Getting Over Girl-Age (Depressed-AGE?)

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Aad

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So there's this girl I started liking alot over the past 6 months. I don't want to give too much detail because I think it falls into forbidden love.

She's pretty, intelligent and I know I'll never be able to have a chance at being with her so I've been down in the slums for the past few days because I'll never be able to see her again (or for a very long time).

What do I do GAF, how do I get myself to being my normal happy self?
 
Aad said:
So there's this girl I started liking alot over the past 6 months. I don't want to give too much detail because I think it falls into forbidden love.

You're talking bout your sister aren't you?
 
Aad said:
I don't want to give too much detail because I think it falls into forbidden love.
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Aad said:
I don't want to give too much detail because I think it falls into forbidden love.
Oh, we insist that you do. Don't mind the unmarked police car in front of your home, I'm sure that has nothing to do with anything.
 
duk said:
6 months and ur woopty? sigh

must be young gaf
I'm 22 and haven't felt like this since I broke up with my ex more than 2 years ago and that was a year long relationship. I feel stupid because I wasn't even dating this girl but feelings have grown so strong..
 
Aad said:
What do I do GAF, how do I get myself to being my normal happy self?

Acquire two monitors if you do not have said setup already.

Minecraft on best monitor; Netflix streaming Stargate SG-1 to the end of Stargate: Atlantis on other monitor.

In two weeks, the only thing you will care about is chevrons and diamonds.
 
Aad said:
I'm 22 and haven't felt like this since I broke up with my ex more than 2 years ago and that was a year long relationship. I feel stupid because I wasn't even dating this girl but feelings have grown so strong..

In all seriousness - if you really want to try being with her, ask her out. If not, you've just got to forget about her and move on. Don't let this grow into an obsession.
 
Aad said:
I feel stupid because I wasn't even dating this girl but feelings have grown so strong..

You haven't even dated and you're obsessed with this girl?

Dude, you sound like a stalker.

Let go before you do something criminal.
 
You sound thoroughly creepy with the forbidden love and never having dated her. Are you stalking a kid or something?
 
Devolution said:
OP makes some remark about how it's forbidden and now won't go into specifics. Hmmm...

pedophile?
OP doesn't want to push their luck. They got a good thing going living on their sister's balcony and don't want to ruin it with forbidden sex.
 
Was expecting a sad sob story how she broke up with him and it's been over a year and OP still can't move on...

Later realize that I'm on gaf and it's just another nerd confessing that he has a thing for a chick in his eng 101 class, yet can't man up and ask her out (or even start a conversation).
 
Devolution said:
What's so forbidden about it OP?
She's a nun that he met in a war-torn central African nation, who has taken a vow of celibacy and walked off into the bush to minister to a forgotten tribe.
 
Aad said:
It's not forbidden by law.

You'd better explain or else people are going to assume the worst.

From the timing of 'not seeing her again' it sounds like someone going away for school.

But you met her six months ago. So...was she still in high school?

Now, if you're American, she'd better be 18. If she's not, let go now before you get arrested.

You're 22..still too young to be in a professional mentor/student situation. So it's probably not that. Coworker, perhaps?

Forbidden suggests that someone in power will come down on you. Since it's not illegal, that means the position of power must be from something else, such as job, religion or family.

So you either want to sleep with a coworker, someone outside her/your religion, or your sister. Or it's something REALLY stupid like she's married/dating your best friend.

Better explain in detail more or else we'll have to speculate.
 
jaxword said:
You'd better explain or else people are going to assume the worst.

From the timing of 'not seeing her again' it sounds like someone going away for school.

But you met her six months ago. So...was she still in high school?

Now, if you're American, she'd better be 18. If she's not, let go now before you get arrested.

You're 22..still too young to be in a professional mentor/student situation. So it's probably not that. Coworker, perhaps?

Forbidden suggests that someone in power will come down on you. Since it's not illegal, that means the position of power must be from something else, such as job, religion or family.

So you either want to sleep with a coworker, someone outside her/your religion, or your sister. Or it's something REALLY stupid like she's married/dating your best friend.

Better explain in detail more or else we'll have to speculate.
You're good! Check your PM's.
 
duk said:
6 months and ur woopty? sigh

must be young gaf

This.......

So there's this girl I started liking alot over the past 6 months. I don't want to give too much detail because I think it falls into forbidden love.

She's pretty, intelligent and I know I'll never be able to have a chance at being with her so I've been down in the slums for the past few days because I'll never be able to see her again (or for a very long time).

What do I do GAF, how do I get myself to being my normal happy self

You'll get over it in time. Believe me there are much worst things you will end experiencing in due time
 
Bro you gotta turn the table,s on this whole thing.Dont get yourself down, you are the prize and she should be lucky to be with you.Never think your not worthy of a girl, the question should be is she worthy of you, have that attitude and who knows things might actually start to happen with this girl.
 
Your nick sounds dutch so i presume you're dutch.

I bet she's 16 and you're 22...

Or maybe she's your cousin. Which is not illegal. Just write the queen a letter ;)
 
NEOPARADIGM said:
File her away in the jack-off-to column.

Done.

Wait a second, is it normal to NOT jack off to some girl that you care about/think is hot but you're friends? I jack off to almost every girl that I know that's at least semi-attractive. I'm serious, I'd probably fuck a good portion of my female friends(that I haven't slept with already) if the moment was right (broke up with boyfriends/whatever). If I don't feel like I can fuck them, I'll certainly jack off to them whenever I feel like it. Is this really that weird?
 
elwes said:
Acquire two monitors if you do not have said setup already.

Minecraft on best monitor; Netflix streaming Stargate SG-1 to the end of Stargate: Atlantis on other monitor.

In two weeks, the only thing you will care about is chevrons and diamonds.

And also do this, this guy has his head in the right place.
 
ChocolatePuddin said:
Bro you gotta turn the table,s on this whole thing.Dont get yourself down, you are the prize and she should be lucky to be with you.Never think your not worthy of a girl, the question should be is she worthy of you, have that attitude and who knows things might actually start to happen with this girl.
Thanks bro, this made me smile.
elwes said:
Acquire two monitors if you do not have said setup already.

Minecraft on best monitor; Netflix streaming Stargate SG-1 to the end of Stargate: Atlantis on other monitor.

In two weeks, the only thing you will care about is chevrons and diamonds.
I'll buy Minecraft tonight because of you two <3
 
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