Cosmic Bus
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Obsessed said:
Don't all gays like creamed corn?
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Don't all gays like creamed corn?
Sseklebeast
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Cosmic Bus said:
Mmm love that garmonbozia!
Fantastical
Death Prophet
We do this Rocky Horror thing at my university every year, and last year the guy playing Brad was surprisingly cute. When he just had underwear on he looked fantastic. Rocky wasn't bad either.SaintZ said:
Oh right that wasn't the main point of your statement. That's too bad!
Escape Goat
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idwl said:
To me hes looking his age these days but he was probably quite the looker back in the day.
A hot dude asked me if he can share the squat rack with me today. Got stares from other guys when we ended up talking for a bit.
If I didn't know any better, I'd think many guys in my gym are gay because of that. It's not like we're talking about how we're going to hook up later on. If only things were that exciting.
If I didn't know any better, I'd think many guys in my gym are gay because of that. It's not like we're talking about how we're going to hook up later on. If only things were that exciting.
The Abominable Snowman
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I wanted to do this:Marius_ said:Do your
But instead I was with my boys and we were
And a bunch of overweight girls were
But I had fun and met some new friends! It was cool! I just wanted to do my own dance when they were playing all my songs
.....Yes I'm bored
Reminds me of..that movie, darn forgot the name.
It was a comedy, and there was a part were the guys were just talking and hanging out in the park. And there were families and kids there and the moment the guys hold hands and kiss, everyone on the park starts running in slow motion to cover the eyes of the children and grabbing them so they couldn't see that..XD
It was a comedy, and there was a part were the guys were just talking and hanging out in the park. And there were families and kids there and the moment the guys hold hands and kiss, everyone on the park starts running in slow motion to cover the eyes of the children and grabbing them so they couldn't see that..XD
SecretMoblin
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No. Public, gay relationships are a part of society now; any decent parent would explain it to kids the same way my parents had to explain to me why some people had differently-colored skin, and others were in a wheelchair.ciD_Vain said:
You were simply holding hands. You weren't having full-on, hardcore sex in front the children. Nothing inappropriate about it, in my opinion.
Cosmic Bus
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There are a disproportionate number of happy gay couple in my life, considering that I'm hardly a social butterfly. Interacting with them is rather nice, especially since they're all in long-term committed relationships and not just this-is-a-guy-from-the-club-and-now-we're-fucking "couples." Seeing them around now and then always makes me respect the effort it takes, and leaves me wondering if I'd even be capable of having a relationship proper: I absolutely have the personal qualities it takes, but I'm so accustomed to the single/loner life that it'd be a massive shift in my daily routines and honestly don't know how well transitioning from that would go.
On a somewhat more random note, I've been feeling kind of unfulfilled and lonely recently. Like... idk, it's been 33 years and I'm sick of my hand and I want someone's else's skin under my fingertips for once, heh. It sucks not even knowing the sensation of waking up next to another person. Ah well, it'll pass.
On a somewhat more random note, I've been feeling kind of unfulfilled and lonely recently. Like... idk, it's been 33 years and I'm sick of my hand and I want someone's else's skin under my fingertips for once, heh. It sucks not even knowing the sensation of waking up next to another person. Ah well, it'll pass.
No problems there. Heck I've seen guys in the mall been affectionate with each other; but it's rare (sadly). As long as you both are happy,and is not like you guys were having sex in there.ciD_Vain said:
If anything, it depends on your area. For example, someone posted a video on YouTube, I think from the UK, about a like 4-5 years old kid talking with a guy (and his husband). The kid was surprised because he didn't knew that men could get married, but he understood it because that meant "that they both loved each other". So he "got it" and invited him (and his husband) to play.
Spotless Mind
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Awww, i wanna hug you. You're a good looking guy, Cosmic. I've been feeling pretty lonely lately too. I'm extremely shy, so it isn't exactly easy for me to meet guys. I moved out of Sydney not long ago as well, so i'm feeling a bit isolated.Cosmic Bus said:
umop_3pisdn
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Cosmic Bus said:
I know what you mean, both about respecting the effort and not feeling up to the task. I think that even if I wanted to move in with someone (or at least relatively speaking), I still wouldn't really want to. I'm so accustomed to my solitary lifestyle that the thought of becoming accustomed to anything else sounds a little too much like hell. I'm obviously exaggerating, but not quite enough for my liking.
Cosmic Bus said:
If it's any consolation I've been in poorer spirits lately too, though not for the same reason (life just kind of feels like a chore). I hate the pining/yearning thing, though. In my experience it's the kind of feeling that tends to worm its way inside you enough that you almost begin to build a little home for it inside yourself. It's really hard and annoying to deal with (in my opinion, but I'd sooner try to convince myself that I'm immune), so you have my sympathies.
CornBurrito
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ciD_Vain said:
What? It wasn't like you two were fucking each other. You were holding hands.
Escape Goat
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ciD_Vain said:
Don't be ashamed for displaying the same kind of affection straight people do.
chronos4590
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Ditto. Not just relationship wise but I just had 6 months of hair cut from my head because some certified trick can't cut hair properly.MooMoo said:
Anyway My father is in a band and he's playing for a gay wedding today. A lesbian one to be exact. When he first told me about a month back he sounded kinda iffy about it but not disturbed or disgusted. As the date became closer he seemed to have a better out look on doing it. I wouldn't call him homophobic even though he has said his share of stupid comments but he wouldn't do anything disrespectful or extremely hateful either. Interesting how much you can see people change for the better first hand right?
