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RPGCrazied said:
Well, you don't know me. I have every right to be bitter. You can use the ignore feature though if I bother you or something.
There's a difference between being bitter and painting broad generalizations about gay men. That's incredibly incendiary for this thread.
 
RPGCrazied said:
Well, you don't know me. I have every right to be bitter. You can use the ignore feature though if I bother you or something.

I was half-joking. You absolutely have every right to be bitter.

And girl, please. I post in the Halo threads on Gaming side. If I can handle those nerds over there, I think I can handle you :lol
 
Sai-kun said:
And girl, please. I post in the Halo threads on Gaming side. If I can handle those nerds over there, I think I can handle you :lol

But you couldn't man handle me in Team SWAT on Halo 2 X-box's last day. ;) ;)
Tight Battle Rifle > Scattered Battle Rifle >>>>>>>>>>> DMR

This reminds me I have Halo 2 PC and can't play it on my laptop. :( I want to play some Team SWAT, damn it.
 
TheSeks said:
But you couldn't man handle me in Team SWAT on Halo 2 X-box's last day. ;) ;)
Tight Battle Rifle > Scattered Battle Rifle >>>>>>>>>>> DMR

This reminds me I have Halo 2 PC and can't play it on my laptop. :( I want to play some Team SWAT, damn it.

No, the DMR is far and away the better weapon. But no bloom >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> dying >>>>>some people in the skype chat>>>>> bloom

seriously. bloom is the worst. ugh. ugh. :|

ugh.

i'll handle u any day ;)
 
I'll leave. I'm no where near entering a relationship anyways, which is what this thread is for. Good luck to you guys getting dates and stuff.
 
Marius_ said:
This thread went south with all the bitter

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Marius_ said:
and Halo talk

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Some people work very hard on their body, why shouldn't they have a bit of fun and show it off? I can think of one GayGaffer in particular who has put in a lot of work to go from kinda heavy to very buff, and his pictures don't make him a slut, I think he's an inspiration.

You know, barring a medical condition, anyone can have a nice body. You just have to put in the work and make the effort. It's true what Stephen Fry says, self pity is the worst emotion.

Sai-kun said:
yours is the most lovely tbqh

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Hehe, if only had a proper thick Irish accent. Thanks. :P
 
RPGCrazied said:
I'll leave. I'm no where near entering a relationship anyways, which is what this thread is for. Good luck to you guys getting dates and stuff.

Hey not all of us are here for that! Stay!

I'm still half way through Tales of Vesperia; it's an RPG :o
 
Sai-kun said:
Does Final Fantasy Tactics A2 count as an RPG? :(

Fainaru Fantajī Takutikusu Eitsū Fūketsu no Gurimoa is a tactical RPG!

Teh Hamburglar said:
having a hot body and are humble about is hot. Having to prove to people is not hot.

"lucky that my breasts are small and humble"

Shakira knows the score.
 
ZephyrFate said:
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You like FFX, I don't want to hear it weeaboo

OHGOSH said:
No, the DMR is far and away the better weapon.

I strongly disagree, but my 360 died before Reach final. I didn't like DMR Reach beta. :/

That said, I'm pissed that Hang 'Em High and Wizard's X-box Halo 2 remakes weren't put into Halo 2 Vista/PC (AFAIK). Those were decent Team SWAT maps (and I beat you on the Wizard remake map. :3)
 
Phonomezer said:
Hey not all of us are here for that! Stay!

I'm still half way through Tales of Vesperia; it's an RPG :o

It's my favorite Tales of. I'm eagerly waiting for Tales of Graces F. Though the game I want now is Xenoblade.

Its hard for some people though. I work out all the time and I'm chubby at 160lbs.
 
Phonomezer said:
Fainaru Fantajī Takutikusu Eitsū Fūketsu no Gurimoa is a tactical RPG!



"lucky that my breasts are small and humble"

Shakira knows the score.

Good thing I'm not wanting to date Shakira.
 
ZephyrFate said:
Uhhh what? Where did I say that? I like FFX-2.

Same thing.
I need to sit down and get through chapter 3.
 
