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fernoca said:
GAF Hot Men

Was created by Cosmic Bus, back then when the mega-thread and the "hot guys thread" got too NSFW.



Don't know. :p Guess we'll need to ask mod regarding that. But this thread was created after Replicant asked Evilore; and that's part of the reason of the guidelines in the main post. Of course every thread will get derailed at some point which is normal (and cool); but the focus should remain the same. :p

Oh i know i'll keep the pics down. I just always wonder about certain threads on here.
 
Delio said:
Oh i know i'll keep the pics down. I just always wonder about certain threads on here.
well the Victorious thread was created for that type of intention this one serves a higher purpose if you will, but if no one is going to talk about their relationship then a little off-topic convo doesn't hurt anyone
 
Marius_ said:
well the Victorious thread was created for that type of intention this one serves a higher purpose if you will, but if no one is going to talk about their relationship then a little off-topic convo doesn't hurt anyone

Shall we have a Gay Gaf Thread of Random?
 
Marius_ said:
well the Victorious thread was created for that type of intention this one serves a higher purpose if you will, but if no one is going to talk about their relationship then a little off-topic convo doesn't hurt anyone

I like the idea of this thread being for a higher purpose :)
 
Pupi18 said:
Shall we have a Gay Gaf Thread of Random?
I dont think we can. It will use be mostly as a hot men thread which will infuriate Straight Gaf, this one is fine, randomness is welcome as long as the topic at hand is not ignored when its brought up.
 
Delio said:
I like the idea of this thread being for a higher purpose :)
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Marius_ said:
I dont think we can. It will use be mostly as a hot men thread which will infuriate Straight Gaf, this one is fine, randomness is welcome as long as the topic at hand is not ignored when its brought up.

I believe it can be done but setting some limits.
 
Marius_ said:
well the Victorious thread was created for that type of intention this one serves a higher purpose if you will, but if no one is going to talk about their relationship then a little off-topic convo doesn't hurt anyone
Marius_ said:
I dont think we can. It will use be mostly as a hot men thread which will infuriate Straight Gaf, this one is fine, randomness is welcome as long as the topic at hand is not ignored when its brought up.

Exactly, talking about stuff in general is not bad, heck it helps to keep the thread alive and even motivates others into joining and "discovering" the thread. Plus the thread is more than just about relationships, also includes crushes, advise, and general issues.

Zephyr talking about his book was fine, ciD and his stalkers/creeps is cool too, Granger having a crush with Darren Criss is fun; Isaac wondering is balls tasted like plastic is fine too;.. :p ..there we covered multiple topics, without talking about actual relationships; while still been relatively on-topic with the thread in general.

But, guess we need to tone down the amount of pictures/images at least of non-users; more than anything. I mean, replying with gifs and stuff is fun; but a few pages ago it was just a .gif war of Lady Gaga vs Britney Spears, which to me and others was fun to see; but in general it didn't made sense. :p
 
There we go posted a new pic in the pic thread. Also i think we can do a random gay thread. Only problem if straight Gaf will invade and get all pissy.
 
Alcoori said:
There is no chance I would pursue something with him now, but as I said I did have a good time and I could see us become friends. So we'll see what he has to say (if us meeting up ever happens, ha), and I'll take it from there.

That said, I wouldn't say no to sex. He kept telling me he had a big dick and the size queen I am is curious to see that.

I hate size queens, but I love their boyfriends.
 
I was forgetting to tell ya guys.

My ex the one that was being interested in someone else. Well he wants to go back with me. As much as I still love him I think the right thing to do is say no since he might do the same thing and keep hurting me but there is the other side thinking things might work out.

Confusing -_-

(Wasn't thinking about it until now that he got online)
 
Pupi18 said:
I was forgetting to tell ya guys.

My ex the one that was being interested in someone else. Well he wants to go back with me. As much as I still love him I think the right thing to do is say no since he might do the same thing and keep hurting me but there is the other side thinking things might work out.

Confusing -_-

(Wasn't thinking about it until now that he got online)

No. It might not be the easiest thing to do but it's in your best interest.
 
Alcoori said:
No. It might not be the easiest thing to do but it's in your best interest.

It's really hard and I want to keep him as a friend but if he keeps trying to bring the subject I'm afraid I might have to cut also friendship with him. (Which sucks since we can make up tons of hours of conversations without getting bored and I don't have much people like that around)

Well if he brings up the subject again today I'll guess I just tell him I want to keep him as a friend and nothing else. In the end I don't want to get hurt again when he starts seeing someone else. (Which basically was cheating on me since he was going out with that person)

I really need better friends around >_<
 
Alright, Gay GAF. I got some questions for you.

First things first.

