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My dreams are just...I don't know.
One day I can dream that I'm just hanging out with friends...
Another day I can dream that I'm making out with some random guy...
And sometimes in between, I dream I'm survivng a zombie apocalypse.


Oh! Nickie Charles so nice and friendly. XD
The "quick tip" I asked him ended in an hour-long conversation/messaging; in between of him posting music from Capcom fighters on his wall.

Darn..SpaceBridge, he's in Canada...meet him NOW!!! XD
 
I went to work today and to my surprise, there was a note left for me. It said, I hope your shindig was AWESOME! I'm sorry I couldn't make it, but i'll make it up to you. I promise.
Now, the coworker is offering to throw me a party at his place.
 
ciD_Vain said:
I went to work today and to my surprise, there was a note left for me. It said, I hope your shindig was AWESOME! I'm sorry I couldn't make it, but i'll make it up to you. I promise.
Now, the coworker is offering to throw me a party at his place.


Yeah...umm...game over, dude. You win.

(sorry, but I've been lurking on your story this whole time...)
 
ciD_Vain said:
I went to work today and to my surprise, there was a note left for me. It said, I hope your shindig was AWESOME! I'm sorry I couldn't make it, but i'll make it up to you. I promise.
Now, the coworker is offering to throw me a party at his place.
What?! :O!!
I need more details!!

He's throwing you a party?..at his place?..just like that?! :O!!!! :D!

He better be gay after so much teasing! XD
 
fernoca said:
What?! :O!!
I need more details!!

He's throwing you a party?..at his place?..just like that?! :O!!!! :D!

He better be gay after so much teasing! XD
This tbh
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royalan said:
Yeah...umm...game over, dude. You win.

(sorry, but I've been lurking on your story this whole time...)
Don't be sorry! But wait, why does this mean i win?? I'm oblivious to these kinds of things :(
Teh Hamburglar said:
Im throwing you a party in my pants.
Will there be some hard liquor?
fernoca said:
What?! :O!!
I need more details!!

He's throwing you a party?..at his place?..just like that?! :O!!!! :D!

He better be gay after so much teasing! XD
What kind of details did you want to know? Yeah it was kind of weird and sudden that he would offer to throw one for me... i don't want to get my hopes up though. Maybe he's just being nice.
 
I see this thread gets a little frisky after midnight...lol

And Cid_Vain, what I mean is don't be too surprised if you get to his house and he has a convenient excuse for why none of the guests showed up.

Oh, and don't forget the condoms. When circumstances align this perfectly you CAN NOT FORGET THE CONDOMS...
 
ciD_Vain said:
What kind of details did you want to know? Yeah it was kind of weird and sudden that he would offer to throw one for me... i don't want to get my hopes up though. Maybe he's just being nice.
Hahaha...just kidding. Though, did you both talked after?

OMG!!!
Keep us updated, I need this!!! :p

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Heheh, but nah!
Yep; just keep your cool. Maybe he felt bad for missing it and was planning a party on his place and and decided to move things forward and also invite you.
 
royalan said:
I see this thread gets a little frisky after midnight...lol

And Cid_Vain, what I mean is don't be too surprised if you get to his house and he has a convenient excuse for why none of the guests showed up.

Oh, and don't forget the condoms. When circumstances align this perfectly you CAN NOT FORGET THE CONDOMS...
I doubt the party would get cancelled for the two of us to be alone. lol. The coworker is apparently known to be a big party guy so I'm sure he's serious about having that party.
fernoca said:
Hahaha...just kidding. Though, did you both talked after?

OMG!!!
Keep us updated, I need this!!! :p

http://i.imgur.com/43Z4S.gif[IMG]


Heheh, but nah!
Yep; just keep your cool. Maybe he felt bad for missing it and was planning a party on his place and and decided to move things forward and also invite you.[/QUOTE]
Yeah he ended up coming to work to check his schedule and that gave us an opportunity to chit chat. I was talking to my other coworker about the party last night. She said i should throw another one and then suddenly THE coworker rushed into the room and said "I'll throw the party for you! come on it'll be fun! We'll bbq, i have a pool, and if it gets too cold, there's the jacuzzi!" it was so random that all i could say was, "uh... sure i guess!"

off topic: i got a haircut today! my head feels lighter and cooler, but i'm not too sure if i like my hair this short.
 
ZephyrFate said:
When I go it's like a giant volcano erupting all over everywhere and many times getting me in the eye

that shit is ANNOYING.
Here you should have said 'Mount Vesuvius' instead of 'giant volcano', it sounds way more manly and awesome.

e.g. "When I came out it was like... a Mount Vesuvius of gay."

