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Delio said:
Pfft you have plenty of time. One big thing i'd say is to not give up i was on the virge of it when i met my guy. It scared me how far he was (He's a Aussie) but it was the right choice in the long run. So never stop trying.
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I kinda gave up early this year. Since it has been 7 years of of been ignored, been left waiting at places (BRB!), etc. Though I met the guy I said earlier online; but he said he's not looking for a relationship. So I don't know. Guess I'll have to give it a change again one of this days. Maybe there are new people around.

At the same time, it kinda sucks that at least around here eHarmony, Manhunt, OkCupid, Adam4Adam and gay.com (to name a few) have the exact same people. So one sites has them showing their butthole looking for "right now!" and the other has them smiling at the camera, looking for "relationships". :/
 
fernoca said:
At the same time, it kinda sucks that at least around here eHarmony, Manhunt, OkCupid, Adam4Adam and gay.com (to name a few) have the exact same people. So one sites has them showing their butthole looking for "right now!" and the other has them smiling at the camera, looking for "relationships". :/
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If anything, that helps you weed out the whores.
 
Delio said:
People still tell me i'm crazy meeting my partner online. Calling it not real and such haters i say.
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You will make it, I have faith in you.

In all of you, don't be weak and give up. Never give up hope.

So says the hypocrite.

Good night, Gay-GAF.
 
ZephyrFate said:
the newly-released art for DmC oddly turns me on a fuckton. The guy somehow makes that haircut hot and I want to be the angel he's pointing his gun at. Unnnnfff

fuck the other angels, I want to be that one. To suck that guy off.

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SON of a bitch UNGH
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Alcoori said:
Ok guys, just had a drink with a guy who contacted me on Okcupid. He is cute and from the little online chat we had I figured he should be interesting to meet.

Well, it didn't go well.
First of all, the whole date lasted only an hour. Second of all, this guy came off as extremely arrogant. The kind of guy who I wanna tell "Girl, get over yourself". Third, I had to ask most of the questions, I mean he asked me a couple but all were about my PhD: when do I start, how many PhD students am I working with, etc. It's fine for a while but he could have asked me questions about me such as where I'm from and all that.
He also made fun of my accent and went as far as to make me repeat "woman" several time so I could get the pronunciation right (WTF). Now granted I'm not a native English speaker but people on the Gaygaf Skype chat will confirm that it's far from being bad and I'm fairly confident that I know how to pronounce "woman". He also kept saying how French people were sketchy (at least twice) and I was like, hmm you know I'm French right?

I mean, what a douche. He must have felt that I was getting annoyed, hence why we ended up the date early. I do not understand what his problem was. He was the one who contacted me, he knew I was French from my profile and he was the one asking if I wanted to get a drink (and he didn't even drink, wtf lol).

Good think though is that I came home earlier and was able to do my P90X of the day!
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This hurts my heart. You're way too good (inside and out) to be treated like dirt like that.

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Granger Danger said:
This hurts my heart. You're way too good (inside and out) to be treated like dirt like that.

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I agree with Mr. Danger, Alco! You know I would only make fun of your accent slightly beyond your comfort level. You should totally have beaten him up...isn't that what P90X is for, to beat jerks up when dates go sour?

Anyhow, I'm still single and San Francisco is LOVELY this time of year...

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And we also have dat crazy bitch, Kreayshawn!

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ZephyrFate said:
the newly-released art for DmC oddly turns me on a fuckton. The guy somehow makes that haircut hot and I want to be the angel he's pointing his gun at. Unnnnfff
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Wow, I thought I was the only one.
 
Delio said:
I met mines on a random irc about Omegle. I've been with him two years now and it's been great. Not the same as Animal crossing but yeah.
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Met mine nearly 7 years ago on Hot or Not (more specifically, meetme.hotornot)... Yeah, remember that? lol
 
Granger Danger said:
This hurts my heart. You're way too good (inside and out) to be treated like dirt like that.

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It wasn't that bad. You all make it sound like I was beaten up emotionally by that guy, it was just a bad date, not a big deal.

But thanks anyway y'all.

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Now that I see gaffers posting some games they love here I thought I would share my Favs.

IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER:
Lost Kingdoms 1/2, Bayonetta, Tales of Symphonia, Resonance of Fate, Super Mario World, SMB3, Yoshi Island, Zelda OOT, Beach Spikers, Mario Galaxy 1/2.


As for my ex we talk it out and he is going to "stop it" and let me be the one to ask if I get the interest in going back with him. I think its something perhaps fair since he knows he fucked up things and I guess I'll go with that one.

Now Single isn't the best but is better alone than with bad company.
 
I hate that when I go to a straight club I can have fun without worrying about anything, but when I'm in a gay club I am always wanting someone to come grab me from behind and I think about it all the time im there, and rarely ppl do :(
 
Marius_ said:
I hate that when I go to a straight club I can have fun without worrying about anything, but when I'm in a gay club I am always wanting someone to come grab me from behind and I think about it all the time im there, and rarely ppl do :(
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Need some advice. To alleviate my own mind, should I tell my friend I am into him more than just a friend, even when I know nothing will come from it? I've been obsessing about him lately and I don't know, I feel if he turns me down like actually says it, that it would snap me back to reality. But I also don't want to jeopardize the friendship and make things weird.

Should I go through with this; and how should I phrase things if so? And if not/alternately, how do I get over this guy in a timely fashion? I want to be his friend but I keep thinking there could/should be something more. I dislike actually loving someone this way; being this attached. Halp? :(
 
Koomaster said:
Need some advice. To alleviate my own mind, should I tell my friend I am into him more than just a friend, even when I know nothing will come from it? I've been obsessing about him lately and I don't know, I feel if he turns me down like actually says it, that it would snap me back to reality. But I also don't want to jeopardize the friendship and make things weird.

Should I go through with this; and how should I phrase things if so? And if not/alternately, how do I get over this guy in a timely fashion? I want to be his friend but I keep thinking there could/should be something more. I dislike actually loving someone this way; being this attached. Halp? :(
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I wouldn't go through with it. It would be one thing if you guys came to get together in a dating capacity but ended up being friends, but expressing to him your feelings which you know will not be reciprocated and you will probably end up placing the friendship in jeopardy. If the friendship isnt that important to you, then go right ahead, but it sounds like it is, so I wouldn't say anything. You never know what the future will hold, but I would suggest maybe trying to resolve those feelings you have for him internally, and realize that if he doesnt feel the same for you, that your dream of being with him, is just that...a fantasy.
 
Koomaster said:
Need some advice. To alleviate my own mind, should I tell my friend I am into him more than just a friend, even when I know nothing will come from it? I've been obsessing about him lately and I don't know, I feel if he turns me down like actually says it, that it would snap me back to reality. But I also don't want to jeopardize the friendship and make things weird.

Should I go through with this; and how should I phrase things if so? And if not/alternately, how do I get over this guy in a timely fashion? I want to be his friend but I keep thinking there could/should be something more. I dislike actually loving someone this way; being this attached. Halp? :(
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That would be a bit selfish (just to alleviate your own mind). If you know nothing will come of it (like he's straight for instance) why would you want to ruin the friendship? Your infatuation will eventually dwindle, trust me; I've been there.


ZephyrFate said:
fuck the other angels, I want to be that one. To suck that guy off.

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lol. That is nice art though. Are they at a rave?
 
*sigh* You guys are right, it wouldn't be right to be selfish like that. Any tips on how to get over him then, like with the quickness? I'm having a hard time even avoiding him. We stay up talking really late most nights. When I don't call him he calls me wanting to know where I am or what I'm doing that we aren't talking. Makes it a little difficult to stay away.
 
Koomaster said:
Need some advice. To alleviate my own mind, should I tell my friend I am into him more than just a friend, even when I know nothing will come from it? I've been obsessing about him lately and I don't know, I feel if he turns me down like actually says it, that it would snap me back to reality. But I also don't want to jeopardize the friendship and make things weird.

Should I go through with this; and how should I phrase things if so? And if not/alternately, how do I get over this guy in a timely fashion? I want to be his friend but I keep thinking there could/should be something more. I dislike actually loving someone this way; being this attached. Halp? :(
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Yeah, I wouldn't go through with that one. I don't see good outcomes. Unless you know for sure he is in to you, I wouldn't do it.

Plus if/when he denies you, I doubt it strips away those feelings.
 
