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dragonlife
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Whoa. Who is the guy in the black suit? He is fiiiiine.Sagitario said:Booooo! </3
Anyway... use it as your phone wallpaper!
Haha thanks, that sounds like a good way to tell them when the time comes :3 It definitely feels good to be myself here at the very least. It's a small step, but it feels pretty liberating. And yup, definitely waiting on the right time to pull the trigger. Not sure how my parents would take it, let alone my mom (why are old school Asian moms so scary?). Or my brother haha. We like to crack lighthearted gay jokes (no offense!) and I couldn't imagine how he'd take it or if there'd be any awkwardness between us. But yeah, I'm still young, so there's plenty of time to sort things out. Thanks for the help, it means a lot to me =)ciD_Vain said:
Oh, weak sauce.Delio said:
dragonlife
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Yeah, this feels familiar.Sagitario said:
Who are you, again?
lordfroakie
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Pupi18 said:
Where have u been hiding all these years fellow GN
Late to the picture party but here I go!
http://i55.tinypic.com/vipqv9.jpg
http://i55.tinypic.com/vipqv9.jpg
ZephyrFate
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so there's a mod opening on GAF now... I wonder, who would make a good mod out of us GayGAFers?
I can think of people who would be perfect for it but are never online often enough.
I can think of people who would be perfect for it but are never online often enough.
Darn nice lips (and everything) alternade.
I approve this posting-pics trend (except me of course). Might as well as Str8-GAF to post their pics in here, since in the end we are the ones that reply to them with the animated gifs, and marriage proposals.
Though we need some relationship/crush/misc. questions-talk "asap". The last few pages has been random pictures and Gaga-gifs and while fun; I don't want this thread locked. XD
So...
The guy I was talking a few months ago, but disappeared; returned recently (online-wise). Turned out he moved away from his apartment and back to his family, to save some money for a few months in order to get another apartment.
It was interesting talking to him again, and he said he was sorry for trying to force "specific sexual-things" on me (he was kinda obsessed on me been a top to him; and as I said; even in here I'm not too much into that; or any position).
Also said that I'm a great guy with great heart and that he doesn't call me, afraid that since it's been a few months since the last time we talked; he thought I was angry at him or something. Plus he's shy.
Not creating expectations, since he said back then that he wasn't interested in a relationship; but he's a really good guy and we have a lot of things in comon (plus he looks quite nice, but that's an extra more than anything.. XD ); so..the friendship is nice; lets see how thigns turn around.
I approve this posting-pics trend (except me of course). Might as well as Str8-GAF to post their pics in here, since in the end we are the ones that reply to them with the animated gifs, and marriage proposals.
Though we need some relationship/crush/misc. questions-talk "asap". The last few pages has been random pictures and Gaga-gifs and while fun; I don't want this thread locked. XD
So...
The guy I was talking a few months ago, but disappeared; returned recently (online-wise). Turned out he moved away from his apartment and back to his family, to save some money for a few months in order to get another apartment.
It was interesting talking to him again, and he said he was sorry for trying to force "specific sexual-things" on me (he was kinda obsessed on me been a top to him; and as I said; even in here I'm not too much into that; or any position).
Also said that I'm a great guy with great heart and that he doesn't call me, afraid that since it's been a few months since the last time we talked; he thought I was angry at him or something. Plus he's shy.
Not creating expectations, since he said back then that he wasn't interested in a relationship; but he's a really good guy and we have a lot of things in comon (plus he looks quite nice, but that's an extra more than anything.. XD ); so..the friendship is nice; lets see how thigns turn around.
Oh yes, telling your parents is pretty scary. I haven't told my dad, partly because i see him maybe once or twice a year, and partly because we're not really on good terms most of the time. My mom knows; i told her and my two brothers (both older) at the same time one night. It was probably the most difficult thing i've ever had to do. Long story short, my oldest was perfectly fine with it immediately, and my other brother and mom became fine with it a little bit right after. My brothers and I crack gay jokes/puns all the time (no offense to anyone). I remember eating raspberries with my brothers and mom one night and I said, "I actually prefer boysenberries," and my oldest brother replied "You would" i couldn't help but laugh LOL.MooMoo said:
I would! I'm the most level-headed, objective person when it comes to people. I can most certainly have opinions -- the hate of radio? -- but I'm coo. No drama llama. 8)ZephyrFate said:so there's a mod opening on GAF now... I wonder, who would make a good mod out of us GayGAFers?