RPGCrazied said:
It's my favorite Tales of. I'm eagerly waiting for Tales of Graces F. Though the game I want now is Xenoblade.

It's my first Tales game! Really enjoying it, especially the skits. Sure there are the usual, irritating anime tropes, but it's good light hearted fun.

Favourite JRPG this gen has been Lost Odyssey. Least has been FFXIII >_> (which is a shame because it's beautiful to look at).
 
I thought we all played JRPGs, at least that's what I gathered from the Skype chat. I mean, it's a stereotype for a reason. :P

Teh Hamburglar said:
having a hot body and are humble about is hot. Having to prove to people is not hot.
Who said anything about trying to prove it?

What I'm talking about is stuff like in the old megathread and Orioto was asking people to post shirtless pics - it was a bit of fun. I posted a shirtless pic, and you wanna know why I did it? I wanted to encourage other Gaffers to do the same. :3
 
I'll never post a shirtless picture. My face picture already breaks monitors!

I liked Final Fantasy XIII, unlike some, but the upgrading the weapon part was confusing and not very fun.
 
I usually talk/show off my body because like GothPunk said, I'm putting time and effort into it.
Of course it's not the first thing I tell people about and I don't talk about that constantly, but I do mention it when the situation arises because I am proud of the results I've gotten.

I don't see anything wrong with that.
 
ZephyrFate said:
Not even close. Nothing is.

You and I are gonna have to agree to disagree. As FF9 bores me to tears in the first disc. I still need to finish it, but I keep starting and stopping in the middle of disc 1.
 
RPGCrazied said:
It's my favorite Tales of. I'm eagerly waiting for Tales of Graces F. Though the game I want now is Xenoblade.

Its hard for some people though. I work out all the time and I'm chubby at 160lbs.
I didn't mean to imply that you or others aren't putting the work in - only that it's more proactive to get up and do something, then to indulge ourselves with self pity.

I wanted to pre-order Xenoblade at my local GameStop as I figured they might not get it in but they don't even have the game on their system. :/ I'd be tempted to get the classic controller bundle if it didn't come in that gross red colour!

I don't get all the hate on FFXIII, it's wicked fun to play.
 
GothPunk said:
I didn't mean to imply that you or others aren't putting the work in - only that it's more proactive to get up and do something, then to indulge ourselves with self pity.

I wanted to pre-order Xenoblade at my local GameStop as I figured they might not get it in but they don't even have the game on their system. I'd be tempted to get the classic controller bundle is it didn't come in that gross red colour!

I don't get all the hate on FFXIII, it's wicked fun to play.

Well, I am super lazy. So even doing my occasional sit-ups and push-ups is a chore. Though I have been doing it everyday. I would run, but I have asthma. ;/

Lucky. I'm in the US, so I have to wait like 6weeks or more to get my copy.
 
TheSeks said:
You and I are gonna have to agree to disagree. As FF9 bores me to tears in the first disc. I still need to finish it, but I keep starting and stopping in the middle of disc 1.
I guess, but it's easily the best game in the series for a multitude of reasons. Someone needs to get into fantasy more..
 
GothPunk said:
I thought we all played JRPGs, at least that's what I gathered from the Skype chat. I mean, it's a stereotype for a reason. :P

Who said anything about trying to prove it?

What I'm talking about is stuff like in the old megathread and Orioto was asking people to post shirtless pics - it was a bit of fun. I posted a shirtless pic, and you wanna know why I did it? I wanted to encourage other Gaffers to do the same. :3

Its all about the attitude. I would say for most people the whole point of posting pics online is to gain approval. And thats nothing to be ashamed of. That kind of attention feels good. Posting several unsolicited pics of your body or showing your ass on cam? You cross a line from humble to pretentious.

I think people are mistaking healthy pride with arrogance which is what my original post was in regards to.
 
ZephyrFate said:
I guess, but it's easily the best game in the series for a multitude of reasons. Someone needs to get into fantasy more..

Hey, I liked Lord of the Rings. It isn't the fantasy that is killing it for me.
 
Sai-kun said:
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someone's bitter. and i've shown tons of people my body
not all of it, just most of it
, and I'm definitely not a slut. You shouldn't judge people.

