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I dealt with discrimination today. Need to vent

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I pulled into a Gas Station right across the street from my house. It's an Esso Gas Station I have been using for the last 15 years.

I pull up to a pump and there is a sign that says we're out of regular gas enjoy Supreme+ on us for the price of regular. Its cold as fuck in Canada so over my work suit im wearing a 4XL USC hoodie for warmth.

As I begin pumping I notice that the pump is charging me a 1.33 per litre as opposed to the 1.03 it was supposed to.

I click the intercom button to ask the clerk if the promotion will be applied when I enter the station to pay. He then tells me. "That sign was left there from last night, the promotion is over and we wont honour that price.

Confused I take the sign down from the pump and bring it into the station to show him. Now not only is he rude but he's also telling me to tell someone who cares.

I again repeat. "Yo you need to honour thos. I wouldn't be trying to fill up my lil ass avenger with premium fuel"

He tells me he wont do anything. I again implore him to honour the price from a customer service standpoint.

He looks at me, picks up the phone and says "Im calling the police, I dont feel safe around you"

I ask "Why? Because I'm black?" To which he responds definitively while looking me dead in my eye. "YES!" And proceeds to call the cops. When I tell him Im more than happy to wait for the police to settle this, he then decides to call his manager a dude who Ive personally bought gas from over the years and even went as far as buying him egg nog last year when he said he's never tried it.

Now he comes in yelling at me saying Im an idiot and that they dont have to honour shit.

Heated, I sit my ass in the corner and call my girlfriend so I dont lose my cool. She suggests before the cops get there to take off my hoodie.

In between waiting for the cops I told every single black person that walked in what happened. Some just looked at the man disappointed, another turned away.

Cops get there they ask me whats the issue, I give them the run down and they say "Seriously? This shit isnt worth our time, why did he call" to which I say "Because Im Black, was the reason he gave me" baffled the Cops shake their head. The manager finally says that he will pay for my gas out of pocket. But to me the damage was done.

I paid for my Gas at the Supreme price, told the manager that he and Esso has forever lost my business, wrote an angry email to their Corporate and now im here. Venting.

I guess because Im in Canada I fall into the trap of believing that we're above discrimination, especially considering I live in a very ethnic neighbourhood.
 
Fuuuuuuck. :/

I'm not discriminated in any manner and that was infuriating to read. Fuuuuuck. Anything we can do to help?

Edit: Congratulations for not losing your cool, man. You dealt with it very maturely.
 

Hoo-doo

Banned
The manager finally says that he will pay for my gas out of pocket. But to me the damage was done.

I paid for my Gas at the Supreme price, told the manager that he and Esso has forever lost my business, wrote an angry email to their Corporate and now im here.

So the manager said at the end that he was willing to pay for your gas, but you paid it yourself anyway?

I'm not following the last bit.

Still, sucks though. Can't cure stupid.
 
So the manager said at the end that he was willing to pay for your gas, but you paid it yourself anyway?

I'm not following the last bit.

Still, sucks though. Can't cure stupid.

I think it was a move by the OP to show that he wanted no favors from those assholes.
 

GhostBed

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Smh. That's awful, dude, but you handled the situation really well. Props for taking the high road and leaving the racist to stew in his hatred.
 

Harpuia

Member
Dealt with it the most and the best you could man. They tried to scare you with the police and it didn't work in their favor.

Sometimes it's the small victories you need to be appreciative of. Don't dwell on this too long man, it isn't worth your time.
 
The manager recognised you from all the years before and you buying him eggnog right? If so why the fuck was he yelling at you?

That's really shitty and I can't believe the dude behind the counter didn't get fired or something. Glad the cops thought nothing of it.
 

Llyranor

Member
I guess because Im in Canada I fall into the trap of believing that we're above discrimination, especially considering I live in a very ethnic neighbourhood.
There are racists everywhere. The difference in Canada is that it isn't systemic, hence the cops' response.
 
So the manager said at the end that he was willing to pay for your gas, but you paid it yourself anyway?

I'm not following the last bit.

Still, sucks though. Can't cure stupid.

The issue stopped being about the money. I was discriminated against. Fuck their "favours"
 

AlphaSnake

...and that, kids, was the first time I sucked a dick for crack
Pretty messed up situation.

I'm very sorry that happened to you. If I ever need gas by an Esso I'll pass it up.

Why? Gas stations are not corporate owned. They are privately owned businesses, much like a franchise. Esso as a company has nothing to do with this, it's the station owner that does.
 

ColdPizza

Banned
Pretty messed up situation.



Why? Gas stations are not corporate owned. They are privately owned businesses, much like a franchise. Esso as a company has nothing to do with this, it's the station owner that does.

The franchise represents their brand. It has everything to do with them. They could yank their support of that particular station in a heartbeat.
 

Apathy

Member
That's definitely a case if a dick hole. Get in touch with the esso offices. Make a big stink (I know you might think why bother but this is the only way these idiots will learn). Get these racist jerks fired. These pieces of shit are coming out now being more brazen because of what's happening down south.

Oh and get in touch with the local news, they'll eat this up too. This will teach then the real reason to be a scared of a black man. Because he too can stand up for his rights to be treated like anyone else and not be discriminated because of the color of his skin.
 
What the location of this gas station? If enough people write Esso about it they'll probably threaten the owner with losing the naming rights.
 

kirblar

Member
I wish you and others didn't have to go through shit like that.

Examples like this are why people need to understand why "feel unsafe" alone should not be a justification for action - people can and will abuse it to justify incredibly shitty behavior and biases. Point to specific actions, not a vague feeling of fear.
 

labx

Banned
Fuck those guys OP. People like that are the scum of civilization. On the plus side you have an awesome girlfriend, people (strangers) empathized with you, even the Police did it. What you did was the right thing to do and you stay above them.
 

foxuzamaki

Doesn't read OPs, especially not his own
Sorry trippin off the gas but that situation is all kinds of fucked up, sorry that happened to you, best thing to do is find another close gas station

Was the manager also mad at you or was he trying to settle the situation?
 
I guess because Im in Canada I fall into the trap of believing that we're above discrimination, especially considering I live in a very ethnic neighbourhood.

Ruh roh. We always think we're better up here in Canada, but this shit still happens?

This just happened near my home town Ottawa last week: guy wears shirt saying "If you are gay don't approch [sic] me. I'll kill you."

I don't often say things like "this is 2016, what gives!?" but....yeah, it's 2016, what gives with racism and homophobia (edit: hate speech) abound even in Canada?
 
Yeah, that’s messed up. Definitely false advertisement, the sign should have come down when the promotion ended. However, the employee was probably a pos and wasn’t doing his job. They honored it at the end, but at that point it’s fucking whatever. Fuck that gas station and don’t ever go back.
 

99Luffy

Banned
I would go back there a few more times. And if its that guys shift I would do little things like dump all the paper towels in the garbage so he has to refill it. Or leave the pump hanging after you get your receipt. Make sure hes looking at you when do it.

This all happened in Brampton Ontario
Not surprised its ontario again..
 

kswiston

Member
Not surprised its ontario again..

The rest of Canada isn't exactly better. Unless you are talking about the many regions that black people are close to non-existent and people are forced to take out their racism on the local reserves instead.
 

BitStyle

Unconfirmed Member
You were in the right, and fuck them for their racist ass implications along with wasting an officer's time. Hopefully your call corporate allows them to wake the fuck up.
 
Definitely sorry to hear about this op. You know you're correct, I've always thought we were above that shit as well but some times, you get proven wrong. Glad that you're fine but discrimination is not cool; I've never been through it and I hope that I don't.
 
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