I can think of people who would be perfect for it but are never online often enough.
Plus, people hardly know me, so they won't be biased about my abilities.
However, I guess gGAF would dislike me because I would cut down on the GIF spam.
/sees everyone posts gifs to that statement
You look hot and tiredalternade said:
Sigh, I couldn't think of anyone honestly. I'd vote with my partner down there rather than my brain. But really, I feel like the current set of mods are a solid bunch. It'll be interesting who the next mod will be though.ZephyrFate said:so there's a mod opening on GAF now... I wonder, who would make a good mod out of us GayGAFers?
I can think of people who would be perfect for it but are never online often enough.
Good luck!fernoca said:Darn nice lips (and everything) alternade.
I approve this posting-pics trend (except me of course). Might as well as Str8-GAF to post their pics in here, since in the end we are the ones that reply to them with the animated gifs, and marriage proposals.
Though we need some relationship/crush/misc. questions-talk "asap". The last few pages has been random pictures and Gaga-gifs and while fun; I don't want this thread locked. XD
So...
The guy I was talking a few months ago, but disappeared; returned recently (online-wise). Turned out he moved away from his apartment and back to his family, to save some money for a few months in order to get another apartment.
It was interesting talking to him again, and he said he was sorry for trying to force "specific sexual-things" on me (he was kinda obsessed on me been a top to him; and as I said; even in here I'm not too much into that; or any position).
Also said that I'm a great guy with great heart and that he doesn't call me, afraid that since it's been a few months since the last time we talked; he thought I was angry at him or something. Plus he's shy.
Not creating expectations, since he said back then that he wasn't interested in a relationship; but he's a really good guy and we have a lot of things in comon (plus he looks quite nice, but that's an extra more than anything.. XD ); so..the friendship is nice; lets see how thigns turn around.
Friendship is always nice, even if it's not what you ultimately want. Plus it's a good sign he's talking to you again. I'm heading back to college in a couple weeks. Have a 6-9PM lab section and I'm hoping I get a cute/hot lab partner. And a good teacher assistant of course since they make a huge difference in how smoothly the class goes/grading.Hahaha that's great xDciD_Vain said:
Granger Danger
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What show is this from?Alcoori said:
Granger Danger
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hateradio said:
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Sit down, friend. Tis a long tale of gays, blacks and a man named Himuro.red_13th said:
Granger Danger
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It looks fab, now I want to watch the whole series. I'm in the mood for a high school drama anyway.Alcoori said:I wish I knew, found in on Tumblr quite randomly
Ok so I was dating this guy a couple of weeks back. We had been on 5 dates that all went pretty well, the last one being him inviting me to hang out with his friends one night. In my mind things were going smoothly and even though we hadn't had sex and barely made out, I enjoyed the guy's company and thought that it was nice that we were taking things slowly.
Then he disappeared. I texted him a couple of days after our last date to ask him if he wanted to come over for dinner (I had asked him during the date and he had agreed). I didn't get any reply so I called him once to know if he got my text but got the voicemail. 3 or 4 days after that, I texted him one last time saying that I was confused, that I thought we were getting along well and that if he wasn't interested in me romantically, maybe we could still hang out as friends but that in any case I wanted him to tell me where we were instead of letting me hanging. Of course no reply so I gave up and went on to pursue other guys.
I was upset because of the rejection (who likes that?) and also because clearly he had been telling me shit that wasn't true. He told me during our dates that he was looking for something more than just a hook up, that it was why he was on Okcupid and not Grindr and telling me how honesty and communication were really important for him and that he hated it when guys just disappeared (oh the irony). For a little bit I tried to find excuses for him: he lost his phone, he had an accident, he died, etc. Denial never really works so I just came to the conclusion that he was a dick and that was that.
Anyway, guess what I got this morning? A text from Mr. Flaky telling me that he's sorry to have gone missing and that if I'm around, he could explain in person sometime.
I'm curious to hear what he has to say so I will meet with him and hear him out, this should be good. I'll keep you posted if you're interested.