Koomaster said:
*sigh* You guys are right, it wouldn't be right to be selfish like that. Any tips on how to get over him then, like with the quickness? I'm having a hard time even avoiding him. We stay up talking really late most nights. When I don't call him he calls me wanting to know where I am or what I'm doing that we aren't talking. Makes it a little difficult to stay away.
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Is he dating someone? Are you? (Is he gay?)
 
I'm replaying BoF4, out on PSN today. Remember playing this as a kid.

Best of luck either way Koo.
 
I met someone on Grindr (:/) then went on a date with him. It went pretty well, he seemed to really be into me. But after that I just see him online on Grindr all the time (and vice versa) and none of us ever say a word. Silent (mutual) rejection?
 
Soulscribe said:
I met someone on Grindr (:/) then went on a date with him. It went pretty well, he seemed to really be into me. But after that I just see him online on Grindr all the time (and vice versa) and none of us ever say a word. Silent (mutual) rejection?
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Been there, done that. It sucks

DarkUSS said:
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yes really. I blame it on the alcohol.
 
Soulscribe said:
I met someone on Grindr (:/) then went on a date with him. It went pretty well, he seemed to really be into me. But after that I just see him online on Grindr all the time (and vice versa) and none of us ever say a word. Silent (mutual) rejection?
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Sounds like it. Im not hearing many success stories with Grindr.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Sounds like it. Im not hearing many success stories with Grindr.
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Yeah, I'm sort of asking for it with Grindr. I'm still holding out hope that there are some people on there that are looking for the same thing I am (i.e. something meaningful), but it's obviously something hard to come by. I used to use OK Cupid but nobody messages me anymore. Ironically I only get messaged on OK Cupid when I'm already seeing someone. Once I'm single again my inbox remains untouched. lol
 
WTF? I missed fernoca's pic? DAMMIT! After all these years and I still don't know what he looks like. I want my handgratulations back, Mr. fernoca >:(


SpaceBridge said:
I admit though, I picked it up a 3 weeks ago, but I havent started it yet sadly. Havent had the time. But I promise I will and let you know my thoughts.
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Hahahahaha... I bought the game 5 years ago and I only started it 3 weeks ago (I even got a new SDTV so I could play it properly).
Hopefully it won't be on your backlog as long :P
 
Sagitario said:
WTF? I missed fernoca's pic? DAMMIT! After all these years and I still don't know what he looks like. I want my handgratulations back, Mr. fernoca >:(




Hahahahaha... I bought the game 5 years ago and I only started it 3 weeks ago (I even got a new SDTV so I could play it properly).
Hopefully it won't be on your backlog as long :P
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If I stop spending so much time on GAF and went to play some games, my backlog wouldnt be so bad. An now Deus Ex and Devil Survivor Overclock is out next week. Arghh.
 
ZephyrFate said:
The Dream Metropolis is now up on Amazon US. UK/EU versions to follow in a couple days. $3.99 US, equivalent amount in other countries. I can't promise you it's a good book, but I can promise you the cover is fucking awesome and you'll want it on your Kindle just to be cool. I swear.

Keep on dreaming...
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Just bought it and read the first 20%. It's... really awe-inspiring. Love the Vanilla Sky-esque atmosphere and the characters (esp. Cleo, she's amazing) and how you've adopted the ASoIaF structure of every chapter featuring a different character/setting but with interlocking elements. Gonna read the rest of it now.
 
Granger Danger said:
Just bought it and read the first 20%. It's... really awe-inspiring. Love the Vanilla Sky-esque atmosphere and the characters (esp. Cleo, she's amazing) and how you've adopted the ASoIaF structure of every chapter featuring a different character/setting but with interlocking elements. Gonna read the rest of it now.
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Seriously? That's good to hear. I always found Cleo to be the weakest of the characters in the book! haha

Expect a lot of things to not get answered. The sequel is currently a work-in-progress.
 
Granger Danger said:
Just bought it and read the first 20%. It's... really awe-inspiring. Love the Vanilla Sky-esque atmosphere and the characters (esp. Cleo, she's amazing) and how you've adopted the ASoIaF structure of every chapter featuring a different character/setting but with interlocking elements. Gonna read the rest of it now.
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I just saw that Last Friday Night video you posted in that other thread and now I understand why you like Darren Criss so much. He's fuckin adorable.
 
