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Phonomezer
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I'm blaming this thread for the soppy 'relationship' dream I had yesterday.
And the guy in the dream was younger. Gross
And the guy in the dream was younger. Gross
SpaceBridge
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DarkUSS said:
From the sounds of ciD's last post sounds like he might've passed out drunk before anything happened.
Granger Danger
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I'm having a lot of dreams lately where I'm being chased for hours on end and ultimately stabbed to death. I have no clue what's causing them, but it's unnerving.xelios said:
Wordsgohere
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I've never been in this thread before. Hi gaygaf.
I had those all the time when I was little. Apparently I'd wander around the house during them. Worst thing in the world.Granger Danger said:
Phonomezer
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I don't usually do the creepy thing and comment on people's pictures, but HELLO SAILOR
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and hello Wordsgohere
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and hello Wordsgohere
Oh lord. Hey guys! I'm sorry I didn't update you all as often as I wanted to last night. Before you know it, I was taking shots, drink beer, and sipping on some merlot...yeah, i know tsk tsk, don't mix drinks!
In regards to the situation last night, here's what happened. I get a text around 10:30ish from the coworker saying he's planning on coming here to the party first, then going out to party with his other friends. Originally, he was going to party with his other friends, and then come to my party; this was the reason why he asked to sleep over bcuz he didn't want to drive home under the influence. Since his plan now was to come here first, he wouldn't need my place to crash. I told him it's cool and see you soon.
As the night progressed, I realized that my best friend was having a splendid time. Good for him! We didn't talk about us, but we did have normal conversations and jokes and stuff so everything seemed fine between us. A few hours later, the coworker hasn't shown up yet but I'm having a good time with my friends. He finally texts me saying something along the lines of "my apologies, i had to be the DD for these ladies at a bar, but i hope everything's kickin ass!" i just replied saying it's cool dude and if he couldn't make it i'd understand. i also told him if he can still make it that'd be "memorable" LOL. i swear that was drunk me talking! dang it! it sounds so corny after the fact...
A couple hours go by, and i just figured he wasn't going to show up. some friends that i haven't seen in a while came; i was very happy about that. He texts me around 4am and our convo was as follows:
Coworker: Dudeeeee sooo drunk breh, how you doing?
Me: dude im drunk too!! I'm one of the last men standing. you?
Coworker: Ballerss! Just plkayed strip jenga, sttraight up hitting it
Me: LOLLL duude thats fuckin dope. i wish you would com mann! where you at now?
I say dude a lot when i'm drunk -_- And he never replied, but i passed out anyway shortly after anyway. Next morning I wake up to no hangover! Yay! My best friend didn't sleep over, he decided to go home. I haven't heard from my coworker as of yet, but i don't want to be the one to contact him. Overall, even though the night wasn't what i was expecting, it became a very neutral experience. I was pretty happy to be enjoying myself the whole night and my best friend seemed to be having fun. I wish the coworker would've made an appearance, but maybe next time.
In regards to the situation last night, here's what happened. I get a text around 10:30ish from the coworker saying he's planning on coming here to the party first, then going out to party with his other friends. Originally, he was going to party with his other friends, and then come to my party; this was the reason why he asked to sleep over bcuz he didn't want to drive home under the influence. Since his plan now was to come here first, he wouldn't need my place to crash. I told him it's cool and see you soon.
As the night progressed, I realized that my best friend was having a splendid time. Good for him!
We didn't talk about us, but we did have normal conversations and jokes and stuff so everything seemed fine between us. A few hours later, the coworker hasn't shown up yet but I'm having a good time with my friends. He finally texts me saying something along the lines of "my apologies, i had to be the DD for these ladies at a bar, but i hope everything's kickin ass!" i just replied saying it's cool dude and if he couldn't make it i'd understand. i also told him if he can still make it that'd be "memorable" LOL. i swear that was drunk me talking! dang it! it sounds so corny after the fact...A couple hours go by, and i just figured he wasn't going to show up. some friends that i haven't seen in a while came; i was very happy about that. He texts me around 4am and our convo was as follows:
Coworker: Dudeeeee sooo drunk breh, how you doing?
