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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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dragonlife
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Are you two sending each other dirty PMs, finally?TheSeks said:
In my case, when it comes to "art" (pictures, artwork, movies) I prefer their..."natural look", or if they show it hard do various sizes across different artwork; and with soem reasoning. But in some cases, some just show this big/long things; sometimes for no reason (like the mentioned art of the guy with his mom).TheSeks said:
No biggie...ehr..no pun intended.
dragonlife
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Halo? lol.gif. What pastures are you referring to?TheSeks said:
fernoca said:
Eh, I can understand that. Perspective is better for me than unnaturally huge dicks. *shrug*
I was just wondering if he was overcompensating for something. *cough cough*
Though, granted, some Japanese mangas over-exaggerate EVERYTHING and it's like "buh?"
dragonlife29 said:
WHEREVER I GO. >_> Soon to possibly be the PC for BF3. But noooooooo it isn't L4D2 for you.
And now I go sulk back to PM's
dragonlife
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How do you know I play L4D2, hmm? And I'd totally play BF3. If you bought it for me.TheSeks said:
dragonlife said:
Because that's all you played on the 3fixme. L4D2 L4D2. I rent Bio5 the one time my 3fixme didn't die, and NOOO busy playing L4D2.
I need to get the PC version of Bio5 to 1000 again
You can't fool me, no sir.
dragonlife
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I haven't played L4D2 on 360 in ages.TheSeks said:
I do it on Steam now 
I want RE5 on PC as well.
AND, HA! You forgot to add the "29" in my name when you quoted me this time. What a loser. A forgetful loser.
I don't even know this hateradio whore and I would have to agree._Isaac said:Actually, it's more like hateradio's shtick.
dragonlife said:I do it on Steam now
Probably with that Harlot Red Scarlett
Just kidding, love you RS <3
I'll buy it after Super Ono Trolling 4: Yun and Chinese Cast Top Tier Edition.
Criminal Uppah forever low tier. 
dragonlife
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Maybe, maybe.TheSeks said:Probably with that Harlot Red Scarlettas well!Just kidding, love you RS <3
I'll buy it after Super Ono Trolling 4: Yun and Chinese Cast Top Tier Edition.
Criminal Uppah forever low tier.
Street Fighter IV vanilla was kinda meh. Super/AE look better, though. If you bought them for me...
dragonlife said:
SF4 in general is meh. I play it because 1) native PC port and 2) Cody in a SF that isn't Alpha.
Of course, they've nerfed him from X-ism Alpha 3
I personally would rather have SF3rd Strike on PC along with Marvel 3 and BB:CS1/2. Of course, the later is on PC as the CT version and GG:XX hasn't been updated since #Reload on PC.
The Japanese fighting game industry does not care about PC people.
And I'm not your husband. I don't have to buy you shit.
dragonlife
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SF in general is meh. Too slow for my taste.TheSeks said:
And fixed.
You fucker, stop editing! You don't have to be my husband to buy me things.
dragonlife said:
Sure, but what am I, your games whore? For that you have to cough up
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Eh, better than Tekken. Only reason I'm interested in Street vs Juggleken is Cody being in it.
Cosmic Bus
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Oh my God, stop using all those spoiler tags.
dragonlife
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Cosmic Bus said:
...If he were talking to Sekoku._Isaac said:
neojubei said:
Oh, not an iPod touch. *thumbs down*
xelios said:
Or he can forget about relationships and work on himself to where he doesn't take rejections hard, first. Again.
Not if it's an overlarge iPhone.
Phonomezer
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neojubei said:
Go on...
Phonomezer said:
I laughed way too much at that.
So I was sort of dating this guy. We went on 5 dates and we had a good time. He kept telling me he was more into relationships than hook ups and that was why he was on Okcupid and not Grindr.
Then after the 5th date (where I met some of his friends), radio silence. I have not heard back from him since despite trying to contact him twice. I told him that we could be friends if he wasn't interested in me on a romantic level but that he should at least tell me.
Why are some people so weird? You can even use the classic excuse of not being ready for dating because you're still scarred from a previous relationship but at least let a guy know.
Oh well, luckily New York is full of gays. It's just pretty annoying.
I wish my ex hadn't moved away, ha.
dragonlife
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What about the actual advice everyone else offered a while back?neojubei said:
dragonlife said:
He's too worried about relationships IMO. Some people need to get their mind off of "OMG I DON'T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP, I SUCK" to get a relationship.
Until he stops worrying about it, he's gonna have this issue. *shrug*
neojubei said:
Because, from what you've told me, you take the rejections really hard and that make you think you are ugly (which many people here have told you isn't true). This then depresses you.