Then he disappeared. I texted him a couple of days after our last date to ask him if he wanted to come over for dinner (I had asked him during the date and he had agreed). I didn't get any reply so I called him once to know if he got my text but got the voicemail. 3 or 4 days after that, I texted him one last time saying that I was confused, that I thought we were getting along well and that if he wasn't interested in me romantically, maybe we could still hang out as friends but that in any case I wanted him to tell me where we were instead of letting me hanging. Of course no reply so I gave up and went on to pursue other guys.
I was upset because of the rejection (who likes that?
) and also because clearly he had been telling me shit that wasn't true. He told me during our dates that he was looking for something more than just a hook up, that it was why he was on Okcupid and not Grindr and telling me how honesty and communication were really important for him and that he hated it when guys just disappeared (oh the irony). For a little bit I tried to find excuses for him: he lost his phone, he had an accident, he died, etc. Denial never really works so I just came to the conclusion that he was a dick and that was that.Anyway, guess what I got this morning? A text from Mr. Flaky telling me that he's sorry to have gone missing and that if I'm around, he could explain in person sometime.
I'm curious to hear what he has to say so I will meet with him and hear him out, this should be good. I'll keep you posted if you're interested.
SpaceBridge
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Alcoori said:Ok so I was dating this guy a couple of weeks back. We had been on 5 dates that all went pretty well, the last one being him inviting me to hang out with his friends one night. In my mind things were going smoothly and even though we hadn't had sex and barely made out, I enjoyed the guy's company and thought that it was nice that we were taking things slowly.
Then he disappeared. I texted him a couple of days after our last date to ask him if he wanted to come over for dinner (I had asked him during the date and he had agreed). I didn't get any reply so I called him once to know if he got my text but got the voicemail. 3 or 4 days after that, I texted him one last time saying that I was confused, that I thought we were getting along well and that if he wasn't interested in me romantically, maybe we could still hang out as friends but that in any case I wanted him to tell me where we were instead of letting me hanging. Of course no reply so I gave up and went on to pursue other guys.
I was upset because of the rejection (who likes that?
Anyway, guess what I got this morning? A text from Mr. Flaky telling me that he's sorry to have gone missing and that if I'm around, he could explain in person sometime.
I'm curious to hear what he has to say so I will meet with him and hear him out, this should be good. I'll keep you posted if you're interested.
I wouldnt even have acknowledge his text, let alone agree to meet with him. Youre a better man than I.
vectorman06 said:Where have u been hiding all these years fellow GN
I was lurking here first before I had my account validated and hanged around other sucky pages while I waited for my Neogaf account. Now I rarely visit the other gaming sites which is fine with me since they are not that great.
^^
i'm interested to find out the guy's excuse! so update us when you see him.Alcoori said:Ok so I was dating this guy a couple of weeks back. We had been on 5 dates that all went pretty well, the last one being him inviting me to hang out with his friends one night. In my mind things were going smoothly and even though we hadn't had sex and barely made out, I enjoyed the guy's company and thought that it was nice that we were taking things slowly.
Then he disappeared. I texted him a couple of days after our last date to ask him if he wanted to come over for dinner (I had asked him during the date and he had agreed). I didn't get any reply so I called him once to know if he got my text but got the voicemail. 3 or 4 days after that, I texted him one last time saying that I was confused, that I thought we were getting along well and that if he wasn't interested in me romantically, maybe we could still hang out as friends but that in any case I wanted him to tell me where we were instead of letting me hanging. Of course no reply so I gave up and went on to pursue other guys.
I was upset because of the rejection (who likes that?
Anyway, guess what I got this morning? A text from Mr. Flaky telling me that he's sorry to have gone missing and that if I'm around, he could explain in person sometime.
I'm curious to hear what he has to say so I will meet with him and hear him out, this should be good. I'll keep you posted if you're interested.
alternade said:
Well hello there...
Alcoori said:
I believe in giving people a chance to explain themselves. Depending on your answer I can judge for myself whether or not I want you in my life or not. But you only get one. Also "straight talk makes for straight understanding"... I hate when people say one thing and do another.
Granger Danger
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Harsh.SpaceBridge said:
SpaceBridge
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Granger Danger said:
Why? Alcoori made multiple attempts at contacting him, the guy doesnt have the decency to be honest or respond with a simple, 'not interested". There is no excuse for someone to not be able to call, text, PM or post a response if they are a genuine person. Im curious to see what he has to say though....but I think we all know whats coming.