Me: dude im drunk too!! I'm one of the last men standing. you?
Coworker: Ballerss! Just plkayed strip jenga, sttraight up hitting it
Me: LOLLL duude thats fuckin dope. i wish you would com mann! where you at now?
I say dude a lot when i'm drunk -_- And he never replied, but i passed out anyway shortly after anyway. Next morning I wake up to no hangover! Yay! My best friend didn't sleep over, he decided to go home. I haven't heard from my coworker as of yet, but i don't want to be the one to contact him. Overall, even though the night wasn't what i was expecting, it became a very neutral experience. I was pretty happy to be enjoying myself the whole night and my best friend seemed to be having fun. I wish the coworker would've made an appearance, but maybe next time.
Cosmic Bus
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Phonomezer said:I'm blaming this thread for the soppy 'relationship' dream I had yesterday.
And the guy in the dream was younger. Gross
Escape Goat
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_Isaac said:
That sounds like really cool movie. I bet straight GAF would make it best movie ever if Christopher Nolan directed it.
Civ is so much better playing with humans! Seeing as how you can save it mid-game it would be awesome to have a regular game with a few people and play for an hour or two every week or something. It was totally worth staying up until 1am to play. XDBotolf said:
It's so relaxing to play that you can actually have a proper chat whilst playing too ^^. I'm glad you suggested it Boto. :3
Granger Danger
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I can't play Civ anymore, it's my personal crystal meth. It's just TOO addictive, whole days fly by in what feels like minutes. It just swallows you whole.
Phonomezer
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I would totally be inviting myself to that run tomorrow.
Escape Goat
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A lot of these problems could be fixed/avoided if GAFers simply talked to whoever they had a problem with. And when I say talk I don't mean make it into a confrontation.
Cosmic Bus
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That's what I've suggested numerous times in the past, but I swear there's something in our brain chemistry that makes gays try to create the most complicated drama possible.
I should have clarified that i found these things out from my best friend. he told me earlier that he knew i was interested in our coworker, he told me they have been going running. He also said he doesn't know if he's gay and he says he doesn't like him. So i guess it's all good, right?
Yep, the mega-thread. Was closed a few months ago. :/Atomic said:
Well, if he says so. But still; you'll have to find a way to ask your co-worker "without scaring him"..or somethin, so at least you can focus on other things and as you said earlier; "don't waste your time". If he's not gay; well you can start focusing on other guys. Though I'll miss your posts.ciD_Vain said:
ZephyrFate
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This thread is FAR less random than the megathread was.Atomic said:
SpaceBridge
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Atomic said:
Hey Atomic, where in Toronto are you? Welcome to the club.
CidVain: Well it sounds like at least you had a blast at your party. In the end, that's what matters right? Boyfriends usually happen by accident anyways.
umop_3pisdn
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Granger Danger said:
If you can exert some control over your dreams I recommend going up to your attacker and hugging him/her
Dreams essentially operate on our expectations, so if you do something unexpected like that your dream should follow suit. Though being able to do that when in the throes of terror is another matter, especially for a person that's not awake, but if it's a recurring dream your dreaming self might wise up to the pattern enough that you can try to steer it in a different direction.But yeah, the easiest way to control your dreams is only to expect something, your mind will take your expectations and do the rest.
I've never been able to control my dreams. They're usually nonsensical and something I would never think of when conscious. I did dream the other night a raccoon was coming out of the air vent and my cat chased it. When I let it outside my cat got outside too and I was frantically trying to find her.
origamipirate
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... I've never come to Off Topic before. There's a gay thread here? I'm.... so happy. 
(and to keep on topic I agree with Phonomezer)
(and to keep on topic I agree with Phonomezer)
SpaceBridge
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origamipirate said:... I've never come to Off Topic before. There's a gay thread here? I'm.... so happy.