I'm straight, I have no problems with gay people, I support gay marriage and find it ridiculous its even an issue. Equal rights and all that.

But I found out today my roommate for college is a pretty "flamboyant" gay guy. Now like I said, I have no problem with people who are gay. I know people who are gay, but they act just like everyone else.

This guy is just a very heavily stereotypical gay guy though, and I could see that getting annoying depending on how much he pushes it.

Advice? For all I know he could be really cool, but there's always the worst case scenario too.
 
A27 Tawpgun said:
Alright, Gay GAF. I got some questions for you.

First things first.

I'm straight, I have no problems with gay people, I support gay marriage and find it ridiculous its even an issue. Equal rights and all that.

But I found out today my roommate for college is a pretty "flamboyant" gay guy. Now like I said, I have no problem with people who are gay. I know people who are gay, but they act just like everyone else.

This guy is just a very heavily stereotypical gay guy though, and I could see that getting annoying depending on how much he pushes it.

Advice? For all I know he could be really cool, but there's always the worst case scenario too.

You can request a new roommate can't you? I find a lot of straight people annoying. Doesn't mean I'm heterophobic.
 
A27 Tawpgun said:
Alright, Gay GAF. I got some questions for you.

First things first.

I'm straight, I have no problems with gay people, I support gay marriage and find it ridiculous its even an issue. Equal rights and all that.

But I found out today my roommate for college is a pretty "flamboyant" gay guy. Now like I said, I have no problem with people who are gay. I know people who are gay, but they act just like everyone else.

This guy is just a very heavily stereotypical gay guy though, and I could see that getting annoying depending on how much he pushes it.

Advice? For all I know he could be really cool, but there's always the worst case scenario too.

Try to be his friend and establish limits with him or as suggested above me ask for roommate change.
 
Teh Hamburglar said:
You can request a new roommate can't you? I find a lot of straight people annoying. Doesn't mean I'm heterophobic.
I got my housing assignment REALLY late. Not sure if it would be possible. I just feel its a douchebag move to not want him as a roommate because he's gay. Makes me look like some bigot or something.

I'd probably see how he is before I do anything. If it turns out to be annoying then I would try and do something.
 
A27 Tawpgun said:
I got my housing assignment REALLY late. Not sure if it would be possible. I just feel its a douchebag move to not want him as a roommate because he's gay. Makes me look like some bigot or something.

I'd probably see how he is before I do anything. If it turns out to be annoying then I would try and do something.

Have a conversation of what is bothering you so maybe he can tone it down but expect for him to do the same if something bothers him. Its all about communication in my opinion.
 
A27 Tawpgun said:
I got my housing assignment REALLY late. Not sure if it would be possible. I just feel its a douchebag move to not want him as a roommate because he's gay. Makes me look like some bigot or something.

I'd probably see how he is before I do anything. If it turns out to be annoying then I would try and do something.

It seems you don't want him as a roommate because he annoys you. Not because he is gay. Everyone has different personalities and not everyone gels with each other. Whichever you decide to do is perfectly fine as long as you give him the respect you would anyone else.
 
Teh Hamburglar said:
It seems you don't want him as a roommate because he annoys you. Not because he is gay. Everyone has different personalities and not everyone gels with each other. Whichever you decide to do is perfectly fine as long as you give him the respect you would anyone else.

I'm probably going to wait and see for a week. I haven't even met the guy, he hasn't accepted my FR yet on facebook either. I just saw a video he posted. Like I know gay guys who act... "normal" if you know what I mean (don't want that taken the wrong way) but this guy is like the stereotypical gay guy. Like the kind people act like to make fun of gay people.

But who knows, he might be cool and stuff. I was just asking for advice and it seems the best thing is to just talk with him which I havent been able to do yet.
 
A27 Tawpgun said:
I'm probably going to wait and see for a week. I haven't even met the guy, he hasn't accepted my FR yet on facebook either. I just saw a video he posted. Like I know gay guys who act... "normal" if you know what I mean (don't want that taken the wrong way) but this guy is like the stereotypical gay guy. Like the kind people act like to make fun of gay people.

But who knows, he might be cool and stuff. I was just asking for advice and it seems the best thing is to just talk with him which I havent been able to do yet.


Exactly talk with him and try to get to know him before doing full judgment on him. He might have a few surprises that will end up being a nice friend in the end.
 
Yep, just meet the guy. And even if he's extremely flamboyant; is not like he's going to be hitting on you (well, under normal circumstances :p).

An if others form opinions and assume that you're gay (or something), just because he is; well...don't forget that you can't spell assume, without ass. :p
 
A27 Tawpgun said:
I'm probably going to wait and see for a week. I haven't even met the guy, he hasn't accepted my FR yet on facebook either. I just saw a video he posted. Like I know gay guys who act... "normal" if you know what I mean (don't want that taken the wrong way) but this guy is like the stereotypical gay guy. Like the kind people act like to make fun of gay people.

