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[fernoca]

Because one is random, and the other is for you pushing his buttons. I don't know, you guys are being unhelpful to someone that came into the thread for advice. He may have come off unlike how you wanted, but I don't think he meant to actually insult anyone. Now anyone that's confused may not wanna come in.

THREAD LOCK INCOMING.

I think, some of the hostility was probably related to the way he worded things.
Is it common with gay men? Nope, it's common with men (and women) in general.
Is Chuck a lying, cheating asshole? Yep; but not the only one to blame.

That's were part of the problem lies. Exclamation knew about the relationship, and he wasn't worried about Chuck's partner knowing; he probably didnt' cared; because "he was drunk". He cares now, because Chuck is just parading about it, and his partner not only might know, but he might tell the friends Exclamation and he have in common, and therefore expose Exclamation to them "as gay".

Don't know if I'm included in the "hostile group", based on my reply earlier, but as I said back then Exclamation's also at fault in here. He doesn't want his friends to know, then don't go around sleeping with friends much less those that are in relationships. Try to hook up with guys relatively far from you're location; or at least ones that are single.

 

[xelios]

Duh! This was probably the guy:

Am I really supposed to care when narcissistic dudebros wander into the thread for advice after being blown by one of our kind?

Where are my manners?

 

[Phonomezer]

That let me have sex with you .gif is fucking GOLD.

Thnaks, GAY-GAF, for making me feel welcome.

With a couple of exceptions, fuck all of you.

HEY. I was nice.

 

[dragonlife]

Am I really supposed to care when narcissistic dudebros wander into the thread for advice after being blown by one of our kind?

Where are my manners?

Of course you don't have to care. It's just not fun when everyone gangs up on someone. That's all.

/Devil's Advocate

Is anyone else watching Torchwood: Miracle Day?

 

[Sseklebeast]

^Thanks for the birthday wishes my EQ brethren.

No problem. Hope you had a good one.

 

[Phonomezer]

Am I really supposed to care when narcissistic dudebros wander into the thread for advice after being blown by one of our kind?

Where are my manners?

"dudebro" is just as bad as "fairy queen" as far as I'm concerned.

 

[Delio]

You know there has been too much hostility in this thread, I'm leaving till I have something to add relationship wise.

Gurl i'm with you i'm going to bed!

 

[SpaceBridge]

"dudebro" is just as bad as "fairy queen" as far as I'm concerned.

In what way? How do you define dudebro and fairy queen?

edit: you know what? Forget it. I dont want to derail the thread with a discussion on gender identification, societal roles and gay stereotypes.

 

[xelios]

No problem. Hope you had a good one.

It's 2:00 a.m. here so we'll see.

"dudebro" is just as bad as "fairy queen" as far as I'm concerned.

Dudebro has nothing to do with sexuality and is not a slur based on such, bro.

 

[_Isaac]

I didn't realize people even ganged up on him.

 

[dragonlife]

I love this GIF. Seriously.

 

[_Isaac]

I have a cute and weird story I guess.

There's this guy I've been talking to lately. We decided to go on a hike a few days ago. It wasn't a date or anything just an attempt at having a good time. So we arrived at the spot and found a path to go on. It was so steep and neither of us are really that athletic. We were suffering. I was in silent anguish (other than my panting) while he expressed himself in a consistent flow of cuss words. Anyway, we took frequent breaks. I would sit down and look back down on the trail. After that we would continue then rest again and so on. It was during one of these breaks that some funny stuff started to happen. I was sitting and looking back at the trail enjoying the beautiful view (not really. lol SoCal) with my back to him and he was standing a few feet ahead of me. I then heard some noises coming from him. I thought nothing of it. I thought he was maybe coughing or something. I sat some more then heard it again HRHGRHRHNGggn! I turned around and yep he was vomiting. So we started climbing some more. Took a break. HRHTHRHNGNNNNNGN! Kept climbing. "Oh man so tire - HRHRNGNGGN!" I have never seen somebody throw up so much in such a short amount of time. I asked if he was okay, but he said he was fine and kept on wanting to go up. He claims it was just water anyway. He said he was kinda anxious about the hike and he had just eaten breakfast. Raisin Bran. I don't blame him. That stuff is disgusting. It would make me throw up too. All that plus being so tired made him vomit. Don't worry. he didn't get seriously sick or anything. We made it to some high place and then made out a bit.