Take it from a depressed person themselves, you need to stop worrying about a relationship, focus on yourself and get better first. Once you got that done, with time a relationship will happen. It just won't *snap* like that. Everyone of those people that rejects you? They won't get to see how awesome you are.
Get it?
This isn't going to be a "doctor help" thing until you start to accept and attempt to change your mindview. Right now, to me, it seems like you think being in a relationship will make you happy and successful and beautiful. Let me bring you to reality: Relationships suck, a vast majority of them will fail. Why do you think divorce is high? Because people get married while young and don't think things through and stay with a person a while to see if they can weather the storm. Then, when they find out they can't, they bail.
Being in a relationship isn't going to magically make you happy. Sure, it's a nice thing, but it isn't the end-all be-all.
Make yourself happy, and then you can attempt to make someone else happy.
Been there, done that with the exception of the later point. It won't help if you keep your mind on it, hence, you need to force yourself to think different. Instead of worrying about that cute guy, ignore him and go out to eat, go out to movies, go to the gym, go anywhere and don't ask people out for a bit. Once you get comfortable with being alone and feeling good. Then you can come back and attempt a relationship.
dragonlife
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neo, why's a relationship/being with another man so important to you, anyway? Some form of validation?
SpaceBridge
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ciD_Vain said:
SpaceBridge
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xelios said:
LOL. Ice cold.
dragonlife said:
From the hints he's given me here and on PM's, that seems to be the case and like I said: His own worse enemy right now is himself. He needs to stop thinking being in a relationship will make him happy and successful. It won't.
Phonomezer
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dragonlife said:
I can't get my head around it tbh.
i get really smiley and happy when i've had a few drinks, and of course i get a bit of an asian glow so we'll see what happens lol
Anyhow, things got a little more interesting/dramatic... my best friend for about 10 years decided to tell me today that he's gay and said he has liked me for a couple months now... -_____________-
what. the. fuck. i thought he was gay before but i kind of just ignored it because i asked him long ago and he denied it; he also persistently denied it when others asked if he was. so i "assumed" he wasn't, and left it at that. I have no feelings for him whatsoever other than to be his friend, i am not physically attracted to him, and it feels super awkward talking to him now. i told him how i felt, but i didn't tell him about the guy that's coming to the party. to make matters worse, the other day i told my best friend that he could crash at the house too after the party.
WHAT AM I TO DO!??
Anyhow, things got a little more interesting/dramatic... my best friend for about 10 years decided to tell me today that he's gay and said he has liked me for a couple months now... -_____________-
what. the. fuck. i thought he was gay before but i kind of just ignored it because i asked him long ago and he denied it; he also persistently denied it when others asked if he was. so i "assumed" he wasn't, and left it at that. I have no feelings for him whatsoever other than to be his friend, i am not physically attracted to him, and it feels super awkward talking to him now. i told him how i felt, but i didn't tell him about the guy that's coming to the party. to make matters worse, the other day i told my best friend that he could crash at the house too after the party.
WHAT AM I TO DO!??
ciD_Vain said:WHAT AM I TO DO!??
Threesome.
Serious answer: Tell your friend he can't stay after the party, or the person that is coming to the party. Or cancel the party and just have a date with the person that is supposed to come to the party.
You need to get zen. Stop wanting one so bad and it will happen. The times when people are their most attractive is when they are unavailable seeming, either because they are in a relationship, or they seem to not be desperate for one. You needy to be happy being with you before anyone else will be happy being with you.neojubei said:
SpaceBridge
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ciD_Vain said:i get really smiley and happy when i've had a few drinks, and of course i get a bit of an asian glow so we'll see what happens lol
Anyhow, things got a little more interesting/dramatic... my best friend for about 10 years decided to tell me today that he's gay and said he has liked me for a couple months now... -_____________-
what. the. fuck. i thought he was gay before but i kind of just ignored it because i asked him long ago and he denied it; he also persistently denied it when others asked if he was. so i "assumed" he wasn't, and left it at that. I have no feelings for him whatsoever other than to be his friend, i am not physically attracted to him, and it feels super awkward talking to him now. i told him how i felt, but i didn't tell him about the guy that's coming to the party. to make matters worse, the other day i told my best friend that he could crash at the house too after the party.
WHAT AM I TO DO!??
In all seriousness though, you'll need to be a little careful now, cuz the guy you like who you want to be gay is staying over, but the guy who just came out and likes you cant. Problems? Its like an episode of Three's Company.
dragonlife
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Sounds like a sitcom episode.ciD_Vain said:WHAT AM I TO DO!??
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