***

Had a bit of a weird experience yesterday. My brother brought me out for Japanese food, and he paid, it was awesome. It's cool to see my little brother grow up and be nice instead of the terror he used to be.

However, the Japanese restaurant is in the 'gay triangle' of Dublin, in between two of the most popular gay bars.

Walking there, eating at the restaurant and hanging out there after, I realised a lot of people were looking at us and treating us like a couple. I know that perhaps that's kinda paranoid of me to think so, but the moment that sealed the deal for me was when the waiter gave us a free pot of tea after dessert and said something like 'So you guys can have some more time together', and winked at me.

Free tea was much appreciated, but I kinda felt bad that because of the way I dress or act or whatever, people think my brother is gay/bi too.

This is a non-problem right? I'd just worry if someone called him a faggot or started something with us and it would be my fault. It's not like I can do anything about it though, I mean two guys on 'gay street', well dressed and acting comfortable and amiable together is probably going to look like a couple in a lot of people's eyes.

Or maybe the reason why it bothers me is that he's my brother and that's gross. XD

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runlikehell said:
Spending four days with my boyfriend after not seeing him for two weeks. Excite.
Oh gosh! :3

Hope you guys have an awesome time ^^.
 
GothPunk said:
Had a bit of a weird experience yesterday. My brother brought me out for Japanese food, and he paid, it was awesome. It's cool to see my little brother grow up and be nice instead of the terror he used to be.

However, the Japanese restaurant is in the 'gay triangle' of Dublin, in between two of the most popular gay bars.

Walking there, eating at the restaurant and hanging out there after, I realised a lot of people were looking at us and treating us like a couple. I know that perhaps that's kinda paranoid of me to think so, but the moment that sealed the deal for me was when the waiter gave us a free pot of tea after dessert and said something like 'So you guys can have some more time together', and winked at me.

Free tea was much appreciated, but I kinda felt bad that because of the way I dress or act or whatever, people think my brother is gay/bi too.

This is a non-problem right? I'd just worry if someone called him a faggot or started something with us and it would be my fault. It's not like I can do anything about it though, I mean two guys on 'gay street', well dressed and acting comfortable and amiable together is probably going to look like a couple in a lot of people's eyes.

Or maybe the reason why it bothers me is that he's my brother and that's gross. XD
As long as your brother doesn't consider it a problem, it is not a problem. If someone was to start something, or call him faggot, it would not be your fault, it would be the fault of the fuckhead doing it.
 
Yeah I think it has more to do with the fact that he's your brother and not your lover.

Gross.

ciD, thank you for keeping us entertained. Really hope you get to tap that.
 
Granger Danger said:
What show/film is that from? Guy be cute!

Dead Man said:
As long as your brother doesn't consider it a problem, it is not a problem. If someone was to start something, or call him faggot, it would not be your fault, it would be the fault of the fuckhead doing it.
Perhaps this is a poor reflection on myself, but I suppose not so long ago I used to try to act 'straighter' when I was around my family or friends when we were out around town or whatever. Dublin isn't too bad for gay bashing but I still have had people say shit to me on occasion, so I try (or had tried) to limit that by not exactly being myself.

I've felt a lot more comfortable and confident lately so I guess I had stopped doing the 'gruff' routine and was just being myself, and hadn't realised that until I was around my brother in town.

You're right Dead Man, it wouldn't be my fault so I shouldn't let that impact on me feeling more comfortable with myself.

But yeah, my brother? That's nasty. XD
 
GothPunk said:
Free tea was much appreciated, but I kinda felt bad that because of the way I dress or act or whatever, people think my brother is gay/bi too.

I'm sure he wouldn't care. My younger brother once pretended to be my bf :lol I'm not sure why though... we were drunk...


... oh God.
 
Granger Danger said:
Happy Endings on ABC, probably the funniest sitcom right now besides Louie. And yes, he is dreamy. (This is his website.)

Uhoh, he's performing at the upright citizen brigade in NY every week.
One more thing to do on my bucketlist.

[edit] Oh wait:

Pally currently lives in Los Angeles with his wife Daniella.
:(
 
Granger Danger said:
Happy Endings on ABC, probably the funniest sitcom right now besides Louie. And yes, he is dreamy. (This is his website.)
Ahaha, wonderful! I love the quote on the sidabar: "I DID THIS WEBSITE ALL BY MYSELF MOTHERFUCKERS, THAT'S WHY IT LOOKS SO FREAKING AMAZING." XD

I'll have to check out this 'Happy Endings'. Is that the sitcom you mentioned before Zephyr with the gay character wasn't stereotypically gay?

Phonomezer said:
I'm sure he wouldn't care. My younger brother once pretended to be my bf :lol I'm not sure why though... we were drunk...


... oh God.
"Mam? Dad...? There's something we need to tell you..."