Spoiler

No.

We climbed down and saw a guy and his dog walking a more reasonable trail for sane people. I guess we must've missed it and took the more intermediate trail. Anyway, he's fine now. It was a fun day. I don't ever want to go on that trail again. Hiking is romantic, you guys.

 

[Phonomezer]

In what way? How do you define dudebro and fairy queen?

I'm not PC in the slightest, but I think they're pretty awful generalisations of someones character, regardless of how amusing it is to use them.

I guess I just find them annoying more than anything else. Much like the word juxtaposition

 

[xelios]

I'm not PC in the slightest, but I think they're pretty awful generalisations of someones character, regardless of how amusing it is to use them.

I guess I just find them annoying more than anything else. Much like the word juxtaposition

At least juxtapos__ is hardly ever used (except in Tool - Schism).

Sorry if I annoyed you. Narcissistic was really meant to be the main descriptor.

 

[Phonomezer]

We made it to some high place and then made out a bit.

Spoiler

No.

lulz.

This really drunk Greek random and I once made out in the street outside a party and he threw up in my mouth. I was more offended than anything else

At least juxtapos__ is hardly ever used (except in Tool - Schism).

Sorry if I annoyed you. Narcissistic was really meant to be the main descriptor.

Don't be. You can say what you like

I'm having a middle aged woman's weekend; 6pm and READY FOR BED haha.

 

[Sseklebeast]

I've been pretty lonely since my "straight" friend moved away ~

Spoiler

 

[SpaceBridge]

I have a cute and weird story I guess.

There's this guy I've been talking to lately. We decided to go on a hike a few days ago. It wasn't a date or anything just an attempt at having a good time. So we arrived at the spot and found a path to go on. It was so steep and neither of us are really that athletic. We were suffering. I was in silent anguish (other than my panting) while he expressed himself in a consistent flow of cuss words. Anyway, we took frequent breaks. I would sit down and look back down on the trail. After that we would continue then rest again and so on. It was during one of these breaks that some funny stuff started to happen. I was sitting and looking back at the trail enjoying the beautiful view (not really. lol SoCal) with my back to him and he was standing a few feet ahead of me. I then heard some noises coming from him. I thought nothing of it. I thought he was maybe coughing or something. I sat some more then heard it again HRHGRHRHNGggn! I turned around and yep he was vomiting. So we started climbing some more. Took a break. HRHTHRHNGNNNNNGN! Kept climbing. "Oh man so tire - HRHRNGNGGN!" I have never seen somebody throw up so much in such a short amount of time. I asked if he was okay, but he said he was fine and kept on wanting to go up. He claims it was just water anyway. He said he was kinda anxious about the hike and he had just eaten breakfast. Raisin Bran. I don't blame him. That stuff is disgusting. It would make me throw up too. All that plus being so tired made him vomit. Don't worry. he didn't get seriously sick or anything. We made it to some high place and then made out a bit.

Spoiler

No.

We climbed down and saw a guy and his dog walking a more reasonable trail for sane people. I guess we must've missed it and took the more intermediate trail. Anyway, he's fine now. It was a fun day. I don't ever want to go on that trail again. Hiking is romantic, you guys.

That is a cute story. How could you guys miss a trail though. lol.
Ive been wanting to make some gay friends locally to do stuff like that, but Ive been out of the scene for so long, and out of touch with my old crew that I dont know where/how to begin.

 

[lordfroakie]

if 5'8 is short, then i'm a fuckin gnome or something. LOL. I'm 5'4 (

Also, since everyone is posting pics, here's some Photo Booth pics of me and my doggie Kiba right now )

Happy Friday GAF!

http://i.imgur.com/5ASZH.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/5vply.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/RfBJe.jpg

You're pretty cute

Off topic: Can someone make me a gay badge?