For me, I dont have time to waste playing these games, your either hot for me, or youre not. Ill tell you Ill like you pretty soon. Im very clear in my feelings and intentions, whether they be serious or casual, and I hope to expect the same in nreturn, although that rarely happens.
(Im at work right now, so I cant post to often.)
Alcoori said:Ok so I was dating this guy a couple of weeks back. We had been on 5 dates that all went pretty well, the last one being him inviting me to hang out with his friends one night. In my mind things were going smoothly and even though we hadn't had sex and barely made out, I enjoyed the guy's company and thought that it was nice that we were taking things slowly.
Then he disappeared. I texted him a couple of days after our last date to ask him if he wanted to come over for dinner (I had asked him during the date and he had agreed). I didn't get any reply so I called him once to know if he got my text but got the voicemail. 3 or 4 days after that, I texted him one last time saying that I was confused, that I thought we were getting along well and that if he wasn't interested in me romantically, maybe we could still hang out as friends but that in any case I wanted him to tell me where we were instead of letting me hanging. Of course no reply so I gave up and went on to pursue other guys.
I was upset because of the rejection (who likes that?
Anyway, guess what I got this morning? A text from Mr. Flaky telling me that he's sorry to have gone missing and that if I'm around, he could explain in person sometime.
I'm curious to hear what he has to say so I will meet with him and hear him out, this should be good. I'll keep you posted if you're interested.
If I were you I would have ignored him. He should have tried to keep a steady communication even if something was going on. Sending a text message saying you are busy or sick or in problems doesn't take that much time. I guess as sweet as I can be I got limits. If I'm left for days with no reasons of why there is not communication then I simply move on. Still I haven't really been on the dating scene much so I'm inexperienced in the end.
Oh hey, picture time? 
Me in my latest NeoGAF swag:
http://i.imgur.com/mTzrEl.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/BlMJ3l.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/DZi1jl.jpg
Be kind!
Alcoori: Let us know how it goes man! Shit does sometimes come up. I'd say give the guy a chance at least once.
Or just dump him, fly to TO and marry me.
Either way, you know.
Me in my latest NeoGAF swag:
http://i.imgur.com/mTzrEl.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/BlMJ3l.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/DZi1jl.jpg
Be kind!
Alcoori: Let us know how it goes man! Shit does sometimes come up. I'd say give the guy a chance at least once.
Or just dump him, fly to TO and marry me.
Either way, you know.
wait, did the neogaf tshirts actually get made? or did you make those?Magnus said:Oh hey, picture time?
Me in my latest NeoGAF swag:
http://i.imgur.com/mTzrEl.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/BlMJ3l.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/DZi1jl.jpg
Be kind!
Alcoori: Let us know how it goes man! Shit does sometimes come up. I'd say give the guy a chance at least once.
Or just dump him, fly to TO and marry me.
Either way, you know.
Nazgul_Hunter
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Market Days was a lot of fun but it was exhausting! It was basically just like any other Chicago street festival, except with a lot more shirtless boys haha. (And a couple of porn studios had booths too.)
My best friend lives right on Halsted so a lot of my time was spent people watching from his window. I don't have too much to report, but the funniest part of the whole weekend was that
Only took one picture sadly haha, this is me and my best friend, and we were both pretty drunk at the time.
My best friend lives right on Halsted so a lot of my time was spent people watching from his window. I don't have too much to report, but the funniest part of the whole weekend was that
this random guy kissed me at a bar, and I ended up coaching him and giving him tips on how to do it better
Only took one picture sadly haha, this is me and my best friend, and we were both pretty drunk at the time.
Nazgul_Hunter
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xelios said:
Haha yeah I'm wasted but I do tend to look different in different pictures
Erebus
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Pupi18 said:You single?
Very.
Hahaha.btkadams said:
Where you been, mister?!
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=439534
DarkUSS said:Love these new pics of Bernardo!
http://www.abload.de/img/post-3136-0-09494900-1sjpo.jpg
http://h5.abload.de/img/post-3136-0-87467800-1zkdu.jpg
Who in the world is this beautiful stud? All over my face please.
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