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Kyon said:
the guy i sleep with rims me all the time. best fucking thing EVER. i also clean with pomegranate scent soap and he said it tastes great :P
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Sounds hot. I don't think I could do it for someone else but I would let them do it for me lol.
 
Smoking weed is okay, though :P (but vaporizing is better). I don't do it anymore but the only guy I really fell for I happened to meet at my dealer's house lol.
 
Obsessed said:
Off topic I know, but where is your avatar from?

OT: Does it....

does it taste bad? I mean even assuming the guy is all clean down there...
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It doesn't taste bad if the guy's clean. The last guy i dated had some really gross horror story that ruined the idea of rimming for me before i had tried it. Luckily, the guy i'm with now convinced me to try it- it's so awesome, both doing and receiving.
 
ciD_Vain said:
It doesn't taste bad if the guy's clean. The last guy i dated had some really gross horror story that ruined the idea of rimming for me before i had tried it. Luckily, the guy i'm with now convinced me to try it- it's so awesome, both doing and receiving.
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Oh come on. You have to tell us the story.
 
Well we all know sesame seeds are indigestible, right? The story goes that a guy was rimming another guy and sesame seeds came out after the receiver farted.
 
ciD_Vain said:
Well we all know sesame seeds are indigestible, right? The story goes that a guy was rimming another guy and sesame seeds came out after the receiver farted.
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W.T.F.

Did he eat the sesame seeds?

what the fuck, lol jk
 
Ok so I don't know if I'm being paranoid, but isn't the new Zelda villain in skyward sword going the "fancy" route? meaning, the good old stereotype of the flamboyant, gay villain? its a little bit worrisome to see that stereotype coming back.
 
mantidor said:
Ok so I don't know if I'm being paranoid, but isn't the new Zelda villain in skyward sword going the "fancy" route? meaning, the good old stereotype of the flamboyant, gay villain? its a little bit worrisome to see that stereotype coming back.
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Maybe its a cultural thing. Do Japanese buy into the same stereotype America does? I mean look at Twink or whoever his name was from Wind waker.
 
Teh Hamburglar said:
Maybe its a cultural thing. Do Japanese buy into the same stereotype America does? I mean look at Twink or whoever his name was from Wind waker.
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whom, Tingle? not at all, only the west could see him as a "gay" character, he's pretty much a parody of otakus over there, and well thats the thing, Japan has the flamboyant, effeminate guy as some sort of masculine beauty standard from what little I've seen, so this seems more like trying to cater to the west through some skewed view of its culture, or maybe I am indeed paranoid, I don't know...
 
mantidor said:
whom, Tingle? not at all, only the west could see him as a "gay" character, he's pretty much a parody of otakus over there, and well thats the thing, Japan has the flamboyant, effeminate guy as some sort of masculine beauty standard from what little I've seen, so this seems more like trying to cater to the west through some skewed view of its culture, or maybe I am indeed paranoid, I don't know...
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I kind of think you're paranoid. I've been on a media blackout for Skyward Sword since this past E3 (so I may not know what I'm talking about), but isn't Ghirahim pretty badass? Also his motives haven't been explained yet? Again I've been avoiding media of this game until I play it, but imo effeminacy or a dramatic flair in an antagonist isn't a bad thing as it just adds variety to character. But when it's associated with cowardliness or characterlessness, deranged or overly fragile psyches, perversion and unredeemable evil, etc, etc, that I start to go "hmm". With what I've seen so far Ghirahim seems pretty cool, it almost seems like an inversion of the common trope to me.
 
Teh Hamburglar said:
Maybe its a cultural thing. Do Japanese buy into the same stereotype America does? I mean look at Twink or whoever his name was from Wind waker.
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LOL, now i want Tingle's name to be Twink for real.
 
story time.

I've had a feeling this guy in my year was gay, we're friends on FB but not that close we see each other in uni but we're in different streams . So don't get to talk that much. Anyway the day Britney spears criminal video came out I sent him a FB message with the video link. Then he was commenting on how the guys body was amazing. I remained neutral and just said yeah wish I had a body like that and in his next message he mentioned how hot the guys from britneys other videos are. So I was sure he was gay.
Anyway Wednesday night me and a few friends were studying at a cafe and he comes later, so he's sitting opposite me and we start talking shit (sex related stuff) and he's sounding more and more gay and I'm also hinting but in a way that my other friends won't notice. Later we all decide to go have dinner he says I should go with him. I decide to straight up ask him. He says he doesn't like to put a label on things blablabla. anyway later he drops me home and I'm like come up and he's like maybe later.

Yesterday(Thursday) we were texting each other and I'm like meet me at the cafe , so he comes . We talk, 'study' , look at hot guys online just discussing random things. Then we started playing truth and dare using an app. Anyway it said touch his private parts. I slid my hand over his thigh and he's like no no not here. I'm like no one can see if you come closer. So he scoots over and I start sliding closer and closer. Then he says no let's go somewhere else. So we decide to go some other cafe which is a lot darker and private. While driving there I continue playing around. At this point I'm pretty much giving him a hand job. Oh yeah *crucial point- before most of this happened he said he's in an open relationship with this other guy. The guy sleeps around. He doesn't. Anyway so he's like do you really wanna go to the cafe. I say let's go to my apartment. We mess around and he was basically begging me to fuck him but no condoms :( :( anyway the thing is I was so into it and I like him a lot. We spent like 2 hours just making out . And then cuddling and talking.