(and to keep on topic I agree with Phonomezer)
Welcome origamipirate to the most absolutely fabulous thread on NeoGAF.
edit: beaten by Marius...godammot.
umop_3pisdn
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xelios said:
My dreams are really strange too. Though probably the most powerful aspect of (some) of my dreams is the atmosphere. Sometimes it's almost like I'm recalling a past life, or a different life that I could have... there's this joyful and luminous atmosphere to it, like suddenly I'm a kid again, and in a very real sense. Life has a kind of light to it that seemingly dies with age or jadedness or something, there's a kind of 'magic' behind the surface of everything. It's almost like anything can happen, life feels like an adventure, often more than I can recall from any of my childhood memories. It's a really difficult thing to explain, but in a weird way dreaming was what got me interested into spirituality, because my dream experiences can seem so pregnant with this perception of 'meaning' or joyfulness that suddenly it's like I've been made aware of something more pure and timeless that I had all but forgotten about.
Or another example of atmosphere: one nightmare, I'm crawling thigh high in water, in the dark through some sort of giant flexible plastic sewage piping (all wrapped around and climbing and junctioning each other in a massive, disorganized sort of braid,) up through this massive concrete vault deep in the earth, incredibly dark from a lack of light, and tall. Beside the 'braid' is a sort of tranquil cascade of water is falling into a deep, black reservoir at the bottom of the vault, it's point of origin far off up in the pitch black above. I'm trying to climb up to the top in this claustrophobic space to find a way out, almost any kind of moderate movement causes the tube to shake, and there are a bunch of demonic half-snake/half-man creatures slithering through the tubes parallel to me, ready to rip open my bowels should I cross their path
In a weird way, I kind of enjoy nightmares like that. The atmosphere is almost so thrilling it becomes kind of cool, which is strange because I have no appetite for fear, and I generally dislike horror movies, etc. But yeah, I rarely have control over my dreams either. But it's generally easier to if it's a recurring dream, so I thought maybe.
Phonomezer
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origamipirate said:
I like you!
SpaceBridge
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I rarely dream noawadays. Im not sure if its cuz Im older, and Ive heard the older you get the less you dream. The last dream I had was where I was having lunch with a friend and that was it. Nothing violent or sexy either. Shame really.
ZephyrFate
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I was not even paying attention while scrolling through the topic and misread the first sentence as "I've never been able to control my orgasms"xelios said:
SpaceBridge
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ZephyrFate said:
Can anyone really? I mean, when you go...you go. Right?
ZephyrFate
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When I go it's like a giant volcano erupting all over everywhere and many times getting me in the eyeSpaceBridge said:
that shit is ANNOYING.
SpaceBridge
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Atomic said:
Love the annex area, great restaurants there too. Love Future Bakery....yum. Im in Parkdale, not such a lovely area though.
Make sure you post in the Toronto-age thread sometime too.
SpaceBridge
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ZephyrFate said:
Thats a talent you got there Zephyr, you should get a webcam set up and make extra $$$.
Escape Goat
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ZephyrFate said:
I bet Hodor has that problem.
ZephyrFate
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When I cum I scream HODOR!!!Teh Hamburglar said:
okay just kidding
origamipirate
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ZephyrFate said:
... that'd be the best drunken anecdote ever.
ZephyrFate
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Crazy moonspeak.fernoca said:
umop_3pisdn
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SpaceBridge said:
I find I tend to recall significantly fewer dreams now as an adult, but I find it varies quite a bit. If I'm spending more time meditating I find I remember more dreams, for example. So while I'm sure it comes with age I think like a lot of age-related 'brain' changes, a huge part of it is habituation or related to 'neuroplasticity', basically we adapt over time to a kind of rigidness, sort of like not stressing the joints in our body can cause arthritic pain in old age. We can cultivate altered states of consciousness to the degree that the mind is perfectly 'flexible' in being able to move effortlessly through all of our natural 'altered states of consciousness' (ie: dreaming).
I think often we experience life the way we do because we've developed that particular habit, so I'm sure anyone could strengthen their memory of dream experiences or whatever, I'm pretty sure it can't be that hard, though I've never really made it a priority. I realize that isn't really what you said, though. Just in general I'm intent on minimizing 'habituation' with age. I like the Zen idea of the 'beginner's mind'.
ZephyrFate
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You don't know!Delio said:
Garcia would, though
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