend like this. There are times when I can just TELL he likes dudes and he adopts a bit of the 'flagrancy' of it. He also just recently came out so he's still exploring how to express it. But he has gotten into so many fights and nearly gotten himself killed more times than I can count. So I guess he's a dumbass who at times can explode a person's gaydar.


Sorry, but that sounds hot...
 
SpaceBridge said:
Sorry, but that sounds hot...
I am viciously, stupidly attracted to him. But I expressed that once one time while blacked out and may have gone overboard. I've since tamed it down, and now I'm one of his best friends.

But seriously, he's fuckin hot. He sent me a shirtless photo of himself just because he liked the way his hair was that day and because I always seem to text him when he's either going to take a shower, or just came out of one, so he was like "Here's a shirtless pic because my hair looks good, so calm down horny boy ;)"
 
ZephyrFate said:
I have a bisexual friend like this. There are times when I can just TELL he likes dudes and he adopts a bit of the 'flagrancy' of it. He also just recently came out so he's still exploring how to express it. But he has gotten into so many fights and nearly gotten himself killed more times than I can count. So I guess he's a dumbass who at times can explode a person's gaydar.

Hahaha. My friend isn't quite that bad or I'd probably think a little worse of him for taking quite so many risks. But incidentally this is pretty much why I tend to find bisexual men hot, because I'd swear that a huge percentage of the men that are like that are bisexual.

SpaceBridge said:
Sorry, but that sounds hot...

He could be a hot dumbass.
 
Yasae said:
Aw, I'm sorry... There, there.

*cops a feel
I object to your male objectification.

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umop: yeah, I get this feeling that bisexual men are just apt to be more dangerous. Perhaps because they tread that fine line between the sexes, they see the world as their oyster, who knows... I love the guy, but he's made some seriously, ridiculously, impossibly stupid mistakes. The fact he's still alive today is nothing short of a miracle. And yet, somehow, that makes him hot as hellfire.
 
ZephyrFate said:
And before you ask, no, I am not sharing a picture of him. I like the guy too much to spread his visage around the Internets :P

Come to think of it, want to share a pic of yourself? you're one of the few here I haven't seen.
 
Stabbie said:
Come to think of it, want to share a pic of yourself? you're one of the few here I haven't seen.
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Caption: Blacked out on my 21st. Those drinks in front of me are ALL mine.

And yes, my sideburns are orange.
 
ZephyrFate said:
http://i.imgur.com/JECLH.jpg[img]

Caption: Blacked out on my 21st. Those drinks in front of me are ALL mine.[/QUOTE]

Nice :) Not a fan of those sideburns though, sorry :(
 
ZephyrFate said:
Yeah well I think they're awesome. >:/

And I'm sure there are lots of guys who think they're cool too :)

Question: anyone ever had a boyfriend who was way out of your league?
 
ZephyrFate said:
Caption: Blacked out on my 21st. Those drinks in front of me are ALL mine.

Explains a bit.


Kyon said:
:lol I'm too busy dreaming about Blaine to curr. But Kurt would be cool to hang with :)

I sometimes wonder why they have to have Kurt(?) be so girly. Yes, we get it, he's gay. We don't need the stereotype, Ryan Murphy. :/ Then again, there was only Liz on Nip/Tuck, his previous series, as a main/side-supporting gay character. But she wasn't as irritating as she was more "down-to-earth"/realistic than Kurt. :/
 
TheSeks said:
Explains a bit.




I sometimes wonder why they have to have Kurt(?) be so girly. Yes, we get it, he's gay. We don't need the stereotype, Ryan Murphy. :/ Then again, there was only Liz on Nip/Tuck, his previous series, as a main/side-supporting gay character. But she wasn't as irritating as she was more "down-to-earth"/realistic than Kurt. :/
Another sidebar is that was 4 drinks out of 15 that I'd had over the course of the night.
 
ZephyrFate said:
umop: yeah, I get this feeling that bisexual men are just apt to be more dangerous. Perhaps because they tread that fine line between the sexes, they see the world as their oyster, who knows... I love the guy, but he's made some seriously, ridiculously, impossibly stupid mistakes. The fact he's still alive today is nothing short of a miracle. And yet, somehow, that makes him hot as hellfire.