Today he went to 'meet' up with the other guy and I feel extremely jealous. I really don't know what to do , I'm basically like ' the other guy' although its not technically cheating. We're doing med together we're only 2nd year so have a long road ahead of us, we have so much in common I just think we'd be better together. He wants to study together tomorrow. I'm too horny for it to not end up at my apartment again. :(
I don't know why I wrote this and what kind of help I want from you guys, but yeah...
 
You lucky devil lol. You should see if he wants to go steady with you instead of the other guy. I know I wouldn't want to be the other person in someone's relationship.
 
idwl said:
he's in an open relationship with this other guy. The guy sleeps around. He doesn't.
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he was basically begging me to fuck him
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Does not compute.

Anyway, I think you already know the "right" answer to the situation. You're already feeling jealousy towards them. It's going to be a big, big mess if you get mixed up in this.
 
Cosmic Bus said:
Does not compute.

Anyway, I think you already know the "right" answer to the situation. You're already feeling jealousy towards them. It's going to be a big, big mess if you get mixed up in this.
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His guy sleeps around, he hadn't yet - till I came along. Anyway he texted me today saying he told the other guy about me and he didn't mind. This whole thing is fucked up. I like the guy and I don't want to share him with someone else.
 
idwl said:
His guy sleeps around, he hadn't yet - till I came along. Anyway he texted me today saying he told the other guy about me and he didn't mind. This whole thing is fucked up. I like the guy and I don't want to share him with someone else.
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Well, he told you straight up that he's in an open relationship. if you can't deal with that, then i suggest not involving yourself with the situation. if he tells you that he wants to be exclusive to you or the other guy, then that's another story.
 
I've fallen in love with a 21 year old Brazilian weightlifter named Fernando Reis.
Here's how he looked 4 years ago before he put on massive weight:
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And now (post HGH lol):
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<3 <3

He lives in Missouri. It's so unfair you Americans already have your own hot bears you shouldn't claim our hot bears. Do you know how hard it is to find good looking bears in here? It's not easy.
 
Cosmic Bus said:
Does not compute.

Anyway, I think you already know the "right" answer to the situation. You're already feeling jealousy towards them. It's going to be a big, big mess if you get mixed up in this.
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Agree 1,000%

He knows he's inviting all sorts of drama into his life by getting involved in a situation this messy...
 
red_13th said:
He lives in Missouri. It's so unfair you Americans already have your own hot bears you shouldn't claim our hot bears. Do you know how hard it is to find good looking bears in here? It's not easy.
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We do? .Anyway. Yeah he's got a hell of a cute face. And I do know your pain somewhat, but its more on the I may see one but either 1) They're straight or 2) not interested in average guys.
 
royalan said:
Agree 1,000%

He knows he's inviting all sorts of drama into his life by getting involved in a situation this messy...
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So what should I do? Cancel on him today? Or talk about it?
 
red_13th said:
I've fallen in love with a 21 year old Brazilian weightlifter named Fernando Reis.
Here's how he looked 4 years ago before he put on massive weight:
2k3b11.jpg

And now (post HGH lol):
l5546018.jpg

3992698103-27102011225313.jpg

<3 <3

He lives in Missouri. It's so unfair you Americans already have your own hot bears you shouldn't claim our hot bears. Do you know how hard it is to find good looking bears in here? It's not easy.
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Off topic: do you have a bf? I remember in the fiancé/GF/lover thread you posted a pic :O you still with that guy?
 
Oh my god he texted me at 4 am saying he has appendicitis. I just woke up and saw it on my phone. I'm trying to figure out what hospital he was admitted to.
 
You know In all my dating life I never attracted bear types. It was always smaller twinkish types that flocked to me. Is it because I was big and seemed like a protective figure? Smaller gaygaf explain this to me.
 
ayeorkean said:
Anybody else ever try quitting GAF? I seem to relapse after a few weeks. :(
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Not exactly the same thing but I do find that GAF isn't really doing it for me anymore. I wonder if it's just me experiencing my twice annual loneliness but lately I'm more so preferring to talk to people that I know IRL.
 
royalan said:
Here's a pic of me at the gallery opening for my friend's senior photography project (girl in picture):

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I'm late, but I just wanted to say that you're totally my type.

That is all :p
 
Delio said:
You know In all my dating life I never attracted bear types. It was always smaller twinkish types that flocked to me. Is it because I was big and seemed like a protective figure? Smaller gaygaf explain this to me.
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What do you look like?

I'm late, but I just wanted to say that you're totally my type.

That is all :p
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Aww shucks...:)
 
royalan said:
You look just like a good friend of mine. I dunno...because bear types FLOCK to him. Then again, he also actively pursues them. Maybe it's in how you're presenting yourself?
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Probably. I tend to come off as super protective yet emotional. Maybe twinks like that?
 
umop_3pisdn said:
Not exactly the same thing but I do find that GAF isn't really doing it for me anymore. I wonder if it's just me experiencing my twice annual loneliness but lately I'm more so preferring to talk to people that I know IRL.
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Yeah, if I'm lonely I'll just get on GAF, when I should be talking to people IRL. Just makes me feel more lonely... Yay! pity party.
 
Delio said:
Probably. I tend to come off as super protective yet emotional. Maybe twinks like that?
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I dunno...my friend is kind of a goofball/smartass to people.

As for twinks...they like a lot of things. lol

Are twinks what you're going for?
 
royalan said:
I dunno...my friend is kind of a goofball/smartass to people.

As for twinks...they like a lot of things. lol

Are twinks what you're going for?
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What I used to go for anyways. My current bf/future fiance isnt that skinny but still fits the twink bod. I do tend to be a smartass around people I know. Also lol Cid
 
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