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xelios said:
No, I'm becoming increasingly neutral, to everything. That's what it feels like at least. Apathy maybe? Even to sex or relationships. Maybe I am over medicated. lol
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Then you're not losing your gayness. :)

You could be overly medicated. What are you taking?

Or maybe life's just in a dull pitch. You've been with the same guy for 9 years, and I get an impression that things are fairly stable for you two, and possibly your life in general. Maybe it's just time to add some excitement?
 
Obsessed said:
I tried protein crap in the past. Maybe I should go at it again.

Though I think I would gain weight without gaining muscle in that case. I refuse to work out in a gym and weight train. I'd be lifting pathetically light weights and I'm too self conscious around other people. At best I can do calisthenics in my dorm. I mean I'm not looking to get epic levels of buffness. Calisthenics should build a suitable (in my eyes) level of muscle mass. I think...
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P90X P90X P90X P90X

You can do it anywhere as long as you have free weights (or bands) and a pull up bar.
And the results are quite awesome.

Obsessed said:
Fine... I found a picture on my FB that doesn't make me want to die so here:

http://s1019.photobucket.com/albums/af311/LMPL/?action=view&current=me.png

... my eyes are different sizes in that photo....
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You're not even close to being ugly.

Oh and fernoca, see above gif.
You're not ugly at all, you just unfortunately live around and encountered a lot more psychos than the average person.
Who the fuck throws eggs, trash and stones at anyone??
 
royalan said:
Then you're not losing your gayness. :)

You could be overly medicated. What are you taking?

Or maybe life's just in a dull pitch. You've been with the same guy for 9 years, and I get an impression that things are fairly stable for you two, and possibly your life in general. Maybe it's just time to add some excitement?
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I'm on Seroquel and Lamictal. Started taking it a couple months ago so it could have a lot to do with the apathy, but it also got anger/irritability/mood issues that were way extreme under control. I think a smaller dose is in order and right now I'm having other issues with my Dr. but I'm gonna discuss it.

And yeah, our relationship has become pretty ho-hum lately. I guess I need to find some motivation to change that.
 
Obsessed said:
Skinny is gross. You can easily count my ribs without a shirt on.
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How old are you? I was the same until a few years ago, now those ribs have a decent amount of smoothing over on 'em (I guess it's the metabolism starting to change on me). I've always been thin, but now I'm sitting at a healthier weight.

Still would hug, ribs and all! Mebbe more :3
 
Alcoori said:
P90X P90X P90X P90X

You can do it anywhere as long as you have free weights (or bands) and a pull up bar.
And the results are quite awesome.
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Don't know how I could get a pull up bar in my dorm... But what do you mean by bands?

And I googled P90X cause I thought it was some protein powder. I don't know how I'd manage this in a dorm room. My roommate is gone at irregular intervals.


Botolf said:
How old are you? I was the same until a few years ago, now those ribs have a decent amount of smoothing over on 'em (I guess it's the metabolism starting to change on me). I've always been thin, but now I'm sitting at a healthier weight.

Still would hug, ribs and all! Mebbe more :3
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18.
 
Is everyone posting pics again? I'm going to pass this time, I don't feel like being exposed!

I don't see any ugly people though, just people claiming it, again.
 
Greetings from Japan, brethren~
http://i56.tinypic.com/6xu6bo.jpg

Also, had a rather pleasant/unpleasant dream last night. I was hanging out with some "mystery guy" (an amalgam of a few guys that I have liked) that I had apparently liked for some time, and we ended up revealing our mutual attraction. Things went well, and I was so happy. ...Until I woke up. Nothing is more frustrating than experiencing imagined happiness, only to have it cut short by the realization that you are alooooooooone. If anything, this morning reawakened me to the loneliness of living by oneself. (It's also been raining all morning, meaning that I wasn't able to go for my daily run, so I think that has also negatively affected my mood.)
 
xelios said:
Is everyone posting pics again? I'm going to pass this time, I don't feel like being exposed!

I don't see any ugly people though, just people claiming it, again.
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Don't sweat it; this ain't no beauty contest. We're just trying to get to know one another a little bit more.
 
Alcoori said:
Oh and fernoca, see above gif.
You're not ugly at all, you just unfortunately live around and encountered a lot more psychos than the average person.
Who the fuck throws eggs, trash and stones at anyone??
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I was talking to an old friend about this recently, and it was weird how I technically was "bullied" in elementary/middle/high-school -more so on elementary than the others-school, yet I never saw it that way. Was told mostly that "I had it coming" for a few things: skinny, acne, glasses, bracers.