:P
 
Granger Danger said:
Happy Endings on ABC, probably the funniest sitcom right now besides Louie. And yes, he is dreamy. (This is his website.)
Adam Pally trumped Blaine as my favorite gay man on TV after that first season of Happy Endings. He's adorable. All the time.

Best sequence ever:

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And Max:
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Had a date with a really cute Canadian yesterday. He's into finance which I usually have an allergic reaction to but for some reason the conversation was pleasant and interesting.

Also, he is a ginger Jew, what's up with that? (Not that I'm complaining).

Good luck with your date Marius_, try to stay relaxed!
 
Alcoori said:
Yeah I think it has more to do with the fact that he's your brother and not your lover.

Gross.

ciD, thank you for keeping us entertained. Really hope you get to tap that.
Haha, this is the most interesting thing to happen to me in a while. I'm glad you're all interested too :P I'll update y'all if anything else occurs.
 
We just met for a coffee date and got to know each other. He was a bit short but I didnt care, he had such a perfect smile. He shirt was a bit loose so I couldnt help and notice that chest hair through out the whole time, nngggg! And I loved the way he spoke Spanish

I had to end it when we were running out of things to talk about and didnt want to have that awkward moment where we are juts sitting there in a moment of silence

I hope he calls back so we can go pick out wedding rings :D
 
don't you hate Facebook and Twitter? You meet the most amazing people, who just happen to live hundreds of miles away. I'm talking to one of the most amazing people I've ever witnessed, in personality and image, with the exact same interests as me.

Only they're half the country away. *Burns Laptop*

It's a limited market where I am. He makes me want to MOVE.
 
The Abominable Snowman said:
don't you hate Facebook and Twitter? You meet the most amazing people, who just happen to live hundreds of miles away. I'm talking to one of the most amazing people I've ever witnessed, in personality and image, with the exact same interests as me.

Only they're half the country away. *Burns Laptop*

It's a limited market where I am. He makes me want to MOVE.


I know that feeling sir. -_-
 
Marius_ said:
We just met for a coffee date and got to know each other. He was a bit short but I didnt care, he had such a perfect smile. He shirt was a bit loose so I couldnt help and notice that chest hair through out the whole time, nngggg! And I loved the way he spoke Spanish

I had to end it when we were running out of things to talk about and didnt want to have that awkward moment where we are juts sitting there in a moment of silence

I hope he calls back so we can go pick out wedding rings :D
Sounds darn nice,though..how did you ended it?

I mean; where you guys talking and when running out of things you just said "Welp, I have to go...bye!! call me!!" and just left him there? :p
 
fernoca said:
Sounds darn nice,though..how did you ended it?

I mean; where you guys talking and when running out of things you just said "Welp, I have to go...bye!! call me!!" and just left him there? :p
sort of....

The bad thing is it could have gone much differently, he kept hinting he wanted to go eat or do something later on. But I'm on my last week of summer school with a Final this Saturday and I sort of stressed that, so I couldn't say "yeah lets go". And I guess he now knows I will be busy all week. sigh
 
SpaceBridge said:
What changed exactly?
Attraction to women slowly waned. Yes I had crushes on girls and yes one broke my heart. Not that she could do anything else, we were school acquaintances at best.

I probably haven't been that sad over someone in a long time. The straight crushes weren't as difficult; you're still nervous around that person but you know it'll never happen. There's a strange satisfaction there for me.

The attractions feel exactly the same, though, if anyone was curious.
 
Marius_ said:
sort of....

The bad thing is it could have gone much differently, he kept hinting he wanted to go eat or do something later on. But I'm on my last week of summer school with a Final this Saturday and I sort of stressed that, so I couldn't say "yeah lets go". And I guess he now knows I will be busy all week. sigh
:/
If anything call him or send him a text message to make plans to go out to (actually) eat; after your final this staurday or sunday.
 
fernoca said:
:/
If anything call him or send him a text message to make plans to go out to (actually) eat; after your final this staurday or sunday.

Or you can text him and say you had a really great time. Dont let fear of embarrassment keep you from expressing your feelings. Sometime, guys keep quiet cuz their afraid of looking "desperate", but I dont see anything wrong with a minor and casual follow up. "Hey, enjoyed our coffee together, it was nice finally chatting with you in person. Let's make it dinner next.", something like that shows that your interested in doing something again...throw in a minor compliment too, like, "Your eyes are nicer in person than seeing it in pics".

Keeps up update.
 
Calamachino said:
What does a pic of your head have to do with you wearing boxers? lol
Nothing i suppose, but if i was to post a picture of my haircut, it'd be a whole body shot since i would want an opinion to see if my short hair goes well with my appearance and style as a whole.
 
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