And what's wrong with being a slut? Slut shaming is bad whether it's directed at guys or girls.

Have sex with a lot of partners, have sex with few. Post naked pics of yourself on the internet or don't. It's really none of my business. You'd think queers would be a little less judgmental about the sexual behavior of others, but apparently not.
 
RPGCrazied said:
Well, I am super lazy. So even doing my occasional sit-ups and push-ups is a chore. Though I have been doing it everyday. I would run, but I have asthma. ;/
The woman who ran the circuit training class I used to go to had asthma, she had to learn some crazy ass breathing techniques to be able to do sport. I have no idea how she did it as she was in bits sometimes. I really respected her dedication. She was crazy though, she'd go on about how fat she was when she had a killer body and was super fit - although I guess we all do that.

I suppose a lot of us could do with loving ourselves that little bit more. :/

Teh Hamburglar said:
Its all about the attitude. I would say for most people the whole point of posting pics online is to gain approval. And thats nothing to be ashamed of. That kind of attention feels good. Posting several unsolicited pics of your body or showing your ass on cam? You cross a line from humble to pretentious.

I think people are mistaking healthy pride with arrogance which is what my original post was in regards to.
Thanks, I understand much better now, and I agree. Arrogance isn't very attractive, but healthy self confidence is. Very much so in fact, at least to me.

Umm, I have flashed my butt on cam to some of GayGaf, but they asked. :P

I guess I just don't see the big deal about nudity *shrug*. To me, it's a bit of fun, a joke.
 
Amibguous Cad said:
And what's wrong with being a slut? Slut shaming is bad whether it's directed at guys or girls.

Have sex with a lot of partners, have sex with few. Post naked pics of yourself on the internet or don't. It's really none of my business. You'd think queers would be a little less judgmental about the sexual behavior of others, but apparently not.

I'm not sure if this post is directed at me or what. I never said there was anything wrong with being a slut (although I'm not sure I would like being labeled by other people as one), I just said that showing off in pictures or something along those lines doesn't make you one.
 
Maybe that's why I'm single, I'm not confident at all, and am hard on myself a lot. I get compliments all the time saying I don't look 34, but I never get hit on by guys, and I'm on all the dating sites.

Maybe its the town I'm in, I dunno.
 
Sai-kun said:
I'm not sure if this post is directed at me or what. I never said there was anything wrong with being a slut (although I'm not sure I would like being labeled by other people as one), I just said that showing off in pictures or something along those lines doesn't make you one.

It was intended to be an addition to your response. Like, "yeah, he's right that it doesn't make you a slut, and even if it did, what's the problem?"

Sorry for the confusing communication =)
 
RPGCrazied said:
Well, anyone needing to show strangers their body, really just screams slut to me. Though thats nothing new for the typical gay guy. What I wouldn't give to find someone that likes RPG's and Anime that doesn't care about looks very much. I mean, I see some pretty weird combinations for straight people. Why not us below average gay guys? We need love too!

Awww.. cheer up, man. I like all of those things and would consider dating you.. (based on the little bit we've talked) but alas, I'm married. I'm sure you'll find the right guy one of these days... and its only a few weeks for Xenoblade (I'm getting that shit sent fast!)
 
Bel Marduk said:
Awww.. cheer up, man. I like all of those things and would consider dating you.. (based on the little bit we've talked) but alas, I'm married. I'm sure you'll find the right guy one of these days... and its only a few weeks for Xenoblade (I'm getting that shit sent fast!)

That's another thing, I have no problems finding the nice guys that share many interests with me, but they are taken and far away. :P I'm cursed I tell you, but thanks for saying that. That was sweet.
 
Wow, there's a lot of conflict and hostility all over the place in the last few pages. Maybe I'm just reading too much into things, and it's not as threatening of an environment to post in as it seems. Anyhow, hello there. :)
FFIX is one of my favorite games of all time.

RPGCrazied said:
I'm sorry if I caused the uproar. I'm generally a nice guy. :P Just misunderstood sometimes.
You weren't that big of a factor in that equation, so don't worry. I understand the way you feel.
 
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