CornBurrito
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ciD_Vain said:
Hmm... actually perhaps hand holding is inappropriate.
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=437098
SecretMoblin
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The day NeoGAF almost imploded.Obsessed said:
SpaceBridge
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Long term relationships are overated.
krypt0nian
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SpaceBridge said:
Not in my life. It's the reason I wake up in the morning. Life can be great with one or without one, but if you're lucky enough to find the right guy and work hard enough on it, it's amazing. You just have to go through the shit if the wrong guys until then. And believe me, I had my fill of wrong ones.
But don't get down because you're not in one. It's just not time for you yet. It will happen. Too many great guys in GayGAF to be unattached for long.
SpaceBridge
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krypt0nian said:Not in my life. It's the reason I wake up in the morning. Life can be great with one or without one, but if you're lucky enough to find the right guy and work hard enough on it, it's amazing. You just have to go through the shit if the wrong guys until then. And believe me, I had my fill of wrong ones.
But don't get down because you're not in one. It's just not time for you yet. It will happen. Too many great guys in GayGAF to be unattached for long.
Im not down cuz Im not in one. Im just saying that being in a relationship doesnt make youre problems disappear.
Cosmic Bus
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SpaceBridge said:Long term relationships are overated.
Spacebriiiidge.
krypt0nian said:Not in my life. It's the reason I wake up in the morning. Life can be great with one or without one, but if you're lucky enough to find the right guy and work hard enough on it, it's amazing. You just have to go through the shit if the wrong guys until then. And believe me, I had my fill of wrong ones.
But don't get down because you're not in one. It's just not time for you yet. It will happen. Too many great guys in GayGAF to be unattached for long.
Why do people say this when it isn't true? When does it happen in your 20s? 30s? 40s? 50s? I'm like Cosmic in feeling like half of my life is already wasted away. It sucks seeing 20 somethings in their first relationship and never getting to experience that myself. in my 20s I've always been forward in asking guys out and always been rejected. I look at myself in the mirror and think why the heck am i even here, no one wants me.
And when people say there is someone for everyone it is such a huge lie. my mother's friend died of cancer alone with no one, no husband, no kids, nobody.
krypt0nian
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neojubei said:
I believe in being positive. It's a choice and it's always worked out for me through really shitty times in my life. I honestly believe what I typed.
SpaceBridge
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krypt0nian said:
Wish I knew how to avatar quote right now.
SecretMoblin
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Please don't say things like that. That kind of talk is always scary to me, even when it's hyperbolic.neojubei said:
I agree with your second point, though. The idea that everything will magically fall into place for everyone is an absurd lie. Relationships, like everything else, take work. Hard work. And sometimes, the bulk of that work has to be changing yourself (physically, mentally, emotionally) before you start a relationship in the first place.
krypt0nian
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SecretMoblin said:
I don't think it's something magical and I and my partner have done the work. Long hard work and continue to do it. We've survived through some dark times and come out on the other side closer, even when there was a period that we were pretty much finished.
Yeah, someone has to be in a place personally that they can be a good partner for someone. But I believe everyone has that inside them.
Neojubei, like all of GayGAF has always come off as a cool guy and fucking deserves to be happy.
SpaceBridge said:
What can I say? Superman is who I've always aspired to be more like. He got me through coming out. He got me through my mom's passing. He is Hope personified in my eyes.
Hell his origin made sense to me as a gay kid. Cast off, alone in the world, raised by those that are fundamentally different.
Cosmic Bus
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krypt0nian said:
This reminds me a little bit of my experience. I was with this guy, inside his car (it was parked near the sidewalk) and there were a lot of people walking by (it was like 1pm), there were also lots of traffic... the point is I never thought I would kiss a guy in front of that much people. I didn't like the public display of affection and just thinking about it made me uncomfortable... but then we kissed! I stopped caring about everyone else and just enjoyed the moment. I felt so free and a lot of people saw us, but I just didn't care <3ciD_Vain said:
krypt0nian said:I don't think it's something magical and I and my partner have done the work. Long hard work and continue to do it. We've survived through some dark times and come out on the other side closer, even when there was a period that we were pretty much finished.
Yeah, someone has to be in a place personally that they can be a good partner for someone. But I believe everyone has that inside them.
Neojubei, like all of GayGAF has always come off as a cool guy and fucking deserves to be happy.
What can I say? Superman is who I've always aspired to be more like. He got me through coming out. He got me through my mom's passing. He is Hope personified in my eyes.
Hell his origin made sense to me as a gay kid. Cast off, alone in the world, raised by those that are fundamentally different.
I dont know being shot down all my life and having terrible experiences with the gay community has made me a bit jaded. I wish i had the balls to kill myself and waste away into nothingness. I probably have nothing to offer and who would want to go out with such an ugly guy.
SpaceBridge
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krypt0nian said:What can I say? Superman is who I've always aspired to be more like. He got me through coming out. He got me through my mom's passing. He is Hope personified in my eyes.
Hell his origin made sense to me as a gay kid. Cast off, alone in the world, raised by those that are fundamentally different.
I always identified more with the Xmen in relation to being gay.
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