After high school, things were less harsh, but still around thrown trash and stuff in college, had to do many "group assignments" alone too and other things. I kinda avoided all that by finding alternate routes with less students. XD

But, no biggie. I was talking to ciD yesterday about how I went to a mall I haven't been in a long time and ..damn, it was hot guys everywhere. So, guess the standards are higher; so "less attractive ones" are like a bug in a glass of milk. XD


But not depressed, I'm fine. So..bring the happiness guys, post more pictures!!! The less clothing, the better.
I want chronos wearing just that hat from the second pic!!!..nothing else! XD


Masked Man said:
Greetings from Japan, brethren~
http://i56.tinypic.com/6xu6bo.jpg

Also, had a rather pleasant/unpleasant dream last night. I was hanging out with some "mystery guy" (an amalgam of a few guys that I have liked) that I had apparently liked for some time, and we ended up revealing our mutual attraction. Things went well, and I was so happy. ...Until I woke up. Nothing is more frustrating than experiencing imagined happiness, only to have it cut short by the realization that you are alooooooooone. If anything, this morning reawakened me to the loneliness of living by oneself. (It's also been raining all morning, meaning that I wasn't able to go for my daily run, so I think that has also negatively affected my mood.)
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I said wow! :O!

Love those glasses too; I need new ones!
 
Obsessed said:
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Ah, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Eat healthy, maybe a little more, find things to do, but try not to get too stressed, yeah?

I'm 5'10", hover in between 130-150 pounds most of the time, very little muscle, and about to turn 21, but have been underweight for years and years until recently. For me at least, it's a little easier to hold onto the weight now than when I was younger.
 
fernoca said:
I was talking to an old friend about this recently, and it was weird how I technically was "bullied" in elementary/middle/high-school -more so on elementary than the others-school, yet I never saw it that way. Was told mostly for a few things: skinny, acne, glasses, bracers.

After high school, things were less harsh, but still around thrown trash and stuff in college, had to do many "group assignments" alone too and other things. I kinda avoided all that by finding alternate routes with less students. XD

But, no biggie. I was talking to ciD yesterday about how I went to a mall I haven't been in a long time and ..damn, it was hot guys everywhere. So, guess the standards are higher; so "less attractive ones" are like a bug in a glass of milk. XD


But not depressed, I'm fine. So..bring the happiness guys, post more pictures!!! The less clothing, the better. I want chronos wearing just that hat from the second pic!!!..nothing else! XD
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I don't know why, but any time I go to the mall, I feel old all of a sudden and get really, really grumpy. Even teenagers who are "of age" look like little kids. Yeeesh.
 
Masked Man said:
Greetings from Japan, brethren~
http://i56.tinypic.com/6xu6bo.jpg

Also, had a rather pleasant/unpleasant dream last night. I was hanging out with some "mystery guy" (an amalgam of a few guys that I have liked) that I had apparently liked for some time, and we ended up revealing our mutual attraction. Things went well, and I was so happy. ...Until I woke up. Nothing is more frustrating than experiencing imagined happiness, only to have it cut short by the realization that you are alooooooooone. If anything, this morning reawakened me to the loneliness of living by oneself. (It's also been raining all morning, meaning that I wasn't able to go for my daily run, so I think that has also negatively affected my mood.)
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Ill see your sexy nerd pic and raise you another:


http://i828.photobucket.com/albums/zz209/TransformersHater/FanExpo2011052-1-1.jpg
 
Marius_ said:
I'll be honest, you don't look ugly but borderline twinkish
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I posted my height and weight. I think I am well past the border. Unless I am unclear on the definitions.

At least my bangs aren't covering 80% of my face.
 
Oh my God I love chubby daddy Russell Crowe in Superman.

I'm in an imaginary relationship with him so this post is appropriate to this thread.
 
Obsessed said:
I tried protein crap in the past. Maybe I should go at it again.

Though I think I would gain weight without gaining muscle in that case. I refuse to work out in a gym and weight train. I'd be lifting pathetically light weights and I'm too self conscious around other people. At best I can do calisthenics in my dorm. I mean I'm not looking to get epic levels of buffness. Calisthenics should build a suitable (in my eyes) level of muscle mass. I think.
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Now I can't speak for going from very skinny to "in shape" (it started in the opposite direction for me) but you really don't need to go all out with a gym membership, a trainer, or anything like that. A pull-up bar like Alcoori mentioned just hooks onto the top of almost any door frame. Using a couple of modest dumbbells, even 10-20 lbs each, will make very noticeable improvements provided you're using them correctly and consistently. Get protein from actual foods and not necessarily those fancy/expensive additives. Go ask around in the fitness thread if you're serious about it!
 