ZephyrFate said:
the newly-released art for DmC oddly turns me on a fuckton. The guy somehow makes that haircut hot and I want to be the angel he's pointing his gun at. Unnnnfff

fuck the other angels, I want to be that one. To suck that guy off.

http://i51.tinypic.com/qrchsp.jpg

SON of a bitch UNGH
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I saw when you posted this on Facebook, and I TOTALLY agree.
 
Matthew McConaughey has joined the cast of Steven Soderbergh's indie drama "Magic Mike" says Variety.

The story is loosely based on Channing Tatum's days as a teenage male stripper mentored by the titular Mike. Tatum plays Mike while Alex Pettyfer will play the young stripper.

McConaughey will play Dallas, a former stripper who now owns the Xquisite club where Mike works. Reid Carolin penned the script while no production date has yet been set.
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mmmm. Hope we get stripping scenes.
 
ZephyrFate said:
The Dream Metropolis is now up on Amazon US. UK/EU versions to follow in a couple days. $3.99 US, equivalent amount in other countries. I can't promise you it's a good book, but I can promise you the cover is fucking awesome and you'll want it on your Kindle just to be cool. I swear.

Keep on dreaming...
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Am I allowed to post a pic?


Supporting my fellow Gay-GAF:

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Interesting chapter choice. Thanks for the pic (I don't mind if you post them). How are you liking it? I need impressions/critiques/reviews.

ALSO: If you don't have a Kindle, but do have a PC/iPhone/Droid, you can read it there as well. Check out Amazon for links to programs that convert Kindle files to readable ones on those platforms.

Edit: A bit of small information -- Chapters 10 and 20 feature snippets of short stories I've written, which is why they seem a bit out of the ordinary. They work in the context of this book, though, if you think of them as dreams, or the imagination run wild.
 
The story and characters are interesting enough to keep me reading, I'll let you know more when I finish the book. I haven't had any issues with coherency.
 
ZephyrFate said:
Interesting chapter choice. Thanks for the pic (I don't mind if you post them). How are you liking it? I need impressions/critiques/reviews.

ALSO: If you don't have a Kindle, but do have a PC/iPhone/Droid, you can read it there as well. Check out Amazon for links to programs that convert Kindle files to readable ones on those platforms.

Edit: A bit of small information -- Chapters 10 and 20 feature snippets of short stories I've written, which is why they seem a bit out of the ordinary. They work in the context of this book, though, if you think of them as dreams, or the imagination run wild.
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I get a "Not currently available" message :\
 
Turn awesome acquaintance at work/in the studio into a friend.

End up spending two long days in the office shooting the shit while working.

Conversations turn to (in good humor) awkward, hilarious, fascinating sexual topics, often straddling dude-dude

Dude comes out to me as bi, explaining the nature of some of the earlier questions.

Dude is more my type than any guy that's ever even broached said topics with me.

I was already hilariously in love with the guy's laid back nature, fun attitude, and ultra boy-next-door good looks (and not the new definition of boy-next-door that somehow always looks like a porn star's little brother, but seriously, the guy next door, ballcap, jersey, cargo shorts, ho-hum laid-back easy-to-get-along-with attitude, ultra casual).

Now I'm even more in love.

Dude has a girlfriend.

FML

But seriously, I'm ultra-pleased to finally meet a fellow bi in the wild, even if he's as much closer to straight on the Kinsey scale as I'm close to gay in the other direction.

Sigh.
 
ZephyrFate said:
Where are you ordering it from? If it's from outside of Amazon US/UK, it might not be available yet.
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MX

Edit: Dammit! First on new page, I hate that.

fernoca:
Sagitario said:
WTF? I missed fernoca's pic? DAMMIT! After all these years and I still don't know what he looks like. I want my handgratulations back, Mr. fernoca >:(




Hahahahaha... I bought the game 5 years ago and I only started it 3 weeks ago (I even got a new SDTV so I could play it properly).
Hopefully it won't be on your backlog as long :P
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Sagitario said:
MX

Edit: Dammit! First on new page, I hate that.

fernoca:
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That could be the issue. Is there any you can order off of Amazon US? I'm not currently selling to any countries outside of the US, UK, Germany, and Canada.
 
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