Yeah, I think there's something there for sure. And I'm pretty sure I would find that hot, too. And annoying, lol. Everyone's stupid sometimes, but at the same time you expect people to get a little wiser or something. Though there can be a kind of stubborn charm to that, too. Almost like some Byronic hero struggling against fate, only way more ridiculous.
 
umop_3pisdn said:
Yeah, I think there's something there for sure. And I'm pretty sure I would find that hot, too. And annoying, lol. Everyone's stupid sometimes, but at the same time you expect people to get a little wiser or something. Though there can be a kind of stubborn charm to that, too. Almost like some Byronic hero struggling against fate, only way more ridiculous.
He recently made a series of very stupid decisions over the course of a weekend following my 22nd birthday that made him finally... finally... wisen up to all the stupid things he's done.

I am seriously excited for him getting his first boyfriend in the future. It just might be the most adorable thing ever.
 
Wow, this thread exploded; went to play some Ocarina of Time 3D (Jabu Jabu's Belly!! :O!!..Child Ruto still a bitch) and bam! :)
 
fernoca said:
Wow, this thread exploded; went to play some Ocarina of Time 3D (Jabu Jabu's Belly!! :O!!..Child Ruto still a bitch) and bam! :)
When you posted this I went to check the "Who Posted?" and found myself at the lead again. I don't like being the one who posts the most in here.

:( :( :(
 
ZephyrFate said:
When you posted this I went to check the "Who Posted?" and found myself at the lead again. I don't like being the one who posts the most in here.

:( :( :(


Sometimes I feel like Im the one posting here the most, which makes me feel sad, hope Im not being annoying.
 
ZephyrFate said:
He recently made a series of very stupid decisions over the course of a weekend following my 22nd birthday that made him finally... finally... wisen up to all the stupid things he's done.

I am seriously excited for him getting his first boyfriend in the future. It just might be the most adorable thing ever.

That's good, with time it would be hard to know someone who repeats the same mistakes too many times. As friends even their inevitable disappointment gets indirectly passed onto us and then what first seems like a stumbling block seems like it might instead be a dead end, lol. I imagine everyone must learn eventually, though, life always seems to hand out the lesson to "either bend or break", eventually.

I can imagine cuteness, too.

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SpaceBridge said:
Sometimes I feel like Im the one posting here the most, which makes me feel sad, hope Im not being annoying.

It's not annoying. Also I think it has to be more of a novelty for you. My posting tendencies tend to fluctuate a fair bit, personally.
 
umop_3pisdn said:
That's good, with time it would be hard to know someone who repeats the same mistakes too many times. As friends even their inevitable disappointment gets indirectly passed onto us and then what first seems like a stumbling block seems like it might instead be a dead end, lol. I imagine everyone must learn eventually, though, life always seems to hand out the lesson to "either bend or break", eventually.

I can imagine cuteness, too.

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It's not annoying. Also I think it has to be more of a novelty for you. My posting tendencies tend to fluctuate a fair bit, personally.
Yeah he told me that he met a guy who he thought was straight who told him "You're fucking hot, dude." but gave no other hints at gayness (which makes think this was just a comfortable straight guy), and my bisexual friend was texting me saying, "Oh man I'm crushin' hard on this dude. I got all twitterpated when he said that, and I've been thinkin about him all day"

nothing happened from the whole thing, unfortunately, and not like it would, my bud is moving from Oregon to Florida soon so it wouldn't be worth it
 
fernoca said:
Wow, this thread exploded; went to play some Ocarina of Time 3D (Jabu Jabu's Belly!! :O!!..Child Ruto still a bitch) and bam! :)

Hey I just played (and finished) OoT for the first time! Good game.
 
Phonomezer said:
Hey I just played (and finished) OoT for the first time! Good game.
Always good to see more peopel playing it andfor teh first time.

I' m trying to finish it (slowly), but as I get excited to play more, I get stuck. Then pissed off because the 29 years old me can't believe that the 16 years old me; beat this in under a week with no problems. Then go back to play Super SFIV. XD



Just watched 'Devil' and Logan Marshall-Green looks like a clone of Tom Hardy; which is not a bad thing...at all. :p


Oh!
I just got a reminder from the dentist. Yeah no biggie, I guess.
My "thing" is that for years I had this huge crush on him because he's a nice guy, fun, quite attractive and young looking guy; so why not. As I said, in my mind I always marry every nice guy that says "hi"..I'm such a loser, but whatever; another "straight crush". :p

So, everything was fine; until I discovered (bless the internets); that he's actually gay. So the crush was still there; but for some reason I just got nervous when it was time for the usual visits. I even changed dentists; but it wasn't the same. So, went back to him..and I couldn't barely talk. Hahaha..don't know why I'm like that.

I guess part of the reason is that I knew about him, while talking to his ex-boyfriend; so is not like he directly told me. So, guess is the whole "does he know I know?" .."Does he knows about me?"..usual kind of thing. No biggie, guess I'll see him again soon.
 
umop_3pisdn said:
A masculine looking man with a more effeminate personality is basically representative of one of my 'types'. I think the two traits can accent each other really well, or the sum makes each even more charming somehow.