But who knows, he might be cool and stuff. I was just asking for advice and it seems the best thing is to just talk with him which I havent been able to do yet.

Does he sing Broadway tunes, feather boas and lisps like a weezing cat?

My advice: How about getting to know him first before making assumptions based on stereotypes. He might not like you so much since he hasnt accepted you on FB yet. Maybe he has a problem with a straight roommate. He might be just as concerned as you are of him.

PS-Thanks for the support on gay marriage.

Edit: This kinda came off as sounding harsh...which it might be a little, but I mean no harm. Just get to know the dude before you jump the gun and start requesting a new room assignment.
 
A27 Tawpgun said:
I'm probably going to wait and see for a week. I haven't even met the guy, he hasn't accepted my FR yet on facebook either. I just saw a video he posted. Like I know gay guys who act... "normal" if you know what I mean (don't want that taken the wrong way) but this guy is like the stereotypical gay guy. Like the kind people act like to make fun of gay people.

But who knows, he might be cool and stuff. I was just asking for advice and it seems the best thing is to just talk with him which I havent been able to do yet.
For what it's worth, I can't quite stand the kind of gay guys you're describing (not saying that your roommate is gonna be like that for sure) and I'm gay.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Does he sing Broadway tunes, feather boas and lisps like a weezing cat?

My advice: How about getting to know him first before making assumptions based on stereotypes. He might not like you so much since he hasnt accepted you on FB yet. Maybe he has a problem with a straight roommate. He might be just as concerned as you are of him.

PS-Thanks for the support on gay marriage.

Edit: This kinda came off as sounding harsh...which it might be a little, but I mean no harm. Just get to know the dude before you jump the gun and start requesting a new room assignment.

TV interests: Bravo, Real Housewives.

Other Interests: Vogue, Fashion ect.

lol.

Yeah, so I'm going to at least talk to him first. See what he's like. The other thing will be how my parents react to him lol (Old fashioned roman catholics from Poland)

Also, the reason he hasn't accepted me on FB is because I sent it only minutes ago, lol.
 
A27 Tawpgun said:
TV interests: Bravo, Real Housewives.

Other Interests: Vogue, Fashion ect.

lol.

Yeah, so I'm going to at least talk to him first. See what he's like. The other thing will be how my parents react to him lol (Old fashioned roman catholics from Poland)

Also, the reason he hasn't accepted me on FB is because I sent it only minutes ago, lol.

Quite Stereotypical. XD
 
A27 Tawpgun said:
TV interests: Bravo, Real Housewives.

Other Interests: Vogue, Fashion ect.

lol.

Yeah, so I'm going to at least talk to him first. See what he's like. The other thing will be how my parents react to him lol (Old fashioned roman catholics from Poland)

Also, the reason he hasn't accepted me on FB is because I sent it only minutes ago, lol.

Geez well i hope it goes well when you talk. And i guess i will post my pic here as well.

http://imgur.com/7inAB
 
HappyPuppy said:
Dam bridge you are a hottie, I would hit on you if I saw you on the street. Reminds me of that poem I wrote a few pages back :P.

Except that it'd be your saliva on the floor if you catch my meaning. ;-)
 
SpaceBridge said:
Except that it'd be your saliva on the floor if you catch my meaning. ;-)

I don't get what you are trying to say. Guess I need pictures like the one you said you were going to post of your bare chest so I can understand what you are trying to say. Bet it's beautiful and hairy .... <3.

Edit: How about this. If you post a pic of your chest I'll post a picture of myself but it will only be a part of me but it's a part I know you will appreciate. It could also be a pm. You are so cute, you bastard.
 
Space does look great; but!..he looks even better without the cap. ;D
But the caps suits him, so no biggie


Anyway...
Went out for a second and something weird happened and is not the first time it happens: Why does young guys (and by young, I mean, not even legal yet) are so friendly towards me and initate conversations?

Granted is nothing big, and this guy was just really friendly; but it reminded me of prior occations, like even one case were one gave me his phone number so we could "hang out at some point".

For that matter, why it's the exact opposite with guys that are actually "legal" or around my age?

The guy I mentioned earlier that we're talking again, said once that I have this "innocense" on me, which is probably what scares many people; but is a rare quality that not many have which is why he enjoyed been around and with me.

*sighs*
 
fernoca said:
Space does look great; but!..he looks even better without the cap. ;D
But the caps suits him, so no biggie


Anyway...
Went out for a second and something weird happened and is not the first time it happens: Why does young guys (and by young, I mean, not even legal yet) are so friendly towards me and initate conversations?