Cosmic Bus said:
Now I can't speak for going from very skinny to "in shape" (it started in the opposite direction for me) but you really don't need to go all out with a gym membership, a trainer, or anything like that. A pull-up bar like Alcoori mentioned just hooks onto the top of almost any door frame. Using a couple of modest dumbbells, even 10-20 lbs each, will make very noticeable improvements provided you're using them correctly and consistently. Get protein from actual foods and not necessarily those fancy/expensive additives. Go ask around in the fitness thread if you're serious about it!

Combo attempt: gaygaf self pic night + fitness-related discussion = hi. (that won't be there for long...)
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I love how you transformed. Looking so good man.
 
fernoca said:
Space's hot; he knows it. He doesn't need more replies saying it. :p

chronos is...damn! I want dat! :O!

And as expected, Obsessed looks great too..so yep, I'm still king!

Oh and, 5'8", 130..and have been thrown eggs, trash, stones..for "looking like a fucking nerd!!!"... So I win!!! Have abs at least, even when I eat a lot and don't gain weight.

XD
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I dont actually. But I guess we all have differing degrees of self confidence issues. I actually dont get hit on too often. I also dont put myself out there as much as I should. Its nice when it happens though, we all need a boost one in awhile.

And youre not ugly Fernoca.
 
SpaceBridge said:
I dont actually. But I guess we all have differing degrees of self confidence issues. I actually dont get hit on too often. I also dont put myself out there as much as I should. Its nice when it happens though, we all need a boost one in awhile.

And youre not ugly Fernoca.
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That's what makes you even hotter. <3!


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And Cosmic looking great too; though he already did. Greater then. XD!
 
xelios said:
I'm on Seroquel and Lamictal. Started taking it a couple months ago so it could have a lot to do with the apathy, but it also got anger/irritability/mood issues that were way extreme under control. I think a smaller dose is in order and right now I'm having other issues with my Dr. but I'm gonna discuss it.

And yeah, our relationship has become pretty ho-hum lately. I guess I need to find some motivation to change that.
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Toys? Role Play? Oh! Do role play!!
 
Even though Elly seems like kind of a bitch, she's totally my kinda woman. I love her to death <3

Also I should take another pic since that seems to be a thing in this thread now.
 
Obsessed said:
The last thing this thread needs is ANOTHER "OMG I SUCK QQ AND HERE IS WHY QQ AND THINGS WILL NEVER GET BETTER QQ" rant.

Save that shit for the depression thread.
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I think that's more of an attitude, rather than ranting about it. I for one have no problem listening to others, as long as it's not full of self-pity comments.

As far as pics comes, I guess I should say hi and present myself fully. I was feeling a bit shy, and I know my boyfriend will shame me for posting a pic but, here I go!

hyw73.jpg


I'm 23, and even though I try to build up muscle... never happens! ): Forever a twink. Thankfully I have a nice
ass/legs
, which helps the overall looks.
 
HappyPuppy said:
@Sofo
You remind me of Ed Helms
ed_helms-the_hangover_part_2-1-215x300.jpg


You are a cute looking guy : ). Looking good Delio.
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I had no idea who that was! And thanks! But I think the picture I uploaded is a bit misleading. This one is a bit blurry and old (no longer have that hairstyle, ugh so bad!) but at least can see it from a "normal" angle, lol.

wGsg3.jpg


Sai-Kun, you remind me of a guy who studied with me in Law school!
 
HappyPuppy said:
@Sofo
You remind me of Ed Helms
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That was totally who I thought of!


Speaking of body type, I was skinny too (being Asian with a fast metabolism kind of helped). I was content with it but my family always nagged me about my size since I was a teenager. Anyway, after a visit home this April I decided to finally do something about it, so I started bulking and built a home gym to weight train. I still don't think I'm eating enough to really put on weight fast, but 5 months later I'm ~20 lbs heavier. It's really a whole another lifestyle and I have great respect for those that have be lifting for a long time. Anyone can do it, however, if you're happy with the way you are, I say don't change a thing :)
 
You guys are crazy ._. I look nothing like that guy! Most I've been compared to was a Jonas Brother! And that's mostly due to my nose! Guess I'll have to post one final pic later! ;c
 
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