Mhmm, I would agree with this, although my preference would be the other way around: someone kinda 'fem and cute and girly, but then surprise! Super hairy chest or tattoos or something unexpected like that. Unf.

A few years ago I wouldn't have anticipated my attractions going in this direction, and it's definitely been influenced by falling for personality first and realizing how wild some physical traits drive me when they come attached to that.
 
fernoca said:
My "thing" is that for years I had this huge crush on him because he's a nice guy, fun, quite attractive and young looking guy; so why not. As I said, in my mind I always marry every nice guy that says "hi"..I'm such a loser, but whatever; another "straight crush". :p

One of the other managers at my office is this tall, broad shouldered and manly Arab guy who is quite possibly the hottest piece of ass I have ever seen. Every time he says hello or tries to initiate a conversation with me I just shut down and nod/stare like a tit.

Then when I'm walking away I'm thinking "Omg, it's almost like we're dating", haha. How sad!

I want to drown in the tufts of chest hair that peek out of the neck of his shirt >:D
 
Phonomezer said:
One of the other managers at my office is this tall, broad shouldered and manly Arab guy who is quite possibly the hottest piece of ass I have ever seen. Every time he says hello or tries to initiate a conversation with me I just shut down and nod/stare like a tit.

Then when I'm walking away I'm thinking "Omg, it's almost like we're dating", haha. How sad!

I want to drown in the tufts of chest hair that peek out of the neck of his shirt >:D

Is he gay?
 
SpaceBridge said:
Is he gay?

I don't think so. He's very "straight".

He did give me chocolate once for no reason; obviously, to me and my imagination, that signalled that he wanted to sart a relationship move into my apartment, haha.

But if we get drunk at a staff party and I end up blowing him in the toilets, I'll let you know!
 
Phonomezer said:
I don't think so. He's very "straight".

He did give me chocolate once for no reason; obviously, to me and my imagination, that signalled that he wanted to sart a relationship move into my apartment, haha.

But if we get drunk at a staff party and I end up blowing him in the toilets, I'll let you know!

Oh okay, so he's just initiating conversation to be friendly, hes not really interested. Hope that chocolate was tasty.
 
Haha, loved the "hottest piece of ass" description. XD

But yeah, I'm quite disappointed that most of the nice guys I meet, that buy me food, hug..and heck (once) even kissed me in public; are straight...and married with kids too. :/
 
I just had one of the weirdest conversations/experiences with a customer at work. So I was helping out a customer (i work at Starbucks) and she started hitting on me. At first I was kind of flirting around, not going to lie, just to get a good tip. But all of a sudden I smiled and she kind of looked at me all awkward and asked if i was gay. I was kind of shocked and just said, well yeah. Then she walked away as quickly away from me as possible. wtf happened? loll. does my smile give away that i'm gay?? i don't get it haha.
 
fernoca said:
Haha, loved the "hottest piece of ass" description. XD

But yeah, I'm quite disappointed that most of the nice guys I meet, that buy me food, hug..and heck (once) even kissed me in public; are straight...and married with kids too. :/

FYI....Beware of bromos like myself. We act like we are gay (kiss, hug so affectionately, get all touchy-feely. etc.. but we're really straight. not to be confused with the term bisexual.

Anyways, good luck in finally meeting a nice gay dood, bro!
 
ciD_Vain said:
I just had one of the weirdest conversations/experiences with a customer at work. So I was helping out a customer (i work at Starbucks) and she started hitting on me. At first I was kind of flirting around, not going to lie, just to get a good tip. But all of a sudden I smiled and she kind of looked at me all awkward and asked if i was gay. I was kind of shocked and just said, well yeah. Then she walked away as quickly away from me as possible. wtf happened? loll. does my smile give away that i'm gay?? i don't get it haha.
She might get infected with "the gays". :p

Nah, some girls (from what I've seen) quickly assume that when another guy flirts "midly" or just kinda ignores their flirting: "he's gay". So she just asked to confirm it (so she wouldn't waster her time).

As tradition: post pics to check you out...I mean, check your smile!! :p


Verano said:
FYI....Beware of bromos like myself. We act like we are gay (kiss, hug so affectionately, get all touchy-feely. etc.. but we're really straight. not to be confused with the term bisexual.

Anyways, good luck in finally meeting a nice gay dood, bro!
Hahaha..yeah. I know..I'm used to it. Why can't I meet a gay guy like that!!! :p
 
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