Granted is nothing big, and this guy was just really friendly; but it reminded me of prior occations, like even one case were one gave me his phone number so we could "hang out at some point".

*sighs*

Welp all them youngsters want to chill with you. I've noticed a lot more young gay teens really seem to go older. Or maybe they are money grubbers..
 
fernoca said:
Space does look great; but!..he looks even better without the cap. ;D
But the caps suits him, so no biggie


Anyway...
Went out for a second and something weird happened and is not the first time it happens: Why does young guys (and by young, I mean, not even legal yet) are so friendly towards me and initate conversations?

Granted is nothing big, and this guy was just really friendly; but it reminded me of prior occations, like even one case were one gave me his phone number so we could "hang out at some point".

For that matter, why it's the exact opposite with guys that are actually "legal" or around my age?

The guy I mentioned earlier that we're talking again, said once that I have this "innocense" on me, which is probably what scares many people; but is a rare quality that not many have which is why he enjoyed been around and with me.

*sighs*

Look at the positive side.

You are getting attention even if its not from the people you exactly want the attention. I don't get any attention here but I get it online which isnt the same as getting attention in person.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Any preview pages for us non-kindle owners to browse?
you can do so once it's up, like any eBook. I think. I dunno if I have to personally put up sample chapters or not.

When it's up, let me know if you can or not.
 
Re: roommate thing. If I was getting someone like Kurt from Glee for my roommate I'd have to bail too, and I'm gay. So don't feel bad. If you can't switch right now see how obnoxious (or not) he is and then decide what you need to do.
 
Delio said:
Welp all them youngsters want to chill with you. I've noticed a lot more young gay teens really seem to go older. Or maybe they are money grubbers..
Thank "god" I'm broke! XD

Pupi18 said:
Look at the positive side.

You are getting attention even if its not from the people you exactly want the attention. I don't get any attention here but I get it online which isnt the same as getting attention in person.
Well, yeah. It just makes me feel..I don't know "weird".

Is like the example I said some weeks ago, about the movie Flipped. Watched it, found the main character (played by Callan McAuliffe) to be cute. Just to go online and see that he's 16 and I felt like a pedophile. :( .. :p
 
fernoca said:
Thank "god" I'm broke! XD


Well, yeah. It just makes me feel..I don't know "weird".

Is like the example I said some weeks ago, about the movie Flipped. Watched it, found the main character (played by Callan McAuliffe) to be cute. Just to go online and see that he's 16 and I felt like a pedophile. :( .. :p

Oh well something is something. Wait till he is 18 XD
 
fernoca said:
Thank "god" I'm broke! XD


Well, yeah. It just makes me feel..I don't know "weird".

Is like the example I said some weeks ago, about the movie Flipped. Watched it, found the main character (played by Callan McAuliffe) to be cute. Just to go online and see that he's 16 and I felt like a pedophile. :( .. :p

I dont think there is a problem finding someone cute at around that age. I mean look at all the countdowns people have for females like Emma -_-. Just calling them cute shouldnt be a problem.
 
Ok guys, just had a drink with a guy who contacted me on Okcupid. He is cute and from the little online chat we had I figured he should be interesting to meet.

Well, it didn't go well.
First of all, the whole date lasted only an hour. Second of all, this guy came off as extremely arrogant. The kind of guy who I wanna tell "Girl, get over yourself". Third, I had to ask most of the questions, I mean he asked me a couple but all were about my PhD: when do I start, how many PhD students am I working with, etc. It's fine for a while but he could have asked me questions about me such as where I'm from and all that.
He also made fun of my accent and went as far as to make me repeat "woman" several time so I could get the pronunciation right (WTF). Now granted I'm not a native English speaker but people on the Gaygaf Skype chat will confirm that it's far from being bad and I'm fairly confident that I know how to pronounce "woman". He also kept saying how French people were sketchy (at least twice) and I was like, hmm you know I'm French right?

I mean, what a douche. He must have felt that I was getting annoyed, hence why we ended up the date early. I do not understand what his problem was. He was the one who contacted me, he knew I was French from my profile and he was the one asking if I wanted to get a drink (and he didn't even drink, wtf lol).

Good think though is that I came home earlier and was able to do my P90X of the day!
 
When I was a teenager I met two French girls who were hysterically funny and my impression of French people is that they are all hilarious. I never met other French people again though but they will always be funny to me. LOL.
 
Darn sorry to hear that Alcoori.
Guy sounds like an asshole, that more than anything wanted to meet you, just because you're french and hit the jackpot by getting to meet you. Just to say to his friends "Oh I went out with this french guy"..and porobably twist the story so he looks great and you look bad.
 
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