 

[xelios]

You're pretty cute

Off topic: Can someone make me a gay badge?

They don't just give those away, you have to earn them...I'm still trying to figure out what I need to do.

 

[SpaceBridge]

You're pretty cute

Off topic: Can someone make me a gay badge?

PM Bark252. He did most of ours.

 

[ciD_Vain]

You're pretty cute

Off topic: Can someone make me a gay badge?

Hey thanks ) Bark252 did the gay avatar badges.

 

[SpaceBridge]

Hey thanks ) Bark252 did the gay avatar badges.

Hey ciD, post more pics of your lovely smile to lighten the mood in here.

 

[xelios]

You do have a really cute smile ciD.

 

[Sagitario]

Happy birthday, xelios!

I love this GIF. Seriously.

I LOVE this movie. Seriously!

Off topic: Can someone make me a gay badge?

There:

 

[Exclamation-One]

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[RadioHeadAche]

Well, it turns out I won't get a chance to talk to him before he leaves, but I expected that. I guess he will visit once in a while when he gets the chance, but I'm not expecting much from that either. I sent him a text telling him I love and care about him and look forward to seeing him again. However, I was hoping to get a hug from him before he left, but you can't always get what you want.

Anyway, I don't think I'm really in love with him anymore, but I think I'll always love him because he had such an impact on my life. It's just that seeing him after a long time causes old feelings to resurface which sometimes end up being pretty strong. Those feelings are mostly gone now.

 

[Shouta]

Because one is random, and the other is for you pushing his buttons. I don't know, you guys are being unhelpful to someone that came into the thread for advice. He may have come off unlike how you wanted, but I don't think he meant to actually insult anyone. Now anyone that's confused may not wanna come in.

THREAD LOCK INCOMING.

Actually, that's quite a good analysis.

Look, I've warned Exclamation about his attitude especially because his way of seeking advice is rather atrocious. However, do you guys really need to be antagonistic like that? Pushing his buttons until he says fuck you isn't exactly all on him.

 

[Sagitario]

Shouta, where is your avatar from? Seems familiar.


Edit: Thanks!

 

[Shouta]

Growlanser IV. Over Reloaded just got released.

 

[neojubei]

Oh dear. Well i have been complimented about my kissing skill. Hopefully the bf likes it when we meet. Also my bf is 5'5 and i'm 5'9 i'll have to pick his ass up off the ground.

Oh Kyon lovely!!

5'5" that's hawt. Hope u guys met really soon

 

[idwl]

ughh Guys stop with all the nicki minaj ,gaga etc gifs. They add nothing to the topic. This is the only place in gaf where it feels nice and homey and if its locked

So anyway, back to gay related stuff. How do you guys overcome the gag reflex? I need tips

 

[Sai-kun]

ughh Guys stop with all the nicki minaj ,gaga etc gifs.

gaga no.gif

this is neogaf, dude.

 

[Escape Goat]

ughh Guys stop with all the nicki minaj ,gaga etc gifs. They add nothing to the topic. This is the only place in gaf where it feels nice and homey and if its locked

So anyway, back to gay related stuff. How do you guys overcome the gag reflex? I need tips

Gay Gaf is still learning how to use gifs appropriately.

 

[Lear]

Low-five, 5'4" brethren.

I'm 5'3 on a good day. The very definition of a 'pocket gay'. Sigh. I make up for it with my dazzling personality though.

So anyway, back to gay related stuff. How do you guys overcome the gag reflex? I need tips

Practice. (I naturally don't have a very strong gag reflex, so I'm lucky)

 

[ciD_Vain]

Hey ciD, post more pics of your lovely smile to lighten the mood in here.

Here's two more before i knock out just for you, Space

Me with some guy i just met lol

http://i.imgur.com/DKmuP.jpg

and just me smiling, since you asked

http://i.imgur.com/iHxaW.jpg

 

[lordfroakie]

Happy birthday, xelios!



I LOVE this movie. Seriously!



There:

thx

 

[HappyPuppy]

-

 

[idwl]

Me with some guy i just met lol

http://i.imgur.com/DKmuP.jpg

mmm that guy is yum

 

[Kyon]

Went on a date, had a really good time, we kissed and we are going on a second date. Both of us find the other person attractive and we share common interests. Can I get a w00t w00t ... w00t! Beards <3

YEAAAAHHHHHH!


Fake Edit: What the hell happened to this thread since I left? Lmao

 

[Granger Danger]

Man, he's so damn handsome.

This is the source of that gif. He is like a living aurora borealis.

 

[kitchenmotors]

Wow, lots of drama. What happened to this thread?

 

[dragonlife]

This is the source of that gif. He is like a living aurora borealis.

You are a good source for everything Darren Criss. I can appreciate that I really liked that last song he played. Very catchy.

 

[Granger Danger]

You are a good source for everything Darren Criss. I can appreciate that

One of the benefits of spending ~95% of my waking hours F5ing his tag on Tumblr. (The other benefit (?) is that my face now permanently looks like this.)

 

[Icicle]

Granger Danger, did you know that I actually attended high school with Darren Criss? Actually...Darren Criss /techically/ opened for a show I did back in the day!

 

[Granger Danger]

How lovely for you, I am not jealous one bit. Nope.

What kind of show, btw?

 

[Icicle]

Oh, well for me it was a sketch comedy show thing I did modeled after SNL, meaning we also had a musical guest. One year we had him and his band. I remember he sang "I Don't Want to Be" by Gavin DeGraw but not the other. If he was opening for me back then, perhaps someday soon I will eclipse his celebrity?

 

[Granger Danger]

Maybe, to be safe, I should get your autograph right now just in case.

Do you have any sketches or anything up on YouTube or something?

 

[Icicle]

No, we were never allowed to put them online. I'm self-conscious about my signature, my handwriting is shyte. I think it's because my name is too long.

 

[Exclamation-One]

Actually, that's quite a good analysis.

Look, I've warned Exclamation about his attitude especially because his way of seeking advice is rather atrocious. However, do you guys really need to be antagonistic like that? Pushing his buttons until he says fuck you isn't exactly all on him.

The 'fairy queen' bit was self-described, by the way. He took pride in feathers, boas, and the like. Sorry if anyone got offended; I'll edit my original post.

STRAIGHT(?) GUY HERE, PLEASE READ

I hope a close friend of mine (who is also an avid Neo_GAFFER) doesn't see this, but...

I'm not TOTALLY hetero. Who is?

Once I got drunk and let a [self-described] fairy queen guy blow me. I didn't finish. We ended up cuddling and sleeping in for about 7-8 hours. It was okay.

Recently, I had a bad couple of dates, and a gay friend came on to me. I ended up making out with him and let him blow me, and I jerked him a bit. As in the first situation, I was a little drunk, and that was that. Neither one of us got off.

However, the guy I hooked up with (Chuck) is in an open relationship with an older man (Jay) who I'm also friends with. He made a lot of allusions and jokes the last time we hung out together. Jay, the old man (who's in his mid-50's and the lover of Chuck) was staring at me intently the last time all of us hung out, like he knew what was going on or he was suspicious.

I think Jay suspects that Chuck and I did something. I can't tell if he's jealous or bemused.

Chuck, for his part, is almost complete transparent about the whole thing, and made sly (not blatant) allusions to us making out. I was mortified and pretended like everything was 'normal.'

Is this sort of teasing/duplicity commonplace among gay males? I know that hooking up with straight guys is supposed to be a major fantasy, but... if Jay found out, it could get around to other straight friends of mine, and well, you know...

I feel like Chuck is being careless - he sends me text messages all of the time about how he 'misses' me and whatnot. I also feel a bit objectified, like I'm some sort of joke, like Chuck is just messing about and showing off in front of Jay.

Is this common?

Edit: Shouta, just saw your PM. Thanks.

 

[Granger Danger]

The second underlined part is still really not true at all, though. Maybe you should stop hanging around